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Do most of your meets....
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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... come from the forums or the other part of the site.
I've never yet had a meet through the forums, not that I wouldn't, just that the guys who have taken my fancy have approached me and don't use them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... come from the forums or the other part of the site.
I've never yet had a meet through the forums, not that I wouldn't, just that the guys who have taken my fancy have approached me and don't use them "
I have had a couple from the forums. Was when I was looking for models to photograph though so I guess it's expected |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I usually get their number as it’s written on the wall of the public toilet in marker pen  "
Trust you Adam 
I know you meet mostly through the forums don't you? |
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I've yet to find a meet through the forums .I find there's a totally different type of person on these forums .not all of them are serious .a lot are keyboard warriors. I prefer the real world its much nicer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I've never had a meet from the threads.
Most of my meets are from when I used to regularly visit Amours or Cupids. Now I use the Forums for talking and meeting new Fabbers, however I'd love a Forum meet. |
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"... come from the forums or the other part of the site.
I've never yet had a meet through the forums, not that I wouldn't, just that the guys who have taken my fancy have approached me and don't use them "
Its been mixed for me, some meets have been done through the forums.
Some from the socials and clubs that ive been too over the years. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve met almost exclusively through the forums and it hasn’t done me wrong so far. Every single person that I’ve met either socially or otherwise through the forums has been lovely |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have met one guy from the forums for play meets but we first met him many years ago before we used Fab and he rarely posts anyway. We no longer meet him now though.
Had a few social meets with forumites plus chatted to some while at a club.
Most our meets come from guys messeging us here or we have met guys while at a club. There isnt anyone on the forums id want to meet particularily. |
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"I’ve not yet met anyone from the forums but I’m hoping that’s about to change 
Hang on, I’ll lend you my pen
Where do you want me to write it?  "
As long as you don’t include the are code and write really small you can write it anywhere
Like across my wallet  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"... come from the forums or the other part of the site.
I've never yet had a meet through the forums, not that I wouldn't, just that the guys who have taken my fancy have approached me and don't use them "
Messaging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve not yet met anyone from the forums but I’m hoping that’s about to change
Hang on, I’ll lend you my pen
Where do you want me to write it?
As long as you don’t include the are code and write really small you can write it anywhere
Like across my wallet "
Landline?? Who uses them now I only have a mobile so would need a large space |
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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago
St Peter Port |
"... come from the forums or the other part of the site.
I've never yet had a meet through the forums, not that I wouldn't, just that the guys who have taken my fancy have approached me and don't use them "
A mix...with the forums you do get a good idea of compatability in likes and sense of humour over a wide range of subjects, which I like.
However, the ' Nearby ' search also provides possibilities. |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
Clacton on sea, Essex |
"... come from the forums or the other part of the site.
I've never yet had a meet through the forums, not that I wouldn't, just that the guys who have taken my fancy have approached me and don't use them "
We find some people on the forums like to chat more than meet in person. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All our meets come through messages that aren't forum related. We have a no forumites rule "
To be honest I'm not sure I would want to meet forumites, well, one person but that is because he is a friend rather than a potential fuck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All our meets come through messages that aren't forum related. We have a no forumites rule
To be honest I'm not sure I would want to meet forumites, well, one person but that is because he is a friend rather than a potential fuck "
I hope it's possible to have both!
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I’ve had more meets from outside the forums that with forumites!
That being said - some of my best/most memorable meets have been with forumites - probably because one gets to know a forumite more naturally over a period of weeks/months over the forums - so a friendship has often been formed before you even meet! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. Non. I’ve found many aren’t looking for the same thing as me. I’m interesting in the club swing scene so I meet people there. Then use fab to keep in contact. The forums are just for amusement and events |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All our meets come through messages that aren't forum related. We have a no forumites rule
To be honest I'm not sure I would want to meet forumites, well, one person but that is because he is a friend rather than a potential fuck
I hope it's possible to have both!
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Oh no, he doesn't find me attractive in the slightest which is fine by me |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
All of my pre-arranged meets to date have been with forumites and as a result of conversations sparking from the forums, I like the way they allow you to see the person beyond the profile blurb and messages and in fact personally find the whole "cold messaging" someone thing a little awkward, so the forums work for me perfectly |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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I seem to have had a lot more people messaging me from far and wide since launching/inflicting myself onto the forums.
Most are not even posters I recognise. I suppose I must appeal more to the lurkers. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All of my pre-arranged meets to date have been with forumites and as a result of conversations sparking from the forums, I like the way they allow you to see the person beyond the profile blurb and messages and in fact personally find the whole "cold messaging" someone thing a little awkward, so the forums work for me perfectly "
I think there are too many keyboard warriors in the forums which would put me off meeting them.
I respond to men who take time to message me based on my profile and take the time to get to know me and find out the REAL Coquette69 |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"All of my pre-arranged meets to date have been with forumites and as a result of conversations sparking from the forums, I like the way they allow you to see the person beyond the profile blurb and messages and in fact personally find the whole "cold messaging" someone thing a little awkward, so the forums work for me perfectly
I think there are too many keyboard warriors in the forums which would put me off meeting them.
I respond to men who take time to message me based on my profile and take the time to get to know me and find out the REAL Coquette69 "
If you're able to recognise a keyboard warrior then surely the sensible thing to do would just be to avoid the ones you think are regardless of whether they use the forum or not  |
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"Throughout my many years on here , sexual meets through forumites was few and far between "
You mean
Throughout T many years on T here, sexual T meets through formumites was T few and T far between
Yorkshire lass.
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