If you dont

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

...contact people on your Hotlist, would you contact others if you knew you we're on theirs?

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It would make me more confident to, yes

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Those on my hotlist are aware they are there, I’m not shy about contacting those I want to have liaisons with

By *amissCouple over a year ago

chelmsford

" ...contact people on your Hotlist, would you contact others if you knew you we're on theirs? "

No, my hotlist is also a not list and others may use theirs the same

By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Probably not, ladies get that many messages a day its not worth it. Although a popular lady told me thats a myth