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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i see this term used so many times in veri's
is it becoming over used / misinterpreted ?
what, for you, makes a true gentleman ?"
Removing one's scocks?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i see this term used so many times in veri's
is it becoming over used / misinterpreted ?
what, for you, makes a true gentleman ?
Removing one's scocks? "
Freudian slip! socks!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You polish your shoes properly using a brush and cloth……. and use real handkerchiefs when blowing you nose,,,, but you still carry pocket tissues just incase...    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want a true dirty bastard not a gentleman ffs..... xxx
atrue gentleman will give a lady whatever she desires "
I desire to be spanked and choked...Find me a willing gentleman xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I want a true dirty bastard not a gentleman ffs..... xxx
atrue gentleman will give a lady whatever she desires
takes note.....  
within reason "
ohh i see reverse mode now....lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I want a true dirty bastard not a gentleman ffs..... xxx
atrue gentleman will give a lady whatever she desires
takes note.....
within reason
ohh i see reverse mode now....lol "
well I can take you to heaven and back, but around world ticket costs a little bit more |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I want a true dirty bastard not a gentleman ffs..... xxx
atrue gentleman will give a lady whatever she desires
takes note.....
within reason
ohh i see reverse mode now....lol
well I can take you to heaven and back, but around world ticket costs a little bit more "
do i need my cheque book????  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Utmost respect for the fairer sex, amongst others.
A fluency in language sufficient to preclude discussing things in a physical or monosyllabic way
The ability to behave as an Ambassador of your gender, and also a considered kindness towards others.
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Utmost respect for the fairer sex, amongst others.
A fluency in language sufficient to preclude discussing things in a physical or monosyllabic way
The ability to behave as an Ambassador of your gender, and also a considered kindness towards others.
Wolf
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Have we met before, I cant believe how well you just discribed me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I want a true dirty bastard not a gentleman ffs..... xxx
atrue gentleman will give a lady whatever she desires
I desire to be spanked and choked...Find me a willing gentleman xx"
oh i had a lady ask for that in a mmf the other week
the other lad just looked mortified so i somewhat tentatively took the bull by the horns
not my thing (if i'm honest i had never done owt like that before) but it was obviously hers and i was glad she felt comfortable enough with us both ask in the first place. |
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I have two ideas of a perfect gentleman.
In the swinging world.
Someone who is respectful while getting to know them, someone who turns up and is a decent nice guy and who messages to say thankyou afterwards whether they wish to meet you again or not.
In the real world
Someone who stands up when i walk into a room and leave.
Stands up when i leave the table.
Pulls my chair out for me
Opens car doors for me
Asks before taking their jacket off
When eating takes their lead from me and finishes eating when i do and not beforehand.
But do i expect every man to be like that then the answer is no but i guess im just a bit spoilt |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Utmost respect for the fairer sex, amongst others.
A fluency in language sufficient to preclude discussing things in a physical or monosyllabic way
The ability to behave as an Ambassador of your gender, and also a considered kindness towards others.
Wolf
Have we met before, I cant believe how well you just discribed me."
Don't think so before, but it's my pleasure all the same... lol
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have two ideas of a perfect gentleman.
In the swinging world.
Someone who is respectful while getting to know them, someone who turns up and is a decent nice guy and who messages to say thankyou afterwards whether they wish to meet you again or not.
In the real world
Someone who stands up when i walk into a room and leave.
Stands up when i leave the table.
Pulls my chair out for me
Opens car doors for me
Asks before taking their jacket off
When eating takes their lead from me and finishes eating when i do and not beforehand.
But do i expect every man to be like that then the answer is no but i guess im just a bit spoilt "
some of us still do these things too
Wolf
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"I have two ideas of a perfect gentleman.
In the swinging world.
Someone who is respectful while getting to know them, someone who turns up and is a decent nice guy and who messages to say thankyou afterwards whether they wish to meet you again or not.
In the real world
Someone who stands up when i walk into a room and leave.
Stands up when i leave the table.
Pulls my chair out for me
Opens car doors for me
Asks before taking their jacket off
When eating takes their lead from me and finishes eating when i do and not beforehand.
But do i expect every man to be like that then the answer is no but i guess im just a bit spoilt
some of us still do these things too
Wolf
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I know, im lucky ive got one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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to me a gentleman is someone who opens car doors or you, pulls out a chair for you, holds open your coat when you put it on, that sort of thing
but men like that drive me nuts, i can put my own coat on and open my own door so i wouldnt see this as a plus infact id have to tell them to pack it in lol |
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By *annGentMan
over a year ago
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"to me a gentleman is someone who opens car doors or you, pulls out a chair for you, holds open your coat when you put it on, that sort of thing
but men like that drive me nuts, i can put my own coat on and open my own door so i wouldnt see this as a plus infact id have to tell them to pack it in lol"
I take great pride in being a gentleman, though it has to balance up with those ladies who prefer to do it themselves.
And of course, the lady is always right |
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By *obletonMan
over a year ago
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"I thought "he was a true gentleman" was reserved for obituaries of those who everyone considered a complete scoundrel until death! "
scoundrel - a much neglected and underused word |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to me a gentleman is someone who opens car doors or you, pulls out a chair for you, holds open your coat when you put it on, that sort of thing
but men like that drive me nuts, i can put my own coat on and open my own door so i wouldnt see this as a plus infact id have to tell them to pack it in lol"
Duly noted.
Next time I shall know not to hold the door for you to bringt coal in... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In swinging its a man who can hold a conversation, put my pleasure before his own, and doesn't just disappear off the face of the Earth afterwards!
I am a giver too, so it then becomes about mutual pleasure, and a little bit of intimacy is engaging when you are a single gal with no kids to hug or a partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe its more of a comment only to notice by its absence?
Im a gentleman in the sense I look after who im escorting out, dont push for things and situations that she isnt interested in, And still liek to open doors and that haha.
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"In swinging its a man who can hold a conversation, put my pleasure before his own, and doesn't just disappear off the face of the Earth afterwards!
I am a giver too, so it then becomes about mutual pleasure, and a little bit of intimacy is engaging when you are a single gal with no kids to hug or a partner."
Omg how true with what you are saying sometimes a hug to me means a million words.. I miss hugs.. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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"In swinging its a man who can hold a conversation, put my pleasure before his own, and doesn't just disappear off the face of the Earth afterwards!
I am a giver too, so it then becomes about mutual pleasure, and a little bit of intimacy is engaging when you are a single gal with no kids to hug or a partner."
Yeap! I am totally with you on that one xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its funny how different we all are in relation to what we view a gentleman to be.
I don't like men to stand up if I walk in a room, or pull a chair out or open car doors, I find that extremely patronising. I don't need or want all that.
I don't think a gentleman is a guy who could willingly slap, whip or choke a woman.
To me a gentleman is one who treats me with respect, who treats me as an equal, who does not speak to me in a crude manner, call me a slag, cunt or bitch or treat me like a piece of meat. Just to be friendly, respectful, polite, engaging and has good manners. |
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