I'm very interested about the whole club scene, wether that's going on my on or with someone, but I just don't know what to expect.
From what i have read people are in love with the whole thing just wanted to know if anyone else have gone on there own before and there experiences. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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Have you read through the reviews of various clubs?
It's not for everyone. You do need to go with no expectations of sex and with a willingness to be friendly and polite, able to chat to people and be able to judge when you're no longer welcome in a situation.
I like finding single men at clubs, they are the reason I go.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve always imagined it’s just folk having sex everywhere. Wherever you look, folk are conjoined at the genitals and they make eye contact at you and wink.
But maybe it’s not really like that. |
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"I’ve always imagined it’s just folk having sex everywhere. Wherever you look, folk are conjoined at the genitals and they make eye contact at you and wink.
But maybe it’s not really like that."
It can be![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"I’ve always imagined it’s just folk having sex everywhere. Wherever you look, folk are conjoined at the genitals and they make eye contact at you and wink.
But maybe it’s not really like that."
Definitely not really like that! |
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"I’ve always imagined it’s just folk having sex everywhere. Wherever you look, folk are conjoined at the genitals and they make eye contact at you and wink.
But maybe it’s not really like that."
It usually isn't. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Different clubs have different set ups OP but most have a social area/bar where you can relax and socialise and chat to people earlier in the evening and then separate play areas (either open or private or both) that you can move to if you want to later in the evening.
Clubs don't tend to be wall to wall sex as soon as you walk in and most don't expect you to get naked as soon as you walk through the door - some may have a dress down policy either after a certain time or in certain areas of the club, where you are asked to strip down to at least underwear.
As a single guy, go along thinking of it as no different from a night at the pub and be prepared to make eye contact, smile and talk to people - being respectful and willing to graciously accept a polite no thanks if you approach anyone, even if it's just to chat.
Avoid the temptation to walk round the club wanking and following people about - that never goes down well and always keep a respectful distance in the play areas unless invited to play.
Most clubs also provide a guided tour for newbies on arrival so be sure to ask for one and ask any questions you may have which will tell you about the specific etiquette of the club.
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