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"Women are no better. " Why is nobody honest anymore | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore " Are you saying women don't cheat? | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore " I've been asking that question since my divorce 17 years on I'm still no wiser | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore " We both find your pictures very attractive. | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore We both find your pictures very attractive." And that, ladies and gentlemen, wins the non sequitur of the day award! 
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore " I am. 100%! I absolutely have to be or my Wife wouldn't like it. Total openness at all times. She has my logon and browses what I've been up to and she always tells me about any fun she has had or is hoping to have. | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore Are you saying women don't cheat?" Um, no.. she isn’t..  | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore We both find your pictures very attractive. And that, ladies and gentlemen, wins the non sequitur of the day award!
Honestly? "Thanks, is there a prize ? Honesty’s the best policy  | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore Are you saying women don't cheat?" Nonif you read the thread it was in reply to women being the same.. the question was a general one.. hence the use of ‘anybody’ | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore We both find your pictures very attractive." Ha thank you   | |||
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"It's not that their married that means that they don't quit. Some men, and I'm sure women, don't desist if they think that it's worth another go. Just block and forget them. " This ^^ | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal "You mean the ones sneaking behind their wives back? I agree. Each to their own and all but I couldn’t knowingly meet a married person who was cheating on their other half. I just don’t agree with it. And when you politely say no thanks they say something like “She will never know, it’ll be our secret” which makes it worse! | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore " It's a website for sexually related activities. People will lie. If you're bothered by people who are married then you really will have to do a lot of homework before you meet people as there is no guaranteed way of knowing. | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore " You’re meeting strangers off the internet, why are you surprised? | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore It's a website for sexually related activities. People will lie. If you're bothered by people who are married then you really will have to do a lot of homework before you meet people as there is no guaranteed way of knowing." I’m not adverse to that | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore You’re meeting strangers off the internet, why are you surprised?" Because I’m honest, and by default, a little naive | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore I've been asking that question since my divorce 17 years on I'm still no wiser" I don’t think any of us ever will be | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore We both find your pictures very attractive. And that, ladies and gentlemen, wins the non sequitur of the day award!
Honestly? "ha ha that’s a good one! Ha | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore We both find your pictures very attractive. And that, ladies and gentlemen, wins the non sequitur of the day award!
Honestly? ha ha that’s a good one! Ha "The Police is here | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore It's a website for sexually related activities. People will lie. If you're bothered by people who are married then you really will have to do a lot of homework before you meet people as there is no guaranteed way of knowing. I’m not adverse to that " I think there are ways you can root out the bad liars. Things like being able to accommodate. Being able to see you at the weekend. Being emotionally available. They're not infallible indicators. But they can help. After that though you're just left with the truly single and the devilishly good liars.  I guess it's a bit of a dangerous cocktail. I suppose that's why it's down to us guys who are genuinely single to go that extra mile somehow in putting women at ease that we're not devilish liars. Dunno | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore It's a website for sexually related activities. People will lie. If you're bothered by people who are married then you really will have to do a lot of homework before you meet people as there is no guaranteed way of knowing." There really isn't. The *widower* I met is a case in point. | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore We both find your pictures very attractive. And that, ladies and gentlemen, wins the non sequitur of the day award!
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Thanks, is there a prize ?
Honesty’s the best policy "Don't worry I did exactly the same thing to the op on another thread She does look lovely doesn't she... as do you guys  | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal "I'm pretty sure the poor wife does too | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore It's a website for sexually related activities. People will lie. If you're bothered by people who are married then you really will have to do a lot of homework before you meet people as there is no guaranteed way of knowing." Sometimes there is, I’ve got it on my profile so youn choose to hate me up front | |||
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"I’m married "so you are ma'am | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore It's a website for sexually related activities. People will lie. If you're bothered by people who are married then you really will have to do a lot of homework before you meet people as there is no guaranteed way of knowing. Sometimes there is, I’ve got it on my profile so youn choose to hate me up front "I know single men who pretend to be attached to avoid attachments forming. | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore It's a website for sexually related activities. People will lie. If you're bothered by people who are married then you really will have to do a lot of homework before you meet people as there is no guaranteed way of knowing. I’m not adverse to that I think there are ways you can root out the bad liars. Things like being able to accommodate. Being able to see you at the weekend. Being emotionally available. They're not infallible indicators. But they can help. After that though you're just left with the truly single and the devilishly good liars. I guess it's a bit of a dangerous cocktail. I suppose that's why it's down to us guys who are genuinely single to go that extra mile somehow in putting women at ease that we're not devilish liars. Dunno "That’s exactly what a good liar would say... hmmm Oh bugger so was that! Shit! | |||
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"I find a married Lady a HUGE turn on! " I must agree with you there | |||
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"I find a married Lady a HUGE turn on! " It appears a lot of men do. It's why they are treated differently, on here, to married men. | |||
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"I find a married Lady a HUGE turn on! It appears a lot of men do. It's why they are treated differently, on here, to married men. " It's a shame really, inequality | |||
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"I find a married Lady a HUGE turn on! It appears a lot of men do. It's why they are treated differently, on here, to married men. It's a shame really, inequality " Man made. | |||
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"I find a married Lady a HUGE turn on! It appears a lot of men do. It's why they are treated differently, on here, to married men. It's a shame really, inequality Man made. " Man made? or Human? | |||
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"I find a married Lady a HUGE turn on! It appears a lot of men do. It's why they are treated differently, on here, to married men. It's a shame really, inequality Man made. Man made? or Human?" The inequality of married women on here being seen as a huge turn on by men and, therefore, treated differently to married women is just human? I don't see many women putting them on pedestals and being turned on by them. | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal "Faf? | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
Faf? "Will no one take this utterly ravishing woman seriously?
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"I find a married Lady a HUGE turn on! It appears a lot of men do. It's why they are treated differently, on here, to married men. It's a shame really, inequality Man made. Man made? or Human? The inequality of married women on here being seen as a huge turn on by men and, therefore, treated differently to married women is just human? I don't see many women putting them on pedestals and being turned on by them. " I do see women putting men down though? that makes each just as bad as the other in my eyes | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
Faf? "Are you married? | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
Faf?
Will no one take this utterly ravishing woman seriously?
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. " So today, the guy id been talking to for about a week asked me to add him on instagram.. I like this shit, I like to know people are real.. Then he went ‘you my see shit on there tho, like my bird’ Ffs | |||
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"There's an interesting thing about honesty in here. Lot of women have on their profile ' married and he doesn't know ' and they have plenty if verifications. However when me state they are married it seems to be harder to get meets. Just an observation not a judgement. Im single by the way OP !!! "Is that the truth tho? | |||
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"I find a married Lady a HUGE turn on! It appears a lot of men do. It's why they are treated differently, on here, to married men. It's a shame really, inequality Man made. Man made? or Human? The inequality of married women on here being seen as a huge turn on by men and, therefore, treated differently to married women is just human? I don't see many women putting them on pedestals and being turned on by them. I do see women putting men down though? that makes each just as bad as the other in my eyes" I agree on that point but your response what to my comment on your post that you find married women a HUGE turn on. The man made is purely about that. | |||
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"I find a married Lady a HUGE turn on! It appears a lot of men do. It's why they are treated differently, on here, to married men. It's a shame really, inequality Man made. Man made? or Human? The inequality of married women on here being seen as a huge turn on by men and, therefore, treated differently to married women is just human? I don't see many women putting them on pedestals and being turned on by them. I do see women putting men down though? that makes each just as bad as the other in my eyes I agree on that point but your response what to my comment on your post that you find married women a HUGE turn on. The man made is purely about that. " Ok I understand | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. " | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
Faf?
Will no one take this utterly ravishing woman seriously?
It would appear not
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore " What you don't know doesn't hurt you | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore What you don't know doesn't hurt you " Yeah that’s true.. But when it’s disclosed and they still expect the same outcome that I’m talking about | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore What you don't know doesn't hurt you " But it can potentially hurt someone else, if they were to find out. The woman is the slut making it with hubby... Even when they had no idea. It's completely wrong to me. People have the right to decide if they want to enable cheating or not | |||
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"Husbands and wives cheat in the real world too, it’s not confined to Fab. You could walk in to a bar and meet a guy and know nothing about him apart from what he chooses to tell you. It’s personal choice who you meet on here and what you disclose. " | |||
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"I’m going to play devils advocate here..... Ladies if you meet a guy online that ticks all the right boxes... Handsome, smart , successful , caring, and funny..... Would you expect him to be totally single?" Already have | |||
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"I’m going to play devils advocate here..... Ladies if you meet a guy online that ticks all the right boxes... Handsome, smart , successful , caring, and funny..... Would you expect him to be totally single?" By that line of thinking, I take it you’re very single | |||
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"I’m going to play devils advocate here..... Ladies if you meet a guy online that ticks all the right boxes... Handsome, smart , successful , caring, and funny..... Would you expect him to be totally single? By that line of thinking, I take it you’re very single " | |||
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"I’m going to play devils advocate here..... Ladies if you meet a guy online that ticks all the right boxes... Handsome, smart , successful , caring, and funny..... Would you expect him to be totally single?" Some are and have been. It’s only on fab that I’ve come across more deceitful people than anywhere else. I met my ex husband online and the guy before him, they ticked the boxes and were totally single. | |||
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"I’m going to play devils advocate here..... Ladies if you meet a guy online that ticks all the right boxes... Handsome, smart , successful , caring, and funny..... Would you expect him to be totally single?" Maybe not though lots of men like being single. | |||
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"I’m going to play devils advocate here..... Ladies if you meet a guy online that ticks all the right boxes... Handsome, smart , successful , caring, and funny..... Would you expect him to be totally single? By that line of thinking, I take it you’re very single "I like you..... | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore What you don't know doesn't hurt you "  | |||
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"I’m married so you are ma'am " | |||
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"I’m going to play devils advocate here..... Ladies if you meet a guy online that ticks all the right boxes... Handsome, smart , successful , caring, and funny..... Would you expect him to be totally single? Some are and have been. It’s only on fab that I’ve come across more deceitful people than anywhere else. I met my ex husband online and the guy before him, they ticked the boxes and were totally single." Ok great..... that means you stood out to these guys and something good happened.... My experience with female friends that do online dating is that all the great guys they meet always are married or attracted in some way..... I just advise them to enjoy the ride until it’s over. But still date other people until you find the person you want.... This is a swinging site.... most people come here for sex. Try to get the sex you want and if something more happens it’s a bonus.... if people have less expectations they will not be disappointed.... | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore It's a website for sexually related activities. People will lie. If you're bothered by people who are married then you really will have to do a lot of homework before you meet people as there is no guaranteed way of knowing." Some married guys say as much on their profile, well I do anyway. I’m bisexual and she doesn’t like it. So getting that itch scratched elsewhere is tolerated so long as it’s drama free, no one comes to our home and I stay safe at all times. Agree there are many of both sexes sneaking around behind partners backs. Persistent contact with someone who has ignored or deleted your message isn’t going to make them change their mind. Forget it, them and move on. | |||
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"I’m going to play devils advocate here..... Ladies if you meet a guy online that ticks all the right boxes... Handsome, smart , successful , caring, and funny..... Would you expect him to be totally single? Some are and have been. It’s only on fab that I’ve come across more deceitful people than anywhere else. I met my ex husband online and the guy before him, they ticked the boxes and were totally single. Ok great..... that means you stood out to these guys and something good happened.... My experience with female friends that do online dating is that all the great guys they meet always are married or attracted in some way..... I just advise them to enjoy the ride until it’s over. But still date other people until you find the person you want.... This is a swinging site.... most people come here for sex. Try to get the sex you want and if something more happens it’s a bonus.... if people have less expectations they will not be disappointed...." Exactly, I use this the same way I use other sites. I want a swinging partner but with a regular everyday relationship. If I find it here then great but I tend to find guys into most things on normal dating sites. Just harder these days to find a good match. I like younger guys but don’t want kids. That’s the biggest hurdle I’m finding. | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal "What kind of relationship were you after with him? How much of it would be in public? If he'd been single, his personality (to you) etc would be exactly the same. | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
What kind of relationship were you after with him? How much of it would be in public?
If he'd been single, his personality (to you) etc would be exactly the same."Not the point though is it? | |||
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" Why is nobody honest anymore " Honestly? I don't know | |||
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"I’m going to play devils advocate here..... Ladies if you meet a guy online that ticks all the right boxes... Handsome, smart , successful , caring, and funny..... Would you expect him to be totally single? Some are and have been. It’s only on fab that I’ve come across more deceitful people than anywhere else. I met my ex husband online and the guy before him, they ticked the boxes and were totally single. Ok great..... that means you stood out to these guys and something good happened.... My experience with female friends that do online dating is that all the great guys they meet always are married or attracted in some way..... I just advise them to enjoy the ride until it’s over. But still date other people until you find the person you want.... This is a swinging site.... most people come here for sex. Try to get the sex you want and if something more happens it’s a bonus.... if people have less expectations they will not be disappointed.... Exactly, I use this the same way I use other sites. I want a swinging partner but with a regular everyday relationship. If I find it here then great but I tend to find guys into most things on normal dating sites. Just harder these days to find a good match. I like younger guys but don’t want kids. That’s the biggest hurdle I’m finding. " That’s my problem also when dating..... I don’t want children or marriage for another 5-6 years and most women 35 and above don’t want to hear it.... | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. So today, the guy id been talking to for about a week asked me to add him on instagram.. I like this shit, I like to know people are real.. Then he went ‘you my see shit on there tho, like my bird’ Ffs" I had similar recently. ...to be boggled with pictures of his (stunning btw) girlfriend and their NEW born baby hahahah. I can only put these people down, as having a slipped disk of the brain  block/block and I don't waste much longer trying to figure out odd humans. | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. So today, the guy id been talking to for about a week asked me to add him on instagram.. I like this shit, I like to know people are real.. Then he went ‘you my see shit on there tho, like my bird’ Ffs I had similar recently. ...to be boggled with pictures of his (stunning btw) girlfriend and their NEW born baby hahahah. I can only put these people down, as having a slipped disk of the brain block/block and I don't waste much longer trying to figure out odd humans."I had been meeting with a man a few times and when I had gotten out of hospital last year I wouldn’t meet him as I was unwell. He eventually said ‘my wife’s moody, I don’t need you being moody too!’ Eh, what wife? | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. So today, the guy id been talking to for about a week asked me to add him on instagram.. I like this shit, I like to know people are real.. Then he went ‘you my see shit on there tho, like my bird’ Ffs I had similar recently. ...to be boggled with pictures of his (stunning btw) girlfriend and their NEW born baby hahahah. I can only put these people down, as having a slipped disk of the brain block/block and I don't waste much longer trying to figure out odd humans.
I had been meeting with a man a few times and when I had gotten out of hospital last year I wouldn’t meet him as I was unwell. He eventually said ‘my wife’s moody, I don’t need you being moody too!’ Eh, what wife? "Hahaha crazy tales of the fab world. ...When I found out a guy had a wife, when he opened his laptop with a picture of them both on the screen this was after many many meets. ...When I confronted him (naked in a jacuzzi, so he couldn't flea) he replied "don't worry we won't name the baby after you!". Some people just have no shame. They want their cake and a doughnut on the dick as well . | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
What kind of relationship were you after with him? How much of it would be in public?
If he'd been single, his personality (to you) etc would be exactly the same."Well at the point in question I had no idea. And had he not disclosed it then I’d have been none the wiser.. but once he’d told me he saw nothing wrong with us just carrying on... | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore " I was completely open about it when I first joined, even posted a thread trying to explain my situation but apart from a private supporting message from a rather nice lady, which I'll never forget, was pretty much ripped apart, so I can understand why someone isn't open. S Now my situation is different I'm not going to be hypocritical about those who are married on here, judge everyone individually I say. | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. So today, the guy id been talking to for about a week asked me to add him on instagram.. I like this shit, I like to know people are real.. Then he went ‘you my see shit on there tho, like my bird’ Ffs I had similar recently. ...to be boggled with pictures of his (stunning btw) girlfriend and their NEW born baby hahahah. I can only put these people down, as having a slipped disk of the brain block/block and I don't waste much longer trying to figure out odd humans.
I had been meeting with a man a few times and when I had gotten out of hospital last year I wouldn’t meet him as I was unwell. He eventually said ‘my wife’s moody, I don’t need you being moody too!’ Eh, what wife?
Hahaha crazy tales of the fab world. ...When I found out a guy had a wife, when he opened his laptop with a picture of them both on the screen this was after many many meets. ...When I confronted him (naked in a jacuzzi, so he couldn't flea) he replied "don't worry we won't name the baby after you!". Some people just have no shame. They want their cake and a doughnut on the dick as well ."Oh my lord
I was meeting with someone I actually knew for years before fab...knew he used to be married and he had kids. Was very open about the fact that cheating ended his marriage. We met a few times, and guess what? His girlfriend is due their baby next month he told me this in his car, an hour drive away from my house. Fun car journey home! | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. " I don't know why people try to make out they're single, when they're not. It is a complete waste of time. Better to be upfront about it from the start | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. So today, the guy id been talking to for about a week asked me to add him on instagram.. I like this shit, I like to know people are real.. Then he went ‘you my see shit on there tho, like my bird’ Ffs I had similar recently. ...to be boggled with pictures of his (stunning btw) girlfriend and their NEW born baby hahahah. I can only put these people down, as having a slipped disk of the brain block/block and I don't waste much longer trying to figure out odd humans.
I had been meeting with a man a few times and when I had gotten out of hospital last year I wouldn’t meet him as I was unwell. He eventually said ‘my wife’s moody, I don’t need you being moody too!’ Eh, what wife?
Hahaha crazy tales of the fab world. ...When I found out a guy had a wife, when he opened his laptop with a picture of them both on the screen this was after many many meets. ...When I confronted him (naked in a jacuzzi, so he couldn't flea) he replied "don't worry we won't name the baby after you!". Some people just have no shame. They want their cake and a doughnut on the dick as well .
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I was meeting with someone I actually knew for years before fab...knew he used to be married and he had kids. Was very open about the fact that cheating ended his marriage. We met a few times, and guess what? His girlfriend is due their baby next month he told me this in his car, an hour drive away from my house. Fun car journey home!"I just feel for the women and also hope they are doing the same if not more, otherwise poor fools. We can only walk our own path and avoid the dog muck. | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. So today, the guy id been talking to for about a week asked me to add him on instagram.. I like this shit, I like to know people are real.. Then he went ‘you my see shit on there tho, like my bird’ Ffs I had similar recently. ...to be boggled with pictures of his (stunning btw) girlfriend and their NEW born baby hahahah. I can only put these people down, as having a slipped disk of the brain block/block and I don't waste much longer trying to figure out odd humans.
I had been meeting with a man a few times and when I had gotten out of hospital last year I wouldn’t meet him as I was unwell. He eventually said ‘my wife’s moody, I don’t need you being moody too!’ Eh, what wife?
Hahaha crazy tales of the fab world. ...When I found out a guy had a wife, when he opened his laptop with a picture of them both on the screen this was after many many meets. ...When I confronted him (naked in a jacuzzi, so he couldn't flea) he replied "don't worry we won't name the baby after you!". Some people just have no shame. They want their cake and a doughnut on the dick as well .
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I was meeting with someone I actually knew for years before fab...knew he used to be married and he had kids. Was very open about the fact that cheating ended his marriage. We met a few times, and guess what? His girlfriend is due their baby next month he told me this in his car, an hour drive away from my house. Fun car journey home!
I just feel for the women and also hope they are doing the same if not more, otherwise poor fools. We can only walk our own path and avoid the dog muck."Oh turns out his ex wife had warned the new girlfriend exactly how bad it had been and said if she ever needs to chat, she’s there. And he does this? | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. I don't know why people try to make out they're single, when they're not. It is a complete waste of time. Better to be upfront about it from the start "I believe it's because they like the secret, hope to get some sex before being found out, and then hope they have done enough to keep the person happy to still meet them. | |||
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"I’m going to play devils advocate here..... Ladies if you meet a guy online that ticks all the right boxes... Handsome, smart , successful , caring, and funny..... Would you expect him to be totally single?" I must admit that the single guys I have met from Fab have not appealed to me - most of them have been very immature. | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore " because lies get you everything these days | |||
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"From what I hear, dating sights are just the same. Personally I’d be more pissed off meeting someone who was attached on POF thinking I could have a relationship with them than meeting someone for a casual dalliance on here. " you can get a relationship here to the sites ultimately are all the same, this one's just got a more honest title | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. I don't know why people try to make out they're single, when they're not. It is a complete waste of time. Better to be upfront about it from the start
I believe it's because they like the secret, hope to get some sex before being found out, and then hope they have done enough to keep the person happy to still meet them.
"Similar to the woman I met for a social this morning then, who has her age set at 51. Did she really think I would either not notice how much older she actually is, or was she hoping I was one of those guys for whom 'every hole's a goal'? | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. I don't know why people try to make out they're single, when they're not. It is a complete waste of time. Better to be upfront about it from the start
I believe it's because they like the secret, hope to get some sex before being found out, and then hope they have done enough to keep the person happy to still meet them.
Similar to the woman I met for a social this morning then, who has her age set at 51. Did she really think I would either not notice how much older she actually is, or was she hoping I was one of those guys for whom 'every hole's a goal'? "Yes! There used to be one of those down here. The difference was that quite a few men did go on and continued to meet her. It works sometimes, just as it does for the men. | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. I don't know why people try to make out they're single, when they're not. It is a complete waste of time. Better to be upfront about it from the start
I believe it's because they like the secret, hope to get some sex before being found out, and then hope they have done enough to keep the person happy to still meet them.
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. I don't know why people try to make out they're single, when they're not. It is a complete waste of time. Better to be upfront about it from the start
I believe it's because they like the secret, hope to get some sex before being found out, and then hope they have done enough to keep the person happy to still meet them.
Similar to the woman I met for a social this morning then, who has her age set at 51. Did she really think I would either not notice how much older she actually is, or was she hoping I was one of those guys for whom 'every hole's a goal'? "Lol! There was a guy who messaged today telling his true age as I like older guys and his profile was out by 8 years. I’m wondering if he really expected me to meet him when he’s lied about his age! Such a put off! | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. I don't know why people try to make out they're single, when they're not. It is a complete waste of time. Better to be upfront about it from the start
I believe it's because they like the secret, hope to get some sex before being found out, and then hope they have done enough to keep the person happy to still meet them.
Similar to the woman I met for a social this morning then, who has her age set at 51. Did she really think I would either not notice how much older she actually is, or was she hoping I was one of those guys for whom 'every hole's a goal'?
Yes!
There used to be one of those down here. The difference was that quite a few men did go on and continued to meet her. It works sometimes, just as it does for the men.
"Good for them lol! Unfortunately for this lady, my car was parked on a meter, so I didn't have much time to chat, and when I got back online, I blocked her. | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. I don't know why people try to make out they're single, when they're not. It is a complete waste of time. Better to be upfront about it from the start
I believe it's because they like the secret, hope to get some sex before being found out, and then hope they have done enough to keep the person happy to still meet them.
Similar to the woman I met for a social this morning then, who has her age set at 51. Did she really think I would either not notice how much older she actually is, or was she hoping I was one of those guys for whom 'every hole's a goal'?
Lol!
There was a guy who messaged today telling his true age as I like older guys and his profile was out by 8 years. I’m wondering if he really expected me to meet him when he’s lied about his age! Such a put off!"My point entirely; what else have they lied about | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. I don't know why people try to make out they're single, when they're not. It is a complete waste of time. Better to be upfront about it from the start
I believe it's because they like the secret, hope to get some sex before being found out, and then hope they have done enough to keep the person happy to still meet them.
Similar to the woman I met for a social this morning then, who has her age set at 51. Did she really think I would either not notice how much older she actually is, or was she hoping I was one of those guys for whom 'every hole's a goal'?
Lol!
There was a guy who messaged today telling his true age as I like older guys and his profile was out by 8 years. I’m wondering if he really expected me to meet him when he’s lied about his age! Such a put off!
My point entirely; what else have they lied about "This is exactly my thought when I find out. Instant block for me! | |||
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"I don’t find married women more or less attractive but I do like the fact that it’s much more likely to be a NSA relationship " Men arent normally bothered anyhow its not just you. | |||
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. I don't know why people try to make out they're single, when they're not. It is a complete waste of time. Better to be upfront about it from the start
I believe it's because they like the secret, hope to get some sex before being found out, and then hope they have done enough to keep the person happy to still meet them.
In my experience, the two questions I receive the most are;
What kind of lady do you prefer?
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Are you married/attached?
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. I don't know why people try to make out they're single, when they're not. It is a complete waste of time. Better to be upfront about it from the start
I believe it's because they like the secret, hope to get some sex before being found out, and then hope they have done enough to keep the person happy to still meet them.
In my experience, the two questions I receive the most are;
What kind of lady do you prefer?
and;
Are you married/attached?
I don't think I've ever been asked once in all my time here."Maybe you look god like honest | |||
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"From what I hear, dating sights are just the same. Personally I’d be more pissed off meeting someone who was attached on POF thinking I could have a relationship with them than meeting someone for a casual dalliance on here. " Exactly this....
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
What kind of relationship were you after with him? How much of it would be in public?
If he'd been single, his personality (to you) etc would be exactly the same.
Well at the point in question I had no idea. And had he not disclosed it then I’d have been none the wiser.. but once he’d told me he saw nothing wrong with us just carrying on..."So you found someone you liked. He wasn't proposing a long term relationship. You wouldn't be exclusive swingers. If he made you happy, I don't understand what his adultery would have to do with you. You're not cheating. | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
What kind of relationship were you after with him? How much of it would be in public?
If he'd been single, his personality (to you) etc would be exactly the same.
Well at the point in question I had no idea. And had he not disclosed it then I’d have been none the wiser.. but once he’d told me he saw nothing wrong with us just carrying on...
So you found someone you liked. He wasn't proposing a long term relationship. You wouldn't be exclusive swingers. If he made you happy, I don't understand what his adultery would have to do with you. You're not cheating."Some of us couldn’t do that to a poor woman sat at home not knowing what her husband is up to. | |||
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" Some of us couldn’t do that to a poor woman sat at home not knowing what her husband is up to. " Your concern for the husband beater/cheating wife does you good. | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
What kind of relationship were you after with him? How much of it would be in public?
If he'd been single, his personality (to you) etc would be exactly the same.
Well at the point in question I had no idea. And had he not disclosed it then I’d have been none the wiser.. but once he’d told me he saw nothing wrong with us just carrying on...
So you found someone you liked. He wasn't proposing a long term relationship. You wouldn't be exclusive swingers. If he made you happy, I don't understand what his adultery would have to do with you. You're not cheating."And yet, in all likelihood, if/when his adultery is exposed it's the woman who gets blamed. I don't judge why married people are on here. Life is complicated. I chat to married people on the fora, by pm and have met them at socials. All are as bad for the ignorant partner so it would be hypocritical to denounce them. I just ask that they tell me so I can make an informed judgement about meeting them. Angry partners at my door is not what I have signed up for. | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
What kind of relationship were you after with him? How much of it would be in public?
If he'd been single, his personality (to you) etc would be exactly the same.
Well at the point in question I had no idea. And had he not disclosed it then I’d have been none the wiser.. but once he’d told me he saw nothing wrong with us just carrying on...
So you found someone you liked. He wasn't proposing a long term relationship. You wouldn't be exclusive swingers. If he made you happy, I don't understand what his adultery would have to do with you. You're not cheating.
And yet, in all likelihood, if/when his adultery is exposed it's the woman who gets blamed.
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, are totally happy to agree to that.
If you're not willing to be open to potentially having a relationship, whether you're incapable of doing this or you just don't want to, then it's totally within the rights of these women to not want to meet you. You're not in it for the same reason they are. End of story.
You may disagree with this approach, and may even feel it doesn't belong here, but the better approach is simply to seek out women who aren't coming from this angle and genuinely aren't bothered if you're married or not interested in having a relationship.
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"It is mainly men who lie on a sex site mainly because the demographics mean women can say anything and still get sex " Looking forward to the fact based research on this one | |||
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"It is mainly men who lie on a sex site mainly because the demographics mean women can say anything and still get sex Looking forward to the fact based research on this one" ooooooof me to | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
What kind of relationship were you after with him? How much of it would be in public?
If he'd been single, his personality (to you) etc would be exactly the same.
Well at the point in question I had no idea. And had he not disclosed it then I’d have been none the wiser.. but once he’d told me he saw nothing wrong with us just carrying on...
So you found someone you liked. He wasn't proposing a long term relationship. You wouldn't be exclusive swingers. If he made you happy, I don't understand what his adultery would have to do with you. You're not cheating."His adultery isn’t the issue. Nobody was proposing a long term relationship, least of all me. But once I know about a girl and have seen pictures of her, for me, morally, there’s no way I could knowingly continue. I don’t want to be his enabler thanks | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
What kind of relationship were you after with him? How much of it would be in public?
If he'd been single, his personality (to you) etc would be exactly the same.
Well at the point in question I had no idea. And had he not disclosed it then I’d have been none the wiser.. but once he’d told me he saw nothing wrong with us just carrying on...
So you found someone you liked. He wasn't proposing a long term relationship. You wouldn't be exclusive swingers. If he made you happy, I don't understand what his adultery would have to do with you. You're not cheating.
His adultery isn’t the issue. Nobody was proposing a long term relationship, least of all me.
But once I know about a girl and have seen pictures of her, for me, morally, there’s no way I could knowingly continue. I don’t want to be his enabler thanks "That’s perfectly understandable. You mentioned earlier up the thread you were new & a little naive at times, has reading through some of the comments on here enlightened you to what the site can be about? Personally, having seen what some people are capabale of from here, I wouldn’t let random strangers have access to my other social media pages, just be a little careful that’s all. | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
What kind of relationship were you after with him? How much of it would be in public?
If he'd been single, his personality (to you) etc would be exactly the same.
Well at the point in question I had no idea. And had he not disclosed it then I’d have been none the wiser.. but once he’d told me he saw nothing wrong with us just carrying on...
So you found someone you liked. He wasn't proposing a long term relationship. You wouldn't be exclusive swingers. If he made you happy, I don't understand what his adultery would have to do with you. You're not cheating.
His adultery isn’t the issue. Nobody was proposing a long term relationship, least of all me.
But once I know about a girl and have seen pictures of her, for me, morally, there’s no way I could knowingly continue. I don’t want to be his enabler thanks
That’s perfectly understandable.
You mentioned earlier up the thread you were new & a little naive at times, has reading through some of the comments on here enlightened you to what the site can be about?
Personally, having seen what some people are capabale of from here, I wouldn’t let random strangers have access to my other social media pages, just be a little careful that’s all.
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
What kind of relationship were you after with him? How much of it would be in public?
If he'd been single, his personality (to you) etc would be exactly the same.
Well at the point in question I had no idea. And had he not disclosed it then I’d have been none the wiser.. but once he’d told me he saw nothing wrong with us just carrying on...
So you found someone you liked. He wasn't proposing a long term relationship. You wouldn't be exclusive swingers. If he made you happy, I don't understand what his adultery would have to do with you. You're not cheating.
His adultery isn’t the issue. Nobody was proposing a long term relationship, least of all me.
But once I know about a girl and have seen pictures of her, for me, morally, there’s no way I could knowingly continue. I don’t want to be his enabler thanks
That’s perfectly understandable.
You mentioned earlier up the thread you were new & a little naive at times, has reading through some of the comments on here enlightened you to what the site can be about?
Personally, having seen what some people are capabale of from here, I wouldn’t let random strangers have access to my other social media pages, just be a little careful that’s all.
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"As long as they are honest on their profiles, i don't care. It's when they are deceptive and try to pretend that they are not attached/married, that i get pissed off with. I don't know why people try to make out they're single, when they're not. It is a complete waste of time. Better to be upfront about it from the start
I believe it's because they like the secret, hope to get some sex before being found out, and then hope they have done enough to keep the person happy to still meet them.
In my experience, the two questions I receive the most are;
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
What kind of relationship were you after with him? How much of it would be in public?
If he'd been single, his personality (to you) etc would be exactly the same.
Well at the point in question I had no idea. And had he not disclosed it then I’d have been none the wiser.. but once he’d told me he saw nothing wrong with us just carrying on...
So you found someone you liked. He wasn't proposing a long term relationship. You wouldn't be exclusive swingers. If he made you happy, I don't understand what his adultery would have to do with you. You're not cheating.
And yet, in all likelihood, if/when his adultery is exposed it's the woman who gets blamed.
Yes and that is wrong. But isn't that more likely with a "traditional" affair? "Not only. There have been cases of wives finding Fab, seeking out the regular meet and contacting them on here and by phone. | |||
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"Oh no I’m not new.. honest and a little naive, but only because I still refuse to see the world through cynical eyes I’ll givw everyone W the benefit of the doubt because I like to see the good in people " Good on you! I try to be the same. No place for cynicism. It's just a form of self harm | |||
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"Although they wouldn't necessarily admit it, lots of women on Fab are happy to have sex with guys if there's the option that, should they fall in love, it could lead to a relationship. That seems like a perfectly reasonable attitude to me and I, like a small but very sexy minority of guys on here , are totally happy to agree to that.
If you're not willing to be open to potentially having a relationship, whether you're incapable of doing this or you just don't want to, then it's totally within the rights of these women to not want to meet you. You're not in it for the same reason they are. End of story.
You may disagree with this approach, and may even feel it doesn't belong here, but the better approach is simply to seek out women who aren't coming from this angle and genuinely aren't bothered if you're married or not interested in having a relationship.
That's just my take on it. So I could be wrong. But I thought I'd chip in to see if it helped guys get their heads round why they may be looking at this all wrong "Yup, aside from all the moral reasons for not wanting to meet attached men there's that selfish one - no way I want to risk falling for someone attached, I've seen friends waste years on that one! | |||
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"Oh no I’m not new.. honest and a little naive, but only because I still refuse to see the world through cynical eyes I’ll givw everyone W the benefit of the doubt because I like to see the good in people Good on you! I try to be the same. No place for cynicism. It's just a form of self harm "Not sure I agree with that tbh. It’s not necessarily being a cynic treading carefully and not opening yourself up to and / or believing every Tom, Dick & Harry. | |||
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"Oh no I’m not new.. honest and a little naive, but only because I still refuse to see the world through cynical eyes I’ll givw everyone W the benefit of the doubt because I like to see the good in people Good on you! I try to be the same. No place for cynicism. It's just a form of self harm
Not sure I agree with that tbh.
It’s not necessarily being a cynic treading carefully and not opening yourself up to and / or believing every Tom, Dick & Harry, even if Dick has a nice dick. "Better to be wary than sorry. | |||
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"Oh no I’m not new.. honest and a little naive, but only because I still refuse to see the world through cynical eyes I’ll givw everyone W the benefit of the doubt because I like to see the good in people Good on you! I try to be the same. No place for cynicism. It's just a form of self harm
Not sure I agree with that tbh.
It’s not necessarily being a cynic treading carefully and not opening yourself up to and / or believing every Tom, Dick & Harry, even if Dick has a nice dick.
Better to be wary than sorry. "Maybe I was taking the quote out of context. Still in my pre-coffee silk robes bunny slippers and curlers so not quite up to speed over here yet But I try not to see the world through a cynical lens. That's just a general statement. Now where's that cappuccino? | |||
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"Oh no I’m not new.. honest and a little naive, but only because I still refuse to see the world through cynical eyes I’ll givw everyone W the benefit of the doubt because I like to see the good in people Good on you! I try to be the same. No place for cynicism. It's just a form of self harm
Not sure I agree with that tbh.
It’s not necessarily being a cynic treading carefully and not opening yourself up to and / or believing every Tom, Dick & Harry, even if Dick has a nice dick.
Better to be wary than sorry.
Maybe I was taking the quote out of context. Still in my pre-coffee silk robes bunny slippers and curlers so not quite up to speed over here yet But I try not to see the world through a cynical lens. That's just a general statement. Now where's the dick of Dick to put milk in my cappuccino? "Only you know | |||
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"Drama drama drama.... no thanks! ". Pretty much my view | |||
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"Oh no I’m not new.. honest and a little naive, but only because I still refuse to see the world through cynical eyes I’ll givw everyone W the benefit of the doubt because I like to see the good in people Good on you! I try to be the same. No place for cynicism. It's just a form of self harm
Not sure I agree with that tbh.
It’s not necessarily being a cynic treading carefully and not opening yourself up to and / or believing every Tom, Dick & Harry."I’m Not saying I’m not wary.. Choosing to see the good in people until proven otherwise isn’t a bad thing | |||
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"I'm married and i'm playing away from home as stated clearly on my profile (an honest cheat?). If you put on your profile you're not interested in married men then you won't get any interest from me. As far as i'm concerned the more information that's on a profile the better, it saves alot of time." I often think those that are adverse to playing with married people should clearly state that in their profile. However, it won't stop people lying though, but genuine people like yourself would take note and not bother them. | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal
What kind of relationship were you after with him? How much of it would be in public?
If he'd been single, his personality (to you) etc would be exactly the same.
Well at the point in question I had no idea. And had he not disclosed it then I’d have been none the wiser.. but once he’d told me he saw nothing wrong with us just carrying on...
So you found someone you liked. He wasn't proposing a long term relationship. You wouldn't be exclusive swingers. If he made you happy, I don't understand what his adultery would have to do with you. You're not cheating.
And yet, in all likelihood, if/when his adultery is exposed it's the woman who gets blamed.
I don't judge why married people are on here. Life is complicated. I chat to married people on the fora, by pm and have met them at socials. All are as bad for the ignorant partner so it would be hypocritical to denounce them. I just ask that they tell me so I can make an informed judgement about meeting them. Angry partners at my door is not what I have signed up for.
"Exactly this. I do not want to be on the recieving end of the wifes anger or abuse. I’ve seen it happen to someone else and rather than the wife berate her husband for playing away she gave the woman hell for months until she had to report her to the police. I’ll stick to single man thanks. Of course, I don’t know for sure if the men I meet are all single, nobody will. But if I see “Married & playing away” or get a message from a man saying he’s married and he hopes I don’t mind, it’s a no from me. | |||
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"I'm married and i'm playing away from home as stated clearly on my profile (an honest cheat?). If you put on your profile you're not interested in married men then you won't get any interest from me. As far as i'm concerned the more information that's on a profile the better, it saves alot of time." I appreciate the ones who are honest, it's the ones who try and cover it up and lie I can't stand. I don't meet married men and it annoys me when they still message me ,despite having it on my profile. Yes you may never know of someone's playing away,if I'm at all suspicious I don't meet them. | |||
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"Oh no I’m not new.. honest and a little naive, but only because I still refuse to see the world through cynical eyes I’ll givw everyone W the benefit of the doubt because I like to see the good in people Good on you! I try to be the same. No place for cynicism. It's just a form of self harm
Not sure I agree with that tbh.
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"I'm married and i'm playing away from home as stated clearly on my profile (an honest cheat?). If you put on your profile you're not interested in married men then you won't get any interest from me. As far as i'm concerned the more information that's on a profile the better, it saves alot of time. I appreciate the ones who are honest, it's the ones who try and cover it up and lie I can't stand. I don't meet married men and it annoys me when they still message me ,despite having it on my profile. Yes you may never know of someone's playing away,if I'm at all suspicious I don't meet them. " I want to put it on my profile. But I feel like the moment I do that, it will create more liars and those married men who want to meet me will swiftly take the “married” off their profile or not mention. Of course some do that anyway but I think more will if it’s on my profile. I have an age preference and I’ve had messages from people claiming to be older than their profile states, one went as far as to change his age from 25 to 37 in an attempt to meet me but sent his genuine pictures which was just silly as it showed he certainly wasn’t 37. | |||
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"I'm married and i'm playing away from home as stated clearly on my profile (an honest cheat?). If you put on your profile you're not interested in married men then you won't get any interest from me. As far as i'm concerned the more information that's on a profile the better, it saves alot of time. I often think those that are adverse to playing with married people should clearly state that in their profile. However, it won't stop people lying though, but genuine people like yourself would take note and not bother them."I always take note of a woman's stated preferences whatever they are, otherwise it's just a waste of both our time. | |||
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"I'm married and i'm playing away from home as stated clearly on my profile (an honest cheat?). If you put on your profile you're not interested in married men then you won't get any interest from me. As far as i'm concerned the more information that's on a profile the better, it saves alot of time. I appreciate the ones who are honest, it's the ones who try and cover it up and lie I can't stand. I don't meet married men and it annoys me when they still message me ,despite having it on my profile. Yes you may never know of someone's playing away,if I'm at all suspicious I don't meet them. I want to put it on my profile. But I feel like the moment I do that, it will create more liars and those married men who want to meet me will swiftly take the “married” off their profile or not mention. Of course some do that anyway but I think more will if it’s on my profile. I have an age preference and I’ve had messages from people claiming to be older than their profile states, one went as far as to change his age from 25 to 37 in an attempt to meet me but sent his genuine pictures which was just silly as it showed he certainly wasn’t 37. " One of my attached male fab friends blocks all women within his search criteria who list on profile - won’t meet married etc - He maintains it not only saves his time messaging someone who isnt interested it also clears up his local update feed, makes searching easier. So for all those who don’t read, there are some that do... | |||
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"I'm married and i'm playing away from home as stated clearly on my profile (an honest cheat?). If you put on your profile you're not interested in married men then you won't get any interest from me. As far as i'm concerned the more information that's on a profile the better, it saves alot of time." You still want my boobs though don't you.... | |||
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"their inability to know when to quit.. Who cares if I’m married.. I fucking do pal "I agree I’d rather play with single men when lied to it takes my freedom of choice away.... yes women can be just as dishonest | |||
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"I'm married and i'm playing away from home as stated clearly on my profile (an honest cheat?). If you put on your profile you're not interested in married men then you won't get any interest from me. As far as i'm concerned the more information that's on a profile the better, it saves alot of time. You still want my boobs though don't you.... "Not just your boobs Frisky. | |||
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" One of my attached male fab friends blocks all women within his search criteria who list on profile - won’t meet married etc - He maintains it not only saves his time messaging someone who isnt interested it also clears up his local update feed, makes searching easier. So for all those who don’t read, there are some that do... "Yes, even "seekers" don't want to waste their time. The problem comes when they believe they can get you to change your mind. Nothing will stop those. | |||
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" One of my attached male fab friends blocks all women within his search criteria who list on profile - won’t meet married etc - He maintains it not only saves his time messaging someone who isnt interested it also clears up his local update feed, makes searching easier. So for all those who don’t read, there are some that do...
Yes, even "seekers" don't want to waste their time.
The problem comes when they believe they can get you to change your mind. Nothing will stop those."That’s the point, it becomes a challenge.. | |||
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" The problem comes when they believe they can get you to change your mind. Nothing will stop those." there are many who try this and singles you say "no thanks to" | |||
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"I'm single, just saying." So that’s what the T-shirts about is it a bird ? Is it a plane ? No, it’s SINGLE MAN !!! | |||
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"I'm single, just saying. So that’s what the T-shirts about is it a bird ? Is it a plane ? No, it’s SINGLE MAN !!!" love it  | |||
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"I'm single, just saying. So that’s what the T-shirts about is it a bird ? Is it a plane ? No, it’s SINGLE MAN !!!" *flexes biceps* | |||
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" I like younger guys but don’t want kids. That’s the biggest hurdle I’m finding. " Oh hello | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore What you don't know doesn't hurt you " But it hurts others. | |||
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"Women are no better. Why is nobody honest anymore What you don't know doesn't hurt you But it hurts others. " thats the big point. if they never find out thats your conscious but if someone does it can give a whole world of shit but some dont see this | |||
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"I'm married and i'm playing away from home as stated clearly on my profile (an honest cheat?). If you put on your profile you're not interested in married men then you won't get any interest from me. As far as i'm concerned the more information that's on a profile the better, it saves alot of time." Same goes for me; if you state on your profile you’re not interested in married/attached guys playing away, I block you so you don’t clutter up my searches | |||
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