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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is definitely going to help you out

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

This is definitely going to help you out

It can't get any worse...

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

You’re not doing yourself any favours so can hardly complain about lack of sex.

I’ve met loads of people. If a middle aged married bi guy who can’t accommodate can do it, then why can’t you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You’re not doing yourself any favours so can hardly complain about lack of sex.

I’ve met loads of people. If a middle aged married bi guy who can’t accommodate can do it, then why can’t you? "

You’re married, huge.if.true ?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why is it huge ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is definitely going to help you out

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

P.s. this is a swinging site, not a dating site.

Think what you are saying you are after would best be found trying a dating site.

Not having a go, just a suggestion.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You’re not doing yourself any favours so can hardly complain about lack of sex.

I’ve met loads of people. If a middle aged married bi guy who can’t accommodate can do it, then why can’t you? "

I'm not magic mike, and I'm not going to act like everyone else because it will get me "results".

Some chicks might dig a guy like me anyway

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

"You’re not doing yourself any favours so can hardly complain about lack of sex.

I’ve met loads of people. If a middle aged married bi guy who can’t accommodate can do it, then why can’t you?

You’re married, huge.if.true ?!"

Oh it's true and he's a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours? "

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I know women love men who moan and whine about not being able to get a meet, it’s such a turn on for them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I know women love men who moan and whine about not being able to get a meet, it’s such a turn on for them. "

moan and whine. you can't even hear me.

ugh. there's no guidebook to getting chicks dude. everyone's different. don't make blanket statements

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I know women love men who moan and whine about not being able to get a meet, it’s such a turn on for them. "

I prefer wine and then moaning and taking turns.

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"You’re not doing yourself any favours so can hardly complain about lack of sex.

I’ve met loads of people. If a middle aged married bi guy who can’t accommodate can do it, then why can’t you?

You’re married, huge.if.true ?!

Oh it's true and he's a lot of fun

Oh, thank you. Ditto definitely!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know women love men who moan and whine about not being able to get a meet, it’s such a turn on for them.

moan and whine. you can't even hear me.

ugh. there's no guidebook to getting chicks dude. everyone's different. don't make blanket statements"

My blanket statement is lovely and snuggly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I still have hope a good woman will appreciate me the way i am and not what society says i should be

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your profile is doing you no favours, and posts moaning about your lack of attention won't help.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

I never get the notch on the bedpost thing, sounds like vandalism to me. I like to keep nice neat books on a bookshelf, volumes ordered by date assending.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your profile is doing you no favours, and posts moaning about your lack of attention won't help. "

Yes miss

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me."

You don't know the guys you're accusing of just wanting notches either. When you point a finger 3 point back at you, sunshine.

I get it, you're not getting as much as you would like but threads like this make you look like an incel in waiting. Not an attractive quality.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

You don't know the guys you're accusing of just wanting notches either. When you point a finger 3 point back at you, sunshine.

I get it, you're not getting as much as you would like but threads like this make you look like an incel in waiting. Not an attractive quality. "

I never pointed at anyone specifically. if you want to point your fingers, bring it on!

I'm not going to pretend I'm someone else to make a woman happy.

In fact. it would be nice to see a woman make an effort with me for a change. you kbow what i mean?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*grabs popcorn*

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You've only been here 6 months that's really not that long. It took me around a year to get my 1st meet but in that time I enjoyed getting to know lot's of people.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*grabs popcorn*"

I’ve got the fizzy pop x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

You don't know the guys you're accusing of just wanting notches either. When you point a finger 3 point back at you, sunshine.

I get it, you're not getting as much as you would like but threads like this make you look like an incel in waiting. Not an attractive quality.

I never pointed at anyone specifically. if you want to point your fingers, bring it on!

I'm not going to pretend I'm someone else to make a woman happy.

In fact. it would be nice to see a woman make an effort with me for a change. you kbow what i mean?"

You expect women to make an effort with a photoless profile ?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

What do you mean start taking names?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

You don't know the guys you're accusing of just wanting notches either. When you point a finger 3 point back at you, sunshine.

I get it, you're not getting as much as you would like but threads like this make you look like an incel in waiting. Not an attractive quality.

I never pointed at anyone specifically. if you want to point your fingers, bring it on!

I'm not going to pretend I'm someone else to make a woman happy.

In fact. it would be nice to see a woman make an effort with me for a change. you kbow what i mean?"

Chill out! I've never said you had to change, no one has. Maybe you're projecting a bit?

Whilst you may not have named anyone specifically you did allude to the more successful on here as being some sort of player, only looking for shag's or notches in bed posts.

Ok, you're a bit alternative. That's great. Be who you are but accept that who you are might be a bit niche and so won't appeal to the masses. Don't moan when the masses don't want to shag you.

Women on here don't generally have to make an effort due to the ratio of men to women. They can usually get what they want quite easily. If you're content to wait (though this thread indicates otherwise) then do so.

I hope you find what you are looking for but in my opinion, running down the guys that are successful and blaming women for not liking you for who you are are not winning strategies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

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Who's names of the successful guys or women..... To what end?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

You don't know the guys you're accusing of just wanting notches either. When you point a finger 3 point back at you, sunshine.

I get it, you're not getting as much as you would like but threads like this make you look like an incel in waiting. Not an attractive quality.

I never pointed at anyone specifically. if you want to point your fingers, bring it on!

I'm not going to pretend I'm someone else to make a woman happy.

In fact. it would be nice to see a woman make an effort with me for a change. you kbow what i mean?

You expect women to make an effort with a photoless profile ?"
i have photos. they're just not public. its not difficult to friend someone.

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By *ackDanielsWhiteRabbitMan over a year ago

Halifax

"*grabs popcorn*

I’ve got the fizzy pop x"

I've brought the cake.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Ok in answer to your first question. Yes. It's kinda part and parcel of having sex with multiple people for some. That's just how they roll.... and?

Secondly, I'm not sure how this impacts your suffering alone. Maybe you need help? Talk to someone?

Thirdly, completely baffled by the taking names comment. Who? The guys that are gathering notches or the women? What's the point?

Again... I'm not sure how this helps you? Bit of a baffling post really op.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP redo your profile...

Get a picture on...be less needy...not a great quality...this can be a fun place... but sometimes it can be cruel...you may have painted a target on yourself.

It can take a while to even speak to another human here...be patient and you never know, that inked punky metal/doom girl you always wanted might stumble on you.

Good luck my young naive friend...I am here for chats if you need them

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By *etLikeMan over a year ago

most fundamental aspects

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

What do you mean start taking names?"

Don’t tell him Pike!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Ok in answer to your first question. Yes. It's kinda part and parcel of having sex with multiple people for some. That's just how they roll.... and?

Secondly, I'm not sure how this impacts your suffering alone. Maybe you need help? Talk to someone?

Thirdly, completely baffled by the taking names comment. Who? The guys that are gathering notches or the women? What's the point?

Again... I'm not sure how this helps you? Bit of a baffling post really op. "
cmon being baffled first thing in the morning is good for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slightest what i say about them.

You use words like project and moan. Who's projecting?

I'm not alternative. I'm misunderstood.

maybe i can open some peoples eyes on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slightest what i say about them.

You use words like project and moan. Who's projecting?

I'm not alternative. I'm misunderstood.

maybe i can open some peoples eyes on here."

Really, pray tell, this could be interesting

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slightest what i say about them.

You use words like project and moan. Who's projecting?

I'm not alternative. I'm misunderstood.

maybe i can open some peoples eyes on here."

Again, didn't say they were but you were bothered when I used the same language about you.... You can't have things both ways.

You are projecting, in my opinion anyway. Its everyone else's fault you are left to 'suffer alone', nothing to do with you! Women are the bad ones for not seeing you for what you are, a great guy with lots to offer presumably. Succesful men don't care like you would but the women choose them over you. They can't see the truth.

It's all ringing bells in my head I have to say. Don't go on the dark web!

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By *otlovefun42Couple over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Don't tell 'em your name Pike.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"I still have hope a good woman will appreciate me the way i am and not what society says i should be"

Also.... This post infers you are 'alternative'..... Make your mind up!

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By *ordonBennettMan over a year ago

dover

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Don't tell 'em your name Pike.

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By *otlovefun42Couple over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

Seriously though, as others have said.

This is a swinger/casual sex site and I really think a dating site would be a much better option.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slightest what i say about them.

You use words like project and moan. Who's projecting?

I'm not alternative. I'm misunderstood.

maybe i can open some peoples eyes on here."

To what, no photos are the future ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slightest what i say about them.

You use words like project and moan. Who's projecting?

I'm not alternative. I'm misunderstood.

maybe i can open some peoples eyes on here.

Again, didn't say they were but you were bothered when I used the same language about you.... You can't have things both ways.

It's all ringing bells in my head I have to say. Don't go on the dark web! "
think you've added a few words into the equation there ha he doesn't say that much to be fair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"*grabs popcorn*"

Can I share?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't put labels on things. you do.

but yeah. its my own fault that I'm deeper than the masses

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me."

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't put labels on things. you do.

but yeah. its my own fault that I'm deeper than the masses"

I put labels on things, otherwise I get corn flakes and Frosties mixed up and I don’t need that shit first thing in the morning.

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By *axxonBlackMan over a year ago

north

It's a sex site and women have preferences who they wana meet.......

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By *axxonBlackMan over a year ago

north

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

I was just about saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

"
nah dude. there's plenty other folk like me and i didn't say all men. i said some. I'm not ignorant. you forget, I'm a man myself, i know how men think. I just don't let my instincts rule me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know women love men who moan and whine about not being able to get a meet, it’s such a turn on for them.

I prefer wine and then moaning and taking turns. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a sex site and women have preferences who they wana meet......."

yeah but their preferences are all the same!

like they are the only good ones...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

nah dude. there's plenty other folk like me and i didn't say all men. i said some. I'm not ignorant. you forget, I'm a man myself, i know how men think. I just don't let my instincts rule me

"
not all men think the same as not all women do, so saying you know how a man thinks is an exaggeration at best

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sex site and women have preferences who they wana meet.......

yeah but their preferences are all the same!

like they are the only good ones..."

Really? What do all women want? Please can you describe it for me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's a sex site and women have preferences who they wana meet.......

yeah but their preferences are all the same!

like they are the only good ones...

Really? What do all women want? Please can you describe it for me."

a decent one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't put labels on things. you do.

but yeah. its my own fault that I'm deeper than the masses"

I hate to say it op. The masses aren't the problem here. It's your expectations of the masses... on a swingers site! Why would you expect to find something deeper on a swingers site? I'm not saying you can't find that, but if you don't, then you can hardly complain. It's like a vegetarian complaining about the menu in a steak house!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Third time lucky!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Again I'm being labelled a complainer. can i not be neutral and state an observation?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Again I'm being labelled a complainer. can i not be neutral and state an observation?"
No you have to judged it's a prerequisite of being here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Again I'm being labelled a complainer. can i not be neutral and state an observation?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

nah dude. there's plenty other folk like me and i didn't say all men. i said some. I'm not ignorant. you forget, I'm a man myself, i know how men think. I just don't let my instincts rule me

You know how you think, you can’t speak for all of us, or think for all of us even.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't put labels on things. you do.

but yeah. its my own fault that I'm deeper than the masses

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why can't we just both be right? Or both be wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

nah dude. there's plenty other folk like me and i didn't say all men. i said some. I'm not ignorant. you forget, I'm a man myself, i know how men think. I just don't let my instincts rule me

You know how you think, you can’t speak for all of us, or think for all of us even."

yes i can

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't we just both be right? Or both be wrong?

"
you are right cmon don't take it to heart, whats your plans for the day?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't we just both be right? Or both be wrong?

About what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Well, i can't speak/think for all but some...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You’re not doing yourself any favours so can hardly complain about lack of sex.

I’ve met loads of people. If a middle aged married bi guy who can’t accommodate can do it, then why can’t you?

I'm not magic mike, and I'm not going to act like everyone else because it will get me "results".

Some chicks might dig a guy like me anyway"

Me either im just addorable

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

nah dude. there's plenty other folk like me and i didn't say all men. i said some. I'm not ignorant. you forget, I'm a man myself, i know how men think. I just don't let my instincts rule me

You know how you think, you can’t speak for all of us, or think for all of us even.

yes i can"

Yes, he can he’s deeper than the masses, he’s got hidden depths. He’s a very deep man. He goes well deep.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Why can't we just both be right? Or both be wrong?

About what?"

yoy don't know? Then why are you posting?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sex site and women have preferences who they wana meet.......

yeah but their preferences are all the same!

like they are the only good ones...

Really? What do all women want? Please can you describe it for me.

a decent one"

Are you saying you're not decent? I don't see why you'd think that. You have an alternative look but some women like that. Maybe try dating sites for that type of look.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP you’re contradicting yourself with what you’re writing and how you’re writing it.

I can’t work out if this is an awful look at me thread that’s gone wrong or if you do actually think that highly of yourself and that darkly of others...

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

What do you mean start taking names?

Don’t tell him Pike!"

*chuckling

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

nah dude. there's plenty other folk like me and i didn't say all men. i said some. I'm not ignorant. you forget, I'm a man myself, i know how men think. I just don't let my instincts rule me

You know how you think, you can’t speak for all of us, or think for all of us even.

yes i can

Yes, he can he’s deeper than the masses, he’s got hidden depths. He’s a very deep man. He goes well deep."

Well i aint swimming in him maybe f&b will the iv heard f&b loves to swim

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Your not alown op meney others lack meets to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP you’re contradicting yourself with what you’re writing and how you’re writing it.

I can’t work out if this is an awful look at me thread that’s gone wrong or if you do actually think that highly of yourself and that darkly of others..."

its neither. But its okay for everyone else to show off, but when i do it...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't we just both be right? Or both be wrong?

About what?

yoy don't know? Then why are you posting?"

Trying to understand what your point is? You say you're not complaining. ok great. So the op was an observation? Ok you're right. Some guys are incredibly successful on here. Others aren't. Was that your observation? If so I agree.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

nah dude. there's plenty other folk like me and i didn't say all men. i said some. I'm not ignorant. you forget, I'm a man myself, i know how men think. I just don't let my instincts rule me

You know how you think, you can’t speak for all of us, or think for all of us even.

yes i can

Yes, he can he’s deeper than the masses, he’s got hidden depths. He’s a very deep man. He goes well deep.

Well i aint swimming in him maybe f&b will the iv heard f&b loves to swim

I can't swim but willing to learn if someone is ready to suck my cheesy bell end to reward me afterwards

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Since the dawn of time there have always been guys to are good at getting casual sex, with the majority of men struggling. The birth of the Internet only only makes it easier to find people who are interested in casual sex. What it doesn’t do it create a miracle cure for those men who struggle in this quest. And for those men who struggle to get casual sex, that’s just unfortunate. I know everybody has their preferences, but there will be some men who women deviate towards more than others. In the vanilla world a man who has multiple partners is a bad thing. However I am a swinger. I’ve a fair few notches on my own bed post, therefore I would be being somewhat of a hypocrite if I complain about being someone’s notch.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Your not alown op meney others lack meets to.

see? I'm not alone. Maybe we should all commit mass suicide and leave the perfect people to it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Your not alown op meney others lack meets to.

see? I'm not alone. Maybe we should all commit mass suicide and leave the perfect people to it"

Incel alert incel alert

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Since the dawn of time there have always been guys to are good at getting casual sex, with the majority of men struggling. The birth of the Internet only only makes it easier to find people who are interested in casual sex. What it doesn’t do it create a miracle cure for those men who struggle in this quest. And for those men who struggle to get casual sex, that’s just unfortunate. I know everybody has their preferences, but there will be some men who women deviate towards more than others. In the vanilla world a man who has multiple partners is a bad thing. However I am a swinger. I’ve a fair few notches on my own bed post, therefore I would be being somewhat of a hypocrite if I complain about being someone’s notch.

Mrs"
where do you like your notches?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"I don't put labels on things. you do.

but yeah. its my own fault that I'm deeper than the masses"

Of course you are

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had lots of sex from this site. If I am just another notch on a bedpost I don't care; I've enjoyed every minute of it.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Your not alown op meney others lack meets to.

Difference being _eeside, you don't blame everyone else for it x

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

Limbo

OP - you're being utterly ridiculous. This thread *isn't* neutral because you've effectively put down men you see as successful by stating that men 'like you are left to suffer alone'. Leaving aside the true meaning of 'suffering' anyway, this implies you see yourself as 'better' than they are and with each subsequent contribution to this thread you are coming across as increasingly bitter and off putting.

YOU don't 'deserve' success here any more than anyone else. Like every other man here you are the architect (or not) of your own success. ALL men here start off in the same place - arguably at something of a disadvantage because their numbers far outweigh women. What happens next is down to the individual concerned and that includes you. If you really want to help yourself you could ask politely for profile advice, or you could seek out the myriad threads which offer the same.

Carrying on like a teenager having a strop won't alter your current position and will only harm people's perceptions of you. It's also incredibly insulting and arrogant for you to state that you can speak for all other men here - when a good proportion of them (i.e. the 'successful' ones you seem to despise) don't resort to 'woe is me' tactics.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Your not alown op meney others lack meets to.

see? I'm not alone. Maybe we should all commit mass suicide and leave the perfect people to it

Incel alert incel alert

Yup.... Said it earlier.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slightest what i say about them.

You use words like project and moan. Who's projecting?

I'm not alternative. I'm misunderstood.

maybe i can open some peoples eyes on here."

What is it exactly that you’d like to open people’s eyes up to?

Mrs

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

nah dude. there's plenty other folk like me and i didn't say all men. i said some. I'm not ignorant. you forget, I'm a man myself, i know how men think. I just don't let my instincts rule me

You know how you think, you can’t speak for all of us, or think for all of us even.

yes i can

Yes, he can he’s deeper than the masses, he’s got hidden depths. He’s a very deep man. He goes well deep.

Well i aint swimming in him maybe f&b will the iv heard f&b loves to swim

I can't swim but willing to learn if someone is ready to suck my cheesy bell end to reward me afterwards "

Ask the op to do it,it may cheer the ...... up!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP - you're being utterly ridiculous. This thread *isn't* neutral because you've effectively put down men you see as successful by stating that men 'like you are left to suffer alone'. Leaving aside the true meaning of 'suffering' anyway, this implies you see yourself as 'better' than they are and with each subsequent contribution to this thread you are coming across as increasingly bitter and off putting.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

nah dude. there's plenty other folk like me and i didn't say all men. i said some. I'm not ignorant. you forget, I'm a man myself, i know how men think. I just don't let my instincts rule me

You know how you think, you can’t speak for all of us, or think for all of us even.

yes i can

Yes, he can he’s deeper than the masses, he’s got hidden depths. He’s a very deep man. He goes well deep.

Well i aint swimming in him maybe f&b will the iv heard f&b loves to swim

I can't swim but willing to learn if someone is ready to suck my cheesy bell end to reward me afterwards

Ask the op to do it,it may cheer the ...... up!"

Why couldn't you do it ? I heard, well there are so rumours, that you are good at sucking and eating the chess of cheesy french bell end.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Your not alown op meney others lack meets to.

Difference being _eeside, you don't blame everyone else for it x "
not everyone, some. stop twisting my words.

anyway, is not possible we are all equally to blame? Don't make me your scapegoat

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

Limbo

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Your not alown op meney others lack meets to.

see? I'm not alone. Maybe we should all commit mass suicide and leave the perfect people to it

Incel alert incel alert

... well, I wasn't going to mention the 'I' word but have to admit that's exactly what reading this thread has reminded me of.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"P.s. this is a swinging site, not a dating site.

Think what you are saying you are after would best be found trying a dating site.

Not having a go, just a suggestion.

Its whatever people want to use it for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Your not alown op meney others lack meets to.

see? I'm not alone. Maybe we should all commit mass suicide and leave the perfect people to it

Incel alert incel alert

... well, I wasn't going to mention the 'I' word but have to admit that's exactly what reading this thread has reminded me of."
that was about chemicals wasn't it

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By *ookingforlustMan over a year ago

northants

"Well, i can't speak/think for all but some..."

Think it’s best if you just speak/think for yourself chief. Not sure you’d get many volunteers to join you in the pit of misery you’ve dug for yourself

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Your not alown op meney others lack meets to.

Difference being _eeside, you don't blame everyone else for it x not everyone, some. stop twisting my words.

anyway, is not possible we are all equally to blame? Don't make me your scapegoat"

How am I making you my scapegoat? To blame for what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slightest what i say about them.

You use words like project and moan. Who's projecting?

I'm not alternative. I'm misunderstood.

maybe i can open some peoples eyes on here.

What is it exactly that you’d like to open people’s eyes up to?

Mrs"
themselves hopefully

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well, i can't speak/think for all but some...

Think it’s best if you just speak/think for yourself chief. Not sure you’d get many volunteers to join you in the pit of misery you’ve dug for yourself

"
dilly dilly

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

Limbo

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Your not alown op meney others lack meets to.

see? I'm not alone. Maybe we should all commit mass suicide and leave the perfect people to it

Incel alert incel alert

... well, I wasn't going to mention the 'I' word but have to admit that's exactly what reading this thread has reminded me of.that was about chemicals wasn't it "

If only it was. I find the whole Incel ideology fucking terrifying

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

nah dude. there's plenty other folk like me and i didn't say all men. i said some. I'm not ignorant. you forget, I'm a man myself, i know how men think. I just don't let my instincts rule me

You know how you think, you can’t speak for all of us, or think for all of us even.

yes i can

Yes, he can he’s deeper than the masses, he’s got hidden depths. He’s a very deep man. He goes well deep.

Well i aint swimming in him maybe f&b will the iv heard f&b loves to swim

I can't swim but willing to learn if someone is ready to suck my cheesy bell end to reward me afterwards

Ask the op to do it,it may cheer the ...... up!

Why couldn't you do it ? I heard, well there are so rumours, that you are good at sucking and eating the chess of cheesy french bell end. "

So long as it isnt ultra cheesy I have a pretty weak stomach.

I was feeling a little sorry for the op to begin with as I'd hate to be a guy on here,I don't now though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Your not alown op meney others lack meets to.

see? I'm not alone. Maybe we should all commit mass suicide and leave the perfect people to it

Incel alert incel alert

... well, I wasn't going to mention the 'I' word but have to admit that's exactly what reading this thread has reminded me of.that was about chemicals wasn't it

If only it was. I find the whole Incel ideology fucking terrifying

"
so did I so didn't get involved

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well, i can't speak/think for all but some...

Think it’s best if you just speak/think for yourself chief. Not sure you’d get many volunteers to join you in the pit of misery you’ve dug for yourself

somebody has to think/speak for them if they won't do it themselves

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

nah dude. there's plenty other folk like me and i didn't say all men. i said some. I'm not ignorant. you forget, I'm a man myself, i know how men think. I just don't let my instincts rule me

You know how you think, you can’t speak for all of us, or think for all of us even.

yes i can

Yes, he can he’s deeper than the masses, he’s got hidden depths. He’s a very deep man. He goes well deep.

Well i aint swimming in him maybe f&b will the iv heard f&b loves to swim

I can't swim but willing to learn if someone is ready to suck my cheesy bell end to reward me afterwards

Ask the op to do it,it may cheer the ...... up!

Why couldn't you do it ? I heard, well there are so rumours, that you are good at sucking and eating the chess of cheesy french bell end.

So long as it isnt ultra cheesy I have a pretty weak stomach.

I was feeling a little sorry for the op to begin with as I'd hate to be a guy on here,I don't now though."

I don't even know what the thread is abt. I am just a guy who tries to get his lovely but smelly dick to get sucked by faint-hearted women.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's a sex site and women have preferences who they wana meet.......

yeah but their preferences are all the same!

like they are the only good ones..."

I think there is a certain amount of truth in that. As I said in my previous post, there have always been men who are good at attracting women for the purposes of casual sex, leaving the majority of men struggling. That can be perceived as not being fair. But on the other hand, casual sex is not a basic human right, so this is not an unfairness that needs to be equalised. And Fab is not a charity. People will meet who they want to meet. If those people happen to be the ones that everybody else wants to meet, then that’s just tough. It should not be expected that people meet someone they don’t want to meet in order to address an imbalance.

Mrs

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

So we can be notches on yours?

that's an assumption. you don't even know me.

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

nah dude. there's plenty other folk like me and i didn't say all men. i said some. I'm not ignorant. you forget, I'm a man myself, i know how men think. I just don't let my instincts rule me

You know how you think, you can’t speak for all of us, or think for all of us even.

yes i can

Yes, he can he’s deeper than the masses, he’s got hidden depths. He’s a very deep man. He goes well deep.

Well i aint swimming in him maybe f&b will the iv heard f&b loves to swim

I can't swim but willing to learn if someone is ready to suck my cheesy bell end to reward me afterwards

Ask the op to do it,it may cheer the ...... up!

Why couldn't you do it ? I heard, well there are so rumours, that you are good at sucking and eating the chess of cheesy french bell end.

So long as it isnt ultra cheesy I have a pretty weak stomach.

I was feeling a little sorry for the op to begin with as I'd hate to be a guy on here,I don't now though.

I don't even know what the thread is abt. I am just a guy who tries to get his lovely but smelly dick to get sucked by faint-hearted women. "

The thread is about a man having a tippy tantrum about not getting a shag,perhaps you could give him a few tips and put him out of his misery.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slightest what i say about them.

You use words like project and moan. Who's projecting?

I'm not alternative. I'm misunderstood.

maybe i can open some peoples eyes on here.

What is it exactly that you’d like to open people’s eyes up to?

Mrs themselves hopefully"

I don’t understand. What are you hoping people will see if they open their eyes up to themselves?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alon

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

nah dude. there's plenty other folk like me and i didn't say all men. i said some. I'm not ignorant. you forget, I'm a man myself, i know how men think. I just don't let my instincts rule me

You know how you think, you can’t speak for all of us, or think for all of us even.

yes i can

Yes,

I was feeling a little sorry for the op to begin with as I'd hate to be a guy on here,I don't now though."
and id hate to be a woman on here, and i have no sympathy for them either. they are the architects of their own misfortune

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slightest what i say about them.

You use words like project and moan. Who's projecting?

I'm not alternative. I'm misunderstood.

maybe i can open some peoples eyes on here.

What is it exactly that you’d like to open people’s eyes up to?

Mrs themselves hopefully

I don’t understand. What are you hoping people will see if they open their eyes up to themselves? "
their inner self maybe

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By *ookingforlustMan over a year ago

northants

"Well, i can't speak/think for all but some...

Think it’s best if you just speak/think for yourself chief. Not sure you’d get many volunteers to join you in the pit of misery you’ve dug for yourself

somebody has to think/speak for them if they won't do it themselves"

So you’re the self appointed spokesperson? Or did you ask for their permission before deciding to speak on their behalf. Or are you just making massive assumptions because you’ve got your own little pity party going?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slightest what i say about them.

You use words like project and moan. Who's projecting?

I'm not alternative. I'm misunderstood.

maybe i can open some peoples eyes on he

I don’t understand. What are you hoping people will see if they open their eyes up to themselves? "

their own ugliness i suppose

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Why can't we just both be right? Or both be wrong?

About what?

yoy don't know? Then why are you posting?

It’s the assumption that he knows better that I find unsettling.

OP you write this asif these successful guys are using the ladies, have you stopped to think that maybe, just maybe, it’s a mutual thing?

You don’t need to ‘save’ people, they’re meeting because they want to. No names needed, no big black book of hate required. If you find it such a hard thought that they simply don’t want to meet you, with all that you have to offer, then this clearly isn’t the place for you.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alon

Yet you can make assumptions about all other men on here, like you’re the only decent one

nah dude. there's plenty other folk like me and i didn't say all men. i said some. I'm not ignorant. you forget, I'm a man myself, i know how men think. I just don't let my instincts rule me

You know how you think, you can’t speak for all of us, or think for all of us even.

yes i can

Yes,

I was feeling a little sorry for the op to begin with as I'd hate to be a guy on here,I don't now though. and id hate to be a woman on here, and i have no sympathy for them either. they are the architects of their own misfortune"

Oh I know having all this choice of great men to satisfy my physical needs is quite tiresome I can tell ya.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP I’m trying to understand what your issue is. Are you saying there is an injustice in Fab resulting in certain men having the monopoly of fun and a lot of men struggling?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

They didn't ask mine. anyway. you don't know who I'm speaking for so how do you know I'm wrong?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slightest what i say about them.

You use words like project and moan. Who's projecting?

I'm not alternative. I'm misunderstood.

maybe i can open some peoples eyes on he

I don’t understand. What are you hoping people will see if they open their eyes up to themselves?

their own ugliness i suppose"

So you want people to open their eyes up to themselves and realise they are ugly?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slightest what i say about them.

You use words like project and moan. Who's projecting?

I'm not alternative. I'm misunderstood.

maybe i can open some peoples eyes on he

I don’t understand. What are you hoping people will see if they open their eyes up to themselves?

their own ugliness i suppose

So you want people to open their eyes up to themselves and realise they are ugly?

And I want to open their legs !

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP I’m trying to understand what your issue is. Are you saying there is an injustice in Fab resulting in certain men having the monopoly of fun and a lot of men struggling? "

No I'm not, but you bring up an interesting point. are you saying that isn't the case?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

To quote a friend....

"Would you like some cheese with that whine?"

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

They didn't ask mine. anyway. you don't know who I'm speaking for so how do you know I'm wrong?"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some guys are more successful than others (here and the real world)

Some ladies are more successful than others (here and the real world)

Some guys treat ladies as notches on bedposts (here and the real world)

Some ladies treat guys as notches on bedposts (here and the real world)

Also in here and in the real world; people of any gender who take a tiny bit of time to present themselves well and give off positivity tend to fair a little better than those who don’t.

Hardly ground breaking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slightest what i say about them.

You use words like project and moan. Who's projecting?

I'm not alternative. I'm misunderstood.

maybe i can open some peoples eyes on he

I don’t understand. What are you hoping people will see if they open their eyes up to themselves?

their own ugliness i suppose

So you want people to open their eyes up to themselves and realise they are ugly?

And I want to open their legs ! "
me to

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By *ookingforlustMan over a year ago

northants

They didn't ask mine. anyway. you don't know who I'm speaking for so how do you know I'm wrong?"

More to the point chief, how do you know you are right?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slig

I don’t understand. What are you hoping people will see if they open their eyes up to themselves?

their own ugliness i suppose

So you want people to open their eyes up to themselves and realise they are ugly?

"
what would be the harm in that? Some people need to be taken down a peg or two

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"OP I’m trying to understand what your issue is. Are you saying there is an injustice in Fab resulting in certain men having the monopoly of fun and a lot of men struggling? "

Not men, just him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP I’m trying to understand what your issue is. Are you saying there is an injustice in Fab resulting in certain men having the monopoly of fun and a lot of men struggling?

No I'm not, but you bring up an interesting point. are you saying that isn't the case?"

Should this be an equal right type thing then? Should ladies fuck every one equally irrespective of how they feel about them?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slightest what i say about them.

You use words like project and moan. Who's projecting?

I'm not alternative. I'm misunderstood.

maybe i can open some peoples eyes on he

I don’t understand. What are you hoping people will see if they open their eyes up to themselves?

their own ugliness i suppose

So you want people to open their eyes up to themselves and realise they are ugly?

And I want to open their legs ! me to"

Where is the

? You arent the same anymore

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So you’re the self aon't know who I'm speaking for so how do you know I'm wrong?

You said yourself you speak and think for those who are unable to do it for themselves. If you're going to pretend to be all deep and shit at least read the thread back to remember what you said 5 mins ago. "
your not seeing the bigger picture here. should i continue to entertain your posts? Id rather not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP I’m trying to understand what your issue is. Are you saying there is an injustice in Fab resulting in certain men having the monopoly of fun and a lot of men struggling?

No I'm not, but you bring up an interesting point. are you saying that isn't the case?"

I think it is very much the case, as I explained in one of my earlier posts.

So if that is not what you are saying, what is the point you you are trying to make?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

So you’re the self appointed spokesperson? Or did you ask for their permission before deciding to speak on their behalf. Or are you just making massive assumptio

They didn't ask mine. anyway. you don't know who I'm speaking for so how do you know I'm wrong?

More to the point chief, how do you know you are right? "
hpw do you know i know I'm right

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this the daily goading of a single guy thread?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Trust me. Successful guys aren't worried in the slightest what i say about them.

You use words like project and moan. Who's projecting?

I'm not alternative. I'm misunderstood.

maybe i can open some peoples eyes on he

I don’t understand. What are you hoping people will see if they open their eyes up to themselves?

their own ugliness i suppose

So you want people to open their eyes up to themselves and realise they are ugly?

And I want to open their legs ! me to

Where is the

? You arent the same anymore

"
Ha sorry

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

"and id hate to be a woman on here, and i have no sympathy for them either. they are the architects of their own misfortune"

It's a bit ironic that you say that, have you considered that the energy you give out and how you represent yourself on your profile may have some bearing as to your success or lack of it ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP I’m trying to understand what your issue is. Are you saying there is an injustice in Fab resulting in certain men having the monopoly of fun and a lot of men struggling?

No I'm not, but you bri

Should this be an equal right type thing then? Should ladies fuck every one equally irrespective of how they feel about them? "
i never said anything like that. why do people live to put words into my mouth

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this the daily goading of a single guy thread? "
Yep afraid so

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

So you’re the self aon't know who I'm speaking for so how do you know I'm wrong?

You said yourself you speak and think for those who are unable to do it for themselves. If you're going to pretend to be all deep and shit at least read the thread back to remember what you said 5 mins ago. your not seeing the bigger picture here. should i continue to entertain your posts? Id rather not"

I'm off to work in a bit so won't be able to post anymore anyway lol I find most pretenscious people blather on about the bigger picture without providing any substantial evidence or specific information about it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP I’m trying to understand what your issue is. Are you saying there is an injustice in Fab resulting in certain men having the monopoly of fun and a lot of men struggling?

No I'm not, but you bring up an interesting point. are you saying that isn't the case?"

To be fair tho fella have you tried selling your personality? cos your profile aint helping your case i wouldnt even be sure you were a real boy you just come across as the leader of the wingy guys

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Translates as ‘Some blokes are getting all the vagina and I’m not even getting a sniff. Plus for some reason I need names or something !’

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

Limbo

OP - I don't understand what you hope to gain from this thread and its ramblings?

... for women to say, 'ooh, you sound interesting, can we talk'. Which I very much doubt will happen now

... or for the men who meet to ... I don't know, confess that they're all dastardly ugly-on-the-inside blaggards who've somehow enticed women into their beds (thus disadvantaging people 'like' you) and that they're very sorry and they won't do it again thereby making things 'fair'

Can you not see this is becoming an increasingly surreal self fulfilling prophecy? You already seem very bitter and I expect your frustration is only going to get worse the more you argue because you seem to have decided that forces and/or other men are against you (rather than anything you've done or not) and a thread like this is just going to feed that mistaken paranoia. Honestly, the best thing you could do for yourself is to go away, take a long bath, have a cup of tea and chill out for a bit then reflect on what you really want and whether you can find it here (subject to being pleasant and making every effort).

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Is this the daily goading of a single guy thread? "

It's the daily moaning from a single guy thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP I’m trying to understand what your issue is. Are you saying there is an injustice in Fab resulting in certain men having the monopoly of fun and a lot of men struggling?

No I'm not, but you bri

Should this be an equal right type thing then? Should ladies fuck every one equally irrespective of how they feel about them? i never said anything like that. why do people live to put words into my mouth"

I didn’t say that you had. I’m asking you the questions. I would like to know how you proposed to redress the issue.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Some guys are more successful than others (here and the real world)

Some ladies are more successful than others (here and the real world)

Some guys treat ladies as notches on bedposts (here and the real world)

Some ladies treat guys as notches on bedposts (here and the real world)

Also in here and in the real world; people of any gender who take a tiny bit of time to present themselves well and give off positivity tend to fair a little better than those who don’t.

Hardly ground breaking. "

The lady is correct op read this as it is true

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"an

It's a bit ironic that you say that, have you considered that the energy you give out and how you represent yourself on your profile may have some bearing as to your success or lack of it ? "

again, this old chestnut. change the record will you?

yes i have considered it thoroughly and even accepted it. can you accept that women are just far to picky and end up shagging the same guys?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"Have you ever stopped to think your just another notch in his bedpost?

yet guys like me are left to suffer alone?

Maybe I should start taking names...

Translates as ‘Some blokes are getting all the vagina and I’m not even getting a sniff. Plus for some reason I need names or something !’"

Think that's the first time you've actually made me lol

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

"an

It's a bit ironic that you say that, have you considered that the energy you give out and how you represent yourself on your profile may have some bearing as to your success or lack of it ?

again, this old chestnut. change the record will you?

yes i have considered it thoroughly and even accepted it. can you accept that women are just far to picky and end up shagging the same guys?

Damn us women wanting to fuck guys that make our fanny wet!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm one of the guys getting all the fun and for the life if me I do know why

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP - I don't understand what you hope to gain from this thread and its ramblings?

... for women to say, 'ooh, you sound interesting, can we talk'. Which I very much doubt will happen now

Exuse me im ugly on the outside too thats why i wear a balaclava to meets

Or is that jewellery stores

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP I’m trying to understand what your issue is. Are you saying there is an injustice in Fab resulting in certain men having the monopoly of fun and a lot of men struggling?

No I'm not, but you bri

Well tell us succinctly what the problem is? Is the problem that there are ugly people on Fab who need to realise their ugly? Is the problem that women pursue the same men? Is the problem that women don’t give some men a chance? Is the problem that women are allowing themselves to become notches on a man’s bedpost. Or is the problem something entirely different?

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"an

It's a bit ironic that you say that, have you considered that the energy you give out and how you represent yourself on your profile may have some bearing as to your success or lack of it ?

again, this old chestnut. change the record will you?

yes i have considered it thoroughly and even accepted it. can you accept that women are just far to picky and end up shagging the same guys?

What’s wrong with shagging the same guys?

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

"an

It's a bit ironic that you say that, have you considered that the energy you give out and how you represent yourself on your profile may have some bearing as to your success or lack of it ?

again, this old chestnut. change the record will you?

yes i have considered it thoroughly and even accepted it. can you accept that women are just far to picky and end up shagging the same guys?

If you consider it "far too picky" to want to actually like & fancy the human your shagging , then yes I'm picky as fuck.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Op you have a few posts left to find yourself a shag,show us all your nice side and you may get lucky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP I’m trying to understand what your issue is. Are you saying there is an i

Well tell us succinctly what the problem is? Is the problem that there are uglychance? Is the problem that women are allowing themselves to become notches on a man’s bedpost. Or is the problem something entirely different?

Mrs"

i just wanted to explore possibilities and new ideas with people. perhaps blur the lines so to speak as there seems to be a big divide.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP I’m trying to understand what your issue is. Are you saying there is an i

Mrs

i just wanted to explore possibilities and new ideas with people. perhaps blur the lines so to speak as there seems to be a big divide."

So give us an idea of a new possibility to explore?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women on here are shallow. that's just my opinion of course

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Its always the guy that has a problem. never the woman. i think its bullshit frankly

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women on here are shallow. that's just my opinion of course"

I'm not looking for a life partner bub, so it is all about simple pleasures , if that's shallow so be it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women on here are shallow. that's just my opinion of course

I'm not looking for a life partner bub, so it is all about simple pleasures , if that's shallow so be it.

"
so how should i get my simple pleasures? Just take it, like women do?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women on here are shallow. that's just my opinion of course"

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women on here are shallow. that's just my opinion of course

I'm not looking for a life partner bub, so it is all about simple pleasures , if that's shallow so be it.

so how should i get my simple pleasures? Just take it, like women do?"

Please explain what you mean by "take it" ....carefully

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

Limbo

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women on here are shallow. that's just my opinion of course

I'm not looking for a life partner bub, so it is all about simple pleasures , if that's shallow so be it.

so how should i get my simple pleasures? Just take it, like women do?"

Whoah

No-one 'just takes it' FFS. And suggesting you might 'take it' is beyond vile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women on here are shallow. that's just my opinion of course

I'm not looking for a life partner bub, so it is all about simple pleasures , if that's shallow so be it.

so how should i get my simple pleasures? Just take it, like women do?

Please explain what you mean by "take it" ....carefully "
i could put on the facade like many guys on here that I'm one dimensional and get what i want

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women on here are shallow. that's just my opinion of course

I'm not looking for a life partner bub, so it is all about simple pleasures , if that's shallow so be it.

so how should i get my simple pleasures? Just take it, like women do?"

If you are unable to get those simple pleasures you could carry on trying, or go without, or pay for it through an escort site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think?

Whoah

No-one 'just takes it' FFS. And suggesting you might 'take it' is beyond vile."
of course women do, so do some men. not me though. just a fact of life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women on here are shallow. that's just my opinion of course

There is a shallowness to the search for nsa sex. The focus for women will be on the men who they find sexy. By contrast on dating sites, where people maybe looking for lifelong partners, other factors are taken into acount, so sex appeal becomes less important. "
do you really actually believe that the same criteria is applicable to all sites dating or swinging it all comes down to whether you're attracted sexually, visually to the other person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women on here are shallow. that's just my opinion of course

I'm not looking for a life partner bub, so it is all about simple pleasures , if that's shallow so be it.

so how should i get my simple pleasures? Just take it, like women do?

Please explain what you mean by "take it" ....carefully i could put on the facade like many guys on here that I'm one dimensional and get what i want"

Give it a go. Put on that facade and see if that works. I personally have never fucked a guy who is one dimensional.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op please start another thread this one is almost full.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women

so how should i get my simple pleasu

If you are unable to get those simple pleasures you could carry on trying, or go without, or pay for it through an escort site. "
or i could educate people to the truth of what's really going on

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

This has been rather amusing to read I must say. Go and order a prostitute and get your bitterness out of your system.

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By *electableDalliancesCouple over a year ago

leeds

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women on here are shallow. that's just my opinion of course

I'm not looking for a life partner bub, so it is all about simple pleasures , if that's shallow so be it.

so how should i get my simple pleasures? Just take it, like women do?

Please explain what you mean by "take it" ....carefully i could put on the facade like many guys on here that I'm one dimensional and get what i want"

So the successful gentlemen are "one dimensional " ? I disagree entirely, the opposite is true, the men I see here that are successful are pretty well rounded individuals, they have depth,humour and humility , they speak to women like people, not like some other species to be conquered.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

Limbo

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think?

Whoah

No-one 'just takes it' FFS. And suggesting you might 'take it' is beyond vile. of course women do, so do some men. not me though. just a fact of life"

Bullshit.

If it's consensual then it's NOT 'taking' however envious you may feel of others' sexual encounters. You should choose your words far more carefully because 'taking it' implies non-consent and is therefore unacceptably offensive.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women on here are shallow. that's just my opinion of course

There is a shallowness to the search for nsa sex. The focus for women will be on the men who they find sexy. By contrast on dating sites, where people maybe looking for lifelong partners, other factors are taken into acount, so sex appeal becomes less important. do you really actually believe that the same criteria is applicable to all sites dating or swinging it all comes down to whether you're attracted sexually, visually to the other person

I believe sex appeal is a more important attribute in swinging than in the quest for a life-long partner. However sex appeal can show through visually but also through personality. Ie someone can make me want them by the way they express themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women on here are shall

so how should i get my simple pleasures? Just take it, like women do?

Please explain what you mean by "take it" ....carefully i could put on the facade like many guys on here that I'm one dimensional and get what i want

Give it a go. Put on that facade and see if that works. I personally have never fucked a guy who is one dimensional."

How would you know? You're a woman?

But no thanks, i have more respect for myself and others than that

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"This has been rather amusing to read I must say. Go and order a prostitute and get your bitterness out of your system."

and stop talking in flipping riddles you're not making sense.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women

so how should i get my simple pleasu

If you are unable to get those simple pleasures you could carry on trying, or go without, or pay for it through an escort site. or i could educate people to the truth of what's really going on"
the truth is....... Love hurts wear a clean shirt

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm not saying women should give sympathy fucks. stop projecting. I'm playing devils advocate.

i do however think most women on here are shallow. that's just my opinion of course

I'm not looking for a life partner bub, so it is all about simple pleasures , if that's shallow so be it.

so how should i get my simple pleasures? Just take it, like women do?

Please explain what you mean by "take it" ....carefully i could put on the facade like many guys on here that I'm one dimensional and get what i want"

Are they successful guys on here one dimensional? Or is that just your perception of them?

You’ve written in previous posts that ladies are ‘too picky’, if they’re that picky why are they meeting one dimensional people?

Your thought process doesn’t hold together OP, it smacks to me of you throwing your toys because you can’t get meets and blaming everyone else because you’re ‘too good’ to try and change your approach.

Frankly I can’t see what you hoped to achieve with this thread unless it was to make people feel uncomfortable.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Just realised who you are.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Should this be an equal right type thing then? Should ladies fuck every one equally irrespective of how they feel about them?

i never said anything like that. why do people live to put words into my mouth"

Because when you say things like 'can you accept that women are just far to picky and end up shagging the same guys?' you obviously believe that we should be shagging all the mingers too, we're just to swallow.

Classic incel philosophy.

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By *a Fee VerteWoman over a year ago

Limbo

"or i could educate people to the truth of what's really going on"

'What's really going on' ?!?!!

... what, like some sort of great big conspiracy against men 'like you'. I don't know whether to laugh or cry.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As i sit back and watch this thread progress i wonder to myself how deep a hole OP can dig.

Like many have posted already OP, you joined FAB with high expectations that have not been fulfilled. This is not the fault of others.

There is only one person who can take the blame or adulation for success and or failure and if you do not know who that one person is then take a look in the mirror.

Life's unfair mate - get over it

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

'....just to swallow.'

Or even just too shallow lol! I need caffeine obviously!

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