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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you" And then, wonder why they get paid less! | |||
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"Shaving off perfectly good eyebrows and drawing on eyebrows that make them look like Ming The Merciless on a bad day. What things do the opposite sex do that make you, DA FUQ is that about ?! " im a woman and i dont understand that | |||
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"Say crass and/or sexist shit.. and then wonder why I’m not interested?!?! " Your photos are very elegant and alluring, that type of thing ? | |||
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"Shaving off perfectly good eyebrows and drawing on eyebrows that make them look like Ming The Merciless on a bad day. What things do the opposite sex do that make you, DA FUQ is that about ?! im a woman and i dont understand that" Me either! | |||
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"Say crass and/or sexist shit.. and then wonder why I’m not interested?!?! Your photos are very elegant and alluring, that type of thing ?" Smooooooth | |||
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"I have no idea,I rarely take much notice " You’re aware there’s an opposite sex though, right ?! | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you" Its not physical exhaustion its mentally being drained | |||
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"My ex used to constantly nag me about something that needed doing. If I said I'll do something, I'll do it. I don't need reminding every 6 months " When a man says he’s gonna do something, he’ll drag it out for as long as he can, till she’s just about to leave him , then smash the job out in half an hour. | |||
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"Shaving off perfectly good eyebrows and drawing on eyebrows that make them look like Ming The Merciless on a bad day. What things do the opposite sex do that make you, DA FUQ is that about ?! " Who shaves off eyebrows? It’s usually from overplucking in our younger years and now I’ve hardly got any left. They won’t grow back. Had to have semipermanent make up done to get them back a bit. | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you Its not physical exhaustion its mentally being drained " No it's not. And it doesn't warrant a foot rub | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you Its not physical exhaustion its mentally being drained No it's not. And it doesn't warrant a foot rub " How,would u know exactly how someone else is feeling | |||
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"I have no idea,I rarely take much notice You’re aware there’s an opposite sex though, right ?! " Of course,I just know how to lead a quiet life | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you Its not physical exhaustion its mentally being drained No it's not. And it doesn't warrant a foot rub How,would u know exactly how someone else is feeling " Errrggh, here we go | |||
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"Argue passionately about football, and spend ages talking to each other about players trading teams.. and their salaries... Don’t get it? But sometimes it’s entertaining to watch/listen! " Agreed | |||
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"Continue the existence of the shop Lush and it's asthma attack inducing pong as you walk past." | |||
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"Take steroids etc to buff up to attract women...but then have walnut balls, back acne, and an unreliable cock?! " I didn't need steroids for that | |||
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"Argue passionately about football, and spend ages talking to each other about players trading teams.. and their salaries... Don’t get it? But sometimes it’s entertaining to watch/listen! " You try being a builder who doesn’t like football, I have to fake an interest and pretend I know what I’m talking about, any day I think I’ll gonna be rumbled when I just use pasta names and hope ones of the Italian players is called Cannelloni or Linguine. | |||
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"Take steroids etc to buff up to attract women...but then have walnut balls, back acne, and an unreliable cock?! " Oh, you’re really on a roll, did a man upset you recently ? | |||
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"Take steroids etc to buff up to attract women...but then have walnut balls, back acne, and an unreliable cock?! " lol xxx | |||
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"And now I know from bitter experience that all men are pricks." You do sound bitter. | |||
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"Argue passionately about football, and spend ages talking to each other about players trading teams.. and their salaries... Don’t get it? But sometimes it’s entertaining to watch/listen! You try being a builder who doesn’t like football, I have to fake an interest and pretend I know what I’m talking about, any day I think I’ll gonna be rumbled when I just use pasta names and hope ones of the Italian players is called Cannelloni or Linguine. " Silly | |||
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"Take steroids etc to buff up to attract women...but then have walnut balls, back acne, and an unreliable cock?! Oh, you’re really on a roll, did a man upset you recently ? " Nope. I’m just participating I like some men, some of the time.. they can be quite useful | |||
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"Take steroids etc to buff up to attract women...but then have walnut balls, back acne, and an unreliable cock?! Oh, you’re really on a roll, did a man upset you recently ? Nope. I’m just participating I like some men, some of the time.. they can be quite useful " I put up sheds and can reach the top shelf. | |||
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"And now I know from bitter experience that all men are pricks. You do sound bitter. " Really mild actually. | |||
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"Rate themselves much higher than they actually merit!! (Dons tin hat... " A lot certainly do on here. | |||
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"Over-promise and under-deliver. " I make no promises, that way I can’t disappoint anyone. | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 02/08/18 20:07:55]" Oh, must have been good ! | |||
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"Why they need to comment on and admire their morning wod like its the first time theyve ever had an erection" Because those ones are stronger. Although normally it's partially because you need to pee | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you" You've never met a women who has done 12 hour shifts AND been on her feet all day - feel crippled during the next 12 hour shift? | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. " If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you You've never met a women who has done 12 hour shifts AND been on her feet all day - feel crippled during the next 12 hour shift?" Pretty sure women don’t work 12 hour shifts, think it’s against there rights or some shit. | |||
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"Continue the existence of the shop Lush and it's asthma attack inducing pong as you walk past." It's gross | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you You've never met a women who has done 12 hour shifts AND been on her feet all day - feel crippled during the next 12 hour shift?" Sometimes I wish my shifts were only 12 hours long | |||
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"I'd love to know why so many men find it so difficult to tell thd truth to women!? Open and honest isn't really that hard is it? But then a standing prick has no conscience I guess..... " Yep... Knew honesty would be a subject matter in this thread | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you You've never met a women who has done 12 hour shifts AND been on her feet all day - feel crippled during the next 12 hour shift? Pretty sure women don’t work 12 hour shifts, think it’s against there rights or some shit. " Ok i need to check my bits - last look i had a cunt. | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you Its not physical exhaustion its mentally being drained No it's not. And it doesn't warrant a foot rub " In fairness I have both a physical aspect to my job and days where I'm desk bound. Desk bound days leave me feeling crap and knackered!! As for differences? I never understand why some women automatically default to believing they don't appear attractive. | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you You've never met a women who has done 12 hour shifts AND been on her feet all day - feel crippled during the next 12 hour shift? Sometimes I wish my shifts were only 12 hours long " When you're up at 5a.m and home at 9pm, the 12 shift IS longer! | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you You've never met a women who has done 12 hour shifts AND been on her feet all day - feel crippled during the next 12 hour shift? Pretty sure women don’t work 12 hour shifts, think it’s against there rights or some shit. Ok i need to check my bits - last look i had a cunt." I still do | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you You've never met a women who has done 12 hour shifts AND been on her feet all day - feel crippled during the next 12 hour shift? Sometimes I wish my shifts were only 12 hours long When you're up at 5a.m and home at 9pm, the 12 shift IS longer!" I'm well aware. Shall we just agree we both work long shifts and not turn this into a competition? | |||
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"Say crass and/or sexist shit.. and then wonder why I’m not interested?!?! " i thought the same | |||
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"I'd love to know why so many men find it so difficult to tell thd truth to women!? " Because they don't want to ruin their chances of fucking them " Open and honest isn't really that hard is it? But then a standing prick has no conscience I guess..... " | |||
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"I always wonder why men say something to get a rise out if people then behave like the ones that they goaded are mental when they react " | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! " I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. | |||
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"Men are men and women are women- we'll never understand each other. That's what makes it fun." | |||
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"For me women are women and men are men. Been around a lot of human beings in my life to not let it bother me lol Maybe I’m understanding because I’ve got a large family dominated by women. 6 sisters, and 5 aunties. So to me it’s the norm to see most of what is listed" Other way round for me. Im the only girl out of 5. So most men dont annoy me. I like there little quirks. | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do." *Googles Bill Burr* | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr*" You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. | |||
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"I always wonder why men say something to get a rise out if people then behave like the ones that they goaded are mental when they react " Probably insecurities brought on by sexual inadequacy and impotence | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. " He’s ginger, I like him already. | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. " So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough | |||
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"I always wonder why men say something to get a rise out if people then behave like the ones that they goaded are mental when they react Probably insecurities brought on by sexual inadequacy and impotence " Most likely | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love )" Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love )" No......... I have a mirror that tells me exactly how I look........... hence it’s now residing in a skip | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love )" Really, I’m fully aware where I rate ?! | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough" No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. | |||
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"I always wonder why men say something to get a rise out if people then behave like the ones that they goaded are mental when they react Probably insecurities brought on by sexual inadequacy and impotence Most likely " No it is. I know this for a fact | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it." I’ve watched it and found it hard to watch if I’m honest. I just don’t think it was funny. | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha" It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it." He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? " to be honest there is a hell of a lot of women like that as well | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? " You sound like you have a few issues with men ?! | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? " It's fake it till you make it. Otherwise they'd all be sitting under a running shower crying every evening... | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. " I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? to be honest there is a hell of a lot of women like that as well" Theres plenty of Nora Battys thinking they’re Beyoncé on here. | |||
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"I'd love to know why so many men find it so difficult to tell thd truth to women!? Open and honest isn't really that hard is it? But then a standing prick has no conscience I guess..... " Haha true saying! | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. " Full of woman terrified to stand up to bullies | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? " Is being confident in our looks a bad thing? There is literally billion dollar industries because women aren't | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke " Not sure he makes light of it, but comedians should be able to talk about anything, it’s called free speech. If we decided what can and can’t be talked about we’ve had it. | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke " No offence but it sounds like you don't really have a deep, abstract view of what comedy is or why it's important. There's a reason many Jewish comedians do jokes about the holocaust and it's not because they think it was a joke. | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke Not sure he makes light of it, but comedians should be able to talk about anything, it’s called free speech. If we decided what can and can’t be talked about we’ve had it." We'd just be left with knock knock jokes if the victim parade get their way. | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? You sound like you have a few issues with men ?! " That’s the second time you’ve made a comment like that?! And quite a hasty assumption to make. Do you have an issue with me? In response to my statement...It’s an observation. Men tend to be more confident about their looks, women less so. | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. " He’s actually a hero of mine, everyone’s to fucking scared to talk about anything these days. He just cuts through the crap and bullshit. | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke No offence but it sounds like you don't really have a deep, abstract view of what comedy is or why it's important. There's a reason many Jewish comedians do jokes about the holocaust and it's not because they think it was a joke. " I just don’t find it funny, that’s my opinion. Maybe because I’ve had first hand experience and it conditioned me to make feel it was my fault. That’s just my personal view. | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke Not sure he makes light of it, but comedians should be able to talk about anything, it’s called free speech. If we decided what can and can’t be talked about we’ve had it. We'd just be left with knock knock jokes if the victim parade get their way. " Knock knock jokes are offensive to homeless people | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? You sound like you have a few issues with men ?! That’s the second time you’ve made a comment like that?! And quite a hasty assumption to make. Do you have an issue with me? In response to my statement...It’s an observation. Men tend to be more confident about their looks, women less so. " No issue at all. There’s plenty of men with low self esteem and body dysmorphia, I’m not sure men are more confident but a lot are probably passed caring. | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke No offence but it sounds like you don't really have a deep, abstract view of what comedy is or why it's important. There's a reason many Jewish comedians do jokes about the holocaust and it's not because they think it was a joke. I just don’t find it funny, that’s my opinion. Maybe because I’ve had first hand experience and it conditioned me to make feel it was my fault. That’s just my personal view. " There's no comedian that everyone will universally find funny, so the fact that you don't find him funny is fine. But saying that there are subjects you shouldn't do comedy on is what i disagree with you about. | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke Not sure he makes light of it, but comedians should be able to talk about anything, it’s called free speech. If we decided what can and can’t be talked about we’ve had it. We'd just be left with knock knock jokes if the victim parade get their way. Knock knock jokes are offensive to homeless people " Which are disproportionately men so the jokes must also be sexist. | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you You've never met a women who has done 12 hour shifts AND been on her feet all day - feel crippled during the next 12 hour shift? Sometimes I wish my shifts were only 12 hours long When you're up at 5a.m and home at 9pm, the 12 shift IS longer! I'm well aware. Shall we just agree we both work long shifts and not turn this into a competition?" I only have six months of it, then i can change it | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke Not sure he makes light of it, but comedians should be able to talk about anything, it’s called free speech. If we decided what can and can’t be talked about we’ve had it. We'd just be left with knock knock jokes if the victim parade get their way. Knock knock jokes are offensive to homeless people Which are disproportionately men so the jokes must also be sexist. " Oh my god! Knock knock jokes are really bad! | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke No offence but it sounds like you don't really have a deep, abstract view of what comedy is or why it's important. There's a reason many Jewish comedians do jokes about the holocaust and it's not because they think it was a joke. I just don’t find it funny, that’s my opinion. Maybe because I’ve had first hand experience and it conditioned me to make feel it was my fault. That’s just my personal view. " If you couldnt joke about things that some people are going take offence to, then comedians wouldn’t be able to talk about anything. I think it’s good to shine a light on these subjects. | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? to be honest there is a hell of a lot of women like that as well" I don't think it's ever wrong to have confidence in your looks. It's never misplaced. I find the people who constantly seek reassurance about their looks far more difficult to understand. | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? Is being confident in our looks a bad thing? There is literally billion dollar industries because women aren't " Confidence is attractive. And you make a good point. When I hear ladies put themselves down.. I do often question it too.. Truth be told, I think a person’s confidence should spring from who they are rather than what they look like. Can’t choose your face.... | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke No offence but it sounds like you don't really have a deep, abstract view of what comedy is or why it's important. There's a reason many Jewish comedians do jokes about the holocaust and it's not because they think it was a joke. I just don’t find it funny, that’s my opinion. Maybe because I’ve had first hand experience and it conditioned me to make feel it was my fault. That’s just my personal view. There's no comedian that everyone will universally find funny, so the fact that you don't find him funny is fine. But saying that there are subjects you shouldn't do comedy on is what i disagree with you about. " It’s just a bit too close to the bone for me to find lighthearted. Maybe I should lighten up and not take it personal (as I was told by my ex many times) | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? " Spot on | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? to be honest there is a hell of a lot of women like that as well I don't think it's ever wrong to have confidence in your looks. It's never misplaced. I find the people who constantly seek reassurance about their looks far more difficult to understand." It stems from a lack of self confidence | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? to be honest there is a hell of a lot of women like that as well I don't think it's ever wrong to have confidence in your looks. It's never misplaced. I find the people who constantly seek reassurance about their looks far more difficult to understand. It stems from a lack of self confidence" Indeed it does. It seems that the suggestion is that people who don't meet a certain level of attraction shouldn't be confident in their looks. I find that really odd. | |||
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"I actually really like men. " With you this one. There not all bad. X | |||
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"I love men - I totally get them. I think I would have made an awesome man " This is true, you really put your heart and soul into farting | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? Is being confident in our looks a bad thing? There is literally billion dollar industries because women aren't Confidence is attractive. And you make a good point. When I hear ladies put themselves down.. I do often question it too.. Truth be told, I think a person’s confidence should spring from who they are rather than what they look like. Can’t choose your face...." Exactly. I'm more attracted to confidence women then women with a full head of make up. I'd be surprised if most guys didn't think the same way | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke No offence but it sounds like you don't really have a deep, abstract view of what comedy is or why it's important. There's a reason many Jewish comedians do jokes about the holocaust and it's not because they think it was a joke. I just don’t find it funny, that’s my opinion. Maybe because I’ve had first hand experience and it conditioned me to make feel it was my fault. That’s just my personal view. There's no comedian that everyone will universally find funny, so the fact that you don't find him funny is fine. But saying that there are subjects you shouldn't do comedy on is what i disagree with you about. It’s just a bit too close to the bone for me to find lighthearted. Maybe I should lighten up and not take it personal (as I was told by my ex many times) " If you don't want to hear it then that's absolutely fine. I just don't think anyone can start listing subjects that other people aren't allowed to listen to in a comedy set. | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? to be honest there is a hell of a lot of women like that as well I don't think it's ever wrong to have confidence in your looks. It's never misplaced. I find the people who constantly seek reassurance about their looks far more difficult to understand. It stems from a lack of self confidence Indeed it does. It seems that the suggestion is that people who don't meet a certain level of attraction shouldn't be confident in their looks. I find that really odd." It's because confidence comes with a perception of a sense of ego which some people think that people who are less attractive than themselves should have. If you look worse they're dreaming but are confident in themselves. If they look better but are confident they're an arsehole. You can't win in some people's minds. Reality is that the people who judge are usually not very self confident so put others down as a coping mechanism | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? to be honest there is a hell of a lot of women like that as well I don't think it's ever wrong to have confidence in your looks. It's never misplaced. I find the people who constantly seek reassurance about their looks far more difficult to understand. It stems from a lack of self confidence Indeed it does. It seems that the suggestion is that people who don't meet a certain level of attraction shouldn't be confident in their looks. I find that really odd." What i find odd is being told by a profile that the guy is attractive /good looking/ handsome and then get disappointed by their photo. Due to the fact the looks are subjective, i feel there is little point in a person stating their own opinion on their looks. I have informed guys that being told they are attractive leads to an expectation of that. I'd rather not be told and then pleasantly surprised. I know my looks are attractive to some guys but not all, it's called reality. | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke No offence but it sounds like you don't really have a deep, abstract view of what comedy is or why it's important. There's a reason many Jewish comedians do jokes about the holocaust and it's not because they think it was a joke. I just don’t find it funny, that’s my opinion. Maybe because I’ve had first hand experience and it conditioned me to make feel it was my fault. That’s just my personal view. There's no comedian that everyone will universally find funny, so the fact that you don't find him funny is fine. But saying that there are subjects you shouldn't do comedy on is what i disagree with you about. It’s just a bit too close to the bone for me to find lighthearted. Maybe I should lighten up and not take it personal (as I was told by my ex many times) If you don't want to hear it then that's absolutely fine. I just don't think anyone can start listing subjects that other people aren't allowed to listen to in a comedy set. " Nobody has to listen that’s true, I just personally find it offensive. But hey I understand others don’t. | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke No offence but it sounds like you don't really have a deep, abstract view of what comedy is or why it's important. There's a reason many Jewish comedians do jokes about the holocaust and it's not because they think it was a joke. I just don’t find it funny, that’s my opinion. Maybe because I’ve had first hand experience and it conditioned me to make feel it was my fault. That’s just my personal view. There's no comedian that everyone will universally find funny, so the fact that you don't find him funny is fine. But saying that there are subjects you shouldn't do comedy on is what i disagree with you about. It’s just a bit too close to the bone for me to find lighthearted. Maybe I should lighten up and not take it personal (as I was told by my ex many times) If you don't want to hear it then that's absolutely fine. I just don't think anyone can start listing subjects that other people aren't allowed to listen to in a comedy set. Nobody has to listen that’s true, I just personally find it offensive. But hey I understand others don’t. " I think the pursuit of truth requires offending people. But you'd like his wife anyway, she argues with him about a lot of this stuff on a podcast. | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? to be honest there is a hell of a lot of women like that as well I don't think it's ever wrong to have confidence in your looks. It's never misplaced. I find the people who constantly seek reassurance about their looks far more difficult to understand. It stems from a lack of self confidence Indeed it does. It seems that the suggestion is that people who don't meet a certain level of attraction shouldn't be confident in their looks. I find that really odd. What i find odd is being told by a profile that the guy is attractive /good looking/ handsome and then get disappointed by their photo. Due to the fact the looks are subjective, i feel there is little point in a person stating their own opinion on their looks. I have informed guys that being told they are attractive leads to an expectation of that. I'd rather not be told and then pleasantly surprised. I know my looks are attractive to some guys but not all, it's called reality." Confidence springs from being attractive to yourself. | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? to be honest there is a hell of a lot of women like that as well I don't think it's ever wrong to have confidence in your looks. It's never misplaced. I find the people who constantly seek reassurance about their looks far more difficult to understand. It stems from a lack of self confidence Indeed it does. It seems that the suggestion is that people who don't meet a certain level of attraction shouldn't be confident in their looks. I find that really odd. What i find odd is being told by a profile that the guy is attractive /good looking/ handsome and then get disappointed by their photo. Due to the fact the looks are subjective, i feel there is little point in a person stating their own opinion on their looks. I have informed guys that being told they are attractive leads to an expectation of that. I'd rather not be told and then pleasantly surprised. I know my looks are attractive to some guys but not all, it's called reality." this I think everyone knows deep down if they are good looking or not. You know because of how people have reacted to you all your life.....and societal beauty standards for both sexes. Overly modest when you’re attractive, I don’t buy it. Overly cocky when you aren’t, I don’t buy that either... Just be honest, or better still.. let someone judge the attraction for themselves. And maybe your looks aren’t your only u.s.p. | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke No offence but it sounds like you don't really have a deep, abstract view of what comedy is or why it's important. There's a reason many Jewish comedians do jokes about the holocaust and it's not because they think it was a joke. I just don’t find it funny, that’s my opinion. Maybe because I’ve had first hand experience and it conditioned me to make feel it was my fault. That’s just my personal view. If you couldnt joke about things that some people are going take offence to, then comedians wouldn’t be able to talk about anything. I think it’s good to shine a light on these subjects. " I went to a Palestinian medical aid fundraiser recently and the stand up comedians were all from Arab countries or their parents were. They really went for it on the jokes about Muslims. It’s usually what comedians do. | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love )" or to the contrary... skaggy bird..spreads herself across dating sites..but is highlighting her hot young daughter In her profile(sometimes as the avatar of the said womans profile)..now that IS fucked up. | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) or to the contrary... skaggy bird..spreads herself across dating sites..but is highlighting her hot young daughter In her profile(sometimes as the avatar of the said womans profile)..now that IS fucked up." Whoa! That’s pretty weird! | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) or to the contrary... skaggy bird..spreads herself across dating sites..but is highlighting her hot young daughter In her profile(sometimes as the avatar of the said womans profile)..now that IS fucked up." There are studies that prove, on average, men are far more accurate judges of their relative attractiveness than women. | |||
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" I went to a Palestinian medical aid fundraiser recently and the stand up comedians were all from Arab countries or their parents were. They really went for it on the jokes about Muslims. It’s usually what comedians do. " One of the macro goals of comedy is to relieve the pain of bad events by being able to discuss and think about it in an unimposing environment. | |||
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"In general men seem to think they are more attractive than they really are.. (A Mother’s love ) Just cast a lot of self doubt in to people reading this thread now haha It seriously astounds me! Many men have such high opinions of their looks and I’m thinking... wow that’s a lot of confidence! (Misplaced) At best some are just ordinary/plain. I do wonder where it comes from? to be honest there is a hell of a lot of women like that as well I don't think it's ever wrong to have confidence in your looks. It's never misplaced. I find the people who constantly seek reassurance about their looks far more difficult to understand. It stems from a lack of self confidence Indeed it does. It seems that the suggestion is that people who don't meet a certain level of attraction shouldn't be confident in their looks. I find that really odd. What i find odd is being told by a profile that the guy is attractive /good looking/ handsome and then get disappointed by their photo. Due to the fact the looks are subjective, i feel there is little point in a person stating their own opinion on their looks. I have informed guys that being told they are attractive leads to an expectation of that. I'd rather not be told and then pleasantly surprised. I know my looks are attractive to some guys but not all, it's called reality. Confidence springs from being attractive to yourself." Yes, but do you feel the need to tell others? Oh and confidence depends on context. | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke No offence but it sounds like you don't really have a deep, abstract view of what comedy is or why it's important. There's a reason many Jewish comedians do jokes about the holocaust and it's not because they think it was a joke. I just don’t find it funny, that’s my opinion. Maybe because I’ve had first hand experience and it conditioned me to make feel it was my fault. That’s just my personal view. If you couldnt joke about things that some people are going take offence to, then comedians wouldn’t be able to talk about anything. I think it’s good to shine a light on these subjects. I went to a Palestinian medical aid fundraiser recently and the stand up comedians were all from Arab countries or their parents were. They really went for it on the jokes about Muslims. It’s usually what comedians do. " I’m kinda understanding that it’s the norm for certain comedians to make light of certain issues yet it makes me wander about the audience and how they then (some) maybe think it’s totally funny or ok to make light of serious subjects in everyday settings. If so would in a smaller setting if he//she repeated these stand up routines to people if they’d get a round of applause or maybe a look of disgust. It’s ok if your a big stand up comic but it’s not if your bantering down the pub ! | |||
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" I went to a Palestinian medical aid fundraiser recently and the stand up comedians were all from Arab countries or their parents were. They really went for it on the jokes about Muslims. It’s usually what comedians do. One of the macro goals of comedy is to relieve the pain of bad events by being able to discuss and think about it in an unimposing environment. " Environment! My above post was trying to get this across. | |||
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"Ghost u after finally getting their wicked way n say “that was good we must do it again soon!” Pfftt" Very much agree on this one. I have learned to "expect" this now from Men. If I get a second time it's a bonus. To be fair not all here are like that but I have experienced some unfortunately. Did have a 2 month relationship with a lot of sex which was great. Just looking for the longer term now. The search continues... | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke No offence but it sounds like you don't really have a deep, abstract view of what comedy is or why it's important. There's a reason many Jewish comedians do jokes about the holocaust and it's not because they think it was a joke. I just don’t find it funny, that’s my opinion. Maybe because I’ve had first hand experience and it conditioned me to make feel it was my fault. That’s just my personal view. If you couldnt joke about things that some people are going take offence to, then comedians wouldn’t be able to talk about anything. I think it’s good to shine a light on these subjects. I went to a Palestinian medical aid fundraiser recently and the stand up comedians were all from Arab countries or their parents were. They really went for it on the jokes about Muslims. It’s usually what comedians do. I’m kinda understanding that it’s the norm for certain comedians to make light of certain issues yet it makes me wander about the audience and how they then (some) maybe think it’s totally funny or ok to make light of serious subjects in everyday settings. If so would in a smaller setting if he//she repeated these stand up routines to people if they’d get a round of applause or maybe a look of disgust. It’s ok if your a big stand up comic but it’s not if your bantering down the pub !" It's a spectrum. I'm not saying that cracking holocaust jokes in the office is acceptable. I don't necessarily think people should automatically be fired for it but i totally get why it's not professional. But there does need to be a time and a place to question our assumptions and subverting conversational expectations is a great way to do that. | |||
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"When they say that being a parent is the hardest job in the world. As if the hardest job is one you could do in your pyjamas and would let you work from home. If you’re going to use my material probably best not to use it on my thread, use it on a Hot or Not one, I don’t go on them ! I stole that from Bill Burr. Although i totally agree with it. The hardest job in the world, by definition, is not one most people could do. *Googles Bill Burr* You're kidding? You'd love him. He does a great set on domestic violence. So he jokes about domestic violence? It’s not something I found funny when it happened to me funnily enough No, he’s not an idiot he’s very informed, he doesn’t condone it. He dares to make nuanced statements. It's reminds me of what life was like in the 90's, it's so edgy and retro. I just find it a bit crass to make light of domestic violence. It’s not a joke No offence but it sounds like you don't really have a deep, abstract view of what comedy is or why it's important. There's a reason many Jewish comedians do jokes about the holocaust and it's not because they think it was a joke. I just don’t find it funny, that’s my opinion. Maybe because I’ve had first hand experience and it conditioned me to make feel it was my fault. That’s just my personal view. If you couldnt joke about things that some people are going take offence to, then comedians wouldn’t be able to talk about anything. I think it’s good to shine a light on these subjects. I went to a Palestinian medical aid fundraiser recently and the stand up comedians were all from Arab countries or their parents were. They really went for it on the jokes about Muslims. It’s usually what comedians do. I’m kinda understanding that it’s the norm for certain comedians to make light of certain issues yet it makes me wander about the audience and how they then (some) maybe think it’s totally funny or ok to make light of serious subjects in everyday settings. If so would in a smaller setting if he//she repeated these stand up routines to people if they’d get a round of applause or maybe a look of disgust. It’s ok if your a big stand up comic but it’s not if your bantering down the pub ! It's a spectrum. I'm not saying that cracking holocaust jokes in the office is acceptable. I don't necessarily think people should automatically be fired for it but i totally get why it's not professional. But there does need to be a time and a place to question our assumptions and subverting conversational expectations is a great way to do that. " I kinda get what your saying, it’s just playing with my head a little the more I think about it. But I have listened and I’m trying to understand your POV. | |||
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" It's a spectrum. I'm not saying that cracking holocaust jokes in the office is acceptable. I don't necessarily think people should automatically be fired for it but i totally get why it's not professional. But there does need to be a time and a place to question our assumptions and subverting conversational expectations is a great way to do that. I kinda get what your saying, it’s just playing with my head a little the more I think about it. But I have listened and I’m trying to understand your POV. " What I have in common with Bill Burr is that I'm optimistic about wanting to change the views of most ignorant people. I get that there are a hardcore you'll never change, but i think most people are reasonable but can fall into ignorant thought patterns. I'll make a huge assumption and tell you that I think more people confide really ignorant opinions in me, than you, because I'm a man and you're a woman. I hear real racist and real homophobic stuff on a weekly basis. Not "I don't agree with gay marriage" but actual "I think all gays should be executed". You never change those views by shutting down the conversation. | |||
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"Also my husband insists on turning off the sky box every night" That's because ALL sky boxes are shit and unless you turn them off every night, they will need a complete re-boot every week or so. Not good when you sit down to F1 on a sunday afternoon and then miss the first 10 laps because you have had to do a hard re-boot | |||
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"only just relogged back into a website dating thing as it kept being suggested in my emails. I checked the local women...90% appear to have faces like elves or clowns....and that wasnt filters ffs" | |||
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" It's a spectrum. I'm not saying that cracking holocaust jokes in the office is acceptable. I don't necessarily think people should automatically be fired for it but i totally get why it's not professional. But there does need to be a time and a place to question our assumptions and subverting conversational expectations is a great way to do that. I kinda get what your saying, it’s just playing with my head a little the more I think about it. But I have listened and I’m trying to understand your POV. What I have in common with Bill Burr is that I'm optimistic about wanting to change the views of most ignorant people. I get that there are a hardcore you'll never change, but i think most people are reasonable but can fall into ignorant thought patterns. I'll make a huge assumption and tell you that I think more people confide really ignorant opinions in me, than you, because I'm a man and you're a woman. I hear real racist and real homophobic stuff on a weekly basis. Not "I don't agree with gay marriage" but actual "I think all gays should be executed". You never change those views by shutting down the conversation. " | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you And then, wonder why they get paid less!" That's is bloody sexist ! Paid less doing the same roles is unfair ! I don't get the feet rub thing maybe is your personal experience . Get home here from work means more work ! | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you And then, wonder why they get paid less! That's is bloody sexist ! Paid less doing the same roles is unfair ! I don't get the feet rub thing maybe is your personal experience . Get home here from work means more work ! " They say a woman’s work is never done. Maybe that’s why they get paid less ?! | |||
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"I'd love to know why so many men find it so difficult to tell thd truth to women!? Open and honest isn't really that hard is it? But then a standing prick has no conscience I guess..... " "I didn't tell you because I didn't want to upset/anger you" Oh so you hid it....rage! All men do this. Annoying as fuck | |||
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"Lol this casual sexism is really funny lol" Is it casual cause you’ve still got your slippers on ? | |||
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"I'd love to know why so many men find it so difficult to tell thd truth to women!? Open and honest isn't really that hard is it? But then a standing prick has no conscience I guess..... "I didn't tell you because I didn't want to upset/anger you" Oh so you hid it....rage! All men do this. Annoying as fuck " What you don't know doesn't hurt you........ Good philosophy that but you have to maintain it otherwise that's where the problem lies ha | |||
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"Lol this casual sexism is really funny lol Is it casual cause you’ve still got your slippers on ?" My wife didn't bring me my slippers this morning as is her womanly duty. | |||
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"Watch sport on the TV. Not because it's their team, just because! Zzzz!" I don't have or own a TV | |||
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"Watch sport on the TV. Not because it's their team, just because! Zzzz!" GO SPORTS ! | |||
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"Watch sport on the TV. Not because it's their team, just because! Zzzz!I don't have or own a TV " What do you point your furniture at ? | |||
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"Watch sport on the TV. Not because it's their team, just because! Zzzz!" I don't have or own a TV....... Point to the window much better view | |||
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"Sit in an office all day then come home and say "Oh my god, today has been exhausting, I am so tired and really need my feet rubbing" Really? I've been bricklaying for the last 12 hours but yea, I bet them emails really took it out of you And then, wonder why they get paid less! That's is bloody sexist ! Paid less doing the same roles is unfair ! I don't get the feet rub thing maybe is your personal experience . Get home here from work means more work ! They say a woman’s work is never done. Maybe that’s why they get paid less ?!" Well my ex use start with some work and never finished it ! Not all of us has a sited job !My job is always done but is always something else to do . | |||
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"Watch sport on the TV. Not because it's their team, just because! Zzzz!" I don't have or own a TV....... Point to the window much better view .........Oh and a woman's work is never done | |||
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