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Save yourself a whole load of earache and make your mind up when you see a persons pictures. Ask 100 people here and I reckon you'd get close on to 100 different answers/interpretations. |
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"Fat is something you have not something you are. I have shit loads but i also have curves. Some like me some don't. Labels are for clothes not humans.
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So what about people using bbw or bbc for example? |
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over a year ago
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"Save yourself a whole load of earache and make your mind up when you see a persons pictures. Ask 100 people here and I reckon you'd get close on to 100 different answers/interpretations."
Thats me though i already know my opinion, i was wondering other peoples |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have fat curves, Always hated my shape but starting to embrace it as a woman's body, who has had 4 big babies,and been through some major health issues.
This is me now and I'm happy
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"Save yourself a whole load of earache and make your mind up when you see a persons pictures. Ask 100 people here and I reckon you'd get close on to 100 different answers/interpretations.
Thats me though i already know my opinion, i was wondering other peoples"
Do a search..
Check out all the hundreds of other threads dedicated to such subjects that did not go well... |
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"Save yourself a whole load of earache and make your mind up when you see a persons pictures. Ask 100 people here and I reckon you'd get close on to 100 different answers/interpretations.
Thats me though i already know my opinion, i was wondering other peoples"
It's a topic that guarantees aggro, and there'll be no definitive answer at the end. Then it gets repeated the next day on a new thread. |
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over a year ago
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"Save yourself a whole load of earache and make your mind up when you see a persons pictures. Ask 100 people here and I reckon you'd get close on to 100 different answers/interpretations.
Thats me though i already know my opinion, i was wondering other peoples
It's a topic that guarantees aggro, and there'll be no definitive answer at the end. Then it gets repeated the next day on a new thread."
Only aggro because some people are touchy, i dont have time to check to see if the thread has been done before so i do apolagise. People can easily ignore it though |
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"Fat is something you have not something you are. I have shit loads but i also have curves. Some like me some don't. Labels are for clothes not humans.
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So what about people using bbw or bbc for example?"
It is a quick way of explaining to people that i am not slim. Saves me time ing out people that i wouldn't want to meet. Works for me on our profile so I'm happy. I'm sure others are the same. |
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"I myself would class myself as fat, I would say girls who are a 14-16 are curvy, but that is just my opinion "
I am size 18 and definitely class myself as curvy,i.e. Bust and hips in proportion with a waist |
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"Save yourself a whole load of earache and make your mind up when you see a persons pictures. Ask 100 people here and I reckon you'd get close on to 100 different answers/interpretations.
Thats me though i already know my opinion, i was wondering other peoples
It's a topic that guarantees aggro, and there'll be no definitive answer at the end. Then it gets repeated the next day on a new thread.
Only aggro because some people are touchy, i dont have time to check to see if the thread has been done before so i do apolagise. People can easily ignore it though"
Don't apologise, you can post whatever you like within forum rules. People should just avoid the threads they don't like instead of whining. |
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"This might be a sore subject and it is not intented to offend anyone, but what would you class as curvy and what would you class as fat?"
It is dependant on the thickness of ice on which you are skating on.
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I'm a size 16 chunky chick with thick thighs and a round arse but I have small boobies so don't class myself as curvy. On here I have been described me as curvy, fat, bbw and average! I'm not fussed it's just a label as long as we're comfortably confident with ourselves  |
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"I'm a size 16 chunky chick with thick thighs and a round arse but I have small boobies so don't class myself as curvy. On here I have been described me as curvy, fat, bbw and average! I'm not fussed it's just a label as long as we're comfortably confident with ourselves "
I agree with the chunky sexy one  |
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"I'm a size 16 chunky chick with thick thighs and a round arse but I have small boobies so don't class myself as curvy. On here I have been described me as curvy, fat, bbw and average! I'm not fussed it's just a label as long as we're comfortably confident with ourselves
I agree with the chunky sexy one "
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"I’m fat. I have curves as well. But I’m also fucking fabulous. And what I lack in flat stomach I make up for in enthusiasm. "
I can vouch for her being fabulous.
In fact, awesome comes in all shapes and sizes, who knew?  |
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"I’m fat. I have curves as well. But I’m also fucking fabulous. And what I lack in flat stomach I make up for in enthusiasm.
I can vouch for her being fabulous.
In fact, awesome comes in all shapes and sizes, who knew? "
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over a year ago
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"This might be a sore subject and it is not intented to offened anyone but what would you class as curvy and what would you class sd fat?"
In my book if a woman still resembles the female form ie hourglass then she is curvy. If she doesn't she's just fat |
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"Save yourself a whole load of earache and make your mind up when you see a persons pictures. Ask 100 people here and I reckon you'd get close on to 100 different answers/interpretations."
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"Fem here..Depends... everyone has different concept of the word, I'm not fat but wouldn't say curvy either... You can tell I like cake put it that way"
You’re on Fab so I’d be surprised if you didn’t like cake.
It’s what blokes use to lure the women in |
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"This might be a sore subject and it is not intented to offened anyone but what would you class as curvy and what would you class sd fat?
In my book if a woman still resembles the female form ie hourglass then she is curvy. If she doesn't she's just fat"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fat is something you have not something you are. I have shit loads but i also have curves. Some like me some don't. Labels are for clothes not humans.
T"
I would say if I may...that you have a shit load of curves more then anything and also great taste in thigh high boots  |
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"I'm a fatty and proud."
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping! |
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping! "
Wow!
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"Fat is something you have not something you are. I have shit loads but i also have curves. Some like me some don't. Labels are for clothes not humans.
TI would say if I may...that you have a shit load of curves more then anything and also great taste in thigh high boots "
Aw thanks..made me smile and that's rare on these threads i wish i would stop reading xxx |
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping! "
The government is also trying to do something about mental health and accepting your body is a significant part of that |
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping! "
If someone’s happy with themselves then good on them, go girl  |
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping!
The government is also trying to do something about mental health and accepting your body is a significant part of that "
If you had mental health issues I very much doubt being on a swinging website would be suggested by a councellor or a GP, so invalid statement really |
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"Curvy is a shape definition. Someone who's a size 6 can be curvy and someone who's a size 20 can be curvy. It's all about the definition "
This
I'm a size 10, I still have curves in the places I should have, and in places I shouldn't |
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There isn’t a FAT option,I do not regard myself as FABULOUS . I chose AMPLE.
I am most definitely CURVY I have a bum boobs a waist my shape is very curvy.
I am not straight up and down and boyish .
Very bad choices for us.
I find men describing themselves as CURVY quite off putting. |
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping!
The government is also trying to do something about mental health and accepting your body is a significant part of that
If you had mental health issues I very much doubt being on a swinging website would be suggested by a councellor or a GP, so invalid statement really "
It's not uncommon that when someone has issues with their own confidence they try to knock the confidence out of others by being rude and judgemental.
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over a year ago
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping!
The government is also trying to do something about mental health and accepting your body is a significant part of that
If you had mental health issues I very much doubt being on a swinging website would be suggested by a councellor or a GP, so invalid statement really
It's not uncommon that when someone has issues with their own confidence they try to knock the confidence out of others by being rude and judgemental.
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping!
The government is also trying to do something about mental health and accepting your body is a significant part of that
If you had mental health issues I very much doubt being on a swinging website would be suggested by a councellor or a GP, so invalid statement really
It's not uncommon that when someone has issues with their own confidence they try to knock the confidence out of others by being rude and judgemental.
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Are you accusing me of having mental health issues? Fuck how dare you!! Sad sad sad ! |
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping! "
You phrase it in a very bad way but you do have a point. I'm not at all proud of when I put more pounds on. |
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping!
You phrase it in a very bad way but you do have a point. I'm not at all proud of when I put more pounds on. "
I read that some people can have a addiction to food.... just like alcohol and drugs...
So obesity can be a mental health issue just like anorexia |
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"This might be a sore subject and it is not intented to offened anyone but what would you class as curvy and what would you class sd fat?"
size 12 is curvy |
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping!
You phrase it in a very bad way but you do have a point. I'm not at all proud of when I put more pounds on. "
I think he has a point too. Since I've retired I've put on 20kg...I'm not beating myself up and working towards shifting it but I'm not proud being fat. |
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping!
You phrase it in a very bad way but you do have a point. I'm not at all proud of when I put more pounds on.
I read that some people can have a addiction to food.... just like alcohol and drugs...
So obesity can be a mental health issue just like anorexia "
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping!
The government is also trying to do something about mental health and accepting your body is a significant part of that
If you had mental health issues I very much doubt being on a swinging website would be suggested by a councellor or a GP, so invalid statement really
It's not uncommon that when someone has issues with their own confidence they try to knock the confidence out of others by being rude and judgemental.
Are you accusing me of having mental health issues? Fuck how dare you!! Sad sad sad !"
Someone mentioned mental health so I just pointed out it all goes hand in hand |
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"This might be a sore subject and it is not intented to offened anyone but what would you class as curvy and what would you class sd fat?"
I'd class myself as curvy. When I was 3 stone heavier I was just fat. Hope this helps  |
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Unfortunately nothing can be don't to help ignorance. I put on weight due to breaking mypelvis and both wrists in an RTA thanks to steroids and no excercise.
Im.now back in the gym trying to shift my stomach. Had a customer 2 weeks ago got in the car and sd "the drivers a milf". I then asked him not to eat his food in the car. Guess what? I went from a milf to a "fat b******" in 2 secs flat. I usually find the people who are nasty about my weight obviously don't own a mirror !!!x |
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping!
You phrase it in a very bad way but you do have a point. I'm not at all proud of when I put more pounds on.
I read that some people can have a addiction to food.... just like alcohol and drugs...
So obesity can be a mental health issue just like anorexia "
Yes it can. Harder to kick an addiction to something you need to survive and so can't avoid. (I'm not saying alcohol or drug addictions can be easy to kick.) |
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"This might be a sore subject and it is not intented to offened anyone but what would you class as curvy and what would you class sd fat?"
I would say HD fat is a much better experience, but wait til you check out 4K fat! |
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"I myself would class myself as fat, I would say girls who are a 14-16 are curvy, but that is just my opinion "
I'm a fat 14 - I've been a slim, average and now fat 14 |
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"Fat is something you have not something you are. I have shit loads but i also have curves. Some like me some don't. Labels are for clothes not humans.
T
So what about people using bbw or bbc for example?
It is a quick way of explaining to people that i am not slim. Saves me time ing out people that i wouldn't want to meet. Works for me on our profile so I'm happy. I'm sure others are the same. "
 i had to mute this post to see what word was missing when only ing was published... The site doesn't like weeed |
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"Fat is something you have not something you are. I have shit loads but i also have curves. Some like me some don't. Labels are for clothes not humans.
T
So what about people using bbw or bbc for example?
It is a quick way of explaining to people that i am not slim. Saves me time ing out people that i wouldn't want to meet. Works for me on our profile so I'm happy. I'm sure others are the same.
i had to mute this post to see what word was missing when only ing was published... The site doesn't like weeed "
Ha i hadn't even noticed. Well spotted |
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping! "
The world is trying to reduce sexually transmitted diseases. This country supplies free contraception. Some people still indulge in casual bareback sex, proudly displaying photographic evidence. People in glass houses |
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"Fat is something you have not something you are. I have shit loads but i also have curves. Some like me some don't. Labels are for clothes not humans.
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So what about people using bbw or bbc for example?"
I personally don't like the bbw thing,I'm fat & that's it simple...it doesn't need a special title x |
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At the risk of sounding amazingly stupid (it won't be the first time) BBC?
I thought I knew what it meant but I'm not 100% sure anymore because I have seen it in a few different context and they don't all work with what I think.
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping!
The world is trying to reduce sexually transmitted diseases. This country supplies free contraception. Some people still indulge in casual bareback sex, proudly displaying photographic evidence. People in glass houses "
What do you mean? |
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"At the risk of sounding amazingly stupid (it won't be the first time) BBC?
I thought I knew what it meant but I'm not 100% sure anymore because I have seen it in a few different context and they don't all work with what I think.
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BBC = Big Black Cock |
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"Curvy is a shape definition. Someone who's a size 6 can be curvy and someone who's a size 20 can be curvy. It's all about the definition "
I was about to say the same thing.
I am somewhere between a six 8 and 10, but still curvy )including a wobbly belly). |
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"Fat is something you have not something you are. I have shit loads but i also have curves. Some like me some don't. Labels are for clothes not humans.
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Loved this response
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping!
The world is trying to reduce sexually transmitted diseases. This country supplies free contraception. Some people still indulge in casual bareback sex, proudly displaying photographic evidence. People in glass houses "
not sure I understand, am I in a glass house? I don't do bareback with strangers. Do you? |
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"Fat is something you have not something you are. I have shit loads but i also have curves. Some like me some don't. Labels are for clothes not humans.
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So what about people using bbw or bbc for example?
I personally don't like the bbw thing,I'm fat & that's it simple...it doesn't need a special title x"
love your pics you look very sexy |
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"I'm a fatty and proud.
I don't get this, why on earth would you be proud to be fat? Do you pat yourself on your back when you have put another few pounds on?
The government are trying to help stop obesity but when someone is proud to be fat, there's just no helping!
The government is also trying to do something about mental health and accepting your body is a significant part of that
If you had mental health issues I very much doubt being on a swinging website would be suggested by a councellor or a GP, so invalid statement really "
Where did they suggest that they had fab on prescription from their Dr? How big is your trampoline?!
Take a read through the forums and you will see many people discussing mental health on here. Sex can be a great release when people are struggling with life.
People really do struggle to get their head around the fact thag sometimes, in order to change the way you look you have to accept the way you look. By saying 'I'm fat and I'm happy with that' they aren't saying they're proud of it, just that they accept where they have got to with their weight and won't be punished about it anymore but for the majority they will also be trying to change that.
Of course there will be some who are proud to be fat, just like you get those who see no problem with their drug habit or alcoholism. |
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"I describe my body type as curvy.
I would desribe your body type as perfect"
Potential to be perfect! If I got rid of the layer of visceral fat covering my abs, had some more definition in my thighs and firmed up my butt and triceps, then it would be perfect, to me! |
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Pointing out the downsides of being fat online is not going to make them immediately drop a cake and pick up a bike. It’s just going to make someone feel bad.
I wonder if any body shaming has ever “worked” into getting people to change. Real change comes from within.
I comment on what I find appealing in a positive light. I see no need to do the reverse. |
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"I describe my body type as curvy.
I would desribe your body type as perfect
Potential to be perfect! If I got rid of the layer of visceral fat covering my abs, had some more definition in my thighs and firmed up my butt and triceps, then it would be perfect, to me!"
You know your body but to me its alresdy there |
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