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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?"
A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go |
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"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?
A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go"
Expect the unexpected and you won't go far wrong...most importantly, have fun |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
most fundamental aspects |
Rule number 1. It’s very tempting to have a wee drink to steady the nerves. Then another, then another etc. I’m not saying don’t drink, just that so many first timers don’t realise how much they end up throwing back.
Oh and definitely. Have fun  |
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"Rule number 1. It’s very tempting to have a wee drink to steady the nerves. Then another, then another etc. I’m not saying don’t drink, just that so many first timers don’t realise how much they end up throwing back.
Oh and definitely. Have fun "
From what I heard you took a paddling pool to your first club instead of booze lol |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
most fundamental aspects |
"Rule number 1. It’s very tempting to have a wee drink to steady the nerves. Then another, then another etc. I’m not saying don’t drink, just that so many first timers don’t realise how much they end up throwing back.
Oh and definitely. Have fun
From what I heard you took a paddling pool to your first club instead of booze lol "
Hey it’s a hot tub (or as close to one as I can afford) |
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"Rule number 1. It’s very tempting to have a wee drink to steady the nerves. Then another, then another etc. I’m not saying don’t drink, just that so many first timers don’t realise how much they end up throwing back.
Oh and definitely. Have fun
From what I heard you took a paddling pool to your first club instead of booze lol
Hey it’s a hot tub (or as close to one as I can afford) "
So a paddling pool powered by farts then ahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?
A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go"
At the start we said nooo way to clubs ... then one night on a whim we too thought fuck it  ... it was a great night so we’ve been loads since then. We were really struck by how friendly people were ... party nights are great fun too ... hope you have a great first time! Rules are pretty strict for single men xx |
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"The Zombie Wanking Squad
Be careful not to become one of them as you'll never get laid
^^ she knows! Honestly being part of the wanking dead isn’t good! It can be off putting tbh"
Oh God yes,as a couple it's dreadful being followed around by the ever hopeful single guys.
Would be a nightmare as a single woman. That's why they often go with a bloke as a friend to keep the flies off.
Clubs let them in as they can help balance the books |
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"The Zombie Wanking Squad
Be careful not to become one of them as you'll never get laid
^^ she knows! Honestly being part of the wanking dead isn’t good! It can be off putting tbh
Oh God yes,as a couple it's dreadful being followed around by the ever hopeful single guys.
Would be a nightmare as a single woman. That's why they often go with a bloke as a friend to keep the flies off.
Clubs let them in as they can help balance the books"
I went to a local club last night for the cinema and there was literally one guy who made us feel uncomfortable so we waited till he left |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My tuppence worth..
I have only been to Eurekas so dont know about other places. I have been with a female friend and alone. As part of a couple everybody is much friendlier to you and when there as a couple we are there to play.
When iam there as a single guy i just want to relax and chill but iam fully aware of the zombie wanking squad roaming around.it does make me chuckle though when they see a couple walk through the woods to the lower field and the single guys all follow in drabs hoping.
Please god dont become a zombie !
Enjoy the experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady 
Jelous
Jealousy has no place in swinging mate."
Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady
Jelous
Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.
Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going"
Ergo jealous ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady "
In which case iam sure the experienced lady in question will take very good care of him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady
Jelous
Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.
Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going
Ergo jealous ! "
Different context altogether |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady
Jelous
Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.
Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going
Ergo jealous !
Different context altogether"
My mistake in which case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady
Jelous
Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.
Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going
Ergo jealous !
Different context altogether
My mistake in which case"
All i ment by it was i wish i was going! No malice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady
In which case iam sure the experienced lady in question will take very good care of him. "
That's guaranteed!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady
Jelous
Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.
Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going
Ergo jealous !
Different context altogether
My mistake in which case
All i ment by it was i wish i was going! No malice "
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"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady
Jelous
Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.
Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going
Ergo jealous !
Different context altogether
My mistake in which case
All i ment by it was i wish i was going! No malice
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Now I think you're both being very silly. Get a room and you can tippy toe around to your hearts desire |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady
Jelous
Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.
Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going
Ergo jealous !
Different context altogether
My mistake in which case
All i ment by it was i wish i was going! No malice
Now I think you're both being very silly. Get a room and you can tippy toe around to your hearts desire"
Huh? |
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"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady
Jelous
Jealousy has no place in swinging mate.
Not actually jelous of him just an expression meaning i wish i was going
Ergo jealous !
Different context altogether
My mistake in which case
All i ment by it was i wish i was going! No malice
Now I think you're both being very silly. Get a room and you can tippy toe around to your hearts desire
Huh?"
Well you saying he's jealous and Cornelly trying to politely say he's not. It made fun reading. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?
A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go
At the start we said nooo way to clubs ... then one night on a whim we too thought fuck it ... it was a great night so we’ve been loads since then. We were really struck by how friendly people were ... party nights are great fun too ... hope you have a great first time! Rules are pretty strict for single men xx"
I may be reading your comment wrong but it sounds like the rules for single men are different than for other attendees. Surely the strict rules are the same for everyone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?
A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go
At the start we said nooo way to clubs ... then one night on a whim we too thought fuck it ... it was a great night so we’ve been loads since then. We were really struck by how friendly people were ... party nights are great fun too ... hope you have a great first time! Rules are pretty strict for single men xx
I may be reading your comment wrong but it sounds like the rules for single men are different than for other attendees. Surely the strict rules are the same for everyone?"
Its stricter on single guys otherwise it would be full of just single guys |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Rule number 1. It’s very tempting to have a wee drink to steady the nerves. Then another, then another etc. I’m not saying don’t drink, just that so many first timers don’t realise how much they end up throwing back.
Oh and definitely. Have fun "
I dont drink no danger of that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Iv been invited to a swingers club what can i expect?
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a few quid to depart your wallet and as you're going with someone being watched while you have sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My tuppence worth..
I have only been to Eurekas so dont know about other places. I have been with a female friend and alone. As part of a couple everybody is much friendlier to you and when there as a couple we are there to play.
When iam there as a single guy i just want to relax and chill but iam fully aware of the zombie wanking squad roaming around.it does make me chuckle though when they see a couple walk through the woods to the lower field and the single guys all follow in drabs hoping.
Please god dont become a zombie !
Enjoy the experience."
Zombie wankers?omg I'm so pleased that I'm only into none club meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He won't be there as a single guy, he will be going with an experienced lady
Jelous
Jealousy has no place in swinging mate."
it may not have a place but it's rife and only the naive ignore it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You'll know if it's for you or not after first visit.
I assume it's different for each person.
I went with an open mind, very scared. It didn't do much for me hence my reluctance to go again.
Only you can decide |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ask a silly question! "
Your comment about football is 1000 x silly.
It's a perfectly acceptable question for someone who has bever been before. They aren't places that the general public know about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?
A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go
At the start we said nooo way to clubs ... then one night on a whim we too thought fuck it ... it was a great night so we’ve been loads since then. We were really struck by how friendly people were ... party nights are great fun too ... hope you have a great first time! Rules are pretty strict for single men xx
I may be reading your comment wrong but it sounds like the rules for single men are different than for other attendees. Surely the strict rules are the same for everyone?"
Yes you’re exactly right there are rules for everyone. Just thought I was being helpful to the OP ... as he’d asked what to expect ... and that was one thing we’d found |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?
A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go
At the start we said nooo way to clubs ... then one night on a whim we too thought fuck it ... it was a great night so we’ve been loads since then. We were really struck by how friendly people were ... party nights are great fun too ... hope you have a great first time! Rules are pretty strict for single men xx
I may be reading your comment wrong but it sounds like the rules for single men are different than for other attendees. Surely the strict rules are the same for everyone?
Yes you’re exactly right there are rules for everyone. Just thought I was being helpful to the OP ... as he’d asked what to expect ... and that was one thing we’d found"
cheers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Did a friend invite you or has the club been quiet and they're drumming up business?
A friend invited me and after putting off the idea for months thought fuck it il go
At the start we said nooo way to clubs ... then one night on a whim we too thought fuck it ... it was a great night so we’ve been loads since then. We were really struck by how friendly people were ... party nights are great fun too ... hope you have a great first time! Rules are pretty strict for single men xx
I may be reading your comment wrong but it sounds like the rules for single men are different than for other attendees. Surely the strict rules are the same for everyone?
Yes you’re exactly right there are rules for everyone. Just thought I was being helpful to the OP ... as he’d asked what to expect ... and that was one thing we’d found"
Sure I understand. Just thought it would be a bit odd if there were different rules for single men |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Laughs, fun and play, if you both want to engage in that way with others. You are good at respecting people's boundary's. You will have a blast, I'm sure of it. You and the lovely lady you are going with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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They do vary massively and even the same club can be a very different place on different nights depending on the event. Some nights are for couples and single women only, so no wanking dead, others might have themes: BDSM, greedy girls, unicorn, rock nights, karaoke, pet play, whatever. So every club has its own vibe and clientele.
I’ve walked into some clubs and straight back out as they were so seedy and unpleasant. Other clubs have become favourite hang outs and are like friendly local pubs where people also happen to have sex in some rooms! Your experience will probably be better as art of a couple as single men can unfortunately be viewed with some suspicion and end up on the periphery. But that is probably because some single men are a bit too inclined to follow and stare when they clearly haven’t been invited to join in.
I think it’s best to try to chill out, expect nothing, chat with people and enjoy the variety and unusualness of it all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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They do vary massively and even the same club can be a very different place on different nights depending on the event. Some nights are for couples and single women only, so no wanking dead, others might have themes: BDSM, greedy girls, unicorn, rock nights, karaoke, pet play, whatever. So every club has its own vibe and clientele.
I’ve walked into some clubs and straight back out as they were so seedy and unpleasant. Other clubs have become favourite hang outs and are like friendly local pubs where people also happen to have sex in some rooms! Your experience will probably be better as part of a couple as single men can unfortunately be viewed with some suspicion and end up on the periphery. But that is probably because some single men are a bit too inclined to follow and stare when they clearly haven’t been invited to join in.
I think it’s best to try to chill out, expect nothing, chat with people and enjoy the variety and unusualness of it all! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"They do vary massively and even the same club can be a very different place on different nights depending on the event. Some nights are for couples and single women only, so no wanking dead, others might have themes: BDSM, greedy girls, unicorn, rock nights, karaoke, pet play, whatever. So every club has its own vibe and clientele.
I’ve walked into some clubs and straight back out as they were so seedy and unpleasant. Other clubs have become favourite hang outs and are like friendly local pubs where people also happen to have sex in some rooms! Your experience will probably be better as part of a couple as single men can unfortunately be viewed with some suspicion and end up on the periphery. But that is probably because some single men are a bit too inclined to follow and stare when they clearly haven’t been invited to join in.
I think it’s best to try to chill out, expect nothing, chat with people and enjoy the variety and unusualness of it all! "
Brilliant review. |
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