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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Can anyone else agree with the following......as a single male when i meet females all is good up untill your next meet with a different person .....omfg and then it starts its as they fall in love with you on the meet.......now i dont want to dound big headed but surley this happens to others .....boom the verification vanishes too lol etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It used to happen to me all the time. Now I've a much stricter selection process and can spot those that are looking for more than I'm offering before agreeing to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It used to happen to me all the time. Now I've a much stricter selection process and can spot those that are looking for more than I'm offering before agreeing to meet. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having mulitiple partners requires a rewiring of the brain. Natural instinct is to get twitchy when a sex partner sleeps with someone else. I admit a brief wave of jealousy passes over me when I see the ‘verification that comes next’. It took me a while to realise that this did not mean I was being replaced, as it might well do outside the swinging world.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cock lust I call it. 
But like peach says don’t understand why it has to become awkward. I think as long as your honest with each other so no one gets hurt then it can continue as it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've had this a few times one lady said why don't I go off with my slut and live happily ever after the lady in question bhad 3 meets in quick succession then now for ages but I was her first meet the other lady didn't want to commit to regular meets and got jealous when I had meets with other single women |
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"Can anyone else agree with the following......as a single male when i meet females all is good up untill your next meet with a different person .....omfg and then it starts its as they fall in love with you on the meet.......now i dont want to dound big headed but surley this happens to others .....boom the verification vanishes too lol etc "
I’ve only genuinely fallen for one guy on here - and he was a total head fuck merchant who got a majpr kick out of getting women to fall for him - just because he could! Fortunately he’s no longer on fab!
All I can say/advise is that it can be tricky when (genuinely) singles meet other singles!
When I meet a single guy I want him/us to have an amazing time in and out of bed - the relationship experience as it were! However - at no point do I give the impression that they are ‘the one’ - that I’m looking for monogamy etc etc - and I expect them to be similarly honest with me!
When a level of honesty, trust and friendship is established then repeat meets can be enjoyed without jealousy, possessiveness or hurt on either side!
So op - have an amazing time with your meets - but never allow them to think that it’s more than great sex and (potentially) friendship! 
Good luck! Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t want to fall into the forum cliches but I would say that maybe your selection criteria could be looked at? Or maybe an honest conversation at your social (if you have one). This is a swinging site, multiple partners are to be expected but a degree of clarity never went amiss. |
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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago
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I’ve had it happen to me before even with people who are married, I think the biggest issue is that people misconstrue giving to the moment and think you’re giving to them. What I mean by this is I think sex should be very passionate wether it’s rough sex, dominating them or just vanilla. Sex should not be a cold experience so I like to project a lot of emotion when I have it. Although it’s a moment, it’s not me wanting anything more it’s me just giving to the moment and despite me being very forthcoming about this I have still ran into issues in the past yes. |
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