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over a year ago
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You’re going over to someone’s house for a meet. Sex is 100% happening. You start in the bedroom and get too it right away.
Do you notice their bedding?
I once changed my bedding and wasn’t planning any meets so put on old an Harry Potter duvet set. A few hours later my fuck buddy said he was coming over, so I quickly changed the bedding thinking it would put him off!!!
I would imagine you notice mess in a room, dirtiness etc. But would you really be paying that much attention to bedding? |
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By *tatMan
over a year ago
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Depends the first thing I'd notice is the smell: is it clean? Does have her scent? Etc. And that may put me off.
Colors, patterns etc I would probably barely notice 'till the end but still wouldn't care |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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I met a guy who, after a social, stopped at a shop on the way to his for the first time to buy new bedding for us. I then had to help put it on when we got there
I've only had one guy over to mine and I made sure the bedding was perfect, he probably didn't notice, but I would've been conscious of it if it wasn't spot on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I met a guy who, after a social, stopped at a shop on the way to his for the first time to buy new bedding for us. I then had to help put it on when we got there
I've only had one guy over to mine and I made sure the bedding was perfect, he probably didn't notice, but I would've been conscious of it if it wasn't spot on. "
Did he pick good bedding?
And that’s my point! He most likely didn’t notice and when he left I just took the duvet set off, shoved it in the wash and put the HP one back on. But still!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But on the flip side...if I was going to a guys house, I’d probably be nervous and pick up on everything around me. So I’d definitely clock what his duvet set looks like. Hmmmm |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I notice most things in a room when I first walk into it because I am a naturally nosey person. "
I’m pretty nosey too. My fuck buddy isnt - we had an agreement that when we met I was to be either on my knees waiting, or playing on the bed. So....I don’t think he would have noticed |
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This is not about a fab meet but it is about bedding...and sex...
A few years back I had had 4 dates with a guy. He knew I was a petrol-head and he was aswell. So the fifth date was "stay over" date.
I arrived and he seemed very excited to show me his room. He grabbed my arm and ran upstairs.
He had purchased especially for me a Ford Mustang duvet set! I was gob-smacked as that is my fave car! It's the little things like that sometimes. He had thought of me and my interests and listened. He definitely got laid that night! We went out for about 4 months. Nice guy. |
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over a year ago
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"This is not about a fab meet but it is about bedding...and sex...
A few years back I had had 4 dates with a guy. He knew I was a petrol-head and he was aswell. So the fifth date was "stay over" date.
I arrived and he seemed very excited to show me his room. He grabbed my arm and ran upstairs.
He had purchased especially for me a Ford Mustang duvet set! I was gob-smacked as that is my fave car! It's the little things like that sometimes. He had thought of me and my interests and listened. He definitely got laid that night! We went out for about 4 months. Nice guy. "
Awww that’s so sweet!! What a total babe |
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"I've only got one quilt cover, it's kind of pinkish with a few Chinese patterns on it. Like it or lump it
Any pics of that duvet? I’ve been looking for that design for ages "
Err sorry, ma camera seems to have temporarily malfunctioned, it's probably best if you come round and check it out for yourself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If it's posh, silky bedding I feel bad about sweating it up.
Saying that, my bedding is silver/grey shiny material that feels like raw silk and I still fuck on top of it with my LTP.
I prefer if a bed is stripped usually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You’re going over to someone’s house for a meet. Sex is 100% happening. You start in the bedroom and get too it right away.
Do you notice their bedding?
I once changed my bedding and wasn’t planning any meets so put on old an Harry Potter duvet set. A few hours later my fuck buddy said he was coming over, so I quickly changed the bedding thinking it would put him off!!!
I would imagine you notice mess in a room, dirtiness etc. But would you really be paying that much attention to bedding? "
I probably would have made some sarcastic joke about Harry Potter but that's about it
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"I've only got one quilt cover, it's kind of pinkish with a few Chinese patterns on it. Like it or lump it
Any pics of that duvet? I’ve been looking for that design for ages
Err sorry, ma camera seems to have temporarily malfunctioned, it's probably best if you come round and check it out for yourself "
Your destination cannot be located....sav says ‘no’.
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I always notice, because I'm inherently nosy about people's choices in their surroundings, epecially if a man's duvet cover looks like a throwback from a previous relationship! Most amusing. That said, I have dinosaur bedding, so not really one to comment on the sophisticated side of furnishings haha. |
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"I've only got one quilt cover, it's kind of pinkish with a few Chinese patterns on it. Like it or lump it
Any pics of that duvet? I’ve been looking for that design for ages
Err sorry, ma camera seems to have temporarily malfunctioned, it's probably best if you come round and check it out for yourself
Your destination cannot be located....sav says ‘no’.
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Get a new sav then Missus |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't say I would really notice, my attention would be focused on the person I was meeting.
Having said that, if I have had someone back to mine, I did make sure the bedding was fresh on
Most of mine is Egyptian cotton as I personally love the feel |
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"You’re going over to someone’s house for a meet. Sex is 100% happening. You start in the bedroom and get too it right away.
Do you notice their bedding?
I once changed my bedding and wasn’t planning any meets so put on old an Harry Potter duvet set. A few hours later my fuck buddy said he was coming over, so I quickly changed the bedding thinking it would put him off!!!
I would imagine you notice mess in a room, dirtiness etc. But would you really be paying that much attention to bedding? "
I would. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You’re going over to someone’s house for a meet. Sex is 100% happening. You start in the bedroom and get too it right away.
Do you notice their bedding?
I once changed my bedding and wasn’t planning any meets so put on old an Harry Potter duvet set. A few hours later my fuck buddy said he was coming over, so I quickly changed the bedding thinking it would put him off!!!
I would imagine you notice mess in a room, dirtiness etc. But would you really be paying that much attention to bedding? "
My attention would be completely on them, we could do it anywhere, on anything, and all I would be thinking would be how to make it the best time ever... |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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I definitely notice. Clean bedding is a must if I am entertaining. I started to fall out with an ex gf after the honeymoon period and when I went round to see her (it was a hell of a drive as I had moved) she had stopped bothering to make an effort. Bed wasn't made, it was dirty (dog slept in the bed when I wasn't there). Then she kicked off when I complained about it..
I can't get my head around not getting into a made bed. Or is that just me being weird? |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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I've got a spare room with a double bed, and just kept a fuscia fitted sheet on the mattress - no quilt or pillows (I store those in the wardrobe for when family might stay over).
I stopped using the spare room when I did up my living room.
I bought a fabulous faux leather couch from Dwell that converts very easily to a double bed. Wioe-clean, too.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as the room doesn't smell, the type of sheets on the bed won't bother me. Especially if I've got my arms around a beautiful woman and we've started kissing. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"I met a guy who, after a social, stopped at a shop on the way to his for the first time to buy new bedding for us. I then had to help put it on when we got there
I've only had one guy over to mine and I made sure the bedding was perfect, he probably didn't notice, but I would've been conscious of it if it wasn't spot on.
Did he pick good bedding?
And that’s my point! He most likely didn’t notice and when he left I just took the duvet set off, shoved it in the wash and put the HP one back on. But still!! "
He got me to choose it, I went simple but in retrospect I wish I'd gone for the the most garish, bright, floral patterned one they had |
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"Went to a meet few years ago .walked into the bedroom .bed all hairs .dog jumping about on it and also had a few white stains mixed in with the dog hairs
..left no explanation "
My dogs aren’t even allowed in my room. God that would put me off |
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over a year ago
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"If you don't have silk bedding I wouldn't even sit on your bed let alone have sex "
My duvet is so thin that when I put the silk set on it just slides and the duvet gets all tangled |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You’re going over to someone’s house for a meet. Sex is 100% happening. You start in the bedroom and get too it right away.
Do you notice their bedding?
I once changed my bedding and wasn’t planning any meets so put on old an Harry Potter duvet set. A few hours later my fuck buddy said he was coming over, so I quickly changed the bedding thinking it would put him off!!!
I would imagine you notice mess in a room, dirtiness etc. But would you really be paying that much attention to bedding? " of course I notice everything and especially in pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im always startled seeing bright white hotel bedding. It all just looks so white.
I would have a subtle nosy about a private house, just because I am nosy |
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"Im always startled seeing bright white hotel bedding. It all just looks so white.
I would have a subtle nosy about a private house, just because I am nosy "
I don’t think that recording video on your phone as you walk into every room and open all the cupboards is very subtle |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im always startled seeing bright white hotel bedding. It all just looks so white.
I would have a subtle nosy about a private house, just because I am nosy
I don’t think that recording video on your phone as you walk into every room and open all the cupboards is very subtle "
A jolly good rummage in a drawers draw is a must |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many pillows is a turn off, where am I going to fit?"
What is it with men and their hatred of pillows and cushions?
They're comfortable!
And they look nice
Just throw them on the floor and you'll fit just fine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im always startled seeing bright white hotel bedding. It all just looks so white.
I would have a subtle nosy about a private house, just because I am nosy
I don’t think that recording video on your phone as you walk into every room and open all the cupboards is very subtle
A jolly good rummage in a drawers draw is a must "
It all depends what you’re looking for! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im always startled seeing bright white hotel bedding. It all just looks so white.
I would have a subtle nosy about a private house, just because I am nosy
I don’t think that recording video on your phone as you walk into every room and open all the cupboards is very subtle
A jolly good rummage in a drawers draw is a must
It all depends what you’re looking for! "
Im a terribly polite house guest really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im always startled seeing bright white hotel bedding. It all just looks so white.
I would have a subtle nosy about a private house, just because I am nosy
I don’t think that recording video on your phone as you walk into every room and open all the cupboards is very subtle
A jolly good rummage in a drawers draw is a must
It all depends what you’re looking for!
Im a terribly polite house guest really "
You are? That’s disappointing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don't have silk bedding I wouldn't even sit on your bed let alone have sex "
I have a 100% goose down duvet, £400
I also can only have high thread count cotton bedding. My pillows are a fortune also. I’m such a bedding snob. |
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"If you don't have silk bedding I wouldn't even sit on your bed let alone have sex
I have a 100% goose down duvet, £400
I also can only have high thread count cotton bedding. My pillows are a fortune also. I’m such a bedding snob. "
I am since experiencing quality hotel bedding. It's all I have now...feels good slipping between those sheets.. |
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"If you don't have silk bedding I wouldn't even sit on your bed let alone have sex
I have a 100% goose down duvet, £400
I also can only have high thread count cotton bedding. My pillows are a fortune also. I’m such a bedding snob.
I am since experiencing quality hotel bedding. It's all I have now...feels good slipping between those sheets.."
I live in hotels every week, it’s why I got addicted. |
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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago
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"You’re going over to someone’s house for a meet. Sex is 100% happening. You start in the bedroom and get too it right away.
Do you notice their bedding?
I once changed my bedding and wasn’t planning any meets so put on old an Harry Potter duvet set. A few hours later my fuck buddy said he was coming over, so I quickly changed the bedding thinking it would put him off!!!
I would imagine you notice mess in a room, dirtiness etc. But would you really be paying that much attention to bedding? "
As I love HP it would not put me off lol.....
plus as long as it’s clean, a bed is a bed haha.
Also I have a dumbledore quote on my wall so I can’t really hide my love of HP haha |
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As long as it is clean, neat and tidy I wouldn't care. Unless I noticed it was super awesome design on it I wouldn't likely even remember what the pattern on it was when I left either.
I always put clean plain bedding on if having someone over mainly as I'm sleeping without a duvet atm and don't want to seem weird for not having one so it gets put on purely to fuck on top of
Does anyone else find they have sex on top of the duvet rather than under it these day? I blame the heat |
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"I met a guy who, after a social, stopped at a shop on the way to his for the first time to buy new bedding for us. I then had to help put it on when we got there
I've only had one guy over to mine and I made sure the bedding was perfect, he probably didn't notice, but I would've been conscious of it if it wasn't spot on. "
Lucky him!!!
But if I may ask... he needed help to change it? Or were both of you in such a hurry you helped him coz you can’t wait any longer? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You’re going over to someone’s house for a meet. Sex is 100% happening. You start in the bedroom and get too it right away.
Do you notice their bedding?
I once changed my bedding and wasn’t planning any meets so put on old an Harry Potter duvet set. A few hours later my fuck buddy said he was coming over, so I quickly changed the bedding thinking it would put him off!!!
I would imagine you notice mess in a room, dirtiness etc. But would you really be paying that much attention to bedding?
As I love HP it would not put me off lol.....
plus as long as it’s clean, a bed is a bed haha.
Also I have a dumbledore quote on my wall so I can’t really hide my love of HP haha"
I have a giant Dumbledore quote above my bed |
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"If it's posh, silky bedding I feel bad about sweating it up.
Saying that, my bedding is silver/grey shiny material that feels like raw silk and I still fuck on top of it with my LTP.
I prefer if a bed is stripped usually."
Stripped, as in down to the dirty mattress ? |
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"You’re going over to someone’s house for a meet. Sex is 100% happening. You start in the bedroom and get too it right away.
Do you notice their bedding?
I once changed my bedding and wasn’t planning any meets so put on old an Harry Potter duvet set. A few hours later my fuck buddy said he was coming over, so I quickly changed the bedding thinking it would put him off!!!
I would imagine you notice mess in a room, dirtiness etc. But would you really be paying that much attention to bedding? "
I wouldn’t necessarily notice the pattern, but I’d notice if they were clean or not! |
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"You’re going over to someone’s house for a meet. Sex is 100% happening. You start in the bedroom and get too it right away.
Do you notice their bedding?
I once changed my bedding and wasn’t planning any meets so put on old an Harry Potter duvet set. A few hours later my fuck buddy said he was coming over, so I quickly changed the bedding thinking it would put him off!!!
I would imagine you notice mess in a room, dirtiness etc. But would you really be paying that much attention to bedding? "
Harry Potter or Dinosaur bedding at mine. I’d hope anyone would find it whimsically endearing |
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"You’re going over to someone’s house for a meet. Sex is 100% happening. You start in the bedroom and get too it right away.
Do you notice their bedding?
I once changed my bedding and wasn’t planning any meets so put on old an Harry Potter duvet set. A few hours later my fuck buddy said he was coming over, so I quickly changed the bedding thinking it would put him off!!!
I would imagine you notice mess in a room, dirtiness etc. But would you really be paying that much attention to bedding? " loving your new pic ma'am |
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As other people have said it's not the type of bedding but cleanliness is a must. If a fella has got out the hoover before you turn up, cleaned the bathroom then he's shown respect as he's made the effort.
Needless to say my fella is due later so the bathrooms is gonna get cleaned |
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I try and tidy my room up beforehand and make sure my beds clean.. if I've not had a chance of its really last minute I just text them and apologise in advance ahah |
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"If it's posh, silky bedding I feel bad about sweating it up.
Saying that, my bedding is silver/grey shiny material that feels like raw silk and I still fuck on top of it with my LTP.
I prefer if a bed is stripped usually.
Stripped, as in down to the dirty mattress ? "
The duvet taken off and preferably a clean mattress. |
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"You’re going over to someone’s house for a meet. Sex is 100% happening. You start in the bedroom and get too it right away.
Do you notice their bedding?
I once changed my bedding and wasn’t planning any meets so put on old an Harry Potter duvet set. A few hours later my fuck buddy said he was coming over, so I quickly changed the bedding thinking it would put him off!!!
I would imagine you notice mess in a room, dirtiness etc. But would you really be paying that much attention to bedding?
loving your new pic ma'am "
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"You’re going over to someone’s house for a meet. Sex is 100% happening. You start in the bedroom and get too it right away.
Do you notice their bedding?
I once changed my bedding and wasn’t planning any meets so put on old an Harry Potter duvet set. A few hours later my fuck buddy said he was coming over, so I quickly changed the bedding thinking it would put him off!!!
I would imagine you notice mess in a room, dirtiness etc. But would you really be paying that much attention to bedding? "
We would have preferred the HP bed sheets to be honest! |
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"I met a guy who, after a social, stopped at a shop on the way to his for the first time to buy new bedding for us. I then had to help put it on when we got there
I've only had one guy over to mine and I made sure the bedding was perfect, he probably didn't notice, but I would've been conscious of it if it wasn't spot on. "
That was very thoughtful of him. Hope you got to see it again? |
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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago
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"Went to a meet few years ago .walked into the bedroom .bed all hairs .dog jumping about on it and also had a few white stains mixed in with the dog hairs
..left no explanation
My dogs aren’t even allowed in my room. God that would put me off"
Having that cold wet nose sniff the back of your balls as you are going for it is very outputting..
And then there are dogs.. |
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"Went to a meet few years ago .walked into the bedroom .bed all hairs .dog jumping about on it and also had a few white stains mixed in with the dog hairs
..left no explanation
My dogs aren’t even allowed in my room. God that would put me off
Having that cold wet nose sniff the back of your balls as you are going for it is very outputting..
And then there are dogs.."
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By (user no longer on site)
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If it moves on to watersports it might be worth considering a change mid session to whatever can be found in the laundry basket.
A dislike a really soft mattress. No purchase..... |
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"i always notice the aesthetic (or lack there of) of my environment"
Me too. Clean and tasteful bedding always enhances the experience for me, though one of my best ever meets had leopard print bedding and a jedi dressing gown lol! |
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