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Do you have to have had your heart broken to really understand romantic love
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. Sometimes you can have the most awesome love, but as time goes on things happen, things change and you just grow apart and it ends, mutually.
Like a candle being blown out.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Few questions come to mind before answering.
What is Romance?
What is 'Romantic' love, is it any different to ordinary love?
Is a heart always 'broken'?
What of those who have been in love 70 yrs and more in love now... Did they experience a broken heart?
A simple answer to your question imo is NO. Having a broken heart doesn't corrolate to romance or even enhance it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I am not sure you do have to have your heart broken to understand romantic love, or any type of love. However, having a broken heart can, in my experience, be a gateway into loving and honouring oneself. Crack that and romantic love, as well as other love, will be effortless and lasting, perhaps. Or not. What do I know, I got a broken heart in the first place. |
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"Few questions come to mind before answering.
What is Romance?
What is 'Romantic' love, is it any different to ordinary love?
Is a heart always 'broken'?
What of those who have been in love 70 yrs and more in love now... Did they experience a broken heart?
A simple answer to your question imo is NO. Having a broken heart doesn't corrolate to romance or even enhance it."
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"Few questions come to mind before answering.
What is Romance?
What is 'Romantic' love, is it any different to ordinary love?
Is a heart always 'broken'?
What of those who have been in love 70 yrs and more in love now... Did they experience a broken heart?
A simple answer to your question imo is NO. Having a broken heart doesn't corrolate to romance or even enhance it."
To me romantic love is the love between partners rather than the love for a family member.
I was more asking if people understand the depth of romantic love more ,if they have experienced heartbreak rather than those that found it and never lost it, if you see what I mean. |
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"No from me too i dunno why i just think it as my brain hurts to think today sorry if i broke your heart with my answer il fix it later   "
I'll survive  sounds like you're ready for the weekend , bit of relaxing x |
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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago
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I think it helps in truth yes.
You'd do anything for someone you truly love, put up with being taken to hell and back - anyone who doesn't understand that isn't really in love, just lust or a form of addiction/obsession with someone....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No from me too i dunno why i just think it as my brain hurts to think today sorry if i broke your heart with my answer il fix it later
I'll survive sounds like you're ready for the weekend , bit of relaxing x "
I wish il be sat in a cupboard again large pan on my head hiding from the kids |
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By *adame BWoman
over a year ago
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"Few questions come to mind before answering.
What is Romance?
What is 'Romantic' love, is it any different to ordinary love?
Is a heart always 'broken'?
What of those who have been in love 70 yrs and more in love now... Did they experience a broken heart?
A simple answer to your question imo is NO. Having a broken heart doesn't corrolate to romance or even enhance it.
To me romantic love is the love between partners rather than the love for a family member.
I was more asking if people understand the depth of romantic love more ,if they have experienced heartbreak rather than those that found it and never lost it, if you see what I mean."
I think it's not a necessary part of people's ability to love but definitely makes you more appreciative of it if you are lucky enough or brave enough to risk it again. There are many forms of love and heart break and I believe people experience it at different levels and ways which doesn't reflect on their level of love |
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I was more asking if people understand the depth of romantic love more ,if they have experienced heartbreak rather than those that found it and never lost it, if you see what I mean."
Not the depth, but the value maybe. I let go someone who loved me deeply, and would have loved me still I have no doubt, and recently I have come to realise the value of his love. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can love fade out...
If it does was you really in love on the first place ?"
100% yes. I was deeply in love with my husband when I married him but it faded and died ... Which is why we separated  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes I think it gives you deeper insight into it imo in what way"
Love grows its roots deep inside you, weaving itself deep into your soul. Much of this goes on in some dark unknown recess somewhere inside. But when it's torn from you, every square inch of where it once entwined in your soul burns with a ghastly emptiness, like a dark wind blowing on raw exposed nerves deep within that you never knew were there.
It makes you more acutely aware of its full extent deep into you... and how deep you yourself go too. A profound aching interior abyss. A dark glistening cavern filled with burnt diamonds that you never knew was there |
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My ex boyfriend loved me till the day he died. I found this out by accident. We had been split up 14 years. I have no idea what i did in that relationship to warrent that amount of emotion. I found it really sad that he wasnt able to move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think so either every love is different I do think the important thing is if you have had you your heartbroken don't give believing in love if it in your fate it will be healed  |
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