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By *3V1H92 OP Man
over a year ago
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Hello all. Just looking for some advice on how to open a chat and gain a dialogue with people on here. I'm not a stunner but no where near a monster. I read through everyone's profile first and send one or 2 pics of myself. I have nudes but never send unless asked. My opener is...
Hi there it's lovely to meet you. Hope you're well and having a great day. If you feel like chatting I'd love to hear from you x
I understand people have preferences and types which I understand completely but seriously lol it's not that bad is it?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I very rarely message people first but when I do I'll usually fab their pics first then message them saying what I liked about their profile or pictures. I tend to message people who genuinely grab my interest so they have share a similiar kink to myself or I might be what they're looking for. |
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By *etLikeMan
over a year ago
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I don’t have a stock opener. Whilst it may seem unusual, I prefer to read a profile and comment on what’s mentioned in it. Admittedly I do often ramble and a five paragraph first message may be more daunting than the ubiquitous “how r u?” And a cock pic.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like messages that maybe mention something I've said in my profile it at least shows someone's read it.
Also, any message opening with text speak debts deleted. |
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The first thing I would do is add a profile picture. Lots of folk will delete messages from any guy without one.
Next is make sure that your profile (and pictures) are selling you well. Most ladies will check out your profile before the think about opening your message.
When it comes to the opening message, avoid crude messages or simple hi or how are you. Use propper words instead of txt, and say who you are and why your messaging. Referring to things in their profile you like might be good. Character and humour are always good too.
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only in the nicest possible way , welcome to Norfolk 
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