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When you see some verifications.....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
Do you think they all sound the same?
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris?  |
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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago
Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;) |
"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
Do you think they all sound the same?
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris? "
So prior to Fab a person never had a relationship so is as tight as nuns.... Seriously how many times has a person slept with another..
why does it even matter?
Ours isn’t to judge, just enjoy what works |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
Do you think they all sound the same?
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris?
So prior to Fab a person never had a relationship so is as tight as nuns.... Seriously how many times has a person slept with another..
why does it even matter?
Ours isn’t to judge, just enjoy what works"
None of it matters if that is your opinion.
It's a thread to promote conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the wider subject of Verifications themselves I think most people misunderstand what they are actually for - to verify the people are as described in their profile. Nothing more and certainly not for a blow by blow (excuse the pun) account of all that went on.
Call me old fashioned but I remember when discretion was a major bonus to Swinging. Describing who did what to whom and how often isn't (IMHO) 'discrete' at all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"On the wider subject of Verifications themselves I think most people misunderstand what they are actually for - to verify the people are as described in their profile. Nothing more and certainly not for a blow by blow (excuse the pun) account of all that went on.
Call me old fashioned but I remember when discretion was a major bonus to Swinging. Describing who did what to whom and how often isn't (IMHO) 'discrete' at all."
That's a very good point. All they seem to be is like a review on performance. And what happened during meets.
Discretion doesn't seem to be anywhere in sight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can have sex with thousands of men and not lose the ‘tightness’ ... let’s clarify that point !!
Verifications are important to me - I like to know the person I’m meeting is actually them ( for the want of a better phrase )
I’m wary of the green tick with nothing showing , only because years back you could verify by phone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can have sex with thousands of men and not lose the ‘tightness’ ... let’s clarify that point !!
Verifications are important to me - I like to know the person I’m meeting is actually them ( for the want of a better phrase )
I’m wary of the green tick with nothing showing , only because years back you could verify by phone. "
I know, if they could scientifically make skin grafts out of vagina skin. People would never age    |
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"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
Do you think they all sound the same?
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris? "
It doesn't look like that to us and we find them very useful. Whatcdoes put us off is people worrying too much about what other people are up to instead of just enjoying themselves and this ridiculously outdated view that a was vagina size is in any way related to how many men they've slept with, |
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Verifications prove someone is genuine, I don’t like my time being wasted by dreamers, so like to see the person/couple is who they say they are.
I won’t ‘follow’ certain men in here, so I do like to see who people have previously met |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"On the wider subject of Verifications themselves I think most people misunderstand what they are actually for - to verify the people are as described in their profile. Nothing more and certainly not for a blow by blow (excuse the pun) account of all that went on.
Call me old fashioned but I remember when discretion was a major bonus to Swinging. Describing who did what to whom and how often isn't (IMHO) 'discrete' at all."
Yes verifications put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can have sex with thousands of men and not lose the ‘tightness’ ... let’s clarify that point !!
Verifications are important to me - I like to know the person I’m meeting is actually them ( for the want of a better phrase )
I’m wary of the green tick with nothing showing , only because years back you could verify by phone. "
Why would a phone veri put you off? |
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Numbers, no. Content, yes.
Zero interest in performance appraisal. Only if they're a decent person or not.
Also good filters. There's a lady well known for bare backing. I tend to avoid her suitors. |
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"Numbers, no. Content, yes.
Zero interest in performance appraisal. Only if they're a decent person or not.
Also good filters. There's a lady well known for bare backing. I tend to avoid her suitors."
But if you insist on her ex suitors using protection.......or is it just the fact that if the guy is willing to bareback 'her' you think he may be a bit "iffy" anyway......not in anyway disagreeing with you btw |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
Do you think they all sound the same?
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris? "
you nailed it we don't have to comment |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At the end of the day, you will never ever truly know a person's sexual history. They could have had 500 meets away from Fab and only show a few verifications from here. They could have met all sorts of people and had bareback sex, bareback gangbangs etc. You'll never really know the truth from reading a few verifications.
I think they help a little bit in desicion making but what you read, is never going to be completely true about a person. Most people on here have a few skeletons me thinks.
Except me, of course. |
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1. No, I don't veri stalk.
2. Pretty much, I gave up reading them years ago.
3. Unlikely.
4. No, see no. 1.
5. I look to see if they have meet veris and how recent the last 1 was.
6. I think you need to change your perception of vaginas  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"At the end of the day, you will never ever truly know a person's sexual history. They could have had 500 meets away from Fab and only show a few verifications from here. They could have met all sorts of people and had bareback sex, bareback gangbangs etc. You'll never really know the truth from reading a few verifications.
I think they help a little bit in desicion making but what you read, is never going to be completely true about a person. Most people on here have a few skeletons me thinks.
Except me, of course. "
are you a skeleton in somebody's cupboard? |
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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago
North of Okehampton, South of Bideford |
"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
Do you think they all sound the same?
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris? "
Perhaps you might enlighten us, when you get a verification...
Then enlighten us all again when you get your 2nd one and we could all compare them, to see if we think they have been written by the same person.
Incidentally, yes we do have a look at peoples verifications.
Quite a few Straight guys have been sexually verified by other Guys.
lots of safe Sex Couples get verified by those that only do bareback.
Quite a few have had social meets only and have never played.
lots are webcam verified only.
Why go into something totally in the dark, when you can get a feel for someone to see how genuine they are..Not judging anyone, but why be led up the Garden path when there is no need. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't pay much attention to verifications but i suppose people can get really hung up on them
I know from being on here previously and having my verifications on show that men i had met had been told by other women that they wouldn't meet them because they had met me...
Some people need to get a life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't pay much attention to verifications but i suppose people can get really hung up on them
I know from being on here previously and having my verifications on show that men i had met had been told by other women that they wouldn't meet them because they had met me...
Some people need to get a life"
they do the old green eyed monster comes out for some |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No verifications, especially if you’ve been on site more than 6months is a no-go for me.
But if I saw, loads of them I would find that off-putting, is it necessary? I don’t really care how many a person has slept with but it’s a bit ‘look at me’, I’ve got prowess. Bit boastful maybe?!
Much prefer just pick a few that give an indication of who you are and what kind of sexual interests you have
I do read them, if someone says words like ‘gentleman’, ‘reliable’, ‘repeat performance’, ‘ate my pussy for a long time’ and other things I’m looking for
As well as stuff I don’t like eg ‘bareback’ and ‘took ages to meet up’ etc
And I check who the person who wrote it is too! 
So... I’m a bit in depth with it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can have sex with thousands of men and not lose the ‘tightness’ ... let’s clarify that point !!
Verifications are important to me - I like to know the person I’m meeting is actually them ( for the want of a better phrase )
I’m wary of the green tick with nothing showing , only because years back you could verify by phone. "
Good point!
Do they still allow webcam verification? |
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"Numbers, no. Content, yes.
Zero interest in performance appraisal. Only if they're a decent person or not.
Also good filters. There's a lady well known for bare backing. I tend to avoid her suitors.
But if you insist on her ex suitors using protection.......or is it just the fact that if the guy is willing to bareback 'her' you think he may be a bit "iffy" anyway......not in anyway disagreeing with you btw "
Perhaps I shouldn't judge but she tends to do dogging bare back meets. Makes me think he's only after getting his dick wet where I prefer a touch of friendship with my fun. Need cerebral stimulation, not fuck and go |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
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Don't like the really graphic ott ones ,like the ones with a bit of humour in,that shows a bit of what the person is like.
The number doesn't bother me,the frequency might if it's a few a day .
I am put off a bit by people constantly reverifying, like marking their patch. |
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"Don't like the really graphic ott ones ,like the ones with a bit of humour in,that shows a bit of what the person is like.
The number doesn't bother me,the frequency might if it's a few a day .
I am put off a bit by people constantly reverifying, like marking their patch."
I've seen a few profiles where they have like 10 veris, 9 of them by the same person, and sometimes only a few days apart |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"No verifications, especially if you’ve been on site more than 6months is a no-go for me.
But if I saw, loads of them I would find that off-putting, is it necessary? I don’t really care how many a person has slept with but it’s a bit ‘look at me’, I’ve got prowess. Bit boastful maybe?!
Much prefer just pick a few that give an indication of who you are and what kind of sexual interests you have
I do read them, if someone says words like ‘gentleman’, ‘reliable’, ‘repeat performance’, ‘ate my pussy for a long time’ and other things I’m looking for
As well as stuff I don’t like eg ‘bareback’ and ‘took ages to meet up’ etc
And I check who the person who wrote it is too!
So... I’m a bit in depth with it "
Maybe it's just being very selective? Never a bad thing |
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By *hingy2Woman
over a year ago
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"I don't pay much attention to verifications but i suppose people can get really hung up on them
I know from being on here previously and having my verifications on show that men i had met had been told by other women that they wouldn't meet them because they had met me...
Some people need to get a life"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
Do you think they all sound the same?
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris? "
I think with that attitude it might be some time before you get your first verification |
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"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
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It might, but probably wouldn't
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Do you think they all sound the same?
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A lot do, yes
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I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
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No
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Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris? "
No but i think it's statistically very unlikely that they don't have HPV and or herpes, at least |
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I hide mine but that’s just personal choice, but it does seem that nearly every woman comes like a train ans came take a full load, whilst most men are heavy cummers that just go and go all night
Their main purpose was to versify the person as being the person in said profile, I think we have forgotten that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hide mine but that’s just personal choice, but it does seem that nearly every woman comes like a train ans came take a full load, whilst most men are heavy cummers that just go and go all night
Their main purpose was to versify the person as being the person in said profile, I think we have forgotten that "
Well hello again you - been a very long while but we seem to say the same thing that verifications should be to 'verify' the person is as described and they turned up. Anything beyond that is private ... |
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"I hide mine but that’s just personal choice, but it does seem that nearly every woman comes like a train ans came take a full load, whilst most men are heavy cummers that just go and go all night
Their main purpose was to versify the person as being the person in said profile, I think we have forgotten that
Well hello again you - been a very long while but we seem to say the same thing that verifications should be to 'verify' the person is as described and they turned up. Anything beyond that is private ..."
Hello my lovely, long time no see xx exactly that, although if I was writing one for you I might mention something else  |
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"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
It might, but probably wouldn't
Do you think they all sound the same?
A lot do, yes
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
No
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris?
No but i think it's statistically very unlikely that they don't have HPV and or herpes, at least "
Lol so how many different people do you need to sleep with to get herpes? Asking for myself as I'm guessing from your logic I'm either due or overdue, or maybe, God forbid, careful and use some common sense.
There are some truly bizarre thought processes and logic on this forum sometimes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not just verifications some statuses are cringe worthy. Just seen ones guy asking for a pregnant lady so he can rub her belly while he wanks. Sorry but that's just wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone has lots of verifications I do a veritrail to see if they all practise safer sex.
I make my risk assessment based on those kinds of verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
It might, but probably wouldn't
Do you think they all sound the same?
A lot do, yes
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
No
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris?
No but i think it's statistically very unlikely that they don't have HPV and or herpes, at least
Lol so how many different people do you need to sleep with to get herpes? Asking for myself as I'm guessing from your logic I'm either due or overdue, or maybe, God forbid, careful and use some common sense.
There are some truly bizarre thought processes and logic on this forum sometimes. "
How would common sense protect you from catching herpes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can have sex with thousands of men and not lose the ‘tightness’ ... let’s clarify that point !!
Verifications are important to me - I like to know the person I’m meeting is actually them ( for the want of a better phrase )
I’m wary of the green tick with nothing showing , only because years back you could verify by phone. "
Oh yes I remember that lol.
Totally agree x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh it’s not the veris or the amount it’s some pictures of a potential next meet covered in someone else’s cum that puts me off "
So you find cum a turn off.
This is about veris
Swinging is about having fun
I don't need gory cum details in a veris lol |
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"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
It might, but probably wouldn't
Do you think they all sound the same?
A lot do, yes
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
No
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris?
No but i think it's statistically very unlikely that they don't have HPV and or herpes, at least
Lol so how many different people do you need to sleep with to get herpes? Asking for myself as I'm guessing from your logic I'm either due or overdue, or maybe, God forbid, careful and use some common sense.
There are some truly bizarre thought processes and logic on this forum sometimes. "
What's bizzare on this forum is how ignorant many people are on how some STDs are spread. Condoms are not the magic glass slipper you've been told. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hide mine but that’s just personal choice, but it does seem that nearly every woman comes like a train ans came take a full load, whilst most men are heavy cummers that just go and go all night
Their main purpose was to versify the person as being the person in said profile, I think we have forgotten that "
This |
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Yea loads of veries put me off ...I don't want to know if," he filled me good " or he's hung like a horse and knows how to use it ...never see a bad veri tho .saying shaved my legs for that !!!!! .think. A couple saying kind of personality and clean ect would be fine |
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"I worry more about the fake profiles that are verified,
Dangerous if anyone was to meet such a profile/person.
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I don't pay to much attention to what they say but who has written them and look at their veries as well |
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"Numbers, no. Content, yes.
Zero interest in performance appraisal. Only if they're a decent person or not.
Also good filters. There's a lady well known for bare backing. I tend to avoid her suitors.
But if you insist on her ex suitors using protection.......or is it just the fact that if the guy is willing to bareback 'her' you think he may be a bit "iffy" anyway......not in anyway disagreeing with you btw "
There's one lady that goes about in a van bareback with as many as possible .loads of guys saying loved it. I'd personally avoid anybody that was on hers ..just takes one and abodys infected |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Numbers, no. Content, yes.
Zero interest in performance appraisal. Only if they're a decent person or not.
Also good filters. There's a lady well known for bare backing. I tend to avoid her suitors.
But if you insist on her ex suitors using protection.......or is it just the fact that if the guy is willing to bareback 'her' you think he may be a bit "iffy" anyway......not in anyway disagreeing with you btw
There's one lady that goes about in a van bareback with as many as possible .loads of guys saying loved it. I'd personally avoid anybody that was on hers ..just takes one and abodys infected"
who |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I hide mine but that’s just personal choice, but it does seem that nearly every woman comes like a train ans came take a full load, whilst most men are heavy cummers that just go and go all night
Their main purpose was to versify the person as being the person in said profile, I think we have forgotten that
Well hello again you - been a very long while but we seem to say the same thing that verifications should be to 'verify' the person is as described and they turned up. Anything beyond that is private ...
Hello my lovely, long time no see xx exactly that, although if I was writing one for you I might mention something else "
i am now slightly worried at some embarrassing moment I thought had been forgotten... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Numbers, no. Content, yes.
Zero interest in performance appraisal. Only if they're a decent person or not.
Also good filters. There's a lady well known for bare backing. I tend to avoid her suitors.
But if you insist on her ex suitors using protection.......or is it just the fact that if the guy is willing to bareback 'her' you think he may be a bit "iffy" anyway......not in anyway disagreeing with you btw
There's one lady that goes about in a van bareback with as many as possible .loads of guys saying loved it. I'd personally avoid anybody that was on hers ..just takes one and abodys infected"
What if someone fucks her but there's no verification? |
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"Numbers, no. Content, yes.
Zero interest in performance appraisal. Only if they're a decent person or not.
Also good filters. There's a lady well known for bare backing. I tend to avoid her suitors.
But if you insist on her ex suitors using protection.......or is it just the fact that if the guy is willing to bareback 'her' you think he may be a bit "iffy" anyway......not in anyway disagreeing with you btw "
How would that protection stop HPV or herpes. Why would you want to take that kind of risk anyway given 1/3 of people experience condom breaks. |
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"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
It might, but probably wouldn't
Do you think they all sound the same?
A lot do, yes
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
No
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris?
No but i think it's statistically very unlikely that they don't have HPV and or herpes, at least
Lol so how many different people do you need to sleep with to get herpes? Asking for myself as I'm guessing from your logic I'm either due or overdue, or maybe, God forbid, careful and use some common sense.
There are some truly bizarre thought processes and logic on this forum sometimes.
How would common sense protect you from catching herpes?"
Seriously? that's funny |
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"Numbers, no. Content, yes.
Zero interest in performance appraisal. Only if they're a decent person or not.
Also good filters. There's a lady well known for bare backing. I tend to avoid her suitors.
But if you insist on her ex suitors using protection.......or is it just the fact that if the guy is willing to bareback 'her' you think he may be a bit "iffy" anyway......not in anyway disagreeing with you btw
There's one lady that goes about in a van bareback with as many as possible .loads of guys saying loved it. I'd personally avoid anybody that was on hers ..just takes one and abodys infectedwho"
Just have a look threw the woman. And she comes up as travels in a van ...enjoy |
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"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
It might, but probably wouldn't
Do you think they all sound the same?
A lot do, yes
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
No
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris?
No but i think it's statistically very unlikely that they don't have HPV and or herpes, at least
Lol so how many different people do you need to sleep with to get herpes? Asking for myself as I'm guessing from your logic I'm either due or overdue, or maybe, God forbid, careful and use some common sense.
There are some truly bizarre thought processes and logic on this forum sometimes.
What's bizzare on this forum is how ignorant many people are on how some STDs are spread. Condoms are not the magic glass slipper you've been told. "
Go on then enlighten us all with your medical genius. By the way you mentioned condoms not me.
All risks aren't 100% but avoiding sores, etc is a pretty damn good way of avoiding herpes.
Although from the tone of your posts abstinence, disapproving of everything and not being very personable is probably serving you even better |
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"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
It might, but probably wouldn't
Do you think they all sound the same?
A lot do, yes
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
No
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris?
No but i think it's statistically very unlikely that they don't have HPV and or herpes, at least
Lol so how many different people do you need to sleep with to get herpes? Asking for myself as I'm guessing from your logic I'm either due or overdue, or maybe, God forbid, careful and use some common sense.
There are some truly bizarre thought processes and logic on this forum sometimes.
How would common sense protect you from catching herpes?
Seriously? that's funny"
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I've said it many a time, the thought of meeting a stranger because another stranger has praised them is ludicrous to me. I'm responsible for me, so meet socially, see if there's chemistry and take it from there.
The last unverified man I met has moved in four years ago! |
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"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
It might, but probably wouldn't
Do you think they all sound the same?
A lot do, yes
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
No
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris?
No but i think it's statistically very unlikely that they don't have HPV and or herpes, at least
Lol so how many different people do you need to sleep with to get herpes? Asking for myself as I'm guessing from your logic I'm either due or overdue, or maybe, God forbid, careful and use some common sense.
There are some truly bizarre thought processes and logic on this forum sometimes.
How would common sense protect you from catching herpes?
Seriously? that's funny
Why is it funny? You haven't answered the question. "
Because it shows a remarkable lack of knowledge.
However it looks like the no se. Swingers gang are coming out in full force now. Hahaha. Enjoy your thread. |
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"I've said it many a time, the thought of meeting a stranger because another stranger has praised them is ludicrous to me. I'm responsible for me, so meet socially, see if there's chemistry and take it from there.
The last unverified man I met has moved in four years ago!"
I'll never meet another unverified man again!
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I like veries, I find them really informative and I do quite a bit of reading and tracing when looking at potential meets.
I also like receiving them. For me they are a little thank you note that closes that episode and sets you up to move on..I get remarkably ruffled when I have a good meet and the other party doesn’t verify.
I’ve become a lot more blasé about numbers. One of my longest standing fab contacts and one of my best meets both have veris running into the hundreds. They are both scrupulous about safe sex, testing and hygiene.
Will watch my messages tumble with that little revelation...
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"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
It might, but probably wouldn't
Do you think they all sound the same?
A lot do, yes
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
No
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris?
No but i think it's statistically very unlikely that they don't have HPV and or herpes, at least
Lol so how many different people do you need to sleep with to get herpes? Asking for myself as I'm guessing from your logic I'm either due or overdue, or maybe, God forbid, careful and use some common sense.
There are some truly bizarre thought processes and logic on this forum sometimes.
How would common sense protect you from catching herpes?
Seriously? that's funny
Why is it funny? You haven't answered the question.
Because it shows a remarkable lack of knowledge.
However it looks like the no se. Swingers gang are coming out in full force now. Hahaha. Enjoy your thread. "
What is a no se. Swinger?
I don't know how common sense would protect against herpes infection. Reduce the likelihood yes.
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"Does it put you off seeing who people have slept with?
It might, but probably wouldn't
Do you think they all sound the same?
A lot do, yes
I'm sure the same person has written 90% of them?!?
Do you compare yourself to past conquests to see if you "measure up" ?
No
Do you not pay any attention to the verifications?
Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris?
No but i think it's statistically very unlikely that they don't have HPV and or herpes, at least
Lol so how many different people do you need to sleep with to get herpes? Asking for myself as I'm guessing from your logic I'm either due or overdue, or maybe, God forbid, careful and use some common sense.
There are some truly bizarre thought processes and logic on this forum sometimes.
How would common sense protect you from catching herpes?
Seriously? that's funny
Why is it funny? You haven't answered the question.
Because it shows a remarkable lack of knowledge.
However it looks like the no se. Swingers gang are coming out in full force now. Hahaha. Enjoy your thread. "
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I think that we all look at profiles and veris in different ways. For me, if a couple has loads of veris, it means they are real and do actually meet. There is no need for any of those veris though to go into graphic detail about a meet, that does tend to put me off a bit. I like to read about what the "meet" thought of the couple and i will read the "meets" veri of what the couple thought of them.
This tells me more than anything else if i would actually want to meet them. I must admit though, recently it has told me next to nothing about a lot of couples, because peeps just don't seem to leave much more than "great shag treat with respect"......................what sort of veri is that ? Tells no one nothing and not worth a toss. |
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"I think that we all look at profiles and veris in different ways. For me, if a couple has loads of veris, it means they are real and do actually meet. There is no need for any of those veris though to go into graphic detail about a meet, that does tend to put me off a bit. I like to read about what the "meet" thought of the couple and i will read the "meets" veri of what the couple thought of them.
This tells me more than anything else if i would actually want to meet them. I must admit though, recently it has told me next to nothing about a lot of couples, because peeps just don't seem to leave much more than "great shag treat with respect"......................what sort of veri is that ? Tells no one nothing and not worth a toss."
Whilst generally I agree no one needs a blow by blow description of the meet, I do like sometimes to have a filthier one, otherwise it can all sound a bit like we’ve been at an endless string of lingerie themed dinner parties or job interviews. It can be good to have one that’s a bit more specific about your sex skills. |
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over a year ago
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Veris can be a useful indicator of what someone is/could be like but there not the be all and end all.
What I do find off putting is when the same person just keeps verifying someone time and time again, makes me feel like I might be intruding on something. |
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"Veris can be a useful indicator of what someone is/could be like but there not the be all and end all.
What I do find off putting is when the same person just keeps verifying someone time and time again, makes me feel like I might be intruding on something."
Yep, fully agree. There is one couple on here i have met frequently over many many years and have never felt the want or need to post more than 1 veri each time i've been on the site. They feel the same way as well. I was "Perving" a profile last night and the couple had 10 Veris, 6 of them from the same guy......................how creepy is that |
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Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris?
No but i think it's statistically very unlikely that they don't have HPV and or herpes, at least "
that's a little judgemental don't you think. I've been doing this 20 years . And first 15 or so group play only and so do the maths.. and I've never had anything |
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Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris?
No but i think it's statistically very unlikely that they don't have HPV and or herpes, at least that's a little judgemental don't you think. I've been doing this 20 years . And first 15 or so group play only and so do the maths.. and I've never had anything "
Agree as well. I've been swinging since the 1980's, my wife died in 2010. Never had a sign of any STD in all that time. Being careful has always been the way to go forward, no matter how many partners you have had. |
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Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris?
No but i think it's statistically very unlikely that they don't have HPV and or herpes, at least that's a little judgemental don't you think. I've been doing this 20 years . And first 15 or so group play only and so do the maths.. and I've never had anything "
Some people on here love to be judgemental! With everything
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Do you see they have 800 and think, forget it. It would be like throwing a chipolata into a tunnel?
Thoughts on veris?
No but i think it's statistically very unlikely that they don't have HPV and or herpes, at least that's a little judgemental don't you think. I've been doing this 20 years . And first 15 or so group play only and so do the maths.. and I've never had anything
Some people on here love to be judgemental! With everything
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"I hide mine but that’s just personal choice, but it does seem that nearly every woman comes like a train ans came take a full load, whilst most men are heavy cummers that just go and go all night
Their main purpose was to versify the person as being the person in said profile, I think we have forgotten that
Well hello again you - been a very long while but we seem to say the same thing that verifications should be to 'verify' the person is as described and they turned up. Anything beyond that is private ...
Hello my lovely, long time no see xx exactly that, although if I was writing one for you I might mention something else "
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