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The ones ... that get away
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve been on and off here for ( cough cough ) years
During my time there’s only been one person that I’d consider to be ‘ the one that got away ‘
We chatted after meeting in the forums , got close to meeting but life got in the way and I disappeared without a word. I did get back in touch with him but it was too late .... violins please
Am I alone ??   |
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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago
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"No Definately not.
I thought it was just me messaging people and then they disappear of fab.
Am I really that bad 
Yes - it’s you "
Well at least I know now 
If there's anyone you would like removing from fab let me know and I'll start messaging them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No Definately not.
I thought it was just me messaging people and then they disappear of fab.
Am I really that bad
Yes - it’s you
Well at least I know now
If there's anyone you would like removing from fab let me know and I'll start messaging them "
I’ll get my list |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had a female half of a couple I used to need for cuckold fun then they split, she went off the scene but still wonder what fun we could have had if she remained in here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had a female half of a couple I used to need for cuckold fun then they split, she went off the scene but still wonder what fun we could have had if she remained in here."
It’s a beautiful memory |
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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago
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"No Definately not.
I thought it was just me messaging people and then they disappear of fab.
Am I really that bad
Yes - it’s you
Well at least I know now
If there's anyone you would like removing from fab let me know and I'll start messaging them
I’ll get my list "
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Only one but not from the swinger world.
Many years ago before I met Mrs H I was working in Spain with a lovely girl who became a very close (but non sexual) friend.
She had decided to go back to the UK and we had said our goodbyes and I fully expected never to see or hear from her again.
We lived around an hour from each other and I was back at my place and had fallen asleep watching TV.
The next morning I checked my phone and there was a text message from her saying that she would like to spend her last night in Spain with me.
I immediately tried to phone her but too late. She was on an early morning flight and her Spanish mobile was never switched on again.
But hey ho. If I had seen the message and driven to her place (which I certainly would have) then things could have been very different and maybe I wouldn't have met Mrs H. So it was probably for the best.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Only one but not from the swinger world.
Many years ago before I met Mrs H I was working in Spain with a lovely girl who became a very close (but non sexual) friend.
She had decided to go back to the UK and we had said our goodbyes and I fully expected never to see or hear from her again.
We lived around an hour from each other and I was back at my place and had fallen asleep watching TV.
The next morning I checked my phone and there was a text message from her saying that she would like to spend her last night in Spain with me.
I immediately tried to phone her but too late. She was on an early morning flight and her Spanish mobile was never switched on again.
But hey ho. If I had seen the message and driven to her place (which I certainly would have) then things could have been very different and maybe I wouldn't have met Mrs H. So it was probably for the best.
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Perfect example of everything happening for a reason |
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Have a fab friend whose time is precious and lives a little bit away despite all our best intentions, one or other of is never available.
Even the one very quick dalliance we have managed was compromised by biology!
I am ever hopeful that a full proper meet up will happen. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have a fab friend whose time is precious and lives a little bit away despite all our best intentions, one or other of is never available.
Even the one very quick dalliance we have managed was compromised by biology!
I am ever hopeful that a full proper meet up will happen. "
Stay strong |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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I have two that got away, one was when I was pretty new to all this and his sheer handsomeness intimidated me so much I never plucked up the courage to do anything other than Skype.
The other one was too scared to meet me, I'm still working on that one though, he's not quite got away yet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have two that got away, one was when I was pretty new to all this and his sheer handsomeness intimidated me so much I never plucked up the courage to do anything other than Skype.
The other one was too scared to meet me, I'm still working on that one though, he's not quite got away yet "
So there’s still potential with the second
Funny how we perceive others into being ‘ too handsome ‘ isn’t it |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.
Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.
Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle
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Geography is a peril |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
"There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.
Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle
Geography is a peril "
Yep, it’s made me realise that life is about seizing the moment. You might not get it again. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
There have been a couple of times where things have got as far as discussing meeting (or meeting again) that haven't come to fruition but I don't necessarily see them as "ones that got away" more "ones that weren't meant to be at that moment in time"  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.
Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle
Geography is a peril
Yep, it’s made me realise that life is about seizing the moment. You might not get it again. "
Definitely... seize it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nobody in particular but have been told that I don't come across as keen enough so a few have got away because of that, apparently women want to feel desired or something."
Shocking  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There have been a couple of times where things have got as far as discussing meeting (or meeting again) that haven't come to fruition but I don't necessarily see them as "ones that got away" more "ones that weren't meant to be at that moment in time" "
Good way of putting it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No I can honestly say not.
If they'd been worth me pursuing I would have done,even if I like someone I'm the type that only puts in the effort I receive ."
Two way traffic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nobody in particular but have been told that I don't come across as keen enough so a few have got away because of that, apparently women want to feel desired or something.
Shocking
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
"Nobody in particular but have been told that I don't come across as keen enough so a few have got away because of that, apparently women want to feel desired or something.
Shocking
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I know, you would think they would just be grateful for any attention. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No, not alone. I like to think it happens for a reason if that makes sense? Like you probably wouldn't have actually got along or the sex would have been crap etc. Or just the wrong time. Meh! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t say got away from me... but more people who didn’t want me any longer... 
But hey such is life and you move on... "
You do ... I’m more meaning the ones you just never met |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Nobody in particular but have been told that I don't come across as keen enough so a few have got away because of that, apparently women want to feel desired or something.
Shocking
I know, you would think they would just be grateful for any attention."
Amen brother |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, not alone. I like to think it happens for a reason if that makes sense? Like you probably wouldn't have actually got along or the sex would have been crap etc. Or just the wrong time. Meh!"
Agreed .... ah be still my aching vagina |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wouldn’t say got away from me... but more people who didn’t want me any longer...
But hey such is life and you move on...
You're on my hot list, just saying."
Ahhh look - I’m only fucking Cupid |
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My first meet here left fab a few months ago .. we had a difference of opinion but I’m sure I wasn’t the only difference of opinion he had!
I do miss his company, he was a very charming, handsome guy who I shared some great times with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve been on and off here for ( cough cough ) years
During my time there’s only been one person that I’d consider to be ‘ the one that got away ‘
We chatted after meeting in the forums , got close to meeting but life got in the way and I disappeared without a word. I did get back in touch with him but it was too late .... violins please
Am I alone ?? "
oh yes definitely one but hey what can you do |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My first meet here left fab a few months ago .. we had a difference of opinion but I’m sure I wasn’t the only difference of opinion he had!
I do miss his company, he was a very charming, handsome guy who I shared some great times with. "
Ahh I’m very sure you’ve met others who equal his company?? |
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"I wouldn’t say got away from me... but more people who didn’t want me any longer...
But hey such is life and you move on...
You're on my hot list, just saying.
Ahhh look - I’m only fucking Cupid "
Alas Not... He’s taken! ( His g/f is stunning btw) Mr M might be one of the ones hehe |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I wouldn’t say got away from me... but more people who didn’t want me any longer...
But hey such is life and you move on...
You're on my hot list, just saying.
Ahhh look - I’m only fucking Cupid
Alas Not... He’s taken! ( His g/f is stunning btw) Mr M might be one of the ones hehe "
Ahhhh damn my Cupid’s sat nav |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, I can sometimes be up myself as well.
You use your left hand or right for that doc?
I'm anally retentive so I need to use both hands! "
That must come in handy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps this is a good thread to say that, for me, many of the connections I've had with women on here that haven't yet led to a meet are just that... they're ongoing friendships that may eventually lead to a meet.
If you're reading this and it seems like we connected nicely but that I'm not motivated to meet you or our chat has ended and you live several hours drive away neither are true. I'd love to carry on chatting sporadically from time to time and wait for fate to open a moment in our lives where we might meet, even if only for a social.
The practical reality is that, whilst I'd happily drive that distance to be with you once we've met, I've had such terrible experiences with people not turning up or turning out to be very different in real life that I really can't bring myself to drive massive distances for a first meet. So I wait... for fate to take me your way on business or you mine |
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"My first meet here left fab a few months ago .. we had a difference of opinion but I’m sure I wasn’t the only difference of opinion he had!
I do miss his company, he was a very charming, handsome guy who I shared some great times with.
Ahh I’m very sure you’ve met others who equal his company?? "
Indeed I have |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My first meet here left fab a few months ago .. we had a difference of opinion but I’m sure I wasn’t the only difference of opinion he had!
I do miss his company, he was a very charming, handsome guy who I shared some great times with.
Ahh I’m very sure you’ve met others who equal his company??
Indeed I have "
good |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just one, but that’s probably just real life has got in the way. But probably another one as I’ve not been pushing for a repeat meet not due to non interest but I’m waiting to be asked x  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just one, but that’s probably just real life has got in the way. But probably another one as I’ve not been pushing for a repeat meet not due to non interest but I’m waiting to be asked x "
Maybe he’s waiting for you to ask |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hmmmm....there’s been one person who I would class as this
We met via the forums, he was a popular lad and I think it went to his head a little and all out drama ensued, you can imagine what followed!
Went on a social, had a great time and would have liked more but the timing was never right & then the above kicked in.
Shame ‘cos he was bloody hot  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hmmmm....there’s been one person who I would class as this
We met via the forums, he was a popular lad and I think it went to his head a little and all out drama ensued, you can imagine what followed!
Went on a social, had a great time and would have liked more but the timing was never right & then the above kicked in.
Shame ‘cos he was bloody hot "
Ah a ‘popular ‘ one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just one, but that’s probably just real life has got in the way. But probably another one as I’ve not been pushing for a repeat meet not due to non interest but I’m waiting to be asked x
Maybe he’s waiting for you to ask "
Might be, just waiting for the right moment x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just one, but that’s probably just real life has got in the way. But probably another one as I’ve not been pushing for a repeat meet not due to non interest but I’m waiting to be asked x
Maybe he’s waiting for you to ask
Might be, just waiting for the right moment x "
Don’t wait too long |
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I’ve had a couple of people that when I went unlos I wondered if we would still meet... but so far since I’ve been back it’s looking good!!
Sometimes it’s worth the wait and working around circumstances.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve had a couple of people that when I went unlos I wondered if we would still meet... but so far since I’ve been back it’s looking good!!
Sometimes it’s worth the wait and working around circumstances. "
Definitely.... time waits for no man they say
However , we’re women |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I honestly don't think that I've had any missed opportunities that bother me.
I have had to walk away from someone though and that hurt like hell. That was over 4 years ago and I still think about him every day.
But things in life always happen for a reason and you can't love your life in the past, so I smile at all the memories and I'm living my life to the full and enjoying every moment. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I honestly don't think that I've had any missed opportunities that bother me.
I have had to walk away from someone though and that hurt like hell. That was over 4 years ago and I still think about him every day.
But things in life always happen for a reason and you can't love your life in the past, so I smile at all the memories and I'm living my life to the full and enjoying every moment."
If I had a flag - I’d bloody wave it |
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"I honestly don't think that I've had any missed opportunities that bother me.
I have had to walk away from someone though and that hurt like hell. That was over 4 years ago and I still think about him every day.
But things in life always happen for a reason and you can't love your life in the past, so I smile at all the memories and I'm living my life to the full and enjoying every moment."
^^^^totally agree with this... even when things happen that hurt us... over time you look back and take the good things.. learn to smile about them and move on... sometimes people i think people are only meant to enter our lives for a little while... life is way to short and you need to grab every opportunity you can!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There has been one guy from here I regret never meeting. We got chatting at a time when I was struggling, so I kept putting him off. And now he has left and I do think about him lots because we messaged each other regularly on here.
Ah well. If it’s meant to be and all that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve been on and off here for ( cough cough ) years
During my time there’s only been one person that I’d consider to be ‘ the one that got away ‘
We chatted after meeting in the forums , got close to meeting but life got in the way and I disappeared without a word. I did get back in touch with him but it was too late .... violins please
Am I alone ?? "
No I’ve been there |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ve been on and off here for ( cough cough ) years
During my time there’s only been one person that I’d consider to be ‘ the one that got away ‘
We chatted after meeting in the forums , got close to meeting but life got in the way and I disappeared without a word. I did get back in touch with him but it was too late .... violins please
Am I alone ??
No I’ve been there "
Don’t be sad ... you’re stunning |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.
Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle
Geography is a peril "
totally agree about geography |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have a fab friend whose time is precious and lives a little bit away despite all our best intentions, one or other of is never available.
Even the one very quick dalliance we have managed was compromised by biology!
I am ever hopeful that a full proper meet up will happen. "
Did she turn out to be a lizard and you had only been mesmerised by her tongue? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.
Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle
Geography is a peril totally agree about geography "
It is ... then we should think if it was meant to be , it would happen |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.
Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle
Geography is a peril totally agree about geography
It is ... then we should think if it was meant to be , it would happen "
my motto at the moment |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"There have been lots of women that I’ve chatted too that due to geography and life that I’ve not met.
Also a woman that I did meet a few times that then got pregnant (not mine!) who then withdrew from this lifestyle
Geography is a peril totally agree about geography
It is ... then we should think if it was meant to be , it would happen my motto at the moment "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I honestly don't think that I've had any missed opportunities that bother me.
I have had to walk away from someone though and that hurt like hell. That was over 4 years ago and I still think about him every day.
But things in life always happen for a reason and you can't love your life in the past, so I smile at all the memories and I'm living my life to the full and enjoying every moment.
^^^^totally agree with this... even when things happen that hurt us... over time you look back and take the good things.. learn to smile about them and move on... sometimes people i think people are only meant to enter our lives for a little while... life is way to short and you need to grab every opportunity you can!!! "
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