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Yes it has a lot of downsides we read about them on here all the time.....I’m guilty of finding it hard in the past...
BUT it can be just exactly what you need!!!
Sexy kinky like minded people.. making some great friends and lots of fun!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If it works, its brilliant I imagine.
If it doesn't, it destroys you.
If it’s doing that to you, you need to leave. "
I'd say it does this to a lot of people. Doesn't mean they should quit though |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Hear hear OP!! There's a LOT I wouldn't have experienced if it weren't for Fab and the fact I've made some great friends along the way is an added (and unexpected) bonus.
To anyone that lets Fab destroy them it's because you have let it do so in one way or another - either from taking it far too seriously, from having the wrong expectations or simply letting events spiral out of control |
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By *good-being-badMan
over a year ago
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"Yes it has a lot of downsides we read about them on here all the time.....I’m guilty of finding it hard in the past...
BUT it can be just exactly what you need!!!
Sexy kinky like minded people.. making some great friends and lots of fun!!
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When I find it no longer provides what I'm looking for I take a break or leave ..
It does provide an escape from the norm and that's a fantastic escape. |
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"If it works, its brilliant I imagine.
If it doesn't, it destroys you.
If it’s doing that to you, you need to leave.
I'd say it does this to a lot of people. Doesn't mean they should quit though "
So it’s ok to be utterly destroyed in the hope of getting a shag? |
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This place is great...
The people I now know who I probably wouldn’t have otherwise met...
For those it doesn’t work for, maybe a change of expectation and a different approach would reap the rewards they crave.
Sometimes, a problem is always with ourselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me too. Lots of lovely sexy friends. Some of whom I’ve even met!
I think it’s like most things, the more effort you put in the more you will get out of it. "
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"Yes it has a lot of downsides we read about them on here all the time.....I’m guilty of finding it hard in the past...
BUT it can be just exactly what you need!!!
Sexy kinky like minded people.. making some great friends and lots of fun!!
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I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me too. Lots of lovely sexy friends. Some of whom I’ve even met!
I think it’s like most things, the more effort you put in the more you will get out of it. "
I think interpersonal relationships and sex are the only exception to this, actually. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me too. Lots of lovely sexy friends. Some of whom I’ve even met!
I think it’s like most things, the more effort you put in the more you will get out of it.
I think interpersonal relationships and sex are the only exception to this, actually."
I’d agree with this, putting effort in is important in interpersonal relationships but if at first you don’t succeed do something different. |
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"Yes it has a lot of downsides we read about them on here all the time.....I’m guilty of finding it hard in the past...
BUT it can be just exactly what you need!!!
Sexy kinky like minded people.. making some great friends and lots of fun!!
I agree "
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
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Fab has its ups and downs (pardon the pun) just like any other aspect of our lives. On the whole our life is amazing, we have some amazing times due to fab. When it gets frustrating we know given time it will be amazing again. Positive thinking at all times, negativity breeds negativity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab has its ups and downs (pardon the pun) just like any other aspect of our lives. On the whole our life is amazing, we have some amazing times due to fab. When it gets frustrating we know given time it will be amazing again. Positive thinking at all times, negativity breeds negativity. "
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
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Some People think life will come knocking on the door, you have to go out and live it. All these folk on fab who keep putting a status up saying they are leaving or fab is crap or negative stuff like that we wouldn't dream of meeting as they come across as negative people, we look for positive fun folk |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fab has its ups and downs (pardon the pun) just like any other aspect of our lives. On the whole our life is amazing, we have some amazing times due to fab. When it gets frustrating we know given time it will be amazing again. Positive thinking at all times, negativity breeds negativity. "
Right but that thinking doesn't address a situation where rejection, failure and negative experiences are in the overwhleming majority, do they? |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
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"Fab has its ups and downs (pardon the pun) just like any other aspect of our lives. On the whole our life is amazing, we have some amazing times due to fab. When it gets frustrating we know given time it will be amazing again. Positive thinking at all times, negativity breeds negativity.
Right but that thinking doesn't address a situation where rejection, failure and negative experiences are in the overwhleming majority, do they?"
Yes, it's called life. We have our fair share of rejection over the years, as has everyone. It's learning how to handle rejection and change path or expectation. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Fab has its ups and downs (pardon the pun) just like any other aspect of our lives. On the whole our life is amazing, we have some amazing times due to fab. When it gets frustrating we know given time it will be amazing again. Positive thinking at all times, negativity breeds negativity.
Right but that thinking doesn't address a situation where rejection, failure and negative experiences are in the overwhleming majority, do they?"
Thinking positively on it's own may not - but thinking positively and looking at how you can change things to address the negatives, and adjusting your approach and outlook can however. |
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By * and BCouple
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"Fab has its ups and downs (pardon the pun) just like any other aspect of our lives. On the whole our life is amazing, we have some amazing times due to fab. When it gets frustrating we know given time it will be amazing again. Positive thinking at all times, negativity breeds negativity.
Right but that thinking doesn't address a situation where rejection, failure and negative experiences are in the overwhleming majority, do they?
Thinking positively on it's own may not - but thinking positively and looking at how you can change things to address the negatives, and adjusting your approach and outlook can however."
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"Fab has its ups and downs (pardon the pun) just like any other aspect of our lives. On the whole our life is amazing, we have some amazing times due to fab. When it gets frustrating we know given time it will be amazing again. Positive thinking at all times, negativity breeds negativity.
Right but that thinking doesn't address a situation where rejection, failure and negative experiences are in the overwhleming majority, do they?"
Jesus! I'm 69yo this year and still enjoying Fab, if you aren't then you need to look at your approach I suggest.  |
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