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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

.., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes it is..

Tell them you will send one by return

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You control your own responses. If you feel it's cheeky just refuse to send one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We never send face pics until we've seen one either in a message or on the profile to many fakes and pics collectors

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!"

Buddy, If this happens again, slap them with your cock

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!

Buddy, If this happens again, slap them with your cock

Fantastic advice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We never send face pics until we've seen one either in a message or on the profile to many fakes and pics collectors "

Someone has to go first, or the game never starts.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We never send face pics until we've seen one either in a message or on the profile to many fakes and pics collectors

Someone has to go first, or the game never starts.

As the universe states, ladies first

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We never send face pics until we've seen one either in a message or on the profile to many fakes and pics collectors

Someone has to go first, or the game never starts.

As the universe states, ladies first

Wise advice especially if there is an ambush planned behind the door

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You control your own responses. If you feel it's cheeky just refuse to send one."

I do, I was just seeing what other people thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Just to clarify, they had plenty of photos on profile, just didn’t have any face photos.

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By *olliPineCouple over a year ago

swingers clubs

It's cheeky for any profile type to message requesting something they themselves have not offered up.

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By *dam1971Man over a year ago

Bedford

Not to worry mate, I’ll send them one of your face photos

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I think so yes,tell them to do one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes.

I ask, but mine are clearly visible x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman over a year ago

evesham

How do you know they don't have one in private?

Someone has to make the first move a x yes I guess it should be the ones asking for yours bit if you like them then break the silence and send one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes it is cheeky. The asker should send one first really, then up to you if you want to return.

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By *otSoNewWalesCoupleCouple over a year ago

South Wales

Almost every message we recieve from single guys includes a face pic - and yet we haven't asked for one. Most seem more than happy to volunteer one in their opening message.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It's cheeky for any profile type to message requesting something they themselves have not offered up."

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would be honoured until they delete it lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We never send face pics until we've seen one either in a message or on the profile to many fakes and pics collectors

Someone has to go first, or the game never starts.

As the universe states, ladies first

Why not make it like airbnb reviews. Where people can’t view a post/message sent to them until they have written one and posted it back blindly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!"

I get that all the time usually by women with no public pics at all and no profile pic. They politely get told to fuck off. Some women feel so entitled on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!"

Yes it is cheeky, be aware of the fakes OP. I have a picture of my elbow saved in order to reply to such messages...... purely to annoy them lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!

I get that all the time usually by women with no public pics at all and no profile pic. They politely get told to fuck off. Some women feel so entitled on here. "

Probably men masquerading cos they have the temerity to do that..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!

I get that all the time usually by women with no public pics at all and no profile pic. They politely get told to fuck off. Some women feel so entitled on here.

Probably men masquerading cos they have the temerity to do that..

No, I can spot those profiles a mile off, these are genuine women and couples. I think there is a presumption on here that single blokes will jump through hoops, because there are so many of us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!

I get that all the time usually by women with no public pics at all and no profile pic. They politely get told to fuck off. Some women feel so entitled on here.

Probably men masquerading cos they have the temerity to do that..

No, I can spot those profiles a mile off, these are genuine women and couples. I think there is a presumption on here that single blokes will jump through hoops, because there are so many of us."

That’s exactly what it is. One woman, near me with a silhouette profile and no pics got very abusive when I politely told her there was no way I was sending my face to a blank profile. It’s not just the ladies who get abuse on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We don't have one on our profile but send it from our private album.

Also we don't send it straight away as we like to talk first and make sure we have the same flithy mind set and not some guy into sensual love making

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We don't have one on our profile but send it from our private album.

Also we don't send it straight away as we like to talk first and make sure we have the same flithy mind set and not some guy into sensual love making

Yeah, you don’t want to end up with Sting, doing all that tantric love making for hours on end !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't have one on our profile but send it from our private album.

Also we don't send it straight away as we like to talk first and make sure we have the same flithy mind set and not some guy into sensual love making

Yeah, you don’t want to end up with Sting, doing all that tantric love making for hours on end !"

Exactly a good flithy hard fuck any day! You would be surprised at how many "lovers" there are X

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"We don't have one on our profile but send it from our private album.

Also we don't send it straight away as we like to talk first and make sure we have the same flithy mind set and not some guy into sensual love making

Yeah, you don’t want to end up with Sting, doing all that tantric love making for hours on end !

Exactly a good flithy hard fuck any day! You would be surprised at how many "lovers" there are X "

You’re on my hotlist now !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!

I get that all the time usually by women with no public pics at all and no profile pic. They politely get told to fuck off. Some women feel so entitled on here.

Probably men masquerading cos they have the temerity to do that..

No, I can spot those profiles a mile off, these are genuine women and couples. I think there is a presumption on here that single blokes will jump through hoops, because there are so many of us."

I wasn’t replying to your comment, but the one after.

And for the record there is no presumption here. It is presumptious to assume you may think you may guess what other people are thinking.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!

Buddy, If this happens again, slap them with your cock

Best answer ever

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes id find it very cheeky.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!

I get that all the time usually by women with no public pics at all and no profile pic. They politely get told to fuck off. Some women feel so entitled on here.

Probably men masquerading cos they have the temerity to do that..

No, I can spot those profiles a mile off, these are genuine women and couples. I think there is a presumption on here that single blokes will jump through hoops, because there are so many of us.

I wasn’t replying to your comment, but the one after.

And for the record there is no presumption here. It is presumptious to assume you may think you may guess what other people are thinking.

It’s presumptuous to ask for a face photo when you’re sending the first message without a face photo, or not having a face photo on your profile. I certainly wouldn’t dream of doing that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!

Buddy, If this happens again, slap them with your cock

Best answer ever

Kiss my hand and thank me later

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

It's written on my bio.

"No face pics, no chat. If you don't have a public face pic, please include one with your message or it will be ignored"

Might seem a bit ranty, but I don't want to get into conversation with someone only to find out later they've got a face like a slapped arse, and then deal with the hassle of polite rejection.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!

I get that all the time usually by women with no public pics at all and no profile pic. They politely get told to fuck off. Some women feel so entitled on here.

Probably men masquerading cos they have the temerity to do that..

No, I can spot those profiles a mile off, these are genuine women and couples. I think there is a presumption on here that single blokes will jump through hoops, because there are so many of us.

I wasn’t replying to your comment, but the one after.

And for the record there is no presumption here. It is presumptious to assume you may think you may guess what other people are thinking.

It’s presumptuous to ask for a face photo when you’re sending the first message without a face photo, or not having a face photo on your profile. I certainly wouldn’t dream of doing that. "

I agree with that totally, neither would we. Like I said a blind posting system works well.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!"

God, I was only asking!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!"

Yes I'd say so. If they don't have a public one, I'd expect them to send one in a message when asking for one from us.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We don't have one on our profile but send it from our private album.

Also we don't send it straight away as we like to talk first and make sure we have the same flithy mind set and not some guy into sensual love making

Yeah, you don’t want to end up with Sting, doing all that tantric love making for hours on end !

Exactly a good flithy hard fuck any day! You would be surprised at how many "lovers" there are X

You’re on my hotlist now !

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Those who ask first send first unless it’s face pic Friday.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is. I don't ask for a face pic, but I don't usually send one if they haven't sent one. Mainly men who are quite close to me, or seem a little suspect stalkerish.

I've had someone recognise me and follow me to my daughters; where he knocked on the door.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!"
it is but they have the advantage over single guys really

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

".., a couple or a woman message and ask you for a face photo in a first message, when they haven’t sent one or there isn’t any on there profiles, had this quite a few times ?!it is but they have the advantage over single guys really

Yeah, doesn’t mean I’m going to send a face pic first, I’d rather have my dignity than fuck a hot woman in front of her husband, ah bollocks what have I done, who needs fucking dignity anyway, I’ve just talked my way out of a fuck !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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exactly needs must

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