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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think people shoukd calm down on the whole time waster thing.
There are many tools on this site to help, dont rush into a meet just cos youre messaged.
Also many want to get to know soneone, so you may chat a while, then they may not find a connection with you and start ignoring you. Thats not time wasting, thats how you get to know someone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I whole heartedly agree. It’s what I’m picking up from those I chat to. I have also how many messages singles and couples also get, it quite a lot to sift through. It’s when you make a connection but your genuine message gets lost in abyss of another 30-40 messages, majority time wasters. Agree? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I tend not to overly worry about the actions of others that don't impact me OP, and take my time getting to know the people I meet so I'm as sure as I can be that they're as genuine in their intentions as I am - it's not failed me yet
I think the trouble with the majority of "issues" people have and post about around time wasters etc are avoidable with a little due diligence amd common sense being used rather than diving into meeting within two messages. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I whole heartedly agree. It’s what I’m picking up from those I chat to. I have also how many messages singles and couples also get, it quite a lot to sift through. It’s when you make a connection but your genuine message gets lost in abyss of another 30-40 messages, majority time wasters. Agree?"
The inbox state is a big issue. Messages get lost. Being a site supporter means you can see the message trail though.
What do you call a timewaster? |
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