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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Is it something you thought about, there’s quite a few on page one of hot pics who do. Just wondered if you show your face, how much thought you gave it, or your simply not bothered, or just thought fuck it. Have there been any repercussions to showing your face if you do ?
If you don’t what are your reasons, job, family or you just don’t want people to know you’re on Fab? |
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It took me ages and ages to do it... but it felt quite liberating... however even though you can see my face I’m not sure if I could be truly recognisable as the pics don’t show me fully... ??
You’d have to ask someone who has met me?
I will hide myself again.. more from a work perspective though! |
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"I do think about it to a certain extent. I can't really think of many, if any negative repercussions for me. I just show my face if I think I look good and it will be a nice avatar."
I’ve seen your face and I think you look good.
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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I don't, I've seen too many threads from people saying they've been outed due to their public face pics (not sure exactly what they expected)
Also I wouldn't like people to know I'm here, I don't much care what anyone thinks of me but it would have a negative impact on my children's lives. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have nothing to hide, most people close to me know my choices. As long as I’m not on here in uniform in some sexual pose, I won’t get into trouble at work either. |
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We aren’t ashamed of what we do , our friends and family know. We get recognised all the time and it doesn’t bother us. Someone recognised us at Majorca airport last week and came running over to say hi . There nothing wrong with enjoying sex and being naked . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think that if I’m asking for face photos I should put my money where my mouth is. Front and center.
Also, there should be no shame in seeking good sex ...  "
A couple messaged me, asking for a face photo in there first message without sending me one, which I thought was a bit cheeky. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Considering fab can lock you out of your account whenever they fancy it. Id rather not have my face on a server which i can no longer access to remove it."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Also there’s one thing to show your face but another to have a cock in your mouth when you do, I’m not judging, but interested to know how people come to that decision. |
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"I think that if I’m asking for face photos I should put my money where my mouth is. Front and center.
Also, there should be no shame in seeking good sex ...
A couple messaged me, asking for a face photo in there first message without sending me one, which I thought was a bit cheeky. "
you could have sent one of your arse. |
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In an ideal world I would love nothing more than to be able to show my face but I work with a bunch of narrow-minded immature folk who would make my life unbearable if they knew I was on here. I simply don't need that sort of hassle in my life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that if I’m asking for face photos I should put my money where my mouth is. Front and center.
Also, there should be no shame in seeking good sex ... "
Hot pic's hun x |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Also there’s one thing to show your face but another to have a cock in your mouth when you do, I’m not judging, but interested to know how people come to that decision. "
My thought process...
'What's this? A thread on blowjob photos being crap? Oh, I look fucking fantastic in this photo. And it's hot. And it makes me happy and relive memories. I like posting photos. Lets upload it.'
Tl;dr I liked it and posted it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also there’s one thing to show your face but another to have a cock in your mouth when you do, I’m not judging, but interested to know how people come to that decision. "
I don't understand it either.  |
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"Also there’s one thing to show your face but another to have a cock in your mouth when you do, I’m not judging, but interested to know how people come to that decision. I thought you’d like it  "
Send it to me if he doesn’t want it  |
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"Also there’s one thing to show your face but another to have a cock in your mouth when you do, I’m not judging, but interested to know how people come to that decision. I thought you’d like it
Send it to me if he doesn’t want it "
I haven’t got one!!  *shocked* |
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I've always assumed that those that show their faces publically in compromising situations have nothing to lose,but maybe something to gain. Couldn't imagine a teacher or social worker uploading a pic like that, but a sex worker or club promoter would benefit. I maybe wrong but why do it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't have it on show I don't think no. My private life is just that and doesn't need inflicting on family/kids.
I'll send it if Im getting on with someone and possibly might meet. Not just to any randoms after a message or two. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Also there’s one thing to show your face but another to have a cock in your mouth when you do, I’m not judging, but interested to know how people come to that decision.
I don't understand it either. "
I’m not saying I don’t understand it, people can do what they like, I just wondered how they come to that decision. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think that if I’m asking for face photos I should put my money where my mouth is. Front and center.
Also, there should be no shame in seeking good sex ...
A couple messaged me, asking for a face photo in there first message without sending me one, which I thought was a bit cheeky. you could have sent one of your arse. "
Should have done, fucking looks the same ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also there’s one thing to show your face but another to have a cock in your mouth when you do, I’m not judging, but interested to know how people come to that decision.
I don't understand it either.
I’m not saying I don’t understand it, people can do what they like, I just wondered how they come to that decision. "
That's what I meant. I don't understand why they would do it, considering the possible consequences. Fine if they want to. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don’t, since someone messaged me saying they’d just seen me in Asda. I deleted my account that afternoon! "
Moral of the story, never shop in Asda. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I show my face.
I have no issues about being on here, I used to do webcam work and showed my face then so being on sex related sites isn’t new to me, or family or friends!
I’m also self employed in the hair & beauty industry so there isn’t a scary manager who would sack me if they found me in here!
I understand it’s nowhere near as easy as this for other people and totally respect that. Also not everyone wants their face shown on a site like this for people to recognise anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With facial recognition software improving daily and images captured of us all the time wherever we go - no thanks, my face is never on here (plus I look like Esmerelda after a night out and wouldn't want to inflict that on you lot)
Actually I don't look that bad. Really |
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"Also there’s one thing to show your face but another to have a cock in your mouth when you do, I’m not judging, but interested to know how people come to that decision. I thought you’d like it
Send it to me if he doesn’t want it
I haven’t got one!! *shocked* "
Good job I have one then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t, since someone messaged me saying they’d just seen me in Asda. I deleted my account that afternoon! "
thats bad of them. There is a girl on here that works in my local co op just up the road but i would never message her and tell her or say anything to her in the shop.
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I'll occasionally make a face pic public but never normally for long - whilst I'm not overly bothered by people seeing my face (and will happily send to anyone that asks including on FPF) I prefer not to have it permanently on show just in case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We dont ever show our faces on Fab. We dont want our kids to know nor our workplaces plus i would lose my job. Im not ashamed of being on here or any other swinging site but many people would use that knowledge against us in a bad or negative way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t, since someone messaged me saying they’d just seen me in Asda. I deleted my account that afternoon!
Moral of the story, never shop in Asda. "
I had someone say they knew I had been in Asda, by using our locations. If I had my face on show he might have approached me. |
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I don't, and it's mostly because I don't want people coming up to me in the street asking if I'm popping candy from fab. I'm almost certain there are people who are that stupid around.
And unfortunately even in 2018 there is still a stigma attached to casual sex. I know that many I work with, for example, would be very judgemental about it.
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"Also there’s one thing to show your face but another to have a cock in your mouth when you do, I’m not judging, but interested to know how people come to that decision. I thought you’d like it
Send it to me if he doesn’t want it
I haven’t got one!! *shocked*
Good job I have one then "
let’s see it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It took me ages and ages to do it... but it felt quite liberating... however even though you can see my face I’m not sure if I could be truly recognisable as the pics don’t show me fully... ??
You’d have to ask someone who has met me?
I will hide myself again.. more from a work perspective though! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont make my face public. Don't want to scare potential vict....err meets away
Real reason is my job and son neither of whom need to know some things about me..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to... until I got a faceless message from someone asking me was it me in such and such a quiet place late at night, which is was and it scared the crap out of me.
I currently work in a hotel. Would I want to risk some swingers staying there, recognising me and knowing where I work? I don't bloody think so mate. |
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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria |
We don't show ours faces (well did by accident once but a fellow fabsters let us know in minutes...friend for life), reason being not wanting family members to know our business.
Although we did get recognised by our neighbours in Spain off the house pics lol |
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I don't as a privacy thing.
I personally don't care what people think of how I live my life. But I have kids, and they don't need to put up with Your mum's a slag who will fuck anyone. My life choice not theirs. |
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When my profile is showing i always havr a face picture. I live in a small town and always get messages from people saying theyve seen me and its nearly always tesco snyone would think i lived in there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't have an issue with showing my face on here.
I run a public establishment in an area where there are not that many pubs so the likelihood of someone coming in who is on here and local is high. But like everything else on here they respect the boundary between work and play |
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By *khot1Couple
over a year ago
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If you show your face as a woman on here you get more fabs for whatever reason, and we've heard of a lot of school kids come on here for there porn fix, and they have access to hot pics, so last thing you need is your child's friends seeing you with you kit off |
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I quite often have public face pics - I do right now scattered throughout my gallery. I figure it's unlikely I'd be recognised as I'm usually wearing glasses in public so I'm reluctant to put up a glasses pic on here for very long as they're my disguise! I do sometimes get a little nervous if I'm going out with lenses in so will make my face private if I remember to do so beforehand but it wouldn't be a huge deal if I was recognised as I'm self employed and there are very few people I know in my life whose opinion I give a fuck about anyway!
I've said this before but for me the advantages of a public face outweigh the disadvantages. I'd far rather someone looked at me, face and all, thought 'crikey she's rough' or whatever and passed by unbeknownst to me than recoil at a later date when I revealed myself |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
"I just thought to myself how can I get women to fuck me. Repurcussions are women have fucked me.
Oh, you’ve changed your avatar, such a shame !  "
It's still in public pics if you need to knock one out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it something you thought about, there’s quite a few on page one of hot pics who do. Just wondered if you show your face, how much thought you gave it, or your simply not bothered, or just thought fuck it. Have there been any repercussions to showing your face if you do ?
If you don’t what are your reasons, job, family or you just don’t want people to know you’re on Fab?"
Zero fucks given  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it something you thought about, there’s quite a few on page one of hot pics who do. Just wondered if you show your face, how much thought you gave it, or your simply not bothered, or just thought fuck it. Have there been any repercussions to showing your face if you do ?
If you don’t what are your reasons, job, family or you just don’t want people to know you’re on Fab?
Zero fucks given "
Good girl. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I took all my face pics off here as I don’t want to be the victim of hackers or locked out of my account with no way of removing them.
I’ll send a face by direct message if I want to be blocked |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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Also was recognised by the male half of a local couple and got a really creepy message from him saying he'd seen me working at the shop, how I'd served him etc. I blocked them as he made no attempt to actually say what he looked like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't bother me massively; I don't think there's much of a stigma about a single guy liking sex and looking for it online.
Someone from work spotted me and I never fully worked out who it was but zero shits were given. |
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When I first joined Fabs I had face pics up, and I also had bright fuchsia hair. Didn’t think much of it at the time... and then I had a message from a local user saying they’d seen me in the pub. Then they messaged me again... and again... and again... and again.
I took this as a kick up the arse (after having walked home alone that night) and made my profile more ambiguous after that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When I first joined Fabs I had face pics up, and I also had bright fuchsia hair. Didn’t think much of it at the time... and then I had a message from a local user saying they’d seen me in the pub. Then they messaged me again... and again... and again... and again.
I took this as a kick up the arse (after having walked home alone that night) and made my profile more ambiguous after that."
I've always wondered what you looked like or if you just had three eyes ir something. |
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"When I first joined Fabs I had face pics up, and I also had bright fuchsia hair. Didn’t think much of it at the time... and then I had a message from a local user saying they’d seen me in the pub. Then they messaged me again... and again... and again... and again.
I took this as a kick up the arse (after having walked home alone that night) and made my profile more ambiguous after that.
I've always wondered what you looked like or if you just had three eyes ir something."
Yeah I guess the 3 eyes are quite a giveaway too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think that if I’m asking for face photos I should put my money where my mouth is. Front and center.
Also, there should be no shame in seeking good sex ... "
I completely agree, however us brits have a very immature attitude towards sex! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone is entitled to privacy, not everyone gets why many 9f us are here. I'll always happily provide a face pic in private massages. Shame many think that no face pic on the profile equals dodgy.
Nothing more irritating than statuses that say no face pic, no meet when they have a tales of the unexpected profile pic. |
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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago
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I'm single, don't have children and can't imagine my employers would be overly bothered so *shrug* I have my face on display.
Plus people know instantly what I look like so there's no awkwardness later on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over the years i have been on here up until this time i have always had face pics on view to members. I have also had privacy settings so that non registered users can't see my pics and also set that search engines don't see them as well.
All the above still didn't stop a well fucked up stroppy couple from posting my face pic on there own facebook page.
So for me now, absolutely no face pics on my public profile...........plenty in private though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only show my full face pic to my friends. Had a few customers at work who I recognised from fab, also the thought of "I know what your cock looks like" comes to mind obviously they don't know me, but they show everything on display in their profile.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I show face when the fancy takes me. It’s far less exposing than showing my faff in all its glory.
Face and foof in the same pic, that's the holy grail of fab pics."
What about someone else face in my foof? Can that count? |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
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"I show face when the fancy takes me. It’s far less exposing than showing my faff in all its glory.
Face and foof in the same pic, that's the holy grail of fab pics.
What about someone else face in my foof? Can that count? "
Only if they are giving a wink |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't show or keep a face pic on here due to my job but I have done a face pic Friday and will send a face pic to people I'm chatting to as long as they do the same.  |
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"Over the years i have been on here up until this time i have always had face pics on view to members. I have also had privacy settings so that non registered users can't see my pics and also set that search engines don't see them as well.
All the above still didn't stop a well fucked up stroppy couple from posting my face pic on there own facebook page.
So for me now, absolutely no face pics on my public profile...........plenty in private though."
Hope they were reported ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Faces do well in hot pics, I’ve seen some women over time getting ‘braver’ and posting them, maybe with the view of getting to page1....
For obvious reasons I’m not displaying mine in public. Although I don’t think I would regardless, way to many weird people out there with all sorts of agendas. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I chose not to show my face pic as I see this as part of my private life. I'm not ashamed to be on here and I can't see there being repercussions for me if people found out, I just don't want the whole world knowing my business. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don’t, since someone messaged me saying they’d just seen me in Asda. I deleted my account that afternoon!
Moral of the story, never shop in Asda.
I had someone say they knew I had been in Asda, by using our locations. If I had my face on show he might have approached me."
I find that quite worrying, that’s why I don’t have my face pictures set to public |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Over the years i have been on here up until this time i have always had face pics on view to members. I have also had privacy settings so that non registered users can't see my pics and also set that search engines don't see them as well.
All the above still didn't stop a well fucked up stroppy couple from posting my face pic on there own facebook page.
So for me now, absolutely no face pics on my public profile...........plenty in private though.
Hope they were reported ? "
Yes they were and are no longer on FAB, as far as i know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Faces do well in hot pics, I’ve seen some women over time getting ‘braver’ and posting them, maybe with the view of getting to page1....
For obvious reasons I’m not displaying mine in public. Although I don’t think I would regardless, way to many weird people out there with all sorts of agendas."
That’s kind of how I feel about it too. There are an awful lot of lovely and warm people on fab, there are also an awful lot of morons and idiots. I’d rather be able to make the judgement call as to who sees my face than just leave it open to all |
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