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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thought this would be an interesting place for this conversation. A good friend once said to me "if you live for something, you die for it". I love sex and all that goes with it but one thing I have noticed in the swinging world is that most people who are involved, sex or swinging seemed to be their main interest. Outside of work and family most seemed to dedicate all their spare time to swinging. Anyone else found this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I know a woman, thought I knew her well, part of a couple she's given up her job to be here in this life she's on here just about all her waking hours totally addicted  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know a woman, thought I knew her well, part of a couple she's given up her job to be here in this life she's on here just about all her waking hours totally addicted "
Yeah I met a couple of girls like that. We'd meet, have a great time and literally as soon as we finished she would be on here. I like to enjoy the moment a bit and right there with the other person. Massive turn off if they are straight back on here |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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It's quite the opposite for us... Life, work, family, other things seem to take priority for us lately. We've not been active/playing for over 2 years although we do still socialise with long-term friends.
Friends of ours used to be totally into this, so much so they would be meeting and clubbing 3 or 4 times a week. Swinging totally consumed them. Their relationship suffered as a result and sadly they grew apart. Both still swing but with new partners now. Very sad to watch their marriage fall apart and honestly they had no conversation aside from what they'd been up to On here or at the club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thought this would be an interesting place for this conversation. A good friend once said to me "if you live for something, you die for it". I love sex and all that goes with it but one thing I have noticed in the swinging world is that most people who are involved, sex or swinging seemed to be their main interest. Outside of work and family most seemed to dedicate all their spare time to swinging. Anyone else found this? "
How have you conducted your research? And where? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me it is the gym 
You can tell man! Fair play to you. I find it hard to get motivated for the gym. More of a sports kinda guy"
Ty pal and yes, it can be hard to get motivated, before I train I always look at motivational videos and my favourite one is from jay cutler, this one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2iJWN9eZHBo |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's quite the opposite for us... Life, work, family, other things seem to take priority for us lately. We've not been active/playing for over 2 years although we do still socialise with long-term friends.
Friends of ours used to be totally into this, so much so they would be meeting and clubbing 3 or 4 times a week. Swinging totally consumed them. Their relationship suffered as a result and sadly they grew apart. Both still swing but with new partners now. Very sad to watch their marriage fall apart and honestly they had no conversation aside from what they'd been up to On here or at the club. "
Yeah it must be hard to keep a relationship going when you are both constantly looking for other people. I guess it's the same with everything: some people have addictive personalities and with something as good as Sex you can understand why |
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"Thought this would be an interesting place for this conversation. A good friend once said to me "if you live for something, you die for it". I love sex and all that goes with it but one thing I have noticed in the swinging world is that most people who are involved, sex or swinging seemed to be their main interest. Outside of work and family most seemed to dedicate all their spare time to swinging. Anyone else found this?
How have you conducted your research? And where?"
By objectively viewing the environments I am in whilst studying at the university of life |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me it is the gym
You can tell man! Fair play to you. I find it hard to get motivated for the gym. More of a sports kinda guyTy pal and yes, it can be hard to get motivated, before I train I always look at motivational videos and my favourite one is from jay cutler, this one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2iJWN9eZHBo "
Thanks. Will check it out. I'm the same and love a good inspirational video. Need them otherwise I'd prob be fat and lazy. Joe Rogan's vids and podcasts always help me kick my ass into gear |
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