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Does wealth improve or ruin your chances of finding love?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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If I was due to become a multi millionaire in a year's time would you recommend I seek love now or wait until I'm loaded? Or do you think it'll make no difference to me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Actually brilliant question. I'm going to say improve. You'll see more of the world and meet more people. You'll have time to find new hobbies and more time for your old ones. You can find yourself with time and money if you're sensible enough. Plus you don't have to tell anyone you're loaded or act loaded. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say being wealthy increases your chances of finding partners if you are male, finding love is an entirely different thing."
I know, bitches love money |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You may not find love but you increase the chance of some shallow shagging.
When my ship came in so did I.
I believe love will find you no matter the circumstances. "
Just that people tend you like you a bit more when you are a millionaire  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Initially the sound of unrequited love sounds lovely..... however strains on relationships cause them to fail. Wearing your heart on your sleeve has always got me burnt OP....... if you where to become mega rich I know what I would do.... something along the lines of secret millionaire . Be secretly rich while looking for love  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would improve mine. No stressing about money would dramatically improved my mood so I'd be more relaxed and happy.
I'd look the best possible version of myself as I'd have all my meals prepared and would go to the gym 2 hours a day every day with a personal trainer. I'd have massages and lots of beauty treatments and would have my hair washed and blow dried in a salon twice a week so I'd always look well groomed and have nice clothes.
I wouldn't tell men that I was loaded but I would turn up to my meets driving a Bugatti Chiron so they could put 2+2 together. If a guy didn't want me I wouldn't care as I'd have orgasms every time I put my foot on the accelerator. |
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"It would improve mine. No stressing about money would dramatically improved my mood so I'd be more relaxed and happy.
I'd look the best possible version of myself as I'd have all my meals prepared and would go to the gym 2 hours a day every day with a personal trainer. I'd have massages and lots of beauty treatments and would have my hair washed and blow dried in a salon twice a week so I'd always look well groomed and have nice clothes.
I wouldn't tell men that I was loaded but I would turn up to my meets driving a Bugatti Chiron so they could put 2+2 together. If a guy didn't want me I wouldn't care as I'd have orgasms every time I put my foot on the accelerator. "
Haha, thank you I needed that laugh!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thing is you don't seek love - it finds you, sometimes when you least expect it - but surely living life in the present is the thing to do anyway? "
don't say that...what will all the fantasists do now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say being wealthy increases your chances of finding partners if you are male, finding love is an entirely different thing.
I know, bitches love money "
I love Monopoly money  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If I was due to become a multi millionaire in a year's time would you recommend I seek love now or wait until I'm loaded? Or do you think it'll make no difference to me? "
In the past I would have said find love before wealth but in the growing confusion of social media. Its best to have wealth not to find love but to allow you the opportunity to experience more in life being single and thus increase your chances of finding the one you'd want to share your experiences with because now you truly understand yourself.
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"Actually brilliant question. I'm going to say improve. You'll see more of the world and meet more people. You'll have time to find new hobbies and more time for your old ones. You can find yourself with time and money if you're sensible enough. Plus you don't have to tell anyone you're loaded or act loaded. "
This. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Only thing money has every brought me is leaches. Sad but true"
Thats quite sad actually.
People these days are superficial enough.
Must be horrible not knowing if people really like you, or are only interested in you for their purposes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I was due to become a multi millionaire in a year's time would you recommend I seek love now or wait until I'm loaded? Or do you think it'll make no difference to me? "
A true love would be with you before during & after. |
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"Only thing money has every brought me is leaches. Sad but true
Thats quite sad actually.
People these days are superficial enough.
Must be horrible not knowing if people really like you, or are only interested in you for their purposes"
It's even worse when you find out. You end up being so closed off nobody can get close good or bad.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'd say being wealthy increases your chances of finding partners if you are male, finding love is an entirely different thing.
I know, bitches love money
I love Monopoly money & Dildos "
I appreciate your honesty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’d sooner be sad with a million, than sad without it.
Yep. Two million would be better though.
Why not three million?
You lot are so greedy.
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I feel the same way about money as women feel about cock
Bigger the better |
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"I’d sooner be sad with a million, than sad without it.
Yep. Two million would be better though.
Why not three million? "
No reason at all. If I'm going to be wealthy I want to be seriously so.
Ideally about 50 million would suit me. I'm a woman of simple tastes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just think with a million (or up to 50), I could venture into one of those Waitrose edifices and admire the splendid archtecture without being frowned upon,thinking of the one on the Finchley Road,near Hampstead.
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"Just think with a million (or up to 50), I could venture into one of those Waitrose edifices and admire the splendid archtecture without being frowned upon,thinking of the one on the Finchley Road,near Hampstead.
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I'd still go to Aldi, well I'd send a flunkey |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just think with a million (or up to 50), I could venture into one of those Waitrose edifices and admire the splendid archtecture without being frowned upon,thinking of the one on the Finchley Road,near Hampstead.
I'd still go to Aldi, well I'd send a flunkey"
You cheap skate |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It would improve mine. No stressing about money would dramatically improved my mood so I'd be more relaxed and happy.
I'd look the best possible version of myself as I'd have all my meals prepared and would go to the gym 2 hours a day every day with a personal trainer. I'd have massages and lots of beauty treatments and would have my hair washed and blow dried in a salon twice a week so I'd always look well groomed and have nice clothes.
I wouldn't tell men that I was loaded but I would turn up to my meets driving a Bugatti Chiron so they could put 2+2 together. If a guy didn't want me I wouldn't care as I'd have orgasms every time I put my foot on the accelerator. "
Haha Some great replies on this thread. You can't argue with Atropos though. When I'm seriously minted I'll be able to hide the fact but turn up looking amazingly well dressed and groomed (heck I might even be able to upgrade from wooden teeth ) and seem super relaxed and contented. One of my accessories will be Atropos |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I was due to become a multi millionaire in a year's time would you recommend I seek love now or wait until I'm loaded? Or do you think it'll make no difference to me? "
In the early 1980's, i was a multi millionaire but for various reasons lost most of it and then met my first and only wife. During the course of the 1990's i made that lost money back and quite a bit more. My wife knew i had been a millionaire when we married, even though i was on the floor when we met. If it wasn't for her support, constant pushing and determination i don't think i/we would ever have got back to the same place again. She died 8 years ago, so again i lost the drive to earn more and more, not a millonaire now but not a pauper either
Find love first, because if it's real love it will carry you through anything. |
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"Just think with a million (or up to 50), I could venture into one of those Waitrose edifices and admire the splendid archtecture without being frowned upon,thinking of the one on the Finchley Road,near Hampstead.
I'd still go to Aldi, well I'd send a flunkey
You cheap skate "
You don't get 50 million buying your milk in Waitrose ya know |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If I was due to become a multi millionaire in a year's time would you recommend I seek love now or wait until I'm loaded? Or do you think it'll make no difference to me?
In the early 1980's, i was a multi millionaire but for various reasons lost most of it and then met my first and only wife. During the course of the 1990's i made that lost money back and quite a bit more. My wife knew i had been a millionaire when we married, even though i was on the floor when we met. If it wasn't for her support, constant pushing and determination i don't think i/we would ever have got back to the same place again. She died 8 years ago, so again i lost the drive to earn more and more, not a millonaire now but not a pauper either
Find love first, because if it's real love it will carry you through anything."
Thanks for the story bro . I'd love to find a woman like your wife to help support and push me. That's why I'm angling on a third option I didn't voice... find love *whilst* trying to make my millions. I suspect the woman I'm looking for will be deeply compatible with my journey... as it'll be hers too |
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"It's really that easy that you can choose when you find love?? Yeah right. "
No, of course it's not that easy and i didn't say it was. what i said was what i said because that was/is my experience. Others experience will be different, if you care to look at my age you will see i never got married until in my 30's. Reason for that was because i hadn't met anyone i loved until then. |
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By *wingfellowMan
over a year ago
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Love isn’t a feeling, it isn’t a place nor is it something you can seek. I think this is where a lot of problems lie with peoples use of the word.
When it comes (which I had mine) it’s usually in the strangest of ways. Love is a crazy thing, I met someone who on paper we were the furthest thing apart. She had the world and all I had to offer was myself, despite everything being against the odds we were lead to this beautiful place with one another and I don’t care what anyone says about being open to the idea or getting out there searching etc.
When time and fate permits (if it does) you will find it. Too many people seek control and that is not something you will ever get with this kind of power. What most people are referring to is lust, the idea of being in love and they can easily mistake that.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just think with a million (or up to 50), I could venture into one of those Waitrose edifices and admire the splendid archtecture without being frowned upon,thinking of the one on the Finchley Road,near Hampstead.
I'd still go to Aldi, well I'd send a flunkey
You cheap skate
You don't get 50 million buying your milk in Waitrose ya know"
You get that many in the queue at this Aldi place.
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"Just think with a million (or up to 50), I could venture into one of those Waitrose edifices and admire the splendid archtecture without being frowned upon,thinking of the one on the Finchley Road,near Hampstead.
I'd still go to Aldi, well I'd send a flunkey
You cheap skate
You don't get 50 million buying your milk in Waitrose ya know
You get that many in the queue at this Aldi place.
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Not if you don't wash for a week before you go... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just think with a million (or up to 50), I could venture into one of those Waitrose edifices and admire the splendid archtecture without being frowned upon,thinking of the one on the Finchley Road,near Hampstead.
I'd still go to Aldi, well I'd send a flunkey
You cheap skate
You don't get 50 million buying your milk in
Waitrose ya know
You get that many in the queue at this Aldi place.
Not if you don't wash for a week before you go..."
But I did and still stood out from then. Glances aside and sees deodorant shelf is as full as a drop penny mac_ine. |
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Yes it does improve your chances of finding love because financial freedom buys you time. Also one problem is out of the way money problems, however you create another problem (keeping the money). But your character and knowledge before you had the money will shape the meaning of money and relationship to you. |
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"Never get really rich. It help destroy my marriage. Once my ex started getting those huge checks, from the family business, she got real uppity! I was just from the other side of the tracks."
But here is the problem you chose her and she chose you. Know the type of partner you are with before any long-term planning. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's really that easy that you can choose when you find love?? Yeah right.
No, of course it's not that easy and i didn't say it was. what i said was what i said because that was/is my experience. Others experience will be different, if you care to look at my age you will see i never got married until in my 30's. Reason for that was because i hadn't met anyone i loved until then."
I wasn't referring to your post. If I was I would have quoted you. I was referring to the op. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If I was due to become a multi millionaire in a year's time would you recommend I seek love now or wait until I'm loaded? Or do you think it'll make no difference to me? "
I don’t think wealth is related to one’s chances of finding love or not. If it was, surely there’d be no one reporting being in love in either the higher money bracket or lower - depending on which group was supposedly faring better at having found it. |
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"If I was due to become a multi millionaire in a year's time would you recommend I seek love now or wait until I'm loaded? Or do you think it'll make no difference to me?
I don’t think wealth is related to one’s chances of finding love or not. If it was, surely there’d be no one reporting being in love in either the higher money bracket or lower - depending on which group was supposedly faring better at having found it. "
I actually think for men wealth can help you find love, while I'd guess the opposite for women purely because men might feel intimidated or everyone men are not up to the standard. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's really that easy that you can choose when you find love?? Yeah right.
No, of course it's not that easy and i didn't say it was. what i said was what i said because that was/is my experience. Others experience will be different, if you care to look at my age you will see i never got married until in my 30's. Reason for that was because i hadn't met anyone i loved until then.
I wasn't referring to your post. If I was I would have quoted you. I was referring to the op. "
Then i apologize, but would have been more obvious if you had quoted the op's post in the first place |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Money can't buy you happiness. But it CAN buy you a helicopter, a personal trainer, a personal shopper, and surgery to graft an elephant's trunk between your legs.
And if THAT won't help you find you love, I don't know what will. |
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"If I was due to become a multi millionaire in a year's time would you recommend I seek love now or wait until I'm loaded? Or do you think it'll make no difference to me?
I don’t think wealth is related to one’s chances of finding love or not. If it was, surely there’d be no one reporting being in love in either the higher money bracket or lower - depending on which group was supposedly faring better at having found it.
I actually think for men wealth can help you find love, while I'd guess the opposite for women purely because men might feel intimidated or everyone men are not up to the standard."
I’m not sure we have the same definition of love. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes it does improve your chances of finding love because financial freedom buys you time. Also one problem is out of the way money problems, however you create another problem (keeping the money). But your character and knowledge before you had the money will shape the meaning of money and relationship to you."
My character and knowledge?!? Oh shit I'm fucked |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The only love money buys is superficial love....
Op if you became a millionaire tonight, this is how your life would change....
Women would treat you like you had a facelift..
You will always be the funniest guy in the room
You will always throw the best party’s
When invited to dinner at a restaurant, you will always be expected to pick up the check... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I actually think for men wealth can help you find love, while I'd guess the opposite for women purely because men might feel intimidated or everyone men are not up to the standard."
Absolutely wrong.
During the course of my life so far i've met quite a few very very wealthy women. All have been very down to earth and are no different to other women. Where they do differ from most you would meet in a pub on friday night is that they would have left work about 10 mins before you met them at 10.30pm. That says a lot and says why they are single and have a bigger house and income than you |
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"If I was due to become a multi millionaire in a year's time would you recommend I seek love now or wait until I'm loaded? Or do you think it'll make no difference to me? "
Yes but you would miss spending all your time posting on Fab Forums  |
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"If I was due to become a multi millionaire in a year's time would you recommend I seek love now or wait until I'm loaded? Or do you think it'll make no difference to me?
Yes but you would miss spending all your time posting on Fab Forums "
Haha I respectfully refer you to my thread on dopamine addiction But yes... an utterly distracted day today thanks to that haha |
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"Actually brilliant question. I'm going to say improve. You'll see more of the world and meet more people. You'll have time to find new hobbies and more time for your old ones. You can find yourself with time and money if you're sensible enough. Plus you don't have to tell anyone you're loaded or act loaded. "
There's something in this, if a profile on here or more likely other dating apps is full of pics by world famous landmarks or holding koalas then there instantly 'more interesting' and therefore more likely to get matched/engaged in conversations.
Chances are they either have lots of money possibly with little time for real relationships or live at home with parents and have no grasp of responsibilty |
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"Actually brilliant question. I'm going to say improve. You'll see more of the world and meet more people. You'll have time to find new hobbies and more time for your old ones. You can find yourself with time and money if you're sensible enough. Plus you don't have to tell anyone you're loaded or act loaded.
There's something in this, if a profile on here or more likely other dating apps is full of pics by world famous landmarks or holding koalas then there instantly 'more interesting' and therefore more likely to get matched/engaged in conversations.
Chances are they either have lots of money possibly with little time for real relationships or live at home with parents and have no grasp of responsibilty"
I agree... but I'm also a dab hand with photoshop and an account with koalaphotosrus.com |
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"If I was due to become a multi millionaire in a year's time would you recommend I seek love now or wait until I'm loaded? Or do you think it'll make no difference to me? "
I wouldn't say it's essential but I would definitely say it helps..
I had a meet recently and you could sense the disappointment that I didn't pick her up in an Audi and of course a follow up meet did not occur, in fact I was swiftly blocked |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I think wealth may level the playing field i.e I think I'd probably become the male equivalent of Atropos. But I think that'd bring in a whole swathe of chaff and very little more wheat. So it'd probably make the male experience somewhat similar to the female experience. But more choice always helps if what you're looking for is special and rare |
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"If I was due to become a multi millionaire in a year's time would you recommend I seek love now or wait until I'm loaded? Or do you think it'll make no difference to me?
I wouldn't say it's essential but I would definitely say it helps..
I had a meet recently and you could sense the disappointment that I didn't pick her up in an Audi and of course a follow up meet did not occur, in fact I was swiftly blocked"
My apologies, I forgot to mention that what she didn't realise was I've actually got two cars and a five bedroom detached house with land in a sought after area with a swimming pool.. Oops  |
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"If I was due to become a multi millionaire in a year's time would you recommend I seek love now or wait until I'm loaded? Or do you think it'll make no difference to me?
I wouldn't say it's essential but I would definitely say it helps..
I had a meet recently and you could sense the disappointment that I didn't pick her up in an Audi and of course a follow up meet did not occur, in fact I was swiftly blocked
My apologies, I forgot to mention that what she didn't realise was I've actually got two cars and a five bedroom detached house with land in a sought after area with a swimming pool.. Oops "
But you haven't got an Audi though |
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"If I was due to become a multi millionaire in a year's time would you recommend I seek love now or wait until I'm loaded? Or do you think it'll make no difference to me?
I wouldn't say it's essential but I would definitely say it helps..
I had a meet recently and you could sense the disappointment that I didn't pick her up in an Audi and of course a follow up meet did not occur, in fact I was swiftly blocked
My apologies, I forgot to mention that what she didn't realise was I've actually got two cars and a five bedroom detached house with land in a sought after area with a swimming pool.. Oops
But you haven't got an Audi though "
Haha I know, it's my downfall (apparently) |
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