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So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd. |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd. "
So, why DID you sit through it? |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
So, why DID you sit through it?"
I thought that too  |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
So, why DID you sit through it?"
Politeness I guess as he was addressing my friend directly and I didn't want to leave her. |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
So, why DID you sit through it?
I thought that too "
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And, if I saw that my friend was uncomfortable, I would have intervened on her behalf.
A quiet, thanks mate but we have some fucking to get on with, and took her away from him. |
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"I would have asked him why he was there, then politely told him to go away and leave me alone.
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Ah, he was ready for that. He was there with his wife and only had sex with his wife so that was OK. |
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By *entenTeaCouple
over a year ago
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Ouch!
There are ways of expressing faith even in the swinger community and that is not one of them. Faith should come through in your manner as a spirit of understanding and compassion. We don't deny our faith, but preaching is not appropriate. |
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"And, if I saw that my friend was uncomfortable, I would have intervened on her behalf.
A quiet, thanks mate but we have some fucking to get on with, and took her away from him. "
Oh yes...im such a bad friend   |
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"And, if I saw that my friend was uncomfortable, I would have intervened on her behalf.
A quiet, thanks mate but we have some fucking to get on with, and took her away from him.
Oh yes...im such a bad friend "
I'm not saying that, I just can't stand being preached at. What the fuck was he doing there anyway. |
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"I would have asked him why he was there, then politely told him to go away and leave me alone.
Ah, he was ready for that. He was there with his wife and only had sex with his wife so that was OK. "
I'd have said he can fuck his wife at home, why come here where he cam see others fucking. |
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"I would have asked him why he was there, then politely told him to go away and leave me alone.
Ah, he was ready for that. He was there with his wife and only had sex with his wife so that was OK.
I'd have said he can fuck his wife at home, why come here where he cam see others fucking. "
We didn't really engage him in conversation to be honest. Just let him ramble on and looked disinterested until he went to change and leave.
Ah well, gave us an amusing anecdote to share. |
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It was awkward but funny in my head to be honest and not the first time he’d done it so I knew what he was going to say. He’s a rather large bloke to say the least I didn’t want to upset him. There were too many things going on in my head and it was easier to sit, listen diffuse than to cause conflict in a club |
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"I would have asked him why he was there, then politely told him to go away and leave me alone.
Ah, he was ready for that. He was there with his wife and only had sex with his wife so that was OK.
I'd have said he can fuck his wife at home, why come here where he cam see others fucking. "
Exactly I don’t get his logic at all. He also knows nothing about us, for all he knows our husbands could have been there |
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By *ara JTV/TS
over a year ago
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd. "
More than a tad odd, I'd say. A swinger preaching against swinging in a swingers club - a bible-basher trying to transfer his guilt onto others. Not rational at all.
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"It was awkward but funny in my head to be honest and not the first time he’d done it so I knew what he was going to say. He’s a rather large bloke to say the least I didn’t want to upset him. There were too many things going on in my head and it was easier to sit, listen diffuse than to cause conflict in a club"
I can imagine your face as you say there listening to him. |
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"I would have asked him why he was there, then politely told him to go away and leave me alone.
Ah, he was ready for that. He was there with his wife and only had sex with his wife so that was OK.
I'd have said he can fuck his wife at home, why come here where he cam see others fucking.
We didn't really engage him in conversation to be honest. Just let him ramble on and looked disinterested until he went to change and leave.
Ah well, gave us an amusing anecdote to share. "
I'm very childish at times; I would have been behind his back making faces at my friend. She would have loved that  |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd. "
Well you're all sinners let's face it  |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd. Well you're all sinners let's face it "
Fun though ain't it |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd. Well you're all sinners let's face it
Fun though ain't it "
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd. Well you're all sinners let's face it
Fun though ain't it "
did you repent? |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd. Well you're all sinners let's face it
Fun though ain't it "
Damn I wish I’d been with you! I used to teach at Sunday school - and before I stopped going to church I brought up some theological arguments against the ‘no sex outside marriage ‘ mantra that made the regulars very uncomfortable! |
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Well that's interesting!
His first sentence is certainly true.
But the second needs a bit more thought.
Sodom and Gomorrah were of course destroyed for practising non-consensual homosexual sex, inhospitality and violence towards foreigners.
These are not things I've noticed happening at Chams. In fact, everyone we've got to know at Chams has turned out to be kind, generous and friendly. Including the staff.
Janet xxxxxx |
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I bet you shouted ‘oh god’ more than once that night.
Im a pretty avid churchgoer, I admit, but I wouldn’t dream of any of that. It reminds me of the vicar in Malvern who fair pissed me off on twitter asking all of us at swingfields to the church as we needed to ‘feel god’... did he ask the truckfest patrons... no... and they were noisy all night and left rubbish in the field when they left. |
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"I bet you shouted ‘oh god’ more than once that night.
Im a pretty avid churchgoer, I admit, but I wouldn’t dream of any of that. It reminds me of the vicar in Malvern who fair pissed me off on twitter asking all of us at swingfields to the church as we needed to ‘feel god’... did he ask the truckfest patrons... no... and they were noisy all night and left rubbish in the field when they left. "
Sexual deviants like us need saving from ourselves. |
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" It reminds me of the vicar in Malvern who fair pissed me off on twitter asking all of us at swingfields to the church as we needed to ‘feel god’... "
Just brokering a deal for the big G in the sky. Help him get his rocks off.
Imagine the size of that love length? I wonder if it hallelujahs when it blurts,? |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
So, why DID you sit through it?
Politeness I guess as he was addressing my friend directly and I didn't want to leave her. "
This is a problem sometimes for women, hi, it's ok to be rude. He was being rude first. You're perfectly fine to stand right in front of your friend and face off with him and say "take your issues elsewhere mate"
"rude" is subjective anyway. |
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"I’d have just said ‘a fat man in a towel not really how I pictured the second coming’ and trotted off
I wouldn’t see the need to be personal. I think fuck off would have sufficed. "
Ooh, that's rude though.
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"I’d have just said ‘a fat man in a towel not really how I pictured the second coming’ and trotted off
I wouldn’t see the need to be personal. I think fuck off would have sufficed.
Ooh, that's rude though.
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And so was he. Lucky for him the two ladies were not rude back to him. Give it time, someone will really take offence at his shit and show him the error of his ways 
So does this dude just acost women or will he front up to guys same size or bigger than him? |
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"I’d have just said ‘a fat man in a towel not really how I pictured the second coming’ and trotted off
I wouldn’t see the need to be personal. I think fuck off would have sufficed.
Ooh, that's rude though.
And so was he. Lucky for him the two ladies were not rude back to him. Give it time, someone will really take offence at his shit and show him the error of his ways
So does this dude just acost women or will he front up to guys same size or bigger than him?"
So many questions raised here. I think it's a case of only knowing how I would react if I were actually there.
I'm blunt but polite to any religious people who knock on my door. |
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"I would have asked him why he was there, then politely told him to go away and leave me alone.
Ah, he was ready for that. He was there with his wife and only had sex with his wife so that was OK. "
Next time tell him it's not ok and specifically it's the sin of scandal |
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If it happens again, and he starts to preach about how we are followers of satan, simply smile, say "I know" and touch his inside thigh. Best way to get rid of them is to go along with it and become spawn of satan |
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Blimey.
I suppose he and his wife think it's ok for them to attend as they're doing God's work.
I've noticed more hell, fire and brimstone preaching recently even in the limited contact I have with Christianity. At a recent funeral the vicar basically said that God knew who all us unbelievers were and we're going to hell in handcart. Which was a great comfort to those of us grieving a close relative |
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"There’s a ‘country song called’ the lord knows I’m drinking’
Reminds me of this exact scenario "
Or 'Jesus he knows me'
By Genesis
'I believe in the family
With my ever loving wife beside me
But she dont know about my girlfriend
Or the man I met last night' |
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"I’d have just said ‘a fat man in a towel not really how I pictured the second coming’ and trotted off
I wouldn’t see the need to be personal. I think fuck off would have sufficed.
Ooh, that's rude though.
And so was he. Lucky for him the two ladies were not rude back to him. Give it time, someone will really take offence at his shit and show him the error of his ways
So does this dude just acost women or will he front up to guys same size or bigger than him?
So many questions raised here. I think it's a case of only knowing how I would react if I were actually there.
I'm blunt but polite to any religious people who knock on my door. "
If you’re a non smoker don’t go moaning about smokers if you visit a Shisha bar.
If you’re a vegan, don’t go berating others at a steakhouse restaurant.
If you’re teetotal, by all means enjoy the pubs and bars, but don’t condem drinkers.
He was a prick the end  |
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"I’d have just said ‘a fat man in a towel not really how I pictured the second coming’ and trotted off
I wouldn’t see the need to be personal. I think fuck off would have sufficed.
Ooh, that's rude though.
And so was he. Lucky for him the two ladies were not rude back to him. Give it time, someone will really take offence at his shit and show him the error of his ways
So does this dude just acost women or will he front up to guys same size or bigger than him?
So many questions raised here. I think it's a case of only knowing how I would react if I were actually there.
I'm blunt but polite to any religious people who knock on my door.
If you’re a non smoker don’t go moaning about smokers if you visit a Shisha bar.
If you’re a vegan, don’t go berating others at a steakhouse restaurant.
If you’re teetotal, by all means enjoy the pubs and bars, but don’t condem drinkers.
He was a prick the end "
Maybe he went there on a mission. |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd. Well you're all sinners let's face it
Fun though ain't it
Damn I wish I’d been with you! I used to teach at Sunday school - and before I stopped going to church I brought up some theological arguments against the ‘no sex outside marriage ‘ mantra that made the regulars very uncomfortable! "
Hey i got stopped on the promenade in Weymouth by two very pretty Mormons an hour later they were converted to the process of natural evolution |
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"I would have asked him why he was there, then politely told him to go away and leave me alone.
Ah, he was ready for that. He was there with his wife and only had sex with his wife so that was OK.
Next time tell him it's not ok and specifically it's the sin of scandal"
And does his church know he's there. |
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"I would have asked him why he was there, then politely told him to go away and leave me alone.
Ah, he was ready for that. He was there with his wife and only had sex with his wife so that was OK.
Next time tell him it's not ok and specifically it's the sin of scandal
And does his church know he's there. "
Do Chams understand what he likened them to? He basically said the club should burn.
#fruitloop #fetchthestraightjacket |
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"I would have asked him why he was there, then politely told him to go away and leave me alone.
Ah, he was ready for that. He was there with his wife and only had sex with his wife so that was OK.
Next time tell him it's not ok and specifically it's the sin of scandal
And does his church know he's there.
Do Chams understand what he likened them to? He basically said the club should burn.
#fruitloop #fetchthestraightjacket "
Is he not worried it might burn with him in it? |
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"I would have asked him why he was there, then politely told him to go away and leave me alone.
Ah, he was ready for that. He was there with his wife and only had sex with his wife so that was OK.
Next time tell him it's not ok and specifically it's the sin of scandal
And does his church know he's there.
Do Chams understand what he likened them to? He basically said the club should burn.
#fruitloop #fetchthestraightjacket
Is he not worried it might burn with him in it?"
Well despite it being one of our interests, I wouldn’t piss on him |
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"I would have asked him why he was there, then politely told him to go away and leave me alone.
Ah, he was ready for that. He was there with his wife and only had sex with his wife so that was OK.
Next time tell him it's not ok and specifically it's the sin of scandal
And does his church know he's there.
Do Chams understand what he likened them to? He basically said the club should burn.
#fruitloop #fetchthestraightjacket
Is he not worried it might burn with him in it?"
Issue is though, that could be seen as a threat. He likened the club to soddom and gammorah and said it was burnt down. If he thinks he is a preacher, that's rather foreboding |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
More than a tad odd, I'd say. A swinger preaching against swinging in a swingers club - a bible-basher trying to transfer his guilt onto others. Not rational at all.
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Guilt transfer- it's exactly that. |
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"I’d have just said ‘a fat man in a towel not really how I pictured the second coming’ and trotted off
I wouldn’t see the need to be personal. I think fuck off would have sufficed.
Ooh, that's rude though.
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So does this dude just acost women or will he front up to guys same size or bigger than him?"
This is exactly what I thought when I read this. He knew who to pick on. He certainly wasn't going to lay the preachy stuff to a bloke, especially if the bloke was in mid play.
I do agree with the comment that there isn't a need to get personal, but to be fair the man was rude, and a bully too.
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
More than a tad odd, I'd say. A swinger preaching against swinging in a swingers club - a bible-basher trying to transfer his guilt onto others. Not rational at all.
Guilt transfer- it's exactly that. "
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To be honest I would have found a theological debate quite interesting on a slow night...
There's a brand of Christianity which believes it is a believers duty to go amongst sinners and "save" them, so I suspect that's what this guy was up to. |
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"To be honest I would have found a theological debate quite interesting on a slow night...
There's a brand of Christianity which believes it is a believers duty to go amongst sinners and "save" them, so I suspect that's what this guy was up to. "
And dragged his poor wife along. |
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"To be honest I would have found a theological debate quite interesting on a slow night...
There's a brand of Christianity which believes it is a believers duty to go amongst sinners and "save" them, so I suspect that's what this guy was up to. "
I suspect he was, a bit like Jehovah's Witnesses. I wonder why he felt it necessary to have sex with his wife there though, I don't think missionaries joined in with the cannibals. |
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"To be honest I would have found a theological debate quite interesting on a slow night...
There's a brand of Christianity which believes it is a believers duty to go amongst sinners and "save" them, so I suspect that's what this guy was up to.
And dragged his poor wife along. "
Perhaps she was is of the same view. |
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"To be honest I would have found a theological debate quite interesting on a slow night...
There's a brand of Christianity which believes it is a believers duty to go amongst sinners and "save" them, so I suspect that's what this guy was up to.
And dragged his poor wife along. "
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"To be honest I would have found a theological debate quite interesting on a slow night...
There's a brand of Christianity which believes it is a believers duty to go amongst sinners and "save" them, so I suspect that's what this guy was up to.
And dragged his poor wife along. "
She might agree with him or be a surrendered wife. |
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"To be honest I would have found a theological debate quite interesting on a slow night...
There's a brand of Christianity which believes it is a believers duty to go amongst sinners and "save" them, so I suspect that's what this guy was up to.
I suspect he was, a bit like Jehovah's Witnesses. I wonder why he felt it necessary to have sex with his wife there though, I don't think missionaries joined in with the cannibals. "
Perhaps the OP misunderstood and he was just saying he only had sex with his wife.
Thing is that kind of preaching isn't going to last long as people will report him and he will get banned. |
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"To be honest I would have found a theological debate quite interesting on a slow night...
There's a brand of Christianity which believes it is a believers duty to go amongst sinners and "save" them, so I suspect that's what this guy was up to.
And dragged his poor wife along.
She might agree with him or be a surrendered wife. "
The OP said she looked embarrassed or something like that. |
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"To be honest I would have found a theological debate quite interesting on a slow night...
There's a brand of Christianity which believes it is a believers duty to go amongst sinners and "save" them, so I suspect that's what this guy was up to.
And dragged his poor wife along.
She might agree with him or be a surrendered wife.
The OP said she looked embarrassed or something like that. "
Sheepish. |
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"To be honest I would have found a theological debate quite interesting on a slow night...
There's a brand of Christianity which believes it is a believers duty to go amongst sinners and "save" them, so I suspect that's what this guy was up to.
I suspect he was, a bit like Jehovah's Witnesses. I wonder why he felt it necessary to have sex with his wife there though, I don't think missionaries joined in with the cannibals.
Perhaps the OP misunderstood and he was just saying he only had sex with his wife.
Thing is that kind of preaching isn't going to last long as people will report him and he will get banned. "
Who knows.
We've been to places where residents stand outside taking pictures of guests number plates and leave little passive aggressive notes on windscreens. Their righteousness indignation is amusing to behold. Nobody is quite sure what they intend to do with all the photos they take. Nudity and sex terrifies some people. |
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"To be honest I would have found a theological debate quite interesting on a slow night...
There's a brand of Christianity which believes it is a believers duty to go amongst sinners and "save" them, so I suspect that's what this guy was up to.
And dragged his poor wife along.
She might agree with him or be a surrendered wife.
The OP said she looked embarrassed or something like that.
Sheepish."
Well none of us know what she thinks but it's a novel way to get your wife in to swinging that's for sure. I'm going to suggest it next time a guy asks how to.  |
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"To be honest I would have found a theological debate quite interesting on a slow night...
There's a brand of Christianity which believes it is a believers duty to go amongst sinners and "save" them, so I suspect that's what this guy was up to.
I suspect he was, a bit like Jehovah's Witnesses. I wonder why he felt it necessary to have sex with his wife there though, I don't think missionaries joined in with the cannibals.
Perhaps the OP misunderstood and he was just saying he only had sex with his wife.
Thing is that kind of preaching isn't going to last long as people will report him and he will get banned.
Who knows.
We've been to places where residents stand outside taking pictures of guests number plates and leave little passive aggressive notes on windscreens. Their righteousness indignation is amusing to behold. Nobody is quite sure what they intend to do with all the photos they take. Nudity and sex terrifies some people."
I suspect people like that don't like having a swingers club in their area and are hoping to deter people attending and thus close down the club. |
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"To be honest I would have found a theological debate quite interesting on a slow night...
There's a brand of Christianity which believes it is a believers duty to go amongst sinners and "save" them, so I suspect that's what this guy was up to.
I suspect he was, a bit like Jehovah's Witnesses. I wonder why he felt it necessary to have sex with his wife there though, I don't think missionaries joined in with the cannibals.
Perhaps the OP misunderstood and he was just saying he only had sex with his wife.
Thing is that kind of preaching isn't going to last long as people will report him and he will get banned.
Who knows.
We've been to places where residents stand outside taking pictures of guests number plates and leave little passive aggressive notes on windscreens. Their righteousness indignation is amusing to behold. Nobody is quite sure what they intend to do with all the photos they take. Nudity and sex terrifies some people.
I suspect people like that don't like having a swingers club in their area and are hoping to deter people attending and thus close down the club. "
I suspect you're right but it's a naturist spa. I think it's the nudity that bothers them. |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
So, why DID you sit through it?
I thought that too
Why the ? "
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"To be honest I would have found a theological debate quite interesting on a slow night...
There's a brand of Christianity which believes it is a believers duty to go amongst sinners and "save" them, so I suspect that's what this guy was up to.
I suspect he was, a bit like Jehovah's Witnesses. I wonder why he felt it necessary to have sex with his wife there though, I don't think missionaries joined in with the cannibals.
Perhaps the OP misunderstood and he was just saying he only had sex with his wife.
Thing is that kind of preaching isn't going to last long as people will report him and he will get banned.
Who knows.
We've been to places where residents stand outside taking pictures of guests number plates and leave little passive aggressive notes on windscreens. Their righteousness indignation is amusing to behold. Nobody is quite sure what they intend to do with all the photos they take. Nudity and sex terrifies some people.
I suspect people like that don't like having a swingers club in their area and are hoping to deter people attending and thus close down the club.
I suspect you're right but it's a naturist spa. I think it's the nudity that bothers them. "
I don't think it's the activity per se that bothers them. It's probably more the perception that such a place is a bit sleazy and will bring down house prices. |
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"I would have asked him why he was there, then politely told him to go away and leave me alone.
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"To be honest I would have found a theological debate quite interesting on a slow night...
There's a brand of Christianity which believes it is a believers duty to go amongst sinners and "save" them, so I suspect that's what this guy was up to. "
Aye but some of us "sinners" dont fecking want "saving" lol |
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"Ouch!
There are ways of expressing faith even in the swinger community and that is not one of them. Faith should come through in your manner as a spirit of understanding and compassion. We don't deny our faith, but preaching is not appropriate. "
The general tone of replies on this thread says to me that Fab Swingers has a closer understanding of the nature of God i.e. Love, forgiveness and good humour than some sections of the church. |
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"Ouch!
There are ways of expressing faith even in the swinger community and that is not one of them. Faith should come through in your manner as a spirit of understanding and compassion. We don't deny our faith, but preaching is not appropriate.
The general tone of replies on this thread says to me that Fab Swingers has a closer understanding of the nature of God i.e. Love, forgiveness and good humour than some sections of the church. "
You speak for yourself, I think preacher guy has got God just right, vengeful and censorious |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
More than a tad odd, I'd say. A swinger preaching against swinging in a swingers club - a bible-basher trying to transfer his guilt onto others. Not rational at all.
Guilt transfer- it's exactly that.
Post-ejaculation remorse "
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"I would of just sat there laughing in all honesty asked him if he wanted some stones for that greenhouse
Greenhouse total den of iniquity with all those fudge nudgers "
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd. "
Shouldv had him removed or removed him yourself! I guess we wont be going there if they let anyone like that in there! I thought clubs were supposed to be comfortable places to be. Iv no issues with people being religious but to be like that is out of order |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
Shouldv had him removed or removed him yourself! I guess we wont be going there if they let anyone like that in there! I thought clubs were supposed to be comfortable places to be. Iv no issues with people being religious but to be like that is out of order"
Id love to see you try to remove him |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
Shouldv had him removed or removed him yourself! I guess we wont be going there if they let anyone like that in there! I thought clubs were supposed to be comfortable places to be. Iv no issues with people being religious but to be like that is out of order
Id love to see you try to remove him "
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"I would of just sat there laughing in all honesty asked him if he wanted some stones for that greenhouse
Greenhouse total den of iniquity with all those fudge nudgers
Didn't think that comment through did I "
It needs to go on Lickety's thread . |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
Shouldv had him removed or removed him yourself! I guess we wont be going there if they let anyone like that in there! I thought clubs were supposed to be comfortable places to be. Iv no issues with people being religious but to be like that is out of order"
To be fair, I've been going for about 8 years and this is the first time I've encountered anything like this. It's not the clubs fault. How should they police things like this? |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
Shouldv had him removed or removed him yourself! I guess we wont be going there if they let anyone like that in there! I thought clubs were supposed to be comfortable places to be. Iv no issues with people being religious but to be like that is out of order
Id love to see you try to remove him "
Lol well it wouldv pissed me off!
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
Shouldv had him removed or removed him yourself! I guess we wont be going there if they let anyone like that in there! I thought clubs were supposed to be comfortable places to be. Iv no issues with people being religious but to be like that is out of order
To be fair, I've been going for about 8 years and this is the first time I've encountered anything like this. It's not the clubs fault. How should they police things like this? "
Hmm yeah good point, as we havnt attended a club yet, i dont know how they work. But arnt you supposed to be a member? |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
Shouldv had him removed or removed him yourself! I guess we wont be going there if they let anyone like that in there! I thought clubs were supposed to be comfortable places to be. Iv no issues with people being religious but to be like that is out of order
To be fair, I've been going for about 8 years and this is the first time I've encountered anything like this. It's not the clubs fault. How should they police things like this?
Hmm yeah good point, as we havnt attended a club yet, i dont know how they work. But arnt you supposed to be a member?"
He is a member but when we told them about him they said they would deal with him |
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I definitely would have cut him short pretty early on and said quite earnestly that I fully understand what he thinks he's doing and that I appreciate the sentiment but that, unlike him, I don't believe in Satan at all, in fact I'm not a satanist in the slightest, and that instead I prefer to believe in god 
That tends to have the desired reaction |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
Shouldv had him removed or removed him yourself! I guess we wont be going there if they let anyone like that in there! I thought clubs were supposed to be comfortable places to be. Iv no issues with people being religious but to be like that is out of order
To be fair, I've been going for about 8 years and this is the first time I've encountered anything like this. It's not the clubs fault. How should they police things like this?
Hmm yeah good point, as we havnt attended a club yet, i dont know how they work. But arnt you supposed to be a member?
He is a member but when we told them about him they said they would deal with him "
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd.
Shouldv had him removed or removed him yourself! I guess we wont be going there if they let anyone like that in there! I thought clubs were supposed to be comfortable places to be. Iv no issues with people being religious but to be like that is out of order
To be fair, I've been going for about 8 years and this is the first time I've encountered anything like this. It's not the clubs fault. How should they police things like this? "
Withdrawing his membership / denying him entry. Surely that’s the beauty of a private club? They have (should have ) control of who they let in. |
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"So last night I went to chams and was sitting by the changing room towards then end of the night with a friend. As we sat there a guy came up to us, turned to my friend and said he had a word for her.
He then proceeded to preach about Jesus and how he loves her and died on the cross for her. How the club was soddam and gomorrah (or however you said it) and that God burnt that down to save those inside.
My friend felt quite uncomfortable as he'd singled her out and it was quite uncomfortable to sit through. The club were great when we bought it to their attention though and spoke to them about it.
Just thought it was a tad odd. "
So when the mood takes him, he feels enlightened |
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And this happened at Chams and you spoke to Steve or Mark about it?
So when you said the club were great what did they do?
Surprised they didn't mention it yesterday as it is a very bizarre occurrence. |
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"And this happened at Chams and you spoke to Steve or Mark about it?
So when you said the club were great what did they do?
Surprised they didn't mention it yesterday as it is a very bizarre occurrence. "
omg first name terms you're a regular then |
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"And this happened at Chams and you spoke to Steve or Mark about it?
So when you said the club were great what did they do?
Surprised they didn't mention it yesterday as it is a very bizarre occurrence. "
They dealt with it, that's all that's needed to know. We were both satisfied with the outcome and carried on our night.
Like I said, it was a bizarre interlude to our evening that I thought might make an amusing anecdote on here. Guess not
No one was hurt and appropriate action was taken by the club. |
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"you should have asked him what he was doing there then xx"
Already answers that one.... He was there having sex with his wife and only his wife so he was fine.
To be honest, he didn't actually say straight out that what we were doing was wrong or we needed to repent etc, he just told us jesus loved us (didn't say he wanted us for a sun beam though) and the God was good. He did say that the club was soddom and gomorrah though and that God raised that to the ground (or words to that effect). |
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"And this happened at Chams and you spoke to Steve or Mark about it?
So when you said the club were great what did they do?
Surprised they didn't mention it yesterday as it is a very bizarre occurrence.
They dealt with it, that's all that's needed to know. We were both satisfied with the outcome and carried on our night.
Like I said, it was a bizarre interlude to our evening that I thought might make an amusing anecdote on here. Guess not
No one was hurt and appropriate action was taken by the club. "
I suppose people took it in the vain that you posted and that was without humour. Your OP and posts thereafter. No humour injection detected. |
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"And this happened at Chams and you spoke to Steve or Mark about it?
So when you said the club were great what did they do?
Surprised they didn't mention it yesterday as it is a very bizarre occurrence.
They dealt with it, that's all that's needed to know. We were both satisfied with the outcome and carried on our night.
Like I said, it was a bizarre interlude to our evening that I thought might make an amusing anecdote on here. Guess not
No one was hurt and appropriate action was taken by the club.
I suppose people took it in the vain that you posted and that was without humour. Your OP and posts thereafter. No humour injection detected. "
Ok.... Will post more of these   after posts intended to be humorous
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I dud perhaps hope the fact that I put I thought it was a tad odd and not what a fucking outrage might have indicated how I felt about the whole thing but apparently I was wrong.
Instead I'm a shit friend, the club is shit, and I should have caused a blazing religious row by the changing rooms.
Seriously..... This place! |
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"And this happened at Chams and you spoke to Steve or Mark about it?
So when you said the club were great what did they do?
Surprised they didn't mention it yesterday as it is a very bizarre occurrence.
They dealt with it, that's all that's needed to know. We were both satisfied with the outcome and carried on our night.
Like I said, it was a bizarre interlude to our evening that I thought might make an amusing anecdote on here. Guess not
No one was hurt and appropriate action was taken by the club.
I suppose people took it in the vain that you posted and that was without humour. Your OP and posts thereafter. No humour injection detected.
Ok.... Will post more of these after posts intended to be humorous
I forgot people need spoon feeding on here "
Ooo sarky
If you post a serious post I’m sure you’d have been annoyed at people not talking that seriously. Common sense.
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"I dud perhaps hope the fact that I put I thought it was a tad odd and not what a fucking outrage might have indicated how I felt about the whole thing but apparently I was wrong.
Instead I'm a shit friend, the club is shit, and I should have caused a blazing religious row by the changing rooms.
Seriously..... This place! "
Or maybe I just think you're making up bollocks to have something interesting to post, who knows |
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So when you said the club were great what did they do?
Surprised they didn't mention it yesterday as it is a very bizarre occurrence. omg first name terms you're a regular then "
I do love a smart ass however an ass just on it's own, unless its lubed up, not so much. |
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