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Have porn destrouyed the expectation of sex?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As we all get accustomed to watch hardcore porn, such as extreme deepthroats, do we expect the same things in the vanilla world? I would say both yes and no, whats your view?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me personally, no. And I haven’t met any men who clearly have watched too much porn and think fuck yeah, we can do that. Have spoken to a few however |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As we all get accustomed to watch hardcore porn, such as extreme deepthroats, do we expect the same things in the vanilla world? I would say both yes and no, whats your view? "
Sounds like a sweeping generalisation to me shag..
I don't and never have watched hard core porn, i hardly watch any but i do have a lively and active imagination which helps..
I think the younger generation are more expectant of the extreme stuff as it is more readily available to them now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To quote a favoured porn preformer who is also an intellectual, 'learning to have sex watching porn is like learning to drive by watching Fast and the Furious'. Porn is an act and it is our responsibility to educate people as to the difference. |
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By *xxx30Man
over a year ago
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"As we all get accustomed to watch hardcore porn, such as extreme deepthroats, do we expect the same things in the vanilla world? I would say both yes and no, whats your view?
As a person who has been brought up into the technological age the fact that porn was one click away ment that you sort of get sunk into a world of to be quite frank tit jobs bdsm etc which In turn gave me a distorted view on sex, tbh when I turned 15 I watched the James bond movies and saw how he was a gentlemen in his deminor yet still in the bedroom the girls looked like they were having fun and it wasn't rough ball gagging and deep throats so now I sort of strive to be a sensual lover and yet even though the media says I should be trying to c h o k e out my partner's because porn gives that deminor it never really had an effect I actually belive it was before I was acting like a boy wanting to 'bare back every broad I saw and now I'm in a sense a man I have a sense of sensuality in the bedroom, I dont think porn has anything to do with it I think it has to do with growing up   "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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did anyone see the tv programme on porn last night...so interesting but I was shocked that it a so fake (I know I'm niave) even the fun isn't real k (fem) x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think "we All get accustomed to it."
It's a choice.
I don't watch porn.
I do see the influence of it in here though.
You would have to be pretty stupid to think it's real.
Or young or easily influenced. |
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I would certainly say the prevalence of it, and ease of access due to the Internet, has certainly raised expectations falsely but has also desensitised people to it. I can remember in my formative years, the mere thought I might see a boob, or even touch one, would give me a diamond cutter of an erection for days on end. As time has passed by, I've seen so much on various platforms,the latest being a continuous stream of debauchery exchanged via whatsapp group chats, that quite frankly, I'm not arsed by it anymore.
The footage of a woman giving a particularly voracious blowjob, like a dog eating hot chips, no longer has the desired effect. In fact probably the opposite. Thrills need to be sought elsewhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes definitely. It gives unrealistic expectations about writhing wet ladies who have.multiple orgasms at the drop of the hat and guys who have incredibly large cocks who satisfy with one thrust.
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I don't watch deep throats or anything rough. I don't like it and never will. I don't enjoy being rough with women and no amount of porn is going to change that.
People are quick to say that porn made men into perverts. But i think it had a ready made market and provides what most men want to see.
There's plenty of romantic, sensual porn. It's just not as popular. |
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By *imjohnCouple
over a year ago
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"To quote a favoured porn preformer who is also an intellectual, 'learning to have sex watching porn is like learning to drive by watching Fast and the Furious'. Porn is an act and it is our responsibility to educate people as to the difference. "
We say the same to people with regards to porn & real life lol. |
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"To quote a favoured porn preformer who is also an intellectual, 'learning to have sex watching porn is like learning to drive by watching Fast and the Furious'. Porn is an act and it is our responsibility to educate people as to the difference.
We say the same to people with regards to porn & real life lol."
Yep. Pretty much. A lot of what goes on in porn, you couldn't pay me to do; unlike those who make a hard earned living out of it. |
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"As we all get accustomed to watch hardcore porn, such as extreme deepthroats, do we expect the same things in the vanilla world? I would say both yes and no, whats your view? "
Personally no, I’m not that bothered with porn. However there are people which do seem to expect this. Not for me. Like to give a BJ, not have my face fucked.
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Definitely yes. Porn trends definitely influence expectations.
I'm very pro porn, anti disrespect. You can't restrict kids watching porn these days, but what we can do is teach boys the difference between fantasy and reality and to respect women.
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"As we all get accustomed to watch hardcore porn, such as extreme deepthroats, do we expect the same things in the vanilla world? I would say both yes and no, whats your view? "
You find most glossy big budget film producers do the gagging & more violent scenes as they think it gives them an edge, they would do this most of the time for their own gratification rather than what the customer really wants.
Having filmed 100's of women I can honestly say I've never asked any of them to gag on a cock or submit them to anything they didn't want to do, a lot of UK producers like make normal suck n fuck films well within BBFC standards which are appealing to both sexes.
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"Definitely yes. Porn trends definitely influence expectations.
I'm very pro porn, anti disrespect. You can't restrict kids watching porn these days, but what we can do is teach boys the difference between fantasy and reality and to respect women.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely yes. Porn trends definitely influence expectations.
I'm very pro porn, anti disrespect. You can't restrict kids watching porn these days, but what we can do is teach boys the difference between fantasy and reality and to respect women.
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