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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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"I'm currently 254 messages into someone I told no to in the 3rd message.
I have no issue talking to him, I just don't want to meet him."
Your messages saying no light up his inbox and lead him to think that no will eventually mean yes.
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over a year ago
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"I'm currently 254 messages into someone I told no to in the 3rd message.
I have no issue talking to him, I just don't want to meet him."
Well if that's your attitude, you won't be getting a 255th ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By *hubaysi OP Woman
over a year ago
Leeds |
"How can one make someone understand the word ‘no’ without blocking them?
Is there any other way Fabsters?
If he has difficulty understanding no, why would you want to continue a dialogue? "
Just thought blocking seems severe that’s all. |
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"How can one make someone understand the word ‘no’ without blocking them?
Is there any other way Fabsters?
If he has difficulty understanding no, why would you want to continue a dialogue?
Just thought blocking seems severe that’s all. "
Nah. Saves your time, saves his. Blocking does you both a favour. Like a reverse hotlist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm currently 254 messages into someone I told no to in the 3rd message.
I have no issue talking to him, I just don't want to meet him.
Well if that's your attitude, you won't be getting a 255th "
god loves a trier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can one make someone understand the word ‘no’ without blocking them?
Is there any other way Fabsters?
If he has difficulty understanding no, why would you want to continue a dialogue?
Just thought blocking seems severe that’s all. "
Could just ignore their messages! |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"How can one make someone understand the word ‘no’ without blocking them?
Is there any other way Fabsters?
If he has difficulty understanding no, why would you want to continue a dialogue?
Just thought blocking seems severe that’s all. "
It's not in my opinion
If they can't understand a no,they are not very respectful.
I block early if they don't get the message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can one make someone understand the word ‘no’ without blocking them?
Is there any other way Fabsters?
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"I'm sorry we're not compatible. I won't be replying again as I don't waste people's time. Hope you find someone nice. x"
If he replies again just delete. If he gets abusive report to Admin.
I pretty much never block. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We blocked one guy who we see on the school run because he didnt understand no.
He turned up at my work and said I needn't be shy we're all adults, unblock him, blah blah blah.
It seems even a block isn't enough for some! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If he doesn't listen to a no in a message, will he listen to a no in person? Doubt it.
Blocking saves you both hassle, time and energy anyway.
Block the bad ones, message the good ones! |
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"We blocked one guy who we see on the school run because he didnt understand no.
He turned up at my work and said I needn't be shy we're all adults, unblock him, blah blah blah.
It seems even a block isn't enough for some! "
Time to go ninja on that creep!
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