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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago
Ladywell, Lewisham. |
Meet a couple here on fabswingers last month started talking to them and finally meet them .had a wonderful time together ,as we went out for dinner,had a few at the pub than we all head back to the hotel.had a wonderful threesome on that night. After that night off shagging they dropped me back at mine.we swap phone number and all as they said they trust me neither I trust them as well though. We than text each other,call etc.last week I was invited to a house party and it was a surprise that they was there as well.I say hello to them they say hello to me and they walked away.I was just trying to ask them how are they doing and all they kind off not interested and they walked away.i thought to my self have I done something wrong.for me as a person socialized comes first than shagging and anything else comes later.personality ,attitude,behaviour,respect other's ,this are the main key points.......
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"It's possible that they didn't want to play with you that night and were trying to avoid awkwardness."
I agree with this.
OP just because they played with you previously doesn't mean they wanted a repeat. If they were at a party they were probably more interested in seeing who else was there they might want to play with.
There are other possibilities:
They may not have enjoyed it quite as much as they made out.
They may not want the friendship you seem to like - some swingers are only interested in the sex and not the social aspect.
At least they said hello, they could have completely blanked you! |
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By *heblackmac OP Man
over a year ago
Ladywell, Lewisham. |
"It's possible that they didn't want to play with you that night and were trying to avoid awkwardness.
I agree with this.
OP just because they played with you previously doesn't mean they wanted a repeat. If they were at a party they were probably more interested in seeing who else was there they might want to play with.
There are other possibilities:
They may not have enjoyed it quite as much as they made out.
They may not want the friendship you seem to like - some swingers are only interested in the sex and not the social aspect.
At least they said hello, they could have completely blanked you!"
cheers x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet a couple here on fabswingers last month started talking to them and finally meet them .had a wonderful time together ,as we went out for dinner,had a few at the pub than we all head back to the hotel.had a wonderful threesome on that night. After that night off shagging they dropped me back at mine.we swap phone number and all as they said they trust me neither I trust them as well though. We than text each other,call etc.last week I was invited to a house party and it was a surprise that they was there as well.I say hello to them they say hello to me and they walked away.I was just trying to ask them how are they doing and all they kind off not interested and they walked away.i thought to my self have I done something wrong.for me as a person socialized comes first than shagging and anything else comes later.personality ,attitude,behaviour,respect other's ,this are the main key points.......
Your thoughts ladies and gents...."
People here are cold hearted, you need to learn how to be the same or it will drag you down |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's possible that they didn't want to play with you that night and were trying to avoid awkwardness.
I agree with this.
OP just because they played with you previously doesn't mean they wanted a repeat. If they were at a party they were probably more interested in seeing who else was there they might want to play with.
There are other possibilities:
They may not have enjoyed it quite as much as they made out.
They may not want the friendship you seem to like - some swingers are only interested in the sex and not the social aspect.
At least they said hello, they could have completely blanked you!"
Then they should have had the decency to tell him they didn't want a repeat or a friendship.
And the whole "It's possible that they didn't want to play with you that night and were trying to avoid awkwardness" is bullshit. If they had a threesome "to avoid awkwardness" then in my book, they are twats |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey irrespective of whether they wanted to play with someone else no excuses for being rude to you if they were, some couples really don't like having repeat meets even when they say they do, I've met a few like that, it's life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey irrespective of whether they wanted to play with someone else no excuses for being rude to you if they were, some couples really don't like having repeat meets even when they say they do, I've met a few like that, it's life "
Sorry, but it's the man's fault someone was rude to him.
Such as Fab  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Y exchamge numbers afterwards if they didnt enjoy it as much or werent interested in doing it again ... makes no sense to me . "
"To avoid awkwardness" apparently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Y exchamge numbers afterwards if they didnt enjoy it as much or werent interested in doing it again ... makes no sense to me .
"To avoid awkwardness" apparently "
Bullshit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Y exchamge numbers afterwards if they didnt enjoy it as much or werent interested in doing it again ... makes no sense to me .
"To avoid awkwardness" apparently
Bullshit "
My thoughts exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey irrespective of whether they wanted to play with someone else no excuses for being rude to you if they were, some couples really don't like having repeat meets even when they say they do, I've met a few like that, it's life
Sorry, but it's the man's fault someone was rude to him.
Such as Fab "
yes guys take the fall, we have broad shoulders we can take it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Y exchamge numbers afterwards if they didnt enjoy it as much or werent interested in doing it again ... makes no sense to me .
"To avoid awkwardness" apparently
Bullshit
My thoughts exactly "
Just hope he doesnt go running when they cant find a better offer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Y exchamge numbers afterwards if they didnt enjoy it as much or werent interested in doing it again ... makes no sense to me .
"To avoid awkwardness" apparently
Bullshit
My thoughts exactly
Just hope he doesnt go running when they cant find a better offer "
If it was me I'd run for the hills as the feeling of being used obviously isn't a good one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Y exchamge numbers afterwards if they didnt enjoy it as much or werent interested in doing it again ... makes no sense to me .
"To avoid awkwardness" apparently
Bullshit
My thoughts exactly
Just hope he doesnt go running when they cant find a better offer
If it was me I'd run for the hills as the feeling of being used obviously isn't a good one "
Those who are used often get some bad luck at sometime or another.
After all, karma has no deadline |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it depends what type of house party, a non swinging mutual friend type and I wouldn’t appreciate being approached, any swing type event then fair enough to say hi, they shouldn’t be rude at all and should have spoken up if they didn’t want further communications |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Do they have to socialise or play with you everytime they see you at a party? A hello may be enough for them sometimes, especially if they are trying to meet new people and time is limited. It doesn't have to be some kind of personal slight does it? |
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Since you have their number and have been chatting, have you tried to text them to say fancy bumping into you there and ask if they enjoyed the party? That will probably tell you how the land lies. There could be any number of reasons why they couldn't stop and chat, so I wouldn't try to second-guess the situation.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Meet a couple here on fabswingers last month started talking to them and finally meet them .had a wonderful time together ,as we went out for dinner,had a few at the pub than we all head back to the hotel.had a wonderful threesome on that night. After that night off shagging they dropped me back at mine.we swap phone number and all as they said they trust me neither I trust them as well though. We than text each other,call etc.last week I was invited to a house party and it was a surprise that they was there as well.I say hello to them they say hello to me and they walked away.I was just trying to ask them how are they doing and all they kind off not interested and they walked away.i thought to my self have I done something wrong.for me as a person socialized comes first than shagging and anything else comes later.personality ,attitude,behaviour,respect other's ,this are the main key points.......
Your thoughts ladies and gents....
People here are cold hearted, you need to learn how to be the same or it will drag you down"
Or don't be the same. Don't get dragged down to that level. |
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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago
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OP what kind of party was it? Were they rude in the way they said hello back to you or are you just upset because they didn’t stand and chat? I’m not clear.
I don’t think it’s unreasonable for people not to engage in another place at another time. They’re not obliged to give any additional time and we have no idea why they didn’t stand and chat but that’s their choice, they were out socialising after all. There is no excuse for being rude but if they said hello to him I’m not sure I understand what they did that was rude? Confuddled! |
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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago
Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro |
"Being used is an awful feeling  feels like it"
Welcome to the land of who gives a fuck. Just someones play toy then disregarded you may as well get use to it.
Aweful but true 
All the bestx |
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By *FFB69Woman
over a year ago
Torfaen/Gwent |
"It's possible that they didn't want to play with you that night and were trying to avoid awkwardness.
I agree with this.
OP just because they played with you previously doesn't mean they wanted a repeat. If they were at a party they were probably more interested in seeing who else was there they might want to play with.
There are other possibilities:
They may not have enjoyed it quite as much as they made out.
They may not want the friendship you seem to like - some swingers are only interested in the sex and not the social aspect.
At least they said hello, they could have completely blanked you!
Then they should have had the decency to tell him they didn't want a repeat or a friendship.
And the whole "It's possible that they didn't want to play with you that night and were trying to avoid awkwardness" is bullshit. If they had a threesome "to avoid awkwardness" then in my book, they are twats"
To play at the party. Not the night they met. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Being used is an awful feeling feels like it
Welcome to the land of who gives a fuck. Just someones play toy then disregarded you may as well get use to it.
Aweful but true
All the bestx"
Yes unfortunately you may have just been an experience on their tick list and once ticked they weren't looking to repeat soon. Or perhaps you were very good and the husband is not keen for his wife to meet you again |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's possible that they didn't want to play with you that night and were trying to avoid awkwardness.
I agree with this.
OP just because they played with you previously doesn't mean they wanted a repeat. If they were at a party they were probably more interested in seeing who else was there they might want to play with.
There are other possibilities:
They may not have enjoyed it quite as much as they made out.
They may not want the friendship you seem to like - some swingers are only interested in the sex and not the social aspect.
At least they said hello, they could have completely blanked you!
Then they should have had the decency to tell him they didn't want a repeat or a friendship.
And the whole "It's possible that they didn't want to play with you that night and were trying to avoid awkwardness" is bullshit. If they had a threesome "to avoid awkwardness" then in my book, they are twats
To play at the party. Not the night they met. "
Ahh ok, I read it wrong.
My bad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Still dnt think its right to exchange numbers etc then give him the cold shoulder next time they meet they could of at least said were off to mingle might catch u later but have fun .... even swingers have feelings |
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"Still dnt think its right to exchange numbers etc then give him the cold shoulder next time they meet they could of at least said were off to mingle might catch u later but have fun .... even swingers have feelings "
We would have done what the couple did too , but we never exchange numbers . I don’t know that they really gave him the cold shoulder , they did say hello , and any more than that and you can end up with a limpet that won’t let go all night . That would spoil the night for us , so I’m with the couple on this one . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is not a personal attack....
They probably felt you were clingy.....
Going forward after meeting a couple just send a thank you text the next day. Then don’t contact them until they text you again...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meet a couple here on fabswingers last month started talking to them and finally meet them .had a wonderful time together ,as we went out for dinner,had a few at the pub than we all head back to the hotel.had a wonderful threesome on that night. After that night off shagging they dropped me back at mine.we swap phone number and all as they said they trust me neither I trust them as well though. We than text each other,call etc.last week I was invited to a house party and it was a surprise that they was there as well.I say hello to them they say hello to me and they walked away.I was just trying to ask them how are they doing and all they kind off not interested and they walked away.i thought to my self have I done something wrong.for me as a person socialized comes first than shagging and anything else comes later.personality ,attitude,behaviour,respect other's ,this are the main key points.......
Your thoughts ladies and gents...."
it was a one off they used your body to satisfy their lust then discarded the very thought of you Nsa at its best |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's possible that they didn't want to play with you that night and were trying to avoid awkwardness.
I agree with this.
OP just because they played with you previously doesn't mean they wanted a repeat. If they were at a party they were probably more interested in seeing who else was there they might want to play with.
There are other possibilities:
They may not have enjoyed it quite as much as they made out.
They may not want the friendship you seem to like - some swingers are only interested in the sex and not the social aspect.
At least they said hello, they could have completely blanked you!
Then they should have had the decency to tell him they didn't want a repeat or a friendship.
And the whole "It's possible that they didn't want to play with you that night and were trying to avoid awkwardness" is bullshit. If they had a threesome "to avoid awkwardness" then in my book, they are twats"
Hey, that is an insult to twats. Mine is very warm and welcoming. |
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