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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

If women can seek discretion, is it so wrong for men to do the same?

I only ask as it seems men are judged more harshly!

(dons tin hat ??)

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex

I think most of us seek discretion. I can't see any harm in anyone asking for it.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nothing wrong either way

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I think some people assume it means you're cheating (unfairly)

I also think a lot of people put it on their profiles because they've seen it on others, but have no clue what it actually means.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple  over a year ago

London

It's bleeding obvious that we all want discretion, so actually mentioning it is a bit suspect...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think most of us seek discretion. I can't see any harm in anyone asking for it.

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I think op means discretion, as in married playing away discretion ?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"If women can seek discretion, is it so wrong for men to do the same?

I only ask as it seems men are judged more harshly!

(dons tin hat ??)"

you a miner?

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"If women can seek discretion, is it so wrong for men to do the same?

I only ask as it seems men are judged more harshly!

(dons tin hat ??)you a miner? "

?? you could say I have spent much of my life underground...! ??

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By *he Mac LassWoman  over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

Nah. Women get short shrift for it too if they post about it here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I think most of us seek discretion. I can't see any harm in anyone asking for it.

I think op means discretion, as in married playing away discretion ?"

Yes...even with acceptance in general if not fab lifestyle in particular.

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By *icketysplitsWoman  over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

There is a double standard that can apply but perhaps (some/generally) women assume discretion is assumed by all and (some/generally) men think they need to spell it out.

This could be because (some/generally) men will talk about their sex lives more than (some/generally) women do.

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By *icecouple561Couple  over a year ago
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East Sussex


"I think most of us seek discretion. I can't see any harm in anyone asking for it.

I think op means discretion, as in married playing away discretion ?

Yes...even with acceptance in general if not fab lifestyle in particular."

I think there are double standards but women don't tend to talk about it so much and rarely take to the forum to complain about their treatment.

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