I know there are folk on here that are playing away, each to their own. What I find a bit hypocritical is those playing away insisting on meeting single folk  . I really don’t understand the logic. Maybe I’m looking at it all wrong, can anyone offer some insight?  |
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"I know there are folk on here that are playing away, each to their own. What I find a bit hypocritical is those playing away insisting on meeting single folk . I really don’t understand the logic. Maybe I’m looking at it all wrong, can anyone offer some insight? "
Safety in numbers
In this instance, the fewer the number the less chance of being caught out maybe |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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Maybe trying to synchronise two married but playing away diary's is just too much hassle?
Maybe because they cannot accommodate they are expecting that at some point the other will?
Maybe that's just what they want?
Let people run their lives as they please and just looks great your own. |
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"Maybe trying to synchronise two married but playing away diary's is just too much hassle?
Maybe because they cannot accommodate they are expecting that at some point the other will?
Maybe that's just what they want?
Let people run their lives as they please and just looks great your own."
That makes a lot of sense because some won’t meet in hotels.
Maybe I should ask them directly  |
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"I know there are folk on here that are playing away, each to their own. What I find a bit hypocritical is those playing away insisting on meeting single folk . I really don’t understand the logic. Maybe I’m looking at it all wrong, can anyone offer some insight? "
they'd feel guilty about splitting or being involved in splitting another couple maybe |
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"I don't find it hypocritical it's just their preference. Same as a bisexual woman only wanting to meet straight men. "
I think I may have omitted something because I agree we’re all entitled to preferences. It’s more those that claim to be single but aren’t then insist on others being single. They tend to be a bit judgmental towards those playing away too |
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"I know there are folk on here that are playing away, each to their own. What I find a bit hypocritical is those playing away insisting on meeting single folk . I really don’t understand the logic. Maybe I’m looking at it all wrong, can anyone offer some insight? they'd feel guilty about splitting or being involved in splitting another couple maybe "
Or looking for an escape plan from their current relationship maybe |
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"Maybe trying to synchronise two married but playing away diary's is just too much hassle?
Maybe because they cannot accommodate they are expecting that at some point the other will?
Maybe that's just what they want?
Let people run their lives as they please and just looks great your own."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't find it hypocritical it's just their preference. Same as a bisexual woman only wanting to meet straight men.
I think I may have omitted something because I agree we’re all entitled to preferences. It’s more those that claim to be single but aren’t then insist on others being single. They tend to be a bit judgmental towards those playing away too "
almost everyone here in forums will make a judgement whether they admit to it or not but as somebody said it's a preference, they may be cheating but lots of different reasons why people cheat |
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"I don't find it hypocritical it's just their preference. Same as a bisexual woman only wanting to meet straight men.
I think I may have omitted something because I agree we’re all entitled to preferences. It’s more those that claim to be single but aren’t then insist on others being single. They tend to be a bit judgmental towards those playing away too almost everyone here in forums will make a judgement whether they admit to it or not but as somebody said it's a preference, they may be cheating but lots of different reasons why people cheat "
Yes I get that it could be a preference and the reasons why. We all have preferences |
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"What was your preference, OP?
You mean did I meet folk that were cheating?
No, do you want to just meet singles?"
I’m not meeting anymore, but when I was I predominately met ppl that were cheating. Although I was also cheating when I first joined Fab. I had other preferences |
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