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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

What's everyone's views on this subject. I know a person on here who sleeps with guys and doesn't care about them being protected, I find it hard that people are happy to do this, imagine if she caught something and passed it onto her other meets

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's everyone's views on this subject. I know a person on here who sleeps with guys and doesn't care about them being protected, I find it hard that people are happy to do this, imagine if she caught something and passed it onto her other meets "

Depends on the type of bear.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I go bareback with my husband and that’s it. But I’m not really meeting anyone at the moment so doesn’t really matter

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Well her other meets are responsible for themselves are they not?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Well her other meets are responsible for themselves are they not? "

Exactly. They’re big boys now, equally their own fault if they don’t wear protection

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Never In a million years but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ok so I always get stick for saying this but I don’t get how guys will lick a woman’s fanny bare back (as you all put it) and will get their cocks sucked with no condom it say they won’t go bare back in the same pussy they licked. I don’t want to hear you can’t catch diseases from oral because that is beyond stupid.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's everyone's views on this subject. I know a person on here who sleeps with guys and doesn't care about them being protected, I find it hard that people are happy to do this, imagine if she caught something and passed it onto her other meets "
so do you wear a condom when you get head? If you do.. Imagine if she catches something in her mouth and gives it to other meets?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Jacket required with me, even my long term FWB has to pop one on. Though has split a couple of times in the heat of the moment hehe

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Plenty on here who are happy to have unprotected sex with strangers, I’ve had enough messages asking for it.

It would not be happening at all for me. I value my health and think anyone having unprotected penetration with random people is careless.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Worry about your own sexual health. Leave everyone else to theirs.

A random person fucking bareback has no impact on my life, unless i intend to meet them myself.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Jacket required with me, even my long term FWB has to pop one on. Though has split a couple of times in the heat of the moment hehe

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I respect that. Do you jacket up more for pregnancy reasons or to protect from sti?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's everyone's views on this subject. I know a person on here who sleeps with guys and doesn't care about them being protected, I find it hard that people are happy to do this, imagine if she caught something and passed it onto her other meets so do you wear a condom when you get head? If you do.. Imagine if she catches something in her mouth and gives it to other meets? "

The risks of catching something from oral are significantly lower than that of penetration.

I give oral without a condom always, and am regularly checked. Having unprotected sex is far riskier.

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By *exyman0113Man  over a year ago

leeds

Each to there own. I personally am very careful and always play safe.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I always practice safe sex. I'm damn sure to leave a false name and address, and no paper trail.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Jacket required with me, even my long term FWB has to pop one on. Though has split a couple of times in the heat of the moment hehe

I respect that. Do you jacket up more for pregnancy reasons or to protect from sti?"

Very very little chance of me becoming pregnant again, though admittedly both times i was pregnant, i was hornier than any other time in my life hehe

Yes i do worry about STD's, the thought of getting one and going without sex while i am for a better word, healing, feels me with dread.

If i was with someone in a full on one on one relationship of course it would be different. But yes i do enjoy sex and with different people, so keep myself sexually healthy x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"What's everyone's views on this subject. I know a person on here who sleeps with guys and doesn't care about them being protected, I find it hard that people are happy to do this, imagine if she caught something and passed it onto her other meets so do you wear a condom when you get head? If you do.. Imagine if she catches something in her mouth and gives it to other meets?

The risks of catching something from oral are significantly lower than that of penetration.

I give oral without a condom always, and am regularly checked. Having unprotected sex is far riskier."

Totally agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Jacket required with me, even my long term FWB has to pop one on. Though has split a couple of times in the heat of the moment hehe

I respect that. Do you jacket up more for pregnancy reasons or to protect from sti?

Very very little chance of me becoming pregnant again, though admittedly both times i was pregnant, i was hornier than any other time in my life hehe

Yes i do worry about STD's, the thought of getting one and going without sex while i am for a better word, healing, feels me with dread.

If i was with someone in a full on one on one relationship of course it would be different. But yes i do enjoy sex and with different people, so keep myself sexually healthy x "

Haha I love it.. I thought I was a nymph but you take the crown. I do hear you though, the thought of going without sex whilst healing is a nightmare so prevention is most definitely better than cure

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I never spend mumuch time worrying about what others do. Especially if I'm not meeting them....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Jacket required with me, even my long term FWB has to pop one on. Though has split a couple of times in the heat of the moment hehe

I respect that. Do you jacket up more for pregnancy reasons or to protect from sti?

Very very little chance of me becoming pregnant again, though admittedly both times i was pregnant, i was hornier than any other time in my life hehe

Yes i do worry about STD's, the thought of getting one and going without sex while i am for a better word, healing, feels me with dread.

If i was with someone in a full on one on one relationship of course it would be different. But yes i do enjoy sex and with different people, so keep myself sexually healthy x

Haha I love it.. I thought I was a nymph but you take the crown. I do hear you though, the thought of going without sex whilst healing is a nightmare so prevention is most definitely better than cure"

Sort of worded that wrong, please dont get wrong impression. I dont have multiple partners, 1 very regular and 3 others occasionally, different sexes. I never ever do one night stamds either.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's everyone's views on this subject. I know a person on here who sleeps with guys and doesn't care about them being protected, I find it hard that people are happy to do this, imagine if she caught something and passed it onto her other meets so do you wear a condom when you get head? If you do.. Imagine if she catches something in her mouth and gives it to other meets?

I appreciate your opinion however this is not a fact. It’s just what everyone says. The fact is if it was significantly lower to catch something from oral, prostitutes would give oral without condoms but they don’t. And if a man is giving a woman oral, whatever he could catch on his cock can also be caught on his tongue or in his mouth. Saliva will not save him

The risks of catching something from oral are significantly lower than that of penetration.

I give oral without a condom always, and am regularly checked. Having unprotected sex is far riskier."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's everyone's views on this subject. I know a person on here who sleeps with guys and doesn't care about them being protected, I find it hard that people are happy to do this, imagine if she caught something and passed it onto her other meets "

Shocking

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By *lyreelMan  over a year ago

King's lynn

Not another bareback thread!!!

This subject now has got to be the biggest thread starter.

Yawn.......

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By *allySlinkyWoman  over a year ago

Leeds

Surprised no one has said "Russian Roulette" yet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Not another bareback thread!!!

This subject now has got to be the biggest thread starter.

Yawn....... "

They're like busses. There will be another six along in a minute

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you catch something or end up with an unplanned pregnancy at least you can now appear on Jeremy Kyle.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Jacket required with me, even my long term FWB has to pop one on. Though has split a couple of times in the heat of the moment hehe

I respect that. Do you jacket up more for pregnancy reasons or to protect from sti?

Very very little chance of me becoming pregnant again, though admittedly both times i was pregnant, i was hornier than any other time in my life hehe

Yes i do worry about STD's, the thought of getting one and going without sex while i am for a better word, healing, feels me with dread.

If i was with someone in a full on one on one relationship of course it would be different. But yes i do enjoy sex and with different people, so keep myself sexually healthy x

Haha I love it.. I thought I was a nymph but you take the crown. I do hear you though, the thought of going without sex whilst healing is a nightmare so prevention is most definitely better than cure

Sort of worded that wrong, please dont get wrong impression. I dont have multiple partners, 1 very regular and 3 others occasionally, different sexes. I never ever do one night stamds either."

cool cool wasn’t judging trust me when I tell you half the people who speak up in these forums I completely fake. They post things they think others want to hear because they know others are watching but in your inbox they probably talk the most shit. I couldn’t care less if you had multiple partners as you are a grown ass woman but I respect your honesty and who am I to judge. So don’t worry I didn’t get the wrong impression at all. I just thought it was funny when you said the thought of waiting to heal whilst not having sex was dreadful as I can relate but never thought about it like that until you said it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's everyone's views on this subject. I know a person on here who sleeps with guys and doesn't care about them being protected, I find it hard that people are happy to do this, imagine if she caught something and passed it onto her other meets so do you wear a condom when you get head? If you do.. Imagine if she catches something in her mouth and gives it to other meets?

The risks of catching something from oral are significantly lower than that of penetration.

I give oral without a condom always, and am regularly checked. Having unprotected sex is far riskier."

my bad I meant to reply to you but just posted it.. I appreciate your opinion however this is not a fact. It’s just what everyone says. The fact is if it was significantly lower to catch something from oral, prostitutes would give oral without condoms but they don’t. And if a man is giving a woman oral, whatever he could catch on his cock can also be caught on his tongue or in his mouth. Saliva will not save him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's everyone's views on this subject. I know a person on here who sleeps with guys and doesn't care about them being protected, I find it hard that people are happy to do this, imagine if she caught something and passed it onto her other meets so do you wear a condom when you get head? If you do.. Imagine if she catches something in her mouth and gives it to other meets?

The risks of catching something from oral are significantly lower than that of penetration.

I give oral without a condom always, and am regularly checked. Having unprotected sex is far riskier.

my bad I meant to reply to you but just posted it.. I appreciate your opinion however this is not a fact. It’s just what everyone says. The fact is if it was significantly lower to catch something from oral, prostitutes would give oral without condoms but they don’t. And if a man is giving a woman oral, whatever he could catch on his cock can also be caught on his tongue or in his mouth. Saliva will not save him"

I think you need to take a look on a very popular and well known escort site to see hundreds if not thousands of Prostitutes give oral without condoms actually.

The rest of your comment doesn’t really make sense.

STI’s can be caught through sex, oral, kissing, sharing towels (rare), and touching for example a woman’s vagina after you’ve just came on your hand.

However the risks of catching an STI from oral ARE significantly lower than penetration. I have no idea what that has to do with Prostitutes, but fact is plenty give oral without condoms.

I know enough sex workers (porn and escort) to know this, so you’re wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I do bareback only when I fuck asses it is safer

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By *issmorganWoman  over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Each to their own,they know the risks.

I wouldn't with anyone other than Jack.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If you have regular check ups what's the problem.

The woman could catch something off the guy. Why is it always the woman who is dirty.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Each to their own,they know the risks.

I wouldn't with anyone other than Jack. "

#luckyJack

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's everyone's views on this subject. I know a person on here who sleeps with guys and doesn't care about them being protected, I find it hard that people are happy to do this, imagine if she caught something and passed it onto her other meets "

That would be their fault for not insisting on using a condom.

Imagining a man who is infected and passing it onto her in the first place.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you have regular check ups what's the problem.

The woman could catch something off the guy. Why is it always the woman who is dirty. "

It's been like that for centuries. Men forget that another man would have passed on the disease to the woman.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's everyone's views on this subject. I know a person on here who sleeps with guys and doesn't care about them being protected, I find it hard that people are happy to do this, imagine if she caught something and passed it onto her other meets so do you wear a condom when you get head? If you do.. Imagine if she catches something in her mouth and gives it to other meets?

The risks of catching something from oral are significantly lower than that of penetration.

I give oral without a condom always, and am regularly checked. Having unprotected sex is far riskier.

my bad I meant to reply to you but just posted it.. I appreciate your opinion however this is not a fact. It’s just what everyone says. The fact is if it was significantly lower to catch something from oral, prostitutes would give oral without condoms but they don’t. And if a man is giving a woman oral, whatever he could catch on his cock can also be caught on his tongue or in his mouth. Saliva will not save him

I think you need to take a look on a very popular and well known escort site to see hundreds if not thousands of Prostitutes give oral without condoms actually.

The rest of your comment doesn’t really make sense.

STI’s can be caught through sex, oral, kissing, sharing towels (rare), and touching for example a woman’s vagina after you’ve just came on your hand.

However the risks of catching an STI from oral ARE significantly lower than penetration. I have no idea what that has to do with Prostitutes, but fact is plenty give oral without condoms.

I know enough sex workers (porn and escort) to know this, so you’re wrong. "

I’m wrong because you say I’m wrong? I think you should enlighten me on the name of this site and maybe I’ll pay it a visit.. i wouldn’t happen to find you on the site would I because you seem to be taking this quite personally and considering you said you know enough sex workers... either way. I repeat.. I respect your opinion (even your OPINION on the your thoughts that I’m wrong) still common sense tells me you aren’t speaking facts. The human mouth is the most dirtiest part of the human body. Scientists have discovered more than 615 different kinds of bacteria that can live in the mouth tongue and throat. So what makes you think anyone of them can’t be transmitted through oral sex? So if you have been fortunate to not have caught anything. Good for you but if you have been wondering why you keep get sore throats or keep coming down with fevers maybe you should do a little more research.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

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By *nkdMan  over a year ago

orpington

I’m only bareback with those I’ve got a history with and know their background, other than oral.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

If I was in a long term monogamous relationship then okay but otherwise absolutely not.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"What's everyone's views on this subject. I know a person on here who sleeps with guys and doesn't care about them being protected, I find it hard that people are happy to do this, imagine if she caught something and passed it onto her other meets so do you wear a condom when you get head? If you do.. Imagine if she catches something in her mouth and gives it to other meets?

The risks of catching something from oral are significantly lower than that of penetration.

I give oral without a condom always, and am regularly checked. Having unprotected sex is far riskier.

my bad I meant to reply to you but just posted it.. I appreciate your opinion however this is not a fact. It’s just what everyone says. The fact is if it was significantly lower to catch something from oral, prostitutes would give oral without condoms but they don’t. And if a man is giving a woman oral, whatever he could catch on his cock can also be caught on his tongue or in his mouth. Saliva will not save him

I think you need to take a look on a very popular and well known escort site to see hundreds if not thousands of Prostitutes give oral without condoms actually.

The rest of your comment doesn’t really make sense.

STI’s can be caught through sex, oral, kissing, sharing towels (rare), and touching for example a woman’s vagina after you’ve just came on your hand.

However the risks of catching an STI from oral ARE significantly lower than penetration. I have no idea what that has to do with Prostitutes, but fact is plenty give oral without condoms.

I know enough sex workers (porn and escort) to know this, so you’re wrong.

I’m wrong because you say I’m wrong? I think you should enlighten me on the name of this site and maybe I’ll pay it a visit.. i wouldn’t happen to find you on the site would I because you seem to be taking this quite personally and considering you said you know enough sex workers... either way. I repeat.. I respect your opinion (even your OPINION on the your thoughts that I’m wrong) still common sense tells me you aren’t speaking facts. The human mouth is the most dirtiest part of the human body. Scientists have discovered more than 615 different kinds of bacteria that can live in the mouth tongue and throat. So what makes you think anyone of them can’t be transmitted through oral sex? So if you have been fortunate to not have caught anything. Good for you but if you have been wondering why you keep get sore throats or keep coming down with fevers maybe you should do a little more research. "

You said in more words “prostitutes don’t give oral sex without a condom” you didn’t say *some* or *many* you said as a whole.

And as I have a couple of friends who are in the sex industry you ARE wrong since I know some who do just that. Besides, how would you know what Prostitutes do and don’t do unless you’re using them?

No you won’t find me on the site, and I’m certainly not taking this personal. I just like to correct people when they are misinformed. It’s the helpful little angel in me.

I think you have misread my post and confused yourself I never one said you can’t catch an STI through oral sex... I said the risk is LOWER then that of penetration which is fact. A quick google will show that if you want to educate yourself in the stats.

Thankfully I have never caught anything as I take my health seriously and am very picky on who I meet or have sex with. That’s not to say it can’t ever happen.

I suggest you re read my post as you are making out I am saying you can’t catch anything via oral sex. When you can. The risk is lower.

Oh and before telling others to do more research you should do so yourself, a sore throat or a fever wouldn’t automatically mean an STI... LOL. That person could have a very weak immune system for example.

Also, plenty of STI’s have zero symptoms and can go unnoticed until that person gets checked for example.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If you have regular check ups what's the problem.

The woman could catch something off the guy. Why is it always the woman who is dirty.

It's been like that for centuries. Men forget that another man would have passed on the disease to the woman."

p

I know it's always the woman that gets the blame...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Surprised no one has said "Russian Roulette" yet"

Russian roulette

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I’ve posted the link so many times I won’t again, but you can catch loads from oral sex, either way and there are clear charts out there to explain what. Google ‘oral sex’ ‘std’ and ‘risk’ and inform yourselves, THEN make an informed choice.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The OP spontaneously combusted after doing if bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was going to ask OP "what about the ones you DONT know about?"

But he's buggered off

Ho hum. I doubt he would have had an answer anyway

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’ve posted the link so many times I won’t again, but you can catch loads from oral sex, either way and there are clear charts out there to explain what. Google ‘oral sex’ ‘std’ and ‘risk’ and inform yourselves, THEN make an informed choice."

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was going to ask OP "what about the ones you DONT know about?"

But he's buggered off

Ho hum. I doubt he would have had an answer anyway"

If you don't know about it, it's all good. You'll be in the clear.

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS  over a year ago

Larne

Ahhhh the weekly bareback debate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The OP spontaneously combusted after doing if bareback. "

Happens to the best of us

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I was going to ask OP "what about the ones you DONT know about?"

But he's buggered off

Ho hum. I doubt he would have had an answer anyway

If you don't know about it, it's all good. You'll be in the clear. "

Thats alright then

I was worried there, for a minute.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The OP spontaneously combusted after doing if bareback. "

Hahahaha. I hope he hasn’t just got his results....

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The OP spontaneously combusted after doing if bareback.

Happens to the best of us"

[poster disappeared in puff of smoke at 18:53 18/07/2018. Dirty bastid musta done it bearback]

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