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is it easier to be nice than nasty?
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over a year ago
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It's her easy be nasty online because it's faceless. But id much rather be nice any day whether online or in person. You never know what struggles people might have. So for me it's be nice as much as possible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go shove a submarine up your arse op 
And sometimes u just get wankers who try to be nasty but come across complete bell ends lol
That's not very nice  "
Lol sorry I just love irony |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go shove a submarine up your arse op
And sometimes u just get wankers who try to be nasty but come across complete bell ends lol
That's not very nice
Lol sorry I just love ironing "
girls this guys who ya want lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It takes the same amount of effort. Main difference is your own existence is a lot better when you're nice to people. Plus if someone is still being a dick whilst you're being nice to them, then you definitely know they're not worth your time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's harder to be nice if it doesn't come naturally. It's easy to sit and just bitch and moan and spread gossip. I think it goes hand in hand with how boring you are. It's a lot harder to be surrounded by that and to rise above it x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really depends on the situation involved. Sometimes being firm in a constructive way is what's required. I'm more a keep it positive way than waste time with negative energies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go shove a submarine up your arse op
And sometimes u just get wankers who try to be nasty but come across complete bell ends lol
That's not very nice "
I assumed he was merely trying to describe me as extremely well endowed... extremely extremely well endowed
Although I was somewhat unnerved by the inference of multiple appendages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think I know how to be nasty. Even when I'm angry with people I tend to blame myself instead of others "
That doesn't sound healthy. Sometimes anger is a natural response to people being 'nasty'. Don't blame yourself if you're not to blame |
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Are you ready?....
Some do, some don't, some will, some won't
I think some people are easy to be nice to because they are nice themselves, others not so much.
I know I've pissed a few people off today, they've only seen the part they've witnessed today and not the whole picture.
I'm often told I'm too nice, on the whole I am. On the whole I try to keep the peace. There are times tho when I refuse to be spoken to like shit, called stupid, or any other bollocks.
I'll run to the aid of someone in need but I'm sorry, if you've been a cunt you need to take the backlash that goes with it.
I take my backlash, and those that think they know me but actually have noooo fucking idea, well, either take me as I am or don't. "Don't" ain't gonna hurt me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I know I've pissed a few people off today, they've only seen the part they've witnessed today and not the whole picture.
I'm often told I'm too nice, on the whole I am. On the whole I try to keep the peace. There are times tho when I refuse to be spoken to like shit, called stupid, or any other bollocks.
I'll run to the aid of someone in need but I'm sorry, if you've been a cunt you need to take the backlash that goes with it.
I take my backlash, and those that think they know me but actually have noooo fucking idea, well, either take me as I am or don't. "Don't" ain't gonna hurt me."
you go girl! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's harder to be nice.
You have to rise above things, deal with differences, quell your thoughts, think of others first...and so it goes.
Nasty? Heck do whatever you want...easy. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" I think it's harder to be nice.
You have to rise above things, deal with differences, quell your thoughts, think of others first...and so it goes.
Nasty? Heck do whatever you want...easy."
you might have to rise above things, deal w differences and quell your thoughts to be REALLY nasty though... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are you ready?....
Some do, some don't, some will, some won't
I think some people are easy to be nice to because they are nice themselves, others not so much.
I know I've pissed a few people off today, they've only seen the part they've witnessed today and not the whole picture.
I'm often told I'm too nice, on the whole I am. On the whole I try to keep the peace. There are times tho when I refuse to be spoken to like shit, called stupid, or any other bollocks.
I'll run to the aid of someone in need but I'm sorry, if you've been a cunt you need to take the backlash that goes with it.
I take my backlash, and those that think they know me but actually have noooo fucking idea, well, either take me as I am or don't. "Don't" ain't gonna hurt me."
You got in first!
Now, back to the room etc etc. |
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"Are you ready?....
Some do, some don't, some will, some won't
I think some people are easy to be nice to because they are nice themselves, others not so much.
I know I've pissed a few people off today, they've only seen the part they've witnessed today and not the whole picture.
I'm often told I'm too nice, on the whole I am. On the whole I try to keep the peace. There are times tho when I refuse to be spoken to like shit, called stupid, or any other bollocks.
I'll run to the aid of someone in need but I'm sorry, if you've been a cunt you need to take the backlash that goes with it.
I take my backlash, and those that think they know me but actually have noooo fucking idea, well, either take me as I am or don't. "Don't" ain't gonna hurt me.
You got in first!
Now, back to the room etc etc."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And still be liked/disliked?
Topic"
It's easier to be a nasty people to people, but it does mean people won't like you.
Wearing your heart on your sleeve is a tough task to keep up. I would say it's easier, but there are a lot of people out there that only want to be around when it's all sunshine and rainbows, but disappear as soon as life starts getting a bit dark and stormy for people, or just bad people who will take advantage of peoples good nature |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It takes the same amount of effort. Main difference is your own existence is a lot better when you're nice to people. Plus if someone is still being a dick whilst you're being nice to them, then you definitely know they're not worth your time"
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