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Soft swap ? What does it mean to you ?
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Just lately we've been in a bit of a dilemma !
Were a soft swing couple ,
For us that means anything except penetration of others
So we're good with kissing , oral , touching etc
So recently we weren't enough for a couple !
Then we're too much for another couple !!
Where do we fit in the scale of playing ?
How should we describe ourselves ?
Does anyone else play this way and have any luck ? |
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"The confusing thing for us is you say safe sex & soft swing please explain this 
Condoms but no penetration. What's not to get?"
Condoms for what? Oral? Coz softswing weve played with never has a condom appeared!! |
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"The confusing thing for us is you say safe sex & soft swing please explain this
Condoms but no penetration. What's not to get?
Condoms for what? Oral? Coz softswing weve played with never has a condom appeared!!"
Even when on a social I put a condom on. You can never be too careful. |
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"The confusing thing for us is you say safe sex & soft swing please explain this
Condoms but no penetration. What's not to get?
Condoms for what? Oral? Coz softswing weve played with never has a condom appeared!!
Even when on a social I put a condom on. You can never be too careful."
Turns out one can other cant so answered question |
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"The confusing thing for us is you say safe sex & soft swing please explain this
Condoms but no penetration. What's not to get?
Condoms for what? Oral? Coz softswing weve played with never has a condom appeared!!
Even when on a social I put a condom on. You can never be too careful."
How do you breathe? |
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"The confusing thing for us is you say safe sex & soft swing please explain this
Condoms but no penetration. What's not to get?
Condoms for what? Oral? Coz softswing weve played with never has a condom appeared!!
Even when on a social I put a condom on. You can never be too careful.
How do you breathe? "
I'm guessing you skipped biology to hang out behind the bike shed |
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"The confusing thing for us is you say safe sex & soft swing please explain this
Condoms but no penetration. What's not to get?
Condoms for what? Oral? Coz softswing weve played with never has a condom appeared!!
Even when on a social I put a condom on. You can never be too careful.
How do you breathe?
I'm guessing you skipped biology to hang out behind the bike shed"
Yep! |
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"Just lately we've been in a bit of a dilemma !
Were a soft swing couple ,
For us that means anything except penetration of others
So we're good with kissing , oral , touching etc
So recently we weren't enough for a couple !
Then we're too much for another couple !!
Where do we fit in the scale of playing ?
How should we describe ourselves ?
Does anyone else play this way and have any luck ? "
We have quite specific scenarios which we explain to anyone we're pretty sure we'll meet. It gives them a chance to say no. |
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I encountered a very soft-swing couple at a club - they had travelled over 300 miles and all they would allow was one part of one of her thighs to be touched. This, of course, was with the back of the hand only.
I'm pretty sure no-one gets any softer swinging than that. |
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Mrs J here. Basically we prefer to only play with others that play safe. When we’ve had MMF in the past we’ve practiced safe sex when pentration happens. With our soft swing we haven’t used protection as no penetration has taken place, We know there’s still risks but we’ve been ok so far |
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