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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"can You be in love with two people at the same time or is one just lust ?"
The simple answer is yes. But the fact that you needed to ask says you need to hear more.
There is a lot to say on the subject of the nature of love and it's many forms (there are commonly held to be 7 kinds and 5 ways to express them) and how it's possible to have more than one parent, sibling, child, friend, colleague, and how it's possible to love all strangers. There is no finite amount of love to be shared out and there is no scarcity of imaterial intangible things.
I would encourage you to learn more about the concept of love as a decision (not a feeling) and seeing others as having their own identity, dignity and autonomy, with a loving relationship being one that is based on mutuality.
I would also suggest you develop healthy self-love (that is Philautia) - healing the wounds of past injury that lead us all to conpensatory narcissism and projection, possessiveness and controlling jealousy.
Hopefully this steers you towards some answers.
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