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By *hillout OP Man over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

How many are afflicted with this curse, where the ones we most fancy are typically far away?

In my case, I only have myself to blame as i'm in self imposed exile in the middle of the channel!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me!!!!! Bane of my life this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had some great connections with people who are miles away. For the right person distance is never an issue for me

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By *eplicant JoWoman over a year ago

Sussex countryside

Yep ... I am too far south

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep, logistics are a bitch at times

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Brighton is on the edge at the bottom. I yearn for the accessibility of Stamford.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where there’s a will there’s a way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We live on a small island. Compared to some countries it's easy!

Get in the car or on the train if you are so intrigued I say ! Xxx

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

"Where there’s a will there’s a way

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By *hillout OP Man over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I've had some great connections with people who are miles away. For the right person distance is never an issue for me "

I feel exactly the same and will definitely travel for the right people. Shame many don't think this way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’ll join the club if that’s ok!

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Plenty of local hotties catching my interest at the moment, but yes I could do a wee fab UK tour to meet a few people on my friends list

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its propper rough ruining my chances of completing meeting my top 10 but il get another when i go wales in august now i need a trip to scotland ireland and a few down south

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By *hillout OP Man over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Plenty of local hotties catching my interest at the moment, but yes I could do a wee fab UK tour to meet a few people on my friends list

I'd definitely travel for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

South west draws me ever closer. Not just for its glorious beaches

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes it’s a pain in the ass, seems like everyone is miles away x

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

If I was that interested I would make it work I’m sure

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman over a year ago

Somewhere nearby

Me! Living in the Highlands has its good points, but Fab wise can be a bit of a ballache!

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I work under the general rule that if I think it will be worth every mile and every penny then distance isn’t really an issue.

Effort in often equals rewards.

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By *olgateMan over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Even the fake profiles are miles away

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Plenty of local hotties catching my interest at the moment, but yes I could do a wee fab UK tour to meet a few people on my friends list

I suppose there is some gems nearby

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By *eliWoman over a year ago

"If I was that interested I would make it work I’m sure

Travelling is fantastic and when it involves sex - even better. Life happens and can get in the way but you make things work.

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By *hillout OP Man over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Me! Living in the Highlands has its good points, but Fab wise can be a bit of a ballache!"

I know! I lived and worked in the highlands for over a year. I feel and know your pain!

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By *ineMan over a year ago

In cave behind a waterfall on a hill

I seem to have found a solution...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes ,if only I lived down South

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Its propper rough ruining my chances of completing meeting my top 10 but il get another when i go wales in august now i need a trip to scotland ireland and a few down south "

This sounds a bit like

"Finger on tour" do you have a bus like the spice girls

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Its as near or far as you want it to be for the right person of course

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yup. I need to go exploring

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Me!

Thankfully some people will travel for me!

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By *hillout OP Man over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Its as near or far as you want it to be for the right person of course

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"Yup. I need to go exploring"

You may want to get some clothes on first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some people are worth travelling for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

For the right person perhaps.

Imagine lazy and it's indicative of my fucking style.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yup. I need to go exploring

You may want to get some clothes on first

I'm hoping I'm not going to need any

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

The ones I fancy are frequently up north.

C'mon London, amaze me

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Travel not an issue for me - particularly if someone is willing to meet half way - brings pretty much the whole country within 2 or 3 hours reach

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sadly, I live in a very remote part of the scottish highlands. And since I don't fancy sheep, my opportunities are like a dog pissing on a tree the desert, few and far between...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The ones I fancy are frequently up north.

C'mon London, amaze me

do you want to swap homes with me?because the guys I fancy are from down South

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

SW ? I live here and must be missing something! Poor pickings and an unreliable lot from my experience, no chance of getting them to travel as want it delivered to the doorstep.

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Im heading up North then

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"For the right person perhaps.

Imagine lazy and it's indicative of my fucking style."

Works for me, just pop my nightie down when you exit...

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By *entish79Man over a year ago

Glasgow

My Fab pals are pretty much all up there and I’m down here, so it’s not ideal.

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By *iSTARessWoman over a year ago

London

"The ones I fancy are frequently up north.

C'mon London, amaze me

do you want to swap homes with me?because the guys I fancy are from down South

Now there's an idea! Fabswap!

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By *hillout OP Man over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

Well....it would seem quite a few of us have the same dilemma!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nothing a drive doesn't solve

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By *hillout OP Man over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Nothing a drive doesn't solve

In my case, a flight!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I only look locally so I don't have this problem

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All the time! But I would never expect someone to travel all the way to Norwich for an initial meeting, I would suggest meeting either on London (which I visit frequently) or at a club

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Grass is always greener.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Me!!!!! Bane of my life this

Flick your bean hun

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By *ighland gentlemanMan over a year ago

Ardgay

Not a lot of Fabbers up here, so travelling would seem to be the only option

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I only look locally so I don't have this problem

Exactly. It seems a bit bonkers that people bother to look at profiles of those further afield than they are prepared to travel and then moan that they're too far away!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I only look locally so I don't have this problem

Exactly. It seems a bit bonkers that people bother to look at profiles of those further afield than they are prepared to travel and then moan that they're too far away!!

But if you live in a sparsely populated area with limited choice that can be difficult

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

Very much so! I thought it was bad enough when I lived in Scotland as many of those I spoke to lived in England.

I live in the north east and most i now speak with are north west or south east

Having said that north east is the most sexless part of the UK imo.

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By *lceeWoman over a year ago

Leeds

Oh, there’s certainly some down south that I’d love to meet up with. I can barely find the time to meet up north though so god knows how I’d factor in 8 odd hours travelling time down south and back.

Roll on my next London meeting!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Very much so! I thought it was bad enough when I lived in Scotland as many of those I spoke to lived in England.

I live in the north east and most i now speak with are north west or south east

Having said that north east is the most sexless part of the UK imo. "

Depends who ur talking to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I only look locally so I don't have this problem

Exactly. It seems a bit bonkers that people bother to look at profiles of those further afield than they are prepared to travel and then moan that they're too far away!!

But if you live in a sparsely populated area with limited choice that can be difficult

I do! And the gene pool is poor

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Very much so! I thought it was bad enough when I lived in Scotland as many of those I spoke to lived in England.

I live in the north east and most i now speak with are north west or south east

Having said that north east is the most sexless part of the UK imo. "

Sureky since you've moved south the people you spoke to would now be closer?

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By *hillout OP Man over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

The upside of living farther away from people you've clicked with is that when both are willing to travel and feel its worth it, it takes on an extra special flavour

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By *hillout OP Man over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Me!!!!! Bane of my life this

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damn and where's person you fancy?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I only look locally so I don't have this problem

Exactly. It seems a bit bonkers that people bother to look at profiles of those further afield than they are prepared to travel and then moan that they're too far away!!

But if you live in a sparsely populated area with limited choice that can be difficult

Yeah I get that. That's why I said "further than they are prepared to travel". I have that exact issue. I can only meet when someone is prepared to put in the same amount of travel time as me. Choices in the south west are dire!

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Very much so! I thought it was bad enough when I lived in Scotland as many of those I spoke to lived in England.

I live in the north east and most i now speak with are north west or south east

Having said that north east is the most sexless part of the UK imo.

Sureky since you've moved south the people you spoke to would now be closer?

Not really......most are off site now. There's very little locally

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I only look locally so I don't have this problem

Exactly. It seems a bit bonkers that people bother to look at profiles of those further afield than they are prepared to travel and then moan that they're too far away!!

But if you live in a sparsely populated area with limited choice that can be difficult

they certainly are!

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By *hillout OP Man over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

I for one don't have issues traveling for the right person and do so regularly, despite the expense. Some things just don't have a price tag

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By *hillout OP Man over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......"

That's pretty pathetic to be honest

I wish I had that problem!

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By *rNaughtyNickMan over a year ago

Birmingham

Story of my life constantly finding myself getting on and clicking with women a million miles apart......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......"

As excuses go thats shit

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......"

Your 80 mile from me so long as there's a brew waiting I reckon I'll crack that in an hour. Only question is and it's a biggie..... drum roll please...... do you faf

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Choices in the south west are dire!"

Slim pickings.

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......

As excuses go thats shit"

Best one ever was a guy who lived quarter of a mile away!

Being out after 9pm was a no no so could I be home earlier otherwise he would have to pop over in his jammies.

When i said no 9.30pm was grand he said bit too far to travel that late

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......

Your 80 mile from me so long as there's a brew waiting I reckon I'll crack that in an hour. Only question is and it's a biggie..... drum roll please...... do you faf

I'd make you an ace bacon roll and a brew....that count?

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Story of my life constantly finding myself getting on and clicking with women a million miles apart......

Worst bit is when you have banter on forum, peek at their profile and standard 140+ miles or 280+ just makes you wanna

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m pretty much dead centre of the centre, I have no issue with travelling nor with long journeys. Distance is only a number if the person you’re traveling to is worth it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm in my quiet little corner of N Wales

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......

Your 80 mile from me so long as there's a brew waiting I reckon I'll crack that in an hour. Only question is and it's a biggie..... drum roll please...... do you faf

I'd make you an ace bacon roll and a brew....that count?"

Bloody hell I never got that when I was married. How much of your arm can I chew off.

Seriously though this guys a cock and you more than likely dodged a bullet. At 1 time I used to regularly drive to Aberdeen. She wasn't from here but she was well worth the run as I'm sure you would be.

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......

Your 80 mile from me so long as there's a brew waiting I reckon I'll crack that in an hour. Only question is and it's a biggie..... drum roll please...... do you faf

I'd make you an ace bacon roll and a brew....that count?

Bloody hell I never got that when I was married. How much of your arm can I chew off.

Don't go coyote ugly on me haha

I've no issue with doing the food and brew! When I had a larger social fab circle folk would regularly drop by for food and a blether

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By *layfulfoxMan over a year ago

nowhere

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Nope, if the connection is there I’d be happy traveling.

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......

Your 80 mile from me so long as there's a brew waiting I reckon I'll crack that in an hour. Only question is and it's a biggie..... drum roll please...... do you faf

I'd make you an ace bacon roll and a brew....that count?

Bloody hell I never got that when I was married. How much of your arm can I chew off.

Don't go coyote ugly on me haha

I've no issue with doing the food and brew! When I had a larger social fab circle folk would regularly drop by for food and a blether "

Oi who you calling ugly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where I live people I fancy are minimal, almost none existent so I always have to travel a minimum of 90 mins round trip. I look to the Midlands and further South and there are so many. There also a few hotties in Scotland and Ireland too.

I do travel though but I don't get chance to as often as I like. That is the annoying and frustrating part. I don't know what I would do if for some reason I could no longer drive, that would be my Fab life ruined.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Where I live people I fancy are minimal, almost none existent so I always have to travel a minimum of 90 mins round trip. I look to the Midlands and further South and there are so many. There also a few hotties in Scotland and Ireland too.

We would have to come find you instead

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m pretty much dead centre of the centre, I have no issue with travelling nor with long journeys. Distance is only a number if the person you’re traveling to is worth it. "

How will you know that for certain if you haven't met in person though.

I'd be very disappointed if I travelled more than two hours to meet someone and they behaved like a dick, or there was no attraction in person.

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By *L RogueMan over a year ago

London

As someone said earlier, you'll find a way if you really like the person.

But yeah, it's annoying as fuck!

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"I’m pretty much dead centre of the centre, I have no issue with travelling nor with long journeys. Distance is only a number if the person you’re traveling to is worth it.

How will you know that for certain if you haven't met in person though.

I'd be very disappointed if I travelled more than two hours to meet someone and they behaved like a dick, or there was no attraction in person. "

Homework!! You can get a fair idea of a person through spending time getting to know them on here and viewing their pics if they share honest ones.

Obviously you can't "know" until you have met in person, but the above hasn't failed me yet

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By *oodnitegirlWoman over a year ago

Yorkshire

Sad I’m not a southerner but will go visit when I can x

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By *lanPartridgeMan over a year ago

nottingham

Seems to be Sou'Westerlies who i generally like the look of x

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By *hillout OP Man over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"I’m pretty much dead centre of the centre, I have no issue with travelling nor with long journeys. Distance is only a number if the person you’re traveling to is worth it.

How will you know that for certain if you haven't met in person though.

I'd be very disappointed if I travelled more than two hours to meet someone and they behaved like a dick, or there was no attraction in person.

Homework!! You can get a fair idea of a person through spending time getting to know them on here and viewing their pics if they share honest ones.

Obviously you can't "know" until you have met in person, but the above hasn't failed me yet

I definitely agree with this. If you spend enough time engaging with someone here and have the opportunity to actually chat to them on the phone ahead of a meet you'll have a good indication of how well the meet may actually go.

Hasn't failed me yet

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Tumble county here..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How many are afflicted with this curse, where the ones we most fancy are typically far away?

In my case, I only have myself to blame as i'm in self imposed exile in the middle of the channel!

Pretty much although there are a couple of hotties that I have managed to meet in my locality ... And meet them more than once

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......

Your 80 mile from me so long as there's a brew waiting I reckon I'll crack that in an hour. Only question is and it's a biggie..... drum roll please...... do you faf

I'd make you an ace bacon roll and a brew....that count?

Bloody hell I never got that when I was married. How much of your arm can I chew off.

Don't go coyote ugly on me haha

I've no issue with doing the food and brew! When I had a larger social fab circle folk would regularly drop by for food and a blether

Oi who you calling ugly

Funny bugger chewing ones arm...film quote

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......

As excuses go thats shit

Best one ever was a guy who lived quarter of a mile away!

Being out after 9pm was a no no so could I be home earlier otherwise he would have to pop over in his jammies.

When i said no 9.30pm was grand he said bit too far to travel that late "

Literally thats something id do. If you dont have the same postcode as me chances are its never gonna happen...

Exceptions are made now

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......

Your 80 mile from me so long as there's a brew waiting I reckon I'll crack that in an hour. Only question is and it's a biggie..... drum roll please...... do you faf

I'd make you an ace bacon roll and a brew....that count?

Bloody hell I never got that when I was married. How much of your arm can I chew off.

Don't go coyote ugly on me haha

I've no issue with doing the food and brew! When I had a larger social fab circle folk would regularly drop by for food and a blether

Oi who you calling ugly

Funny bugger chewing ones arm...film quote "

I know

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......

As excuses go thats shit

Best one ever was a guy who lived quarter of a mile away!

Being out after 9pm was a no no so could I be home earlier otherwise he would have to pop over in his jammies.

When i said no 9.30pm was grand he said bit too far to travel that late

Literally thats something id do. If you dont have the same postcode as me chances are its never gonna happen...

Exceptions are made now

Erm ... I should like to think so. I'm not moving house haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can travel but it's rare I have the opportunity because I have a dog to care for and no one to look after her. So overnight meets away from home can be difficult. I mainly meet at mine or meet local people to me. I don't particularly like being in a hotel room alone with a virtual stranger anyway as I had a bad experience and it has put me off. And I certainly don't want to wake up next to somebody I just met. I've slept alone for years and it's something that I would struggle with.

I just fantasise over the hotties that aren't accessible to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......

As excuses go thats shit

Best one ever was a guy who lived quarter of a mile away!

Being out after 9pm was a no no so could I be home earlier otherwise he would have to pop over in his jammies.

When i said no 9.30pm was grand he said bit too far to travel that late

Literally thats something id do. If you dont have the same postcode as me chances are its never gonna happen...

Exceptions are made now

Erm ... I should like to think so. I'm not moving house haha "

Since its you ill venture out of my street

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i wish i could meet a certain man down in wales.

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By *imon_hydeMan over a year ago

Stockport

Sometimes I wonder if the reason why I fantasise about people is bacause they are far away...

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......

As excuses go thats shit

Best one ever was a guy who lived quarter of a mile away!

Being out after 9pm was a no no so could I be home earlier otherwise he would have to pop over in his jammies.

When i said no 9.30pm was grand he said bit too far to travel that late

Literally thats something id do. If you dont have the same postcode as me chances are its never gonna happen...

Exceptions are made now

Erm ... I should like to think so. I'm not moving house haha

Since its you ill venture out of my street

I should bloody well think so haha

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By *tirluvMan over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

I like to be everywhere for all people all of the time... yes I know, a bit of a God complex but such is life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......

As excuses go thats shit

Best one ever was a guy who lived quarter of a mile away!

Being out after 9pm was a no no so could I be home earlier otherwise he would have to pop over in his jammies.

When i said no 9.30pm was grand he said bit too far to travel that late

Literally thats something id do. If you dont have the same postcode as me chances are its never gonna happen...

Exceptions are made now

Make them for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m pretty much dead centre of the centre, I have no issue with travelling nor with long journeys. Distance is only a number if the person you’re traveling to is worth it.

How will you know that for certain if you haven't met in person though.

I'd be very disappointed if I travelled more than two hours to meet someone and they behaved like a dick, or there was no attraction in person. "

I chat with people for a little while prior to arranging a meet so I know the potential is there beforehand. I also generally like meeting new people irrespective of a sexual connection, so for me it’s a nice day out even if nothing else comes of it.

I’m really quite selective in who I meet though and so far in over 4 years I’ve never had a bad social (yet).

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By *hatYorkLadMan over a year ago

York

Absolutely, there's some gorgeous ladies on here that I'd like to meet but not many in the York area

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman over a year ago

Hull

Yes all the time... but have decided it’s worth traveling for the right person... you just have to make it worth while... or meet in the middle which mean a 4.5 hour journey is only 2.5!!

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Yes all the time... but have decided it’s worth traveling for the right person... you just have to make it worth while... or meet in the middle which mean a 4.5 hour journey is only 2.5!! "

Or even 2.25

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By *nowwhitexxx1Woman over a year ago

Hull

"Yes all the time... but have decided it’s worth traveling for the right person... you just have to make it worth while... or meet in the middle which mean a 4.5 hour journey is only 2.5!!

Or even 2.25

Ok ok thank you!!

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By *he Mac LassWoman over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

"Yes all the time... but have decided it’s worth traveling for the right person... you just have to make it worth while... or meet in the middle which mean a 4.5 hour journey is only 2.5!! "

Exactly this! The ones who can’t make the effort aren’t worth putting the effort into. Tis easy when you want to do it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......

As excuses go thats shit

Best one ever was a guy who lived quarter of a mile away!

Being out after 9pm was a no no so could I be home earlier otherwise he would have to pop over in his jammies.

When i said no 9.30pm was grand he said bit too far to travel that late "

How do you find these people???

Or are they just al taking the piss?

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By *UNKIEMan over a year ago

south east

It's the bane of my life lol I'd need to take a cpl months off and go on a _unkie on tour adventure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m very happy with the selection of kinky fuckers available around Leeds and Manchester. I don’t need to look elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Absolutely, there's some gorgeous ladies on here that I'd like to meet but not many in the York area

You are not looking hard enough or need to expand beyond York. There are some VERY hot women in our area.

* Not including myself in that definition.

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By *parkle1974Woman over a year ago

Leeds

Distance isn't my problem

Its a liitle thing called work that gets in my way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have done the distance is no object thing in the past and it was fine till it all became very one sided. Now I'm looking for someone I can jump on on a week night too

which kinda restricts the distance but finding someone locally seems to be proving a challenge, the local pool isn't huge it would seem and just getting them to actually turn up as planned for a social seems to be a step too far most of the time!

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By *arlo82Couple over a year ago

the gym and random places

"And I have no issue travelling.... have driven 7 hours....flew 600 miles etc

2 nights ago a guy wouldn't meet me because 40 min roundtrip was too much out of his evening......

As excuses go thats shit

Best one ever was a guy who lived quarter of a mile away!

Being out after 9pm was a no no so could I be home earlier otherwise he would have to pop over in his jammies.

When i said no 9.30pm was grand he said bit too far to travel that late

How do you find these people???

Or are they just al taking the piss?"

It's most men round here... beggars belief

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I have exahusted all options in South Wales and the South west and nada.

So may have to go further afield to places like the Midlands and the North West and, lets face it, nobody wants to go there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Definitely..theres a few gorgeous people I’d love to meet that are a little far from me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Absolutely, there's some gorgeous ladies on here that I'd like to meet but not many in the York area

You are not looking hard enough or need to expand beyond York. There are some VERY hot women in our area.

* Not including myself in that definition."

I’ve always enjoyed traveling up to Leeds/ Manchester and the N/W region and I’ve met some lovely people up there.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love he North.. I need to travel up North more!

Who wants to put me up?

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"How many are afflicted with this curse, where the ones we most fancy are typically far away?

In my case, I only have myself to blame as i'm in self imposed exile in the middle of the channel!

"
oh the joys of a fab life and living on an island. For us an hour travelling sees us about £60 lighter and in Portsmouth, Lymington or Southampton.

Sadly this makes a social so much of a gamble that its pretty much clubs for us as we can't afford to do the trip for a no-show. We are happy to meet, befriend and travel for those we have a rapport with, and have done this.

Thankfully the island does throw up the odd gem so it's not all bad.

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By *etLikeMan over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

"I love he North.. I need to travel up North more!

Who wants to put me up?

How far do you want to go?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love he North.. I need to travel up North more!

Who wants to put me up?

How far do you want to go?

Ok well Aberdeen might be a little optimistic

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's finding mutual free time rather then distance that is the issue for me. Also a few people not currently meeting, or maybe that's just a hint

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Me!!!!! Bane of my life this

You mean you fancy me?!

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By *layfullsamMan over a year ago

Solihull

I wish I could blame where I live and travel for my lack of meets but I'm central and travel lots so it must be my ugly mug

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My favourite is based in Hertfordshire and I'm on the south Yorkshire border so I it's a 6 hour round trip to see him but I'm happy to travel

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its not a curse!!

Its an adventure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

All so far so far

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Indeed’. So many great people around!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yep we had this at times such is life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love he North.. I need to travel up North more!

Who wants to put me up?

Me....I’ve only got the one bed mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I went to Dorset for a weekend it was like a black hole. It was also the same weekend as swinging fields so might just have lucked out.

No offense to anyone that lives in Dorset.

But I'm glad I live in the North West

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By *hatYorkLadMan over a year ago

York

"Absolutely, there's some gorgeous ladies on here that I'd like to meet but not many in the York area

You are not looking hard enough or need to expand beyond York. There are some VERY hot women in our area.

* Not including myself in that definition."

I travel all over anyway with work and visiting friends around the country, the Fab issue is that most womens profiles on here outside of 30 miles state they won't even entertain meeting someone who lives further than a 20 minute drive away so I just don't bother even contacting. I meet a lot of hot women in York and Leeds when I go out anyway, they just aren't on Fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't mind having a bit of a road trip for someone I fancy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the connection is there I’m happy to travel to wherever necessary. I get to see another part of the country and a sexy girl too

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By *etLikeMan over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

"I love he North.. I need to travel up North more!

Who wants to put me up?

How far do you want to go?

Ok well Aberdeen might be a little optimistic

The words Aberdeen and Optimistic are rarely used in conjunction

I’m heading south this weekend anyway. It’s not just meets I travel for; I’ve a new car to pick up

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"I love he North.. I need to travel up North more!

Who wants to put me up?

I've already cleared half the wardrobe for you and a shelf in the bathroom cabinet so shift that tasty little arse over her little lady

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Im not near anyone

Someone get the violin out

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"Im not near anyone

Someone get the violin out

Come on then I've room for 2

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Im not near anyone

Someone get the violin out

Im not near anyone either but they still find me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I got my bum out for the ladies and still they are too far

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By *pider-WomanWoman over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

"I got my bum out for the ladies and still they are too far

Thats true you did yesterday.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got my bum out for the ladies and still they are too far

Thats true you did yesterday.

I saw yours and just had to

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"Im not near anyone

Someone get the violin out

given that nobodies near, you get out the

and play it like billi, nobody will complain...

Truth be known, we'd love to fiddle with you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love he North.. I need to travel up North more!

Who wants to put me up?

I've already cleared half the wardrobe for you and a shelf in the bathroom cabinet so shift that tasty little arse over her little lady

I’m on my way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love he North.. I need to travel up North more!

Who wants to put me up?

Me....I’ve only got the one bed mind

I’m good at sharing.... I won’t even steal the covers

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

"I love he North.. I need to travel up North more!

Who wants to put me up?

I've already cleared half the wardrobe for you and a shelf in the bathroom cabinet so shift that tasty little arse over her little lady

I’m on my way

You better hurry it will be dark soon and we don't want any bad men getting there hands on you

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By *xtrafun4youMan over a year ago

Dunstable

"Even the fake profiles are miles away"
lol

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By *aenMan over a year ago

Here and There

Travelling is all part of the fun for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah the dreaded Fab map ! Anyone within a 30 mile radius won’t meet me but Mary from the outer Hebrides would in a flash ! A Fab problem to have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love he North.. I need to travel up North more!

Who wants to put me up?

I've already cleared half the wardrobe for you and a shelf in the bathroom cabinet so shift that tasty little arse over her little lady

I’m on my way

You better hurry it will be dark soon and we don't want any bad men getting there hands on you

Damn bloody right, I’m only little I can’t put up much of a fight

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Try living in mid wales...

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By *hillout OP Man over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

"Try living in mid wales..."

Try living in the channel islands!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think I’m attracted to men miles away it’s so unfair !!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I’m attracted to men miles away it’s so unfair !!!"

And here my problem in a nutshell

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think I’m attracted to men miles away it’s so unfair !!!

And here my problem in a nutshell

I know mine too

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By *etLikeMan over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

"I think I’m attracted to men miles away it’s so unfair !!!"

Why thank you kindly

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By *r MoriartyMan over a year ago

The Land that time forgot (Norfolk)

I've had to travel to Greece to get my end away this time

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By *s_macWoman over a year ago

Traffic land

"I've had to travel to Greece to get my end away this time

You trooper!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

I like a nice road trip

Tbh, I actively avoid people actually on my own doorstep.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Almost always! The ones that make me say OH! Are a hundred miles away, at least.

Bit it makes for a great fantasy, and it would make for a hell of an adventure!

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

"I like a nice road trip

Tbh, I actively avoid people actually on my own doorstep. "

I’ve been camped out on your doorstep for ages and now you tell me?

The milkman asked if you wanted two pints on Saturday, I assume he was talking about gin?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On another thread someone said that if they'd travelled a long way they'd feel obliged to fuck the person no matter how horrible they were.

Watch out Scotland and London, I'm coming for you!!

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I like a nice road trip

Tbh, I actively avoid people actually on my own doorstep.

I’ve been camped out on your doorstep for ages and now you tell me?

The milkman asked if you wanted two pints on Saturday, I assume he was talking about gin?

I don't drink milk, are you sure it was my doorstep?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some folk commute 3 to 4 hours a day to work

If you want to meet someone there's trains planes and automobiles

Hotels and air bnb

I don't see distance as a problem

It's all about putting the effort in

When Liverpool are playing tottenham at Tottenham they don't say " sorry lads the games off " your to far away

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By *etLikeMan over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

"On another thread someone said that if they'd travelled a long way they'd feel obliged to fuck the person no matter how horrible they were.

Watch out Scotland and London, I'm coming for you!!

I’m currently on a train *from* Scotland to London

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

"I like a nice road trip

Tbh, I actively avoid people actually on my own doorstep.

I’ve been camped out on your doorstep for ages and now you tell me?

The milkman asked if you wanted two pints on Saturday, I assume he was talking about gin?

I don't drink milk, are you sure it was my doorstep? "

Shit, I may have made a slight miscalculation

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On another thread someone said that if they'd travelled a long way they'd feel obliged to fuck the person no matter how horrible they were.

Watch out Scotland and London, I'm coming for you!!

I’m currently on a train *from* Scotland to London

Don't panic, I'm off to bed. You're quite safe.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I used to have a FB on the coast near Folkstone, when I lived in North London.

2hours, plus. But what a great partner, truly multi orgasmic,

Every time, the next day, I'd say never again, it's too far...then a week later my resolve dissolved

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By *etLikeMan over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

"On another thread someone said that if they'd travelled a long way they'd feel obliged to fuck the person no matter how horrible they were.

Watch out Scotland and London, I'm coming for you!!

I’m currently on a train *from* Scotland to London

Don't panic, I'm off to bed. You're quite safe.

I’m already in bed, as it’s the overnight sleeper

I might also not want to be safe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m pretty much dead centre of the centre, I have no issue with travelling nor with long journeys. Distance is only a number if the person you’re traveling to is worth it.

How will you know that for certain if you haven't met in person though.

I'd be very disappointed if I travelled more than two hours to meet someone and they behaved like a dick, or there was no attraction in person.

Homework!! You can get a fair idea of a person through spending time getting to know them on here and viewing their pics if they share honest ones.

Obviously you can't "know" until you have met in person, but the above hasn't failed me yet

I do that already, but only with people I don't have to travel over an hour and a half to see.

There's always a risk I might want to walk out, and I don't want to be in a totally strange area.

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By *icketysplitsWoman over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

My curse is that the ones I fancy are far away and don't fancy me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not easy for us living where we do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Visit Shrewsbury.

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