Social first..... I know this site is about the naughty side of life and living out certain fantasies but I think a nice social is just as important.
I believe that if you meet up first albeit for a coffee, drink or a nice meal then it’s a great way to break the ice and see if you click.
It maybe that you do connect but don’t move onto the next stage until a further meet or you may feel that comfortable, that you know what, let’s do this.
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
Hillside desolate |
I prefer no social, or at the very least a social with the assumption that if all is well it goes further that night. I don't have enough time to meet as often as I'd like never mind factoring in socials as well. I just do my homework beforehand and that's worked well for me so far. Having said that if someone I really like insists, I will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like a social first if meeting someone new, however if I get along with who I meet for a social I don’t see any reason why it cannot continue to sex on that meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always social first for us. We don't mind waiting if we clicked and it takes a while to arrange the following meet.
It eliminates the possibility of awkwardness to turn someone down or being turned down ourselves if it's anything else than social arranged and you realize you don't fancy each other upon seeing each other. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound |
"By the time I get to a meet I am 99% certain that it will get physical. I take my time and make sure there is a connection first.
Club meets are obviously different  "
I prefer a club meet, without commitment or expectation, as you can have a social there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like 1 2 1 socials they jave been funny as fuck so far
You'll meet me, then I'll spoil your good run of funny as fuck  "
Lol will i heck ur a guaranteed laugh ya sausage |
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By *VineMan
over a year ago
The right place |
I like to meet for a drink first with the mutual hope that it will lead to more. I’ve usua got to know someone enough before I meet to have a pretty good idea that we will click.
I have also met directly for sex.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had socials and met for sex..
Because of my circumstances its often easier to do the social first, that way i will know if its worth the effort of a sex meet after.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I'm active then no I don't want a social. I tend to not even know names but then when I'm actively playing I don't play 121.
I do meet and chat to people at clubs I am already attending.
And am actually quite sociable but just don't do pre meet socials |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the beginning I always used to insist on a social 1st or I wouldnt meet.
Soon found that way wasn’t particularly practical as the majority of men I fancied were not local to me.
What I tend to do now is combine the two together with the understanding that no one has to progress any further if the attraction isn’t there or mutual.
So far so good...  |
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