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By *good-being-bad OP Man
over a year ago
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Do they create problems for themselves and others..
I often see threads where guys "white knight" saying things like " oh I can't believe someone as beautiful as you was stood up " and many other similar statements.. even though the majority haven't met or seen the lady..
Often I read from statuses that ladies are inundated and the attention is overwhelming
There was a response on the forums from a lady I'm 100% successful o n here any guy I've wanted to meet I've met ..yet she wanted advice how to ask a guy out in the "real" world..
Does this volume of mail, attention, flattery, give ladies an unrealistic view of themselves ? A problem thus created by the guy ? |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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Nah, im realistic enough, I know I wouldn't get looked at twice in the street by a lot of guys who contact me here. In the street I don't have my tits out and a sign offering nsa sex though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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White knights will say anything in the hope of a shag..
Its quite cringeworthy tbh
As for all the mail women get they probably haven't learnt how to set their filters or they have but dont want to ..
There's a lot of 'oh Im inundated with mail' threads but when you advise them how to change filters and block you find out they quite like it..
Its all attention seeking so i think both are as bad as each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"White knights will say anything in the hope of a shag..
Its quite cringeworthy tbh
As for all the mail women get they probably haven't learnt how to set their filters or they have but dont want to ..
There's a lot of 'oh Im inundated with mail' threads but when you advise them how to change filters and block you find out they quite like it..
Its all attention seeking so i think both are as bad as each other"
Amen to that.....it takes two to tango! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My biggest annoyance is nit reading profiles! I have all my filters set, my profile is pretty clear but still get stupid messages! And when I delete their message or quite often say thanks but no thanks they then keep messaging back!
I really don't have the time for all that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My biggest annoyance is nit reading profiles! I have all my filters set, my profile is pretty clear but still get stupid messages! And when I delete their message or quite often say thanks but no thanks they then keep messaging back!
I really don't have the time for all that! "
Not* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some women believe the hype. Some are just more confident behind a screen than in real life because it's often easier to communicate that way. Some use the site as an ego boost but I think that's good because it's a positive thing to feel good about yourself. As long as they don't lead people on.
Some men white knight for nefarious reasons. But I think some men give compliments just because they're trying to be nice and cheer the woman up. It's not fair that they get tagged as white knights too.
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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single guys will always be their own worst enemy......
i am a great fan of the saying "if you give a person enough rope they will eventually find a way to hang themselves with it!".... and i would add to that for single guys ".....probably by the cock for thinking with their cocks!"
you can normally tell who is putting on a show, who is slathering, who is sucking up and who is basically pissing to mark their territory.......
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Do they create problems for themselves? Yes *some* do, with their too high expectations and sense of entitlement, and failure to realise that one line profiles and unimaginative pics are just not going to be alluring, let alone lead to a meet the majority of the time.
Do they create problems for other single guys? Not at all - I think the good ladies/couples of Fab are *mostly* intelligent and capable enough of working out who the genuine guys are on here - sure there are timewasters and fakes who slip through the net, as we often see from forum posts and sometimes that might lead to people deciding not to meet, but does that actually stop the genuine and decent guys, who go about their Fab business quietly and respectfully, from enjoying the site? Not at all.
I actually think the "the bad guys have ruined it for the rest" mantra is too often rolled out by *some* single guys as as something to blame their lack of "success" on rather than actually look closer to home for the reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I take comments like that from the white knights, very tongue in cheek. I don't find it cringe worthy, more humorous.
As for making it worse for other single guys. I couldn't disagree more. I think it helps the ones you may have a connection with, stand out more.
I would say I'm more confident if i meet someone in real life. You've already seen each other in the flesh and had a mutual attraction. Messaging and arranging a meet on fab, is far more nerve wracking for me  . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nah, im realistic enough, I know I wouldn't get looked at twice in the street by a lot of guys who contact me here. In the street I don't have my tits out and a sign offering nsa sex though "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"White knights will say anything in the hope of a shag..
Its quite cringeworthy tbh
As for all the mail women get they probably haven't learnt how to set their filters or they have but dont want to ..
There's a lot of 'oh Im inundated with mail' threads but when you advise them how to change filters and block you find out they quite like it..
Its all attention seeking so i think both are as bad as each other"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take comments like that from the white knights, very tongue in cheek. I don't find it cringe worthy, more humorous.
As for making it worse for other single guys. I couldn't disagree more. I think it helps the ones you may have a connection with, stand out more.
I would say I'm more confident if i meet someone in real life. You've already seen each other in the flesh and had a mutual attraction. Messaging and arranging a meet on fab, is far more nerve wracking for me . "
Mystique you are truly beautiful, heaven is missing an angel, when god created you perfection was made. I think i love you. |
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By *ldguyMan
over a year ago
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"Nah, im realistic enough, I know I wouldn't get looked at twice in the street by a lot of guys who contact me here. In the street I don't have my tits out and a sign offering nsa sex though
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The white knights showering compliments I mostly ignore, you can see what they’re up to and sort of understand in some cases!
The ones that slate the majority of other guys though in an attempt to make themselves look great are far more annoying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I take comments like that from the white knights, very tongue in cheek. I don't find it cringe worthy, more humorous.
As for making it worse for other single guys. I couldn't disagree more. I think it helps the ones you may have a connection with, stand out more.
I would say I'm more confident if i meet someone in real life. You've already seen each other in the flesh and had a mutual attraction. Messaging and arranging a meet on fab, is far more nerve wracking for me .
Mystique you are truly beautiful, heaven is missing an angel, when god created you perfection was made. I think i love you."
Bloody hell, that was platinum knight!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do they create problems for themselves and others..
I often see threads where guys "white knight" saying things like " oh I can't believe someone as beautiful as you was stood up " and many other similar statements.. even though the majority haven't met or seen the lady..
Often I read from statuses that ladies are inundated and the attention is overwhelming
There was a response on the forums from a lady I'm 100% successful o n here any guy I've wanted to meet I've met ..yet she wanted advice how to ask a guy out in the "real" world..
Does this volume of mail, attention, flattery, give ladies an unrealistic view of themselves ? A problem thus created by the guy ?"
You mean the ones that think they are Beyoncé but are more like Nora Batty ? |
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