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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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to only ask for attractive people to meet you, read a profile some time ago that asked for only attractive people and thought the people asking it must of had majic mirrors or did I miss the point  |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"to only ask for attractive people to meet you, read a profile some time ago that asked for only attractive people and thought the people asking it must of had majic mirrors or did I miss the point "
i dont get it why would you want to meet people that you didnt find attractive in the first place?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to only ask for attractive people to meet you, read a profile some time ago that asked for only attractive people and thought the people asking it must of had majic mirrors or did I miss the point i dont get it why would you want to meet people that you didnt find attractive in the first place?
I thought wording it like "there has to be an attration" or similar wouldn't seem so shallow  "
Why is it shallow wanting to meet people you are shagging? Its not like you are looking to move in is it. I dont really get it on a swingers site as looks are important. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to only ask for attractive people to meet you, read a profile some time ago that asked for only attractive people and thought the people asking it must of had majic mirrors or did I miss the point i dont get it why would you want to meet people that you didnt find attractive in the first place?
I thought wording it like "there has to be an attration" or similar wouldn't seem so shallow i dont see anything wrong with it tbh....shallow? So what?
Fair point but it's a good talking point "
I dont know if i have it right but are you saying you dont look to meet attractive women? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"to only ask for attractive people to meet you, read a profile some time ago that asked for only attractive people and thought the people asking it must of had majic mirrors or did I miss the point i dont get it why would you want to meet people that you didnt find attractive in the first place?
I thought wording it like "there has to be an attration" or similar wouldn't seem so shallow i dont see anything wrong with it tbh....shallow? So what?
Fair point but it's a good talking point
I dont know if i have it right but are you saying you dont look to meet attractive women?"
No not at all, I was saying if some one said "only attractive people wanted" on their profile would you think yo were attractive enough to message them or would it put you off |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"if wanting good looks i
means being shallow then its the paddling pool for us ...
yes you can get on with peeeps in message, etc but there has to be a physical attraction if you want to shag them"
i totally agree, it may not be what others deem attractive but looks pay a huge part in this swinging malarky |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"if wanting good looks i
means being shallow then its the paddling pool for us ...
yes you can get on with peeeps in message, etc but there has to be a physical attraction if you want to shag themi totally agree, it may not be what others deem attractive but looks pay a huge part in this swinging malarky "
Of course there has to be a physical and sexual attraction to play, thought it would make an interesting debate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to only ask for attractive people to meet you, read a profile some time ago that asked for only attractive people and thought the people asking it must of had majic mirrors or did I miss the point i dont get it why would you want to meet people that you didnt find attractive in the first place?
I thought wording it like "there has to be an attration" or similar wouldn't seem so shallow i dont see anything wrong with it tbh....shallow? So what?
Fair point but it's a good talking point
I dont know if i have it right but are you saying you dont look to meet attractive women?
No not at all, I was saying if some one said "only attractive people wanted" on their profile would you think yo were attractive enough to message them or would it put you off "
If i was a minger it would make me thing twice but im not. Minger men dont read profiles though just send porn stories about fingering licking and it gets so fucking boring.
I do look at some profiles and think what a nob though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if wanting good looks i
means being shallow then its the paddling pool for us ...
yes you can get on with peeeps in message, etc but there has to be a physical attraction if you want to shag them"
I just can't get a gallop on for someone I don't find attractive and neither of us will take one for the team.
I have preferences in a woman - and in a man come to that - but I'd never be crass enough to say outright what they are. Those we like have know we like them without plastering it wherever anyone can judge us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well i don't consider myself ugly ,but just ordinary,so when people say attractive people only ,i never send a message,but that said beauty is in the eye of the beholder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attractive?
Hell yes...
Shallow?
Hell no!!! "
To be attractive is one thing...
To state "Only attractive..." is a personal choice which I dont chose...
We all seek an "attraction"... Which is a totally different matter
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Attractive?
Hell yes...
Shallow?
Hell no!!!
To be attractive is one thing...
To state "Only attractive..." is a personal choice which I dont chose...
We all seek an "attraction"... Which is a totally different matter
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Attractive personality , attractive looks both mean yes to me. Either one missing and move on to the next one. Isn't everyone the same? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The thread doesn't say would you bonk someone you don't find attractive "
No but when you are on about magic mirrors and stuff on others profiles you are asking why people put it. I know some guys look at shagging anything and others don't. Its not really strange for people wanting contact with people who are attractive is it? I always thought swinging was having no strings fun with sexy people who you find attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The thread doesn't say would you bonk someone you don't find attractive
your point being? lol"
 kin ell
If you read a profile and it says attractive people only would you think you were attractive enough to contact them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attractive personality , attractive looks both mean yes to me. Either one missing and move on to the next one. Isn't everyone the same?"
I am...;-)
I just feel that the words quoted from the profile displays a character trait which I find shallow and would prevent my caring about the physical attributes of the author... IMHO |
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If you read a profile and it says attractive people only would you think you were attractive enough to contact them "
if from their pics we found them attractive and genuine (not pics lifted from a porn site) and their profile matched our requiremenst then yes we would message them ,,,
their loss then if they didnt reply lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attractive personality , attractive looks both mean yes to me. Either one missing and move on to the next one. Isn't everyone the same?
I am...;-)
I just feel that the words quoted from the profile displays a character trait which I find shallow and would prevent my caring about the physical attributes of the author... IMHO"
Its no different from people wanting tall guys or thin ladies or shaven people or blondes or black men though is it. Admin even put in an age filter so people could select out but you can do a looks one. Isn't it better to have that on a profile rather than being blocked or told you are too ugly at a later date? I dont see shallow i just see someone being honest in possibly an untactful way but still honest and above all you need honesty in swinging. |
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"to only ask for attractive people to meet you, read a profile some time ago that asked for only attractive people and thought the people asking it must of had majic mirrors or did I miss the point "
Are you complaining that peoples preferences are ruling you out...or saying they are too judgemental whilst saying they are unattractive...lol. either way that's funny. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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impossible to answer that one. we are all attractive in our own way is anyone really out of your league if you find them sexy they might find you sexy. if you find yourself sexy and show it no matter how you look that is the biggest attraction i believe. |
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By *nvyCouple
over a year ago
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If you have to ask yourself if you're attractive enough to reply to them then you're probably not for them. Looks don't mean everything but the way you carry yourself does! If your average looking but have the confidence of brad Pitt and a good way about you it will 9 times out of ten outweigh other areas that u may be lacking.
Saying this I agree with all the other people who say you gotta be attracted to someone in the first place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For most this is fantasy. How people describe themselves or their wants is totally down to them. I'm not ugly and wouldn't have on my profile I'm only seeking attractive people: matinee idol good looks are not a prerequisite for me.
Whilst I wouldn't have it on my profile or not confident about my looks I wouldn't be interested in meeting. I'd also add to the list men that claim to be vwe, soldiers, willing to lick pussy for hours.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i wouldnt label someone a minger thats kinda fcuked up and if it got back to them, could hurt.
ur either attracted to or not attracted to. i hate myself for being so picky sometimes but its just how it is  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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everyones attractive enough to ask only for attractive people, because they mean attractive to them and that could mean anything
The type of guys i would really call my type most wouldnt touch with a barge pole on here lol
the question is.....are you really that arrogant to state you only meet attractive people?
because i wouldnt, it always puts me off when i read such things on profiles
Plus would you reply to a profile that states they only meet attractive people? because im always weary, how do i decide if im good enough for them or not? how do i know if they will like me? how do i know im not going to get a snotty reply back?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every morning I look in the mirror and think god you are 1 handsome son of a bitch.
Then I wipe the steam off of the mirror and think oh well someone as to say it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i get loads of mail from guys describing themselves as attractive, fit males
and sometimes i look at them and think....in whos bloody eyes?!!
attractive means sod all really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know whether people find me attractive
I'd shag ya.
Awww thanks............... "
I'm confused. Why would you thank someone who so charmingly announces "i would shag you" or were you being ironic. I suppose over 90% of the guys on here would "shag" you. Are you grateful to all of us? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know whether people find me attractive
I'd shag ya.
Awww thanks............... I'm confused. Why would you thank someone who so charmingly announces "i would shag you" or were you being ironic. I suppose over 90% of the guys on here would "shag" you. Are you grateful to all of us?"
i think its called humor |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to only ask for attractive people to meet you, read a profile some time ago that asked for only attractive people and thought the people asking it must of had majic mirrors or did I miss the point "
What a funny question!
I hope that anyone wanting to meet me, considers themselves to be attractive, and is attracted to me, otherwise, why would they bother, or why would I? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no problem with people labelling themselves as attractive. I rather like honesty about oneself.
But if the profile reads a certain way I wouldn't respond to it. If a profile states, we are attractive and are looking for similar, then that's ok. If the profile states, we are attractive so ugly mingers or fatties need not message, then I wouldn't respond to them.
This is not because I don't consider myself pretty enough, I am attractive. It is because they are ignorant and feel it is ok to use offensive words to describe others. I feel people who do that have issues themselves or they don't have an extensive vocabulary, and neither of those types are attractive to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"agree, would not be on here surely, otherwise???
why not?
i dont consider myself attractive but im still here
sex isnt only for the beautiful "
don't be daft, attractive is not necessarily beautiful. it's a subjective adjective, just as beautiful is subjective - in the eye of the beholder - or the mind for that matter. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I wouldn't class myself as attractive as I'm not that shallow to think, I am gods gift ! But I also wouldn't say I'm unattractive . But surely lots of factors have to be taken into consideration, yes being reasonably good looking helps for both males and females alike . But surely we are not that shallow that we make assumptions based on just looks alone. I personally like a good personality amongst other things, because once you get over the looks of someone and believe me I have had some very good looking ladies on my arm over the years. But I need more than just looks . I want to be able to hold a conversation as well as shag each others brains out, because if everything is just based on looks and sex it soon fizzles out. Also maybe blokes standards are slightly lower than the ladies or maybe the ladies and couples on here that say they only want to meet attractive people need to look in the mirror ! As some off them are not that hot themselves ! With their sexy this or hot that for a profile name ! When they are blatantly not . In fact some of them are pigs in wigs or bobfoc as we used to say body of bay watch face of crime watch !
Sorry but I guess some people need to look at themselves before they judge others. I for one don't go on looks alone, besides there has to be some one for everybody out there otherwise it would be a sad world . So come on people stop being so shallow and spread the love . X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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for me it has to be a good mix of looks and personality, im sorry but no matter how nice someone is if i dont find them physically attractive im not having sex with them because looks do matter but its not all that i take into account
same as i couldnt have sex with someone i fancied if they have no personality
ive met a few guys who have been very good looking but have been that self centered its just put me right off playing with them
so for me it has to be a good combination of both looks and personality |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Minger here but i always carry me brown paper head bag xx "
We re all shallow, there has to be an attraction, Strangely we all see our flaws, we tend to focus on them as well others might see mine or they may focus on the other features, only way to judge is to message and let them decide if you're upto their idea of attractive... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i dont actually see someone turning down a meet because they dont find them attractive as shallow "
You're not alone: neither do I!
I think some people have not quite grasped the fact they will not appeal to everyone and take umbridge if turned down. Smacks of arrogance to me, and some people need to get over themselves...big time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well im not what you call drop dead gorgeous, but if i can have someone who is, and is nice person, then alls well and good. Funny but usualy when i get message from a man who describes himself as attractive, he usualy isnt. Not to me anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a had few conversations with a lovely person in chat. We spent a lot of time talking about what we did not like about ourselves; weight, face, generally not liking what we see in the mirror.
But we got on so well we laughed so much as we clicked even at silly things. Was that attraction I know it was for me and for my new found friend I hope so.
Yet the strange thing is if we passed each other in the street we might not have had a 2nd glance. This place creates an environment where like minded people want to take a break from life and have a fun. This enable me to find out more about what I find attractive in a person.
So in a way this is a kind a thank you to the site creating this space where we can connect on a less superficial level. |
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"I have a had few conversations with a lovely person in chat. We spent a lot of time talking about what we did not like about ourselves; weight, face, generally not liking what we see in the mirror.
But we got on so well we laughed so much as we clicked even at silly things. Was that attraction I know it was for me and for my new found friend I hope so.
Yet the strange thing is if we passed each other in the street we might not have had a 2nd glance. This place creates an environment where like minded people want to take a break from life and have a fun. This enable me to find out more about what I find attractive in a person.
So in a way this is a kind a thank you to the site creating this space where we can connect on a less superficial level."
Aw that's lovely... but I'm sticking to the hotties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aw that's lovely... but I'm sticking to the hotties. "
Being a hottie that's understandable. The mirror clearly likes you
But we can't all just get by on looks some of us have to rely on wit and charm
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"one persons attraction is anothers minger
+1
Who thinks brad pitt and colin farrell are mingers then? "
seriously
they are nit my type at all and i have offen wondered what all the fussy about brad pitt is same as johnny depp, cant see the attraction |
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"Aw that's lovely... but I'm sticking to the hotties.
Being a hottie that's understandable. The mirror clearly likes you
But we can't all just get by on looks some of us have to rely on wit and charm
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Oi I'm wit and charm personafied |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I believe I am attractive and I can be picky and ask for attractive people.
Call it shallow, call me shallow however looks are the very first thing that draw us to someone. If I'm not attracted to someone in a "I fancy you" sense then it can't and won't go any further. |
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"one persons attraction is anothers minger
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Who thinks brad pitt and colin farrell are mingers then?
seriously
they are nit my type at all and i have offen wondered what all the fussy about brad pitt is same as johnny depp, cant see the attraction "
Oh come on...imagine a list of 30 most attractive men or women. Not one of them will be a minger even if they aren't your personal favourites. Studies have shown that even babies respond differently initially to better looking and let's say those more visually challeged. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"one persons attraction is anothers minger
+1
Who thinks brad pitt and colin farrell are mingers then? "
They are ok, but nothing special, you see better looking men walking down the street. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"one persons attraction is anothers minger
+1
Who thinks brad pitt and colin farrell are mingers then?
seriously
I heard that german men are the best looking men in the world.
they are nit my type at all and i have offen wondered what all the fussy about brad pitt is same as johnny depp, cant see the attraction "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Aw that's lovely... but I'm sticking to the hotties.
Being a hottie that's understandable. The mirror clearly likes you
But we can't all just get by on looks some of us have to rely on wit and charm
Oi I'm wit and charm personafied "
The woman who as it all; should show some charity to those less fortunate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes i think i am for my age.and the amount of messages i get every day with commpliments "
Yes your not unatractive but being a cynic (and a minger) i thought when I read your post "of course you do,guys you dont know want to fuck you so of course you get compliments. And how many who have had compliments then get torrents of abuse when the turn these compliment givers down. Its like the Ms x is fabulous and sexy and dirty and Mr x is a great guy messages. Of course he is. he just let you shag his partner and you would like to do it again. This place needs a reality check I think |
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Define "attractive". Someone can be really good looking but have a horrible personality. That's not attractive. Someone else mite be ok looking,but charismatic and funny. That I would fine attractive.
If someone wants to arrange a meet with "attractive" people only then that's fine cos we all know what we're looking for. But,even tho i can be found attractive by some, i mite not be by others, so if physical attractiveness is the main thing that someone is looking for, i wouldn't reply.
Karen x |
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By *BW38jWoman
over a year ago
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"to only ask for attractive people to meet you, read a profile some time ago that asked for only attractive people and thought the people asking it must of had majic mirrors or did I miss the point "
god no but i still tactfully let folk down gently if they do nothing for me. shame i cant stop some of the very weird men hanging and hovvering when im at chams |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The thread doesn't say would you bonk someone you don't find attractive
your point being? lol
kin ell
If you read a profile and it says attractive people only would you think you were attractive enough to contact them "
No I wouldn't. I got what you meant Kev |
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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago
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Couldn't be arsed to read all the posts but yes I think I'm attractive enough - in fact I'm pretty damn gorgeous and only Brangelina or True Blood/Twilight vamp/were types should EVER message me - mingers - jog on (don't you hate that phrase????)
Before I'm completely obliterated - is there a tongue in cheek emoticon??  |
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"one persons attraction is anothers minger "
+1
Attractiveness is subjective.
Some women say Brad pit is one of the sexiest mean alive. Other women say he does nothing for me.
Soome men say Angelina jolie is one of the sexiest women alive. Some (foolish lol) men say she does nothing for me. |
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"to only ask for attractive people to meet you, read a profile some time ago that asked for only attractive people and thought the people asking it must of had majic mirrors or did I miss the point "
No. I have read some profiles that state things like "NO MINGERS" or "NO FUGLIES". They are often profiles without pictures. You then tend to think wow you must be a model or something. Thenn you see them on cam in a chat room and think pot kettle black. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"if wanting good looks i
means being shallow then its the paddling pool for us ...
yes you can get on with peeeps in message, etc but there has to be a physical attraction if you want to shag them
I just can't get a gallop on for someone I don't find attractive and neither of us will take one for the team.
I have preferences in a woman - and in a man come to that - but I'd never be crass enough to say outright what they are. Those we like have know we like them without plastering it wherever anyone can judge us."
I totally agree (for once haha) with Wishy. Yes we all have our preferences but I too wouldnt be sooo crass as to state it in those terms. When I see a profile and they state that they consider themselves attractive I cringe. I go to their photos and think nah not my cup of tea. The impression that makes on me when I read it, is that they are up their own arses. What one person deems as attractive as someone said is a minger to others. Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to only ask for attractive people to meet you, read a profile some time ago that asked for only attractive people and thought the people asking it must of had majic mirrors or did I miss the point "
I dont bother to reply to those profiles.. if they think im attractive enough they can contact me.. i dont see the point in setting yourself up to fail. in my previous experience most of those people are "peacocks" (look pretty but you cant do much with them) but some are not that way as with all things so don't take it personally its just my experience of people who put those things on their profile. |
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Seems to me from reading the profiles that 'the beautiful pople' seem to want to stick to there own...
Their profiles normally indicate that they are not interested in anyone sporting a few extra pounds..
I guess they can afford to be choosy...while the rest have to make do..and be grateful for what they get..best you normally find that 'the rest' are often the nicest friendly sociable non judgemental types out there..
Its exactly the same in Vanillaville when your single.. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"Seems to me from reading the profiles that 'the beautiful pople' seem to want to stick to there own...
Their profiles normally indicate that they are not interested in anyone sporting a few extra pounds..
I guess they can afford to be choosy...while the rest have to make do..and be grateful for what they get..best you normally find that 'the rest' are often the nicest friendly sociable non judgemental types out there..
Its exactly the same in Vanillaville when your single.."
See i have a major problem with the"make do"bit..why should anyone make do , and are you saying that aesthetically pleasing people arent as nice as those that arent? I disagree...no one should make do at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with you there Camswing"
same here,
But ain't it great when the "pretty people" start to lose their looks and suddenly, when they aren't attractive anymore? |
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"Seems to me from reading the profiles that 'the beautiful pople' seem to want to stick to there own...
Their profiles normally indicate that they are not interested in anyone sporting a few extra pounds..
I guess they can afford to be choosy...while the rest have to make do..and be grateful for what they get..best you normally find that 'the rest' are often the nicest friendly sociable non judgemental types out there..
Its exactly the same in Vanillaville when your single..See i have a major problem with the"make do"bit..why should anyone make do , and are you saying that aesthetically pleasing people arent as nice as those that arent? I disagree...no one should make do at all "
Your dead right Femme...but as a very ordinary looking bloke I always knew full well it was a waste of time trying to pull an absolute stunner in a club...she just wouldnt be interested..she could afford to say no (if she said anything at all)
The same goes for the female equivalent of me..sitting their waiting for someone to move in when the Barry white comes on...she knows in the heart of hearts that theres no way the best looking bloke in the club is going make a move on her..he doesnt have to..he knows that there is a stunner at the bar waiting for him.
Yeh its wrong, totally, its sad..but its life..we have to make do with the best we can get, thats why (with a few exceptions) you will see gorgeous women with gorgeous blokes..average men with average women and the rest of us...with, the rest of us..
Personally I think swingers are very non judgmental..lovely people, but have a look how well people are matched in a club.. |
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Personally I think swingers are very non judgmental..lovely people, but have a look how well people are matched in a club.."
Swingers non judgemental? Your having a laugh! Look at the BBW, Bareback, cheating threads for starters on here! Deffo no better than the general public and possible worse! |
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"Seems to me from reading the profiles that 'the beautiful pople' seem to want to stick to there own...
Their profiles normally indicate that they are not interested in anyone sporting a few extra pounds..
I guess they can afford to be choosy...while the rest have to make do..and be grateful for what they get..best you normally find that 'the rest' are often the nicest friendly sociable non judgemental types out there..
Its exactly the same in Vanillaville when your single..See i have a major problem with the"make do"bit..why should anyone make do , and are you saying that aesthetically pleasing people arent as nice as those that arent? I disagree...no one should make do at all
Your dead right Femme...but as a very ordinary looking bloke I always knew full well it was a waste of time trying to pull an absolute stunner in a club...she just wouldnt be interested..she could afford to say no (if she said anything at all)
The same goes for the female equivalent of me..sitting their waiting for someone to move in when the Barry white comes on...she knows in the heart of hearts that theres no way the best looking bloke in the club is going make a move on her..he doesnt have to..he knows that there is a stunner at the bar waiting for him.
Yeh its wrong, totally, its sad..but its life..we have to make do with the best we can get, thats why (with a few exceptions) you will see gorgeous women with gorgeous blokes..average men with average women and the rest of us...with, the rest of us..
Personally I think swingers are very non judgmental..lovely people, but have a look how well people are matched in a club.."
I couldn't disagree more.
Since I started swinging my confidence has grown as a woman, and last Vanilla night I had out, I walked into a pub, eyed up the best looking man in there and pulled him.
And by God he was dull!!
Lesson learned, for me.
Oh and what about that song, "Is she really going out with him?
Is she really gonna take him home tonight?" Seems its not just me that thinks that attractiveness is about confidence and self assurance, rather than your looks on a 1-10 scale. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"Define "attractive". Someone can be really good looking but have a horrible personality. That's not attractive. Someone else mite be ok looking,but charismatic and funny. That I would fine attractive.
If someone wants to arrange a meet with "attractive" people only then that's fine cos we all know what we're looking for. But,even tho i can be found attractive by some, i mite not be by others, so if physical attractiveness is the main thing that someone is looking for, i wouldn't reply.
Karen x"
Agrees with the above.
Tend to avoid profiles where they describe themselves to be drop dead gorgeous or stunning or another one is fit as fuck.
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"I think its fair to say that my best years are behind me. My photos are recent, I haven't lied on my profile.
I love older men "
Wish I did might get a few more meets. |
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I would say people who dont want BBW's is more of a preference thing..Bareback back, common sense thing...and regarding cheating..a moral thing...nothing to do with being judgemental...
It doesnt mean they will shag anyone.. |
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