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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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My wife gets really really turned on by the thought of me with a guy, when we are having sex she gets me to suck her fingers or one of her dildo's while I'm fucking her and she gets seriously wet and the noises she makes, she even dragged me into the toilets of a pub in soho when a guy came on to me in a pub and he grabbed my nuts, but I can't get her to agree to a guy joining us even if he is just for me, I've thought about setting up an ACCIDENTAL meet, just need some ideas on how to approach the subject, any help or advice would be much appreciated |
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Does the fact she won't agree to a real life man joining you not suggest that she's turned on by the fantasy but turned off/unsure/scared/completely disinterested by the reality? So trying to force the issue by setting up such an encounter is really disrespectful and comes across as all about what YOU want rather than her wishes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"She likes watching gay and lesbian porn and gets very turned on "
So watch some and say “how would you feel trying that?”
If she says I’d love to win win. If she says no chance, put it in the box and don’t get it back out again. |
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"She likes watching gay and lesbian porn and gets very turned on
So watch some and say “how would you feel trying that?”
If she says I’d love to win win. If she says no chance, put it in the box and don’t get it back out again." I think that is the way forward |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If she enjoyed the "public" aspect of a guy touching you, how about a swingers' club on bi night. Discuss limits beforehand and review during." good idea
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