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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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TEN FAB COMMANDMENTS
1. Thou shall respect every profile you come across
READ the entire profile, think if and how it applies to you specifically and engage respectfully by introducing yourself in an introductory message with a face picture attached (no cocks unless explicitly stated).
2. Thou shall not be a timewaster.
Things do happen and you may not always be able to fulfill engagements, always inform the ones you arrange with of a change in circumstance as early as possible. Do NOT make arrangements without having any intention to meet. It’s disrespectful, classless and downright stupid.
3. Communication communication COMMUNI fucking CATION.
This doesn’t need much explaining but for those that still haven’t figured it out yet, that’s how you get to have the best meets. Express yourself. Not many are here to judge you. This is the outlet where the filthiest versions of ourselves can be enabled and if you hide shit then you’re only doing yourself a disservice. So let the people you’re chatting to know what you like, tell those who are interested of your fantasy and soon enough you will see the magic happen.
4. Timekeep.
Always make sure you’re on time. Obviously this is not going to be the case all the time but if any issues do arise then communicate this to your dates. Side note, BMT is not a real thing, it’s an attitude. (I’m black, I fixed up, I know what I’m talking about)
5. Preference are choices.
Some men like women. Some men like men. Some men like both. Some men like the mirror. Some women like men. Some women like women. Some women like both. Some white men like black women. Some white men like white women. Some white men like Latinos. Some white men like Arabs. Some black women like black men. Some black women like white men. Some black women like both. Some black women like all. Some Asians like Asians. Some Asians like white. Some Asians like black. Some Asians like Arabs. Some men like men in dresses. Some men like men with boobs and a cock. Some women like men in dresses. Some women like men who like men and women. Find your niche and don’t bother about everyone else’s.
6. Clean up before meets.
Some people are perfectly fine going days without a shower. This should not apply on the day you have a meet. In fact, do not even go to your phone or keyboard without your shower gel, razors, roll on, cologne and every applicable toiletries that would make you smell so fucking sweet. Make sure you wash within the hour before you leave or welcome your guests. Clean up your place and make it a very warm place to be in. It’s a big deal you know.
7. Don’t be salty.
Fab has thousands of people. One turns you down, DO NOT HARASS or whinge in your statuses. Go and be a delight to someone else. One man’s meat is another man’s poison. Even if someone changes their mind last minute, let them be. You are NOT entitled to anything on here. Learn to take the good with the bad. DO NOT STALK profiles.
8. Don’t be a gossip.
This is a fucking crazy world. There’s a lot of weird shit you’ll come across. You will hear a lot of stuff that makes you question your own existence sometimes. It’s relatively normal in this sphere, but try and maintain discretion. People have separate lives and many wish to remain discrete. Unless you have a direct experience of something that happened with someone or a group of people, it’s not your business to spread around stories that have nothing to do with you. Ever heard of Chinese whispers? Shit always ends up sounding ten times worst and every mouth that spoke on that issue is culpable of twisting every fact into a transmogrified monster.
9. Curb your excesses.
Drinks, drugs, porn and whatever vices. This might sound counterintuitive to this site but understand how it reflects on yourself. Meeting when you’re too wasted is off putting for many. Many are not interested in any drugs usage, this is your personal choice but do not assume everyone will be cool with this about you. Communicate. It saves everybody time and energy. Porn is another vice that has to be kept in check. Many porn addicts do not realise how their indulgences tend to erode their perception of decency. This is what creates an entitlement culture. Porn is fictional, performance of fantasies and should not be directly translated into every engagement with other human beings in life.
10. Make it fun to be with you.
Be yourself. Nerves are normal for many on first meet or even way deep into any arrangements. Human beings have a knack for some degree of compassion. So if you say you’re nervous, most decent people will do their best to put you at ease. This obviously does not apply to psychos, commonly referred to as assholes. Overall, just be a decent human being, honest about your sexuality and interests and showcase your talent. If you think you can give the best blowjobs around, own that shit and prove it with the right ones. If you can sashay into a room full of men and hold their attention then do your thing. Be a legend in your own way. You only live this once for now so make the best of it. |
