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Non swingers etiquette

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I’m off to a wedding tomorrow (yes an actual non swinging event) and I was just considering things. Often at weddings, singles are placed at tables together and knowing my friends I will be gently pushed towards other eligible singles.

Normally I don’t consider the idea of fun with non swingers as I feel it can complicate things and has the potential for messiness.

I’m wondering though what other people’s opinions are? Would you just enjoy the moment and if the opportunity arose go with it, or would you think twice about sleeping with someone who’s attitude towards sex differed from your own?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on how they showed their attitude.

I wouldn't fuck anyone from a wedding as some people have no idea about privacy and discretion.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If it's just a one night stand then there shouldn't be an issue.

You never know, you might find the one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Take condoms with you just in case x

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’d flirt and tease and lead on and go home alone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go with the flow, who knows what my occur

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Go, have fun, and if you get lucky...

Result!

(play safe, kids!)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sometimes people can learn new things and broaden their views and opinions by talking to people who have different ones to them.

But also remember your chances of pulling at a wedding are heavily dependent on your ability to look sexy when dancing.

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By *andybeachWoman over a year ago

In the middle

I would probably go and have a natter and a dance, maybe a flirt or two then come home allone, it is less complicated then having to explain to someone why you might have spent the night with one of their friends with no intention of further contact, we understand how it can work, not everyone else does

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm too old to pull at a wedding now but it used to be an easy way to have dinner, dancing and sex with no complications.

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