"Plug some music in my ears, sit in the garden and just chill the fuck out
Music is always a great calmer. "
The music is a good call, but driving behind some Berks can usually be more stressful than staying in lol
I sit down either with a family member or friend for a good old chat or I lose myself in a book.
If I can't do either of those I probably cry if I am frustrated enough
Usually take the issue apart into smaller parts, deal with each as best I can. Mostly though this involves accepting the bits i can influence and the areas I can't.
That said, I always reach for food and drink as a reflex.