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Alcohol before sex

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So we all know alcohol has been known to increase psychological inhibitions for some however this simply isn't the case for me as it just nulls mine haha

Just curious who prefers it and or is it make or break if the partner doesn't drink?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do you mean decrease?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't mind the odd one to calm the nerves but thats it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

One or 2 max. Any more than that will increase the risk of 'Brewer' s Droop'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do you mean decrease?"

In my case most definitely

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"One or 2 max. Any more than that will increase the risk of 'Brewer' s Droop'. "

Oh yeah I've been there haha

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

I like a couple for Dutch courage and confidence. Not loads though, like to keep my wits about me x

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By *isty286Couple over a year ago

Dorset

Never heard of it increasing inhibitions.

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By *andonmessMan over a year ago

A world all of his own

I find it helps if the woman has a lot to drink beforehand. It increases my chances of them letting me have sex with them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't mind the odd one to calm the nerves but thats it"

Oh right thats interesting and itseems to be a common use. I just can't relate as I've never felt nervous or having to need to be in a different state of mind to get into it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I like a couple for Dutch courage and confidence. Not loads though, like to keep my wits about me x"

Hmm Interesting and completely understandable. I like the idea of getting smashed would take me to my neverland but in reality i become the decaying mule

i can only function with a clear head but i hear ya ?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan over a year ago

salisbury

"I like a couple for Dutch courage and confidence. Not loads though, like to keep my wits about me x

Hmm Interesting and completely understandable. I like the idea of getting smashed would take me to my neverland but in reality i become the decaying mule

i can only function with a clear head but i hear ya ?"

Have you tried drinking in moderation?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Got really d*unk once and woke up with a lady in bed with the Condom still attached to my dick. booze and sex never that good

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By *icassolifelikeMan over a year ago

Luton

Give me too much and it’s like playing snooker with some rope as a cue!

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By *aven RedWoman over a year ago

Liverpool

"I like a couple for Dutch courage and confidence. Not loads though, like to keep my wits about me x

Hmm Interesting and completely understandable. I like the idea of getting smashed would take me to my neverland but in reality i become the decaying mule

i can only function with a clear head but i hear ya ?"

Think you've misunderstood my point. One or two drinks is fine. No way would I ever meet someone smashed from alcohol x

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By *innie The MinxWoman over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I never drink on meets, and wouldn't particularly want to meet someone who had...

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By *hubaysiWoman over a year ago

Leeds

"I find it helps if the woman has a lot to drink beforehand. It increases my chances of them letting me have sex with them."

Hope this is a joke???

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By *itvclaireTV/TS over a year ago

Birmingham

If I’m in a club I’ll have a couple whilst everyone is chatting. Never drink too much as I dont like the feeling of been d*unk.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I like something to calm the nerves but couldn’t be steaming d*unk. Wouldn’t find it very attractive if the other person was mullered either.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So we all know alcohol has been known to increase psychological inhibitions for some however this simply isn't the case for me as it just nulls mine haha

Just curious who prefers it and or is it make or break if the partner doesn't drink? "
sex and alcohol don't mix in my opinion

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By *thwalescplCouple over a year ago

brecon

We will have a one or two small drinks, but we never indulge too much, and have a strict rule of not playing with anyone who is wasted, we'd prefer them to remember the fun lol.

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman over a year ago

Hull

Not so long ago I had a couple of boozy cocktail drinking evenings... actually every time we met it involved alcohol

and lots of flirting... and it most definitely did not affect anything...

I think it depends on the situation, how well you know the other person... I classed him as a friend so didn’t have to worry about anything! You have to do what is right for you!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll put the kettle on. Tea anyone?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I like a couple for Dutch courage and confidence. Not loads though, like to keep my wits about me x

Hmm Interesting and completely understandable. I like the idea of getting smashed would take me to my neverland but in reality i become the decaying mule

i can only function with a clear head but i hear ya ?

Think you've misunderstood my point. One or two drinks is fine. No way would I ever meet someone smashed from alcohol x"

Yeah i get ya, was just wandering off a bit haha I'd prefer not to drink at all x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for the feedback everyone

im actually quite suprised all your views aren't as diverse as i was expecting but tailor close to mine.

I tend not to drink at all as it does nothing for me but wouldn't mind a drink but i stay sober always

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Not so long ago I had a couple of boozy cocktail drinking evenings... actually every time we met it involved alcohol

and lots of flirting... and it most definitely did not affect anything...

I think it depends on the situation, how well you know the other person... I classed him as a friend so didn’t have to worry about anything! You have to do what is right for you! "

Nice, sounds like you two had a few fun trips to neverland

if it had the same affect on me then i would consider breaking down that fourth wall x

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'll put the kettle on. Tea anyone?"

Haha now thats a drink id like

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"Give me too much and it’s like playing snooker with some rope as a cue! "

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By *iamondCougarWoman over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

One or two maybe to be sociable and loosen up but I prefer to remember the experience

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only drink water or alcohol, I definitely won’t be drinking water on a meet/date unless with food

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just a few sociables........ that’s more than enough

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By *ust RachelTV/TS over a year ago

Horsham

Having a glass of wine while chatting at the beginning of a meet is acceptable, drinking too much is never good.

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

I’ve had some fantastic d*unken wed over the years. But I wouldn’t do it for a meet on here. If I visit a club or a house party I will drive anyway so avoid drink.

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By *unloversCouple over a year ago

rotherham

If we have a meet I always have a drink

Mixture of nerves and relaxation

Also it makes me really horny

If it puts someone off then not my problem

Lol

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I like to meet in the hotel bar for a drink before hitting our room