"That's twice I've had negative comments from you, no wonder people leave xx
How was that negative??  "
You basically told her to leave the site! You wouldn't like it if someone did the same to you! |
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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago
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"That's twice I've had negative comments from you, no wonder people leave xx
How was that negative??
You basically told her to leave the site! You wouldn't like it if someone did the same to you! "
I think it was pretty obvious it was a joke though! |
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"That's twice I've had negative comments from you, no wonder people leave xx
How was that negative??
Would you say it was a positive comment? Neutral perhaps?"
If she hadn't already made a negative comment to me on another thread then maybe xx I think people should realise how their comments made in jest or not can upset some people and make them not want to use the forums as they are made to feel like an outsider xx |
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"That's twice I've had negative comments from you, no wonder people leave xx
I think it was a joke
Yours might be too but it’s very dry if it is. "
Those jokes only really work if you talk to the person regularly and they know you're joking.
Saying that, the lots of smilies is supposed to denote that it's meant in jest. |
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"That's twice I've had negative comments from you, no wonder people leave xx
How was that negative??
You basically told her to leave the site! You wouldn't like it if someone did the same to you!
I think it was pretty obvious it was a joke though!"
Obviously not. Don't really want to hijack the thread about estella though.
I hope estella is OK. If anyone is in touch with her in real life please let her know we are thinking of her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's twice I've had negative comments from you, no wonder people leave xx
I think it was a joke
Yours might be too but it’s very dry if it is.
Those jokes only really work if you talk to the person regularly and they know you're joking.
Saying that, the lots of smilies is supposed to denote that it's meant in jest."
Or to take the sting out of a barbed comment which isn't my idea of funny |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's twice I've had negative comments from you, no wonder people leave xx
How was that negative??
Would you say it was a positive comment? Neutral perhaps?
If she hadn't already made a negative comment to me on another thread then maybe xx I think people should realise how their comments made in jest or not can upset some people and make them not want to use the forums as they are made to feel like an outsider xx"
Have a free, no obligation hug.
On Estella, she posted a face pic as an avatar, which surprised me but she is a deep thinker... |
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"That's twice I've had negative comments from you, no wonder people leave xx
How was that negative??
You basically told her to leave the site! You wouldn't like it if someone did the same to you!
I think it was pretty obvious it was a joke though!"
I think the green smilies make it obvious it’s a joke (or Is that a rule I’ve conjoured up in my own head?)
Yellow smiley - I’m being sincere Green smiley - I’m saying this as a joke |
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"That's twice I've had negative comments from you, no wonder people leave xx
I think it was a joke
Yours might be too but it’s very dry if it is.
Those jokes only really work if you talk to the person regularly and they know you're joking.
Saying that, the lots of smilies is supposed to denote that it's meant in jest.
Or to take the sting out of a barbed comment which isn't my idea of funny"
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"That's twice I've had negative comments from you, no wonder people leave xx
How was that negative??
Would you say it was a positive comment? Neutral perhaps?
If she hadn't already made a negative comment to me on another thread then maybe xx I think people should realise how their comments made in jest or not can upset some people and make them not want to use the forums as they are made to feel like an outsider xx
Have a free, no obligation hug.
On Estella, she posted a face pic as an avatar, which surprised me but she is a deep thinker..."
She often has a face pic as an avatar |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's twice I've had negative comments from you, no wonder people leave xx
How was that negative??
Would you say it was a positive comment? Neutral perhaps?
If she hadn't already made a negative comment to me on another thread then maybe xx I think people should realise how their comments made in jest or not can upset some people and make them not want to use the forums as they are made to feel like an outsider xx
Have a free, no obligation hug.
On Estella, she posted a face pic as an avatar, which surprised me but she is a deep thinker...
She often has a face pic as an avatar "
Must be me then. I've only ever seen her smiley one... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's twice I've had negative comments from you, no wonder people leave xx
I think it was a joke
Yours might be too but it’s very dry if it is.
Those jokes only really work if you talk to the person regularly and they know you're joking.
Saying that, the lots of smilies is supposed to denote that it's meant in jest.
Or to take the sting out of a barbed comment which isn't my idea of funny"
True. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That's twice I've had negative comments from you, no wonder people leave xx
How was that negative??
You basically told her to leave the site! You wouldn't like it if someone did the same to you!
I think it was pretty obvious it was a joke though!"
Thank you ... It was ... Hence the stream of  s |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hope I get this much attention when I leave xx"
I think a lot of people leave because they aren't getting the right sort of attention in the first place, or they take to heart too much.
Our biggest problem is our perception of what this place should be, instead of just taking it for what it is? Fingers crossed she and everyone who has lows on here bounces back. It's not always the healthiest place to be when flat. |
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By *isa 59Woman
over a year ago
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I was saddened when I logged on this morning to find that Estella had gone unlos. I can only hope that she's keeping well and that she graces us with her company again in the not too distant future. |
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