Need advice! Noticed so many people message and say can we meet. At least 1 hour message exchanges! Give post code! Last minute say oh I can't come? How too avoid this time wasting people? HELP PLEASE!  |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
Slough Windsor ish |
I'd say don't get into too much messaging, you are wasting your own time in that... I bet they are asking for pics and wanting to know what you will do to them? The messages will just be wanking material.
Keep it direct and to the point. Exchange face pics and if they are happy to meet great.
I notice from your profile you cannot travel, I take it you invite these men directly to your home? Please be careful... There are some proper weirdos out there.... This also could be what puts people off. Is there not a cafe or pub where you could meet first? Somewhere public and neutral? It's far safer for all concerned.
I hope you can get past the time wasters. There are two types on here, talkers and doers. Learn to recognise when it's just talk and fantasy and you will pick up the doers no trouble xx |
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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago
Hull |
Generally, I believe you are taking matters too fast and whilst you have had some decent meets in your opinion, you are cutting corners in your approach style.
What Eton Mess said earlier makes sense. Meet somewhere neutral first; genuine real people won't mind at all. Then decide from there. |
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This is my view, the way I see them.
TIME WASTERS
No intention to meet
with lies and deceit
I'll waste your time not mine,
a promise made
a game to be played
I have no personal pride.
I'll make you believe
but I'm out to deceive
as I leave you high and dry,
It's part of the game
feeling no shame
don't ask the reason why.
To get my thrill i'm online still
my pleasure is to take up your time,
I'll name a day but stay away
I'm so clever to fuck with your mind.
There are many like me
it's plain to see
living out lonely lives,
pathetic lost souls
we're young and we're old
spinning a web of lies.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This is my view, the way I see them.
TIME WASTERS
No intention to meet
with lies and deceit
I'll waste your time not mine,
a promise made
a game to be played
I have no personal pride.
I'll make you believe
but I'm out to deceive
as I leave you high and dry,
It's part of the game
feeling no shame
don't ask the reason why.
To get my thrill i'm online still
my pleasure is to take up your time,
I'll name a day but stay away
I'm so clever to fuck with your mind.
There are many like me
it's plain to see
living out lonely lives,
pathetic lost souls
we're young and we're old
spinning a web of lies.
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Bumping 
I like to think I am pretty good at figuring out the timewasters because there are tell tell signs. They all do things in common and after a while become predictable. Last time I was here I never had a let down and I always turned up for an arranged meet/social. This time 1 or 2 have slipped through in communication. Just phishing for information, but not gone further to discuss meeting so minor.
Having said that even though I am a single guy on here I restrict myself to the point I don't attract the politics/drama side of things.
It's all about good times and looking forward to arranging my first meet in 2019. |
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By *l6789Man
over a year ago
croydon |
Hmm I feel for you op, I started talking to a girl here Earlier this week we have agreed to meet tonight. We swapped numbers and continued flirting on WhatsApp, only for her to stop responding yesterday and now after I’ve arranged a sitter booked a hotel as she could not accommodate. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Hmm I feel for you op, I started talking to a girl here Earlier this week we have agreed to meet tonight. We swapped numbers and continued flirting on WhatsApp, only for her to stop responding yesterday and now after I’ve arranged a sitter booked a hotel as she could not accommodate."
Did you actually speak to her or just message?
Otherwise he might have made other plans with someone else.
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but I do have meets at the end.
