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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi guys....so we have a babysitter, there's a couples night on tomorrow, OH up for it, I keep changing my mind...scared Anyone tell me what to expect from a club visit?? I want to but I really don't know if I çan handle it...
help a girl out?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They are good fun and a great way to meet new people. Only do what you feel happy with don't be afriad to say no thankyou.
You don't have to join in with any thing that doesn't appeal and can always chat to other couples outside of the play rooms.
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Just chill ..stay close to your oh .. agree a safe word or phrase to get a time out or leave .. remember that everyone there is just human .. no better than you and probably just as nervous... have fun .. enjoy the butterflies... |
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By *iss.RedWoman
over a year ago
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I was really nervous at my first club night, half of it was not knowing quite what to expect as once as I was there I was fine. I'd go with no expectations or pressure upon yourselves to play with others. Just enjoy yourselves and the atmosphere. Read the club's website so you know what to expect. As new members you should get a tour of the club on arrival and shown where everything, you can even ring and let the club know it's your first visit. Enjoy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You pretty much asked this same question 4 days ago, and got plenty of replies.
What to expect.
Clubs I've been to. A large bar type area which will either be dress up, or lingerie filled with people who are there for the same reasons you are.
People chatting and socialising like in a normal bar. And then if they want to take things further off they'll go to a room.
Best way to find out, is to just go and look.
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Just treat it as a normal night out to a club/bar or pub that you haven't been to before, The staff will be friendly and will give you tips on how to make the most of your night and being new some regular people will probably introduce themselves to you as well |
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