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Contacting people you REALLY fancy
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There was once this woman on here who i fancied like mad but couldn't bring myself to approach her plus she was a distance away
So we talked fa 9 months in the forums and one night she said ive had enough of this heres my number ring me
So i did and we arranged ta meet the rest is history 
Then i met Fmuma xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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am talking the difference between someone who you think 'yeah he/she is ok, i'd meet him/her' and someone who is (to you) just drop dead gorgeous and has all the physical attributes you find attractive in a sexual partner looks wise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If new to the site-
I wait a little while and let them find their feet, they will obviously be bombarded with requests from time wasters and the "fancy a fuck" brigade that unfortunately frequent the site.
If they've been on the site a while-
That's easy............I'm in like shaft!!! |
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
"Why would you contact someone you don't fancy  "
To be a time waster..... 
Nah I strike while the irons hot,.. now I must get back to my domestic chores ..  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm actually quite shy when it comes to contacting people.
Guess it's my insecurities from years ago still showing themselves"
see, am not shy in the least
i contact people i think are ok and worth a bit of further investigation lol
if however i find myself very attracted to someone online, i will generally back off messaging, or 'chicken out' and send a wink to acknowledge my interest
and that's the bit that puzzles me, because in 'real life' i am the opposite and have no fear in putting myself on the map with someone i fancy the pants off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep I know we'd go for it - no point beating around anyone's bush, so to speak
If it wasn't reciprocated then fair enough, but faint heart never won fair lady did it?
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as in someone allegedly out of my league?--FUCK that, no-one is!-of course respect their right to have what they want, but theres always a nice surprise finding someone VERY hot, and into having fun or intending to with u |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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ive never made the first move on anyone
i dont send out messages first i dont approach men in club
im not a very confident person and im always scared of making a fool of msyelf so i wait for guys to message/approach me and respond to the ones i like
of course this means that i very rarely get the guys i really want but i see it like this, if they havnt mailed/approach me it means they dont like me so whats the point in me making a move on them? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you dont contact people you fancy that means you only contact people you dont fancy and whats the point in that?? I for 1 have to fancy someone before i would have any sexual contact not every hole is a goal |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If you dont contact people you fancy that means you only contact people you dont fancy and whats the point in that?? I for 1 have to fancy someone before i would have any sexual contact not every hole is a goal "
there are varying levels of 'fancy' tho from hmm yeah you're quite nice thru to OMFG you are stunning in every way
It's the latter ones that I find myself avoiding messaging, whereas I wouldn't have an issue approaching them in a bar or a club. |
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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"I'm actually quite shy when it comes to contacting people.
Guess it's my insecurities from years ago still showing themselves"
We don't tend to make the first contact very often either but for a few reasons.
If we do, often takes us a while to build up to it. |
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