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Do gentlemen exist?

By *hubaysi OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

These days I’m wondering why men aren’t so much gentlemen these days? For example I arrive at a shop door the same time as a man, he goes through the door and let’s the door close in my face! Yes it is bad manners as I’m just the opposite, I would never be bad mannered.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

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By *ink Panther.Woman over a year ago

Preston

My man is a gentleman

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By *tonMessCouple over a year ago

Slough Windsor ish

I like good manners. They will get a man a long way with me.

Yes there are still some gentlemen out there, I bagged myself one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

Equal rights love

once I offered to help a woman with her big suitcase while on boarding a crowded train at the station and she was well offended! Last time ladies.. she ruined it for all of you

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By *C44Man over a year ago

Newbourne

Being a gentleman isn't just about treating ladies a certain way. Not saying I'm a shining example but I'll hold the door open for anyone behind me regardless of gender. It's just polite.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes we do

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Cake

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By *xelf787Man over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

I still follow the code of chivalry!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I seem to find no shortage of gentleman around, the other day a man opened the door for me and one let me out of the shop before him. Yes there are also the ignorant ones around but not as many as you’d think x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Being a gentleman isn't just about treating ladies a certain way. Not saying I'm a shining example but I'll hold the door open for anyone behind me regardless of gender. It's just polite."

Me too its bad manners to let the door go in anyones face !

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

Gentlelady's are just as scarce

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By *irk Diggler 02Man over a year ago

Swindon

As a former escort I was instilled with the art of chivalry within my time, definitely like to think I can be a gentleman!! There again there’s times I’m not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes they do exist and I've been very fortunate to meet a few, unfortunately though for us ladies, they are few and far between.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm the perfect gent girls just sayin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most definitely not

Been messed around about 6 guys this weekend alone

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

The door thing is very much a issuse of manners. I hold a door open for anyone regardless of gender. It's just common human decency.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

Equal rights love

once I offered to help a woman with her big suitcase while on boarding a crowded train at the station and she was well offended! Last time ladies.. she ruined it for all of you

Why on earth was she offended?! I would have been well chuffed. Keep doing it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The door thing is very much a issuse of manners. I hold a door open for anyone regardless of gender. It's just common human decency."

Us too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A gentleman is as a gentleman does

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By *nsatiable Needy BratWoman over a year ago

Here and There

Yes sir is very much a gentleman. The last true gentleman I knew before him was my grandad.

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By *izzy RascallMan over a year ago

Cardiff

I'm proper traditional and that me.

Old skool Gent

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

Could the only reason the door closed on you was because you expected him leave it open for you. You should expect tge unexpected that way if nice gestures are made your thank you will be more sincere.

In regards to what he did, it was bad manners I hold the door for anyone

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By *hubaysi OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

Equal rights love

once I offered to help a woman with her big suitcase while on boarding a crowded train at the station and she was well offended! Last time ladies.. she ruined it for all of you

We’re not all like her ‘love’, however I would think you wanted to run off with my suitcase ha ha. Mind you my smalls wouldn’t suit you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are a few on here and a few out there but as said above not very many.

I am lucky enough to work with a few. They will hold open doors and insist us females go 1st.

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By *izzy RascallMan over a year ago

Cardiff

It's a lot easier to remember your manners when your with a lady rather than a woman

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By *hubaysi OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

In regards to what he did, it was bad manners I hold the door for anyone"

I did expect him to leave the door open for me as I was brought up to have manners. I glared at him as I was behind him in the queue, his body language looked uncomfortable so he knew what he had done. I thought ‘twunt’!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ask around im shithot

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By *appytochatMan over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

I like to think I'm a gentleman. Hold the door open if someone is following behind and give way when out shopping. Also put my hand up to say thanks if someone let's me pass when driving. I think there are less manners about these days. Maybe it's just a generation thing. Either that or people are just more focused going about their busy lives to notice others.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan over a year ago

Maybe he was lost in his own thoughts,

We all get tunnel vision every now and then

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By *irk Diggler 02Man over a year ago

Swindon

"There are a few on here and a few out there but as said above not very many.

I am lucky enough to work with a few. They will hold open doors and insist us females go 1st. "

Only to watch you leave

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By *abs..Woman over a year ago

I like a gentleman

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman over a year ago

little house on the praire

My partner is an old school gentleman

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By *good-being-badMan over a year ago

mis-types and auto corrects leads cock leeds

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

I hold doors open for anyone...the thing that pisses me off are those folk who don't acknowledge the act..

As for why there are fewer gentlemen these days .. so many reasons.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say look at my verifications.

What others think speaks volumes

So yes we do exist on fab, sadly though, most ladies seem to prefer a bad boy to a proper gentleman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d like to think we do.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like to think I'm a gentleman,regularly get called sir in Waitrose. I'm always friendly ,polite & courtious. But at the end of the day it's for others to decide.

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By *wisted999Man over a year ago

North Bucks

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By *ayMyName123Man over a year ago

Barnsley

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

I pride myself on being a gent

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will hold a door for anyone, always have done. However if I see a lady in difficulty I may go out of my way to offer assistance. On the odd occasion that has caused offence I withdraw with a comment along the lines of 'pardon the intrusion, enjoy your problem'..

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

Yes, there are still some of us gentlemen around

I still walk on the outside of the pavement

With my hand on my sword and my cloak ready to shield the lady from the mud thrown up by the carrage wheels

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By *hubaysi OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Yes, there are still some of us gentlemen around

I still walk on the outside of the pavement

With my hand on my sword and my cloak ready to shield the lady from the mud thrown up by the carrage wheels

Do you throw said cloak over a puddle so she doesn’t get mud on her shoes?

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

"Yes, there are still some of us gentlemen around

I still walk on the outside of the pavement

With my hand on my sword and my cloak ready to shield the lady from the mud thrown up by the carrage wheels

Do you throw said cloak over a puddle so she doesn’t get mud on her shoes? "

Only if she is royalty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A gentleman should exist chivalrous men shouldn't be extinct x

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

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By *hoenixAdAstraWoman over a year ago

Hiding in the shadows

"I would say look at my verifications.

What others think speaks volumes

So yes we do exist on fab, sadly though, most ladies seem to prefer a bad boy to a proper gentleman"

I only want a bad boy in the bedroom.

He needs to be a gentleman to get me there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Basic manners and courtesy are the basics for behaviour from anyone, gentleman know how to behave as gentleman but ladies should also have the same traits, a thank you cost nothing and labels shouldn’t need to be attached.

If you act in a certain way others should respond in kind.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

I like to think I'm like that with everybody, not just women.

But yes, I do the door thing whenever the situation arises, you do get some funny looks at times though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

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yes I'm here ask me anything

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By *wingfellowMan over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

A gentleman doesn’t conduct himself through some view of women being inferior or to lift himself above others. He does it because it’s the right thing to do, it extends beyond just women. A gentleman will do simple yet caring things subconsciously wether it be holding a ladies coat so it’s easier to put on down to kneeling down to speak to a child so that you are showing you are listening to what they say. Feminism has nothing to do with it, the problem lies with role models. My grandfather was the true definition of a gentleman and he had every ounce of class, good manners and intelligence to make me aspire to be just that growing up. If more people had such good figures throughout the key stages of development you wouldn’t have a reason to post this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

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I'm always a gentleman I offer my seat to attractive women, I open the door for sexy women and I always give up my last rolo

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By *gnitemybodyWoman over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

That's just good manners isn't it,it has nothing to do with being a gentleman or anything else. My children knew not to let the door slam in anyone's face from a young age,It's just polite.

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By *ookingforlustMan over a year ago

northants

I am always kind, courteous and well mannered. I had 2 amazing parents that instilled that in me.

I know some women think a man holding a door open for them is somehow sexist, but I think that’s just the way the world is these days. It won’t stop me doing it, or offering my assistance to anyone I’m passing that might need it. It’s just good bloody manners.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am always kind, courteous and well mannered. I had 2 amazing parents that instilled that in me.

Well said, it's the way you've brought up you do things without even thinking about it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'll hold a door open for whoever is behind me, regardless of who it is. Can't say everyone returns the favour (male and female). Nor does everyone thank you for not letting it shut in their face. But...........its nice to be nice.

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By *emini ManMan over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

As others have said it's not about being a gentleman, it's about common and basic decency and consideration for others, regardless of who is doing it, or who they are doing it for

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It could be argued that there are less gentleman around now because there are less ladies. Or there are less ladies around because there are less gentlemen.

And so the spiral descends.

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By *entlecaressMan over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

Being a gentleman is not only one who helps the ladies but also anyone else who needs help. The clue is in the word a gentle man I'm a gentle man who caresses well.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman over a year ago

stourbridge area

Manners maketh the man ....

So real gentleman form an orderly queue please x

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By *tirluvMan over a year ago

the right frame of mind -London

For example I arrive at a shop door the same time as a man, he goes through the door and let’s the door close in my face! Yes it is bad manners as I’m just the opposite, I would never be bad mannered."

You were behind me? Sorry woz just listnin to me bangin toonz

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Apparently chivalry was killed by feminism OP

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's just part of the modern decline in falling standards across society. Gentlemen do still exist but we are fast becoming a dying breed. I think this is a particular shame.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not everyone

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By *969BewitchedWoman over a year ago

Nottingham

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

Equal rights love

once I offered to help a woman with her big suitcase while on boarding a crowded train at the station and she was well offended! Last time ladies.. she ruined it for all of you

Don't let that one put you off, I would have welcomed help if that was me x

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By *ingleformingleMan over a year ago

Co Antrim

I would never think of barging on in front of a woman! In fact, I’d be polite to anyone, man, woman or child!

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By *.H.SMan over a year ago

London

Chivalry isn’t dead yet

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By *wingfellowMan over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Only issue I have is when you offer a woman a hand washing her back in the shower. I don’t understand why she had to ask all the “who are you and how did you get in here nonsense”

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By *ocks99Man over a year ago

Reading

Of course we do, seeing that is dictated by circumstance. The door thing is simple good manners that I and other posters were brought up with. Good manners vs Gentleman is perhaps another thread.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I believe in being a gentleman. I learnt from my grandad who was in the army, always stood when a lady entered the room, took his hat off when entering a room, opened car doors for a lady, always ladies first; was polite and well spoken.

I might be a keen sexual pervert but manners and being a gentleman are still important to me.

But what good is a world full of gentlemen without real ladies?

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By *hubaysi OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

I'm always a gentleman I offer my seat to attractive women, I open the door for sexy women and I always give up my last rolo

Would you do the same for a less attractive woman?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I would say look at my verifications.

What others think speaks volumes

So yes we do exist on fab, sadly though, most ladies seem to prefer a bad boy to a proper gentleman

I only want a bad boy in the bedroom.

He needs to be a gentleman to get me there "

I'm glad someone gets it..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

I'm always a gentleman I offer my seat to attractive women, I open the door for sexy women and I always give up my last rolo

Would you do the same for a less attractive woman? "
of course but I do love attractive women, I would certainly open door for you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Apparently chivalry was killed by feminism OP

It's too easy to lay the fault at the feet of the feminists. Do we not know our own minds? The blame lies with men, plain and simple, because we allow it to slip.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always make a point of opening doors for a lady ,giving my seat up for them if none available and even lifting prams up stairs for them but my mum drilled good manners into me

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

Yesterday I was at a bus stop and a woman was there before me. So when the bus arrived i waited for her to get on first. She didn't. I extended my arm as if to invite her on and she still didn't budge. So i got on first. I wasn't happy about it but the fucking thing would have driven off if that game had gone on any longer.

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By *bsolutebeginnersCouple over a year ago

Planet Ork

"Cake"

Cake on every forum thread I read???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

I'm always a gentleman I offer my seat to attractive women, I open the door for sexy women and I always give up my last rolo

Would you do the same for a less attractive woman? "

Personally yes. It's not about the woman, it's about the situation she finds herself in, hence giving your seat up for a little old lady is just the right thing to do, and not exclusive to those who consider themselves gentlemen. It certainly isn't about seeing women as inferior. It's more about respect for women. I might just as readily offer assistance to a man as well, but I am more aware around women. It's just how I'm hard-wired..If it offends you...jog on!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I like to think I'm a gentleman. Hold the door open if someone is following behind and give way when out shopping. Also put my hand up to say thanks if someone let's me pass when driving. I think there are less manners about these days. Maybe it's just a generation thing. Either that or people are just more focused going about their busy lives to notice others.

Probably for another thread but am i the only person left in the country that dims there lights to let another car coming towards you pass on narrow roads at night?

Gentlemanly or just being cosiderate to others

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been lucky and mainly meet gentlemen. I like the doors being opened, my bags carried etc.

I've instilled gentleman values in my son, he opens doors for woman and I've known him to rush ahead and open the car door for me if I'm a passenger rather than driving.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The most attractive thing I’ve seen recently was a city-type guy scramble past four women for the last seat on the Tube. So hot.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

As far as I'm concerned being a gentleman and having good manners is something you are and do regardless of the gender of any recipients and you should treat everyone with courtesy politeness and respect. I will open doors automatically and offer anyone my seat if they need it, although being honest I would be more likely to offer it to a lady.

I still open my car door for ladies seat a lady at a table and stand up when a lady comes back to the table. I have instilled the same manners into my son and his school reports say polite courteous and respectful so it must have worked. The sad thing is that from the number of ladies who are surprised by this I am forced to assume we are the exception rather than the rule nowadays. And in defence of the ladies I have to say I have never had my courtesy thrown back in my face.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m too stubborn (or stupid) to let a guy help me with my case on the underground. I need to let people help me more but I can’t. I even tore my ligament in my arm last year and still refused help. I need to learn it’s not a weakness.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m too stubborn (or stupid) to let a guy help me with my case on the underground. I need to let people help me more but I can’t. I even tore my ligament in my arm last year and still refused help. I need to learn it’s not a weakness. "

Most of the time help is offered cos your taking far too fuckin long to do it yourself

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of the time help is offered cos your taking far too fuckin long to do it yourself

I’m often seen dragging my big case down the stairs on the underground, on my way to work. In heels and uniform it’s not fun but I’ve taken help occasionally. I do find women offer to help more then men.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of the time help is offered cos your taking far too fuckin long to do it yourself

That’s not the Yorkshire way. We might have a reputation of being 2 turns tighter than a wheel nut, but gentlemen we are. At least we try to be.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of the time help is offered cos your taking far too fuckin long to do it yourself

Sadly, that's probably because those that might consider offering don't for fear of offending and in younger generations it's largely been bred out!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of the time help is offered cos your taking far too fuckin long to do it yourself

Sadly, that's probably because those that might consider offering don't for fear of offending and in younger generations it's largely been bred out!"

If I packed it then I carry it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

I think he was just rude full stop. I’d hold the door open whether you were a lady or a chap.

I’d say I was a gentleman who still believes in etiquette, and yet despite that, I have pictures of my penis on here, hardly gentlemanly behaviour what.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple over a year ago

London

Most of the time help is offered cos your taking far too fuckin long to do it yourself

Sadly, that's probably because those that might consider offering don't for fear of offending and in younger generations it's largely been bred out!"

No ones going to be offended if they are obvious struggling with something and you offer to help.

I am 51 and the other day some teenager offered me his seat on the tube. Bloody hell, I thought, I'm not that old, but I appreciated the gesture.

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By *wingfellowMan over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Being stoic is not a good way to be, take the help if it’s there. You have to put your health ahead of your pride sometimes.

“Appear weak when you are strong, and strong when you’re weak” -Sun Tzu

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Most of the time help is offered cos your taking far too fuckin long to do it yourself

Sadly, that's probably because those that might consider offering don't for fear of offending and in younger generations it's largely been bred out!

If I packed it then I carry it.

That's fine, but you say you have taken help occasionally. I'm simply suggesting why fewer men offer than used to..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hello

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being stoic is not a good way to be, take the help if it’s there. You have to put your health ahead of your pride sometimes.

“Appear weak when you are strong, and strong when you’re weak” -Sun Tzu

I’m learning to. A dating coach I follow says that the really weak can’t do anything and want men to do everything for them, the next up is someone like me that wants to do everything herself, the strongest is the woman that can do things herself but she lets a guy help because it’s fun to let them do it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think manners should be standard anyway, I was told it would get me a long way in life.

I do think society in general has lost alot of "manners" in terms of people feeling more liberated to just "do and say what I want".

I think society's attitude towards respect has changed and I remember a time where you would simply say "Good morning" to people and help you neighbour and your community in general.

Nowadays you don't speak to anyone, head in your phone, you rarely know your neighbours past two doors either side, and generally don't care about the community, so with all that being said...

I consider myself a gentleman living in a new world where manners and respect is fast becoming a thing of the past.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think manners should be standard anyway, I was told it would get me a long way in life.

I do think society in general has lost alot of "manners" in terms of people feeling more liberated to just "do and say what I want".

I think society's attitude towards respect has changed and I remember a time where you would simply say "Good morning" to people and help you neighbour and your community in general.

Nowadays you don't speak to anyone, head in your phone, you rarely know your neighbours past two doors either side, and generally don't care about the community, so with all that being said...

I consider myself a gentleman living in a new world where manners and respect is fast becoming a thing of the past."

Don’t change a thing. It’s all about manners to me and it’s goes a long way. I do dislike the ‘gentleman’ word as a little old fashioned but I like people to be kind and polite. It’s costs nothing.

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By *wingfellowMan over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

Being stoic is not a good way to be, take the help if it’s there. You have to put your health ahead of your pride sometimes.

“Appear weak when you are strong, and strong when you’re weak” -Sun Tzu

There’s nothing more attractive than an independent woman. However, just because a woman can it doesn’t mean she should have to. A woman can cook, clean and look after kids all day, doesn’t mean you leave it all to them to do solo. Compromise is key.

And as for just helping someone with the little things my approach is if I can I will. If I feel I can help someone without neither them or I risking injury or struggling then it makes sense to do so.

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By *xelf787Man over a year ago

Chorlton, Manchester

"Yes, there are still some of us gentlemen around

I still walk on the outside of the pavement

With my hand on my sword and my cloak ready to shield the lady from the mud thrown up by the carrage wheels

Do you throw said cloak over a puddle so she doesn’t get mud on her shoes? "

Better to test the said puddle with said sword before throwing said clock over. The size of some of the sinkholes these days would result in said lady being swallowed leaving said gentleman said ladyless!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Being stoic is not a good way to be, take the help if it’s there. You have to put your health ahead of your pride sometimes.

“Appear weak when you are strong, and strong when you’re weak” -Sun Tzu

I also offer help to men and women if I see the need to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There are still gents in this world, sadly though it does look like it's few and far between these days. The media portray guys to be these muscle-bound bad boys, who look after themselves first, second and third and no one else matters.

Treat how you want to be treated is how I go. Open doors, pull out chairs, flowers just because. So much more than that too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think manners should be standard anyway, I was told it would get me a long way in life.

I do think society in general has lost alot of "manners" in terms of people feeling more liberated to just "do and say what I want".

I think society's attitude towards respect has changed and I remember a time where you would simply say "Good morning" to people and help you neighbour and your community in general.

Nowadays you don't speak to anyone, head in your phone, you rarely know your neighbours past two doors either side, and generally don't care about the community, so with all that being said...

I consider myself a gentleman living in a new world where manners and respect is fast becoming a thing of the past."

Can’t argue with any of that. What price progress?

Went on a date with a woman, and all I remember was the blue glow of a device screen highlighting her features. She never actually asked me anything. Would put the phone down to have a drink or a few bites from the plate in front of her, but soon picked her phone up again. Took pictures of her plate, straight on insta, and showed me a selfie she’d taken in the restroom - I wondered what was taking so long.

Afterwards she said she was ok with me filming us fucking on my phone - I suppose what the good Lord takes with one hand, he gives back with the other.

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By *freemanagainMan over a year ago

crawley

Gentleman still exist but we do suffer a problem sometimes we offer help and get shot down for it

And other times women think we want something in return if we help

But as far as opening doors or helping with bags and so on that's not always gentlemenally it's just trying to help someone who needs help

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By *oward1978Man over a year ago

Rotherham

I don't think it has anything to do with being gentlemanly per se, as it's simply a way of treating others that applies to both sexes. For me it's to do with treating people with a bit of decency and having some consideration and respect for your fellow human beings. Treating people how you'd like to be treated yourself. These are basic things that should just automatically get instilled in all of us by our parents when we're young.

Sadly it appears ever more common to see people who seem to live in their own little bubble, apparently with no concept of the people or much else going on around them. An 'I'm all right Jack, so fuck the rest of you' approach. It's very saddening to see.

'Treat everyone like a gentleman, not because they are, but because you are.'

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By *xycpl699Couple over a year ago

kilmarnock

yes theres still gentlemen to be found I married one. hollie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Gentleman still exist but we do suffer a problem sometimes we offer help and get shot down for it

And other times women think we want something in return if we help

But as far as opening doors or helping with bags and so on that's not always gentlemenally it's just trying to help someone who needs help"

Hey, welcome to the forums and yes, it’s just being helpful no matter who we are helping.

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By *freemanagainMan over a year ago

crawley

Thank you

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

As I grew up I learned how important it was to earn the respect of those around you . As a teenager , I realised that women would respond positively to a more gentlemanly man , and my behaviors reflected this . However , the girls all went for the bad boys , and I wasn’t getting any , so I soon saw the error of my ways . I started smoking , swearing , getting into trouble at school , bunking off , and the last thing on my mind was to be a gentleman . This was when I was 14 and although it worked and was never short of a girls company again , I always felt slightly uncomfortable being a bit of a bad boy , when inside I felt more gentlemanly .

Fast forward to today and not much has changed . Nice guys get nowhere , women don’t want a nice guy do they ? Where’s the fun in that ? Treat them mean , keep them keen and all that !

And as another poster said , there’s just as many we men who would be pissed off at a guy helping them out as women want to be more independent .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"As I grew up I learned how important it was to earn the respect of those around you . As a teenager , I realised that women would respond positively to a more gentlemanly man , and my behaviors reflected this . However , the girls all went for the bad boys , and I wasn’t getting any , so I soon saw the error of my ways . I started smoking , swearing , getting into trouble at school , bunking off , and the last thing on my mind was to be a gentleman . This was when I was 14 and although it worked and was never short of a girls company again , I always felt slightly uncomfortable being a bit of a bad boy , when inside I felt more gentlemanly .

Fast forward to today and not much has changed . Nice guys get nowhere , women don’t want a nice guy do they ? Where’s the fun in that ? Treat them mean , keep them keen and all that !

And as another poster said , there’s just as many we men who would be pissed off at a guy helping them out as women want to be more independent .

I’ve never seen the attraction in a bad boy. I only like guys that treat me the way I treat them and that’s with respect and total honesty. The ‘treat them mean, keep them keen’ makes me run in the opposite direction.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan over a year ago

Northampton

Me, my profile says so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I choose not to be a gentleman but I am polite.I never open doors or stand on ceremony or any of that nonsense .That shit is for a different age.

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By *loswingersCouple over a year ago

Gloucester

Fast forward to today and not much has changed . Nice guys get nowhere , women don’t want a nice guy do they ? Where’s the fun in that ? Treat them mean , keep them keen and all that !

And as another poster said , there’s just as many we men who would be pissed off at a guy helping them out as women want to be more independent .

Of course there are exceptions , and there isn’t a one size fits all . I am nothing like that now , and haven’t been for over thirty five years . Most guys grow up and realise it’s not the way to behave , but the point I was making is that when you are at an impressionable age , being a gentleman does you no favours at all . Who wants to be the lad that all the mums and granny’s love , but can’t get a girlfriend ?

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By *freemanagainMan over a year ago

crawley

Fast forward to today and not much has changed . Nice guys get nowhere , women don’t want a nice guy do they ? Where’s the fun in that ? Treat them mean , keep them keen and all that !

And as another poster said , there’s just as many we men who would be pissed off at a guy helping them out as women want to be more independent .

I have been dumped before for being the nice guy

How can I be to nice

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Contrary to popular belief. I’m actually a gentleman. My grandfather tought me about manners and respect for a lady. All those simple things like holding doors open etc. A lot of women I’ve met through here aren’t into that though. So I act like an asshole instead

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fast forward to today and not much has changed . Nice guys get nowhere , women don’t want a nice guy do they ? Where’s the fun in that ? Treat them mean , keep them keen and all that !

And as another poster said , there’s just as many we men who would be pissed off at a guy helping them out as women want to be more independent .

I get that when you are a teenager, it’s the gobby one that stands out to the girls generally. Luckily most grow up.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fast forward to today and not much has changed . Nice guys get nowhere , women don’t want a nice guy do they ? Where’s the fun in that ? Treat them mean , keep them keen and all that !

And as another poster said , there’s just as many we men who would be pissed off at a guy helping them out as women want to be more independent .

I have been dumped before for being the nice guy

How can I be to nice"

I’ve met guys that have been ‘too nice’. I think that’s just an excuse for lack of chemistry and attraction for me. I love a nice guy but they have to have an edge. So a nice ‘kinky’ guy is what I like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Unfortunately a lot of guys have taken to equality cancelling out chivalry, its not about that at all. I'd hold the door open for anyone that's going through just after me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Unfortunately a lot of guys have taken to equality cancelling out chivalry, its not about that at all. I'd hold the door open for anyone that's going through just after me."

Exactly. That’s what I want. I’m happy to open a door for a guy as much as a woman. What annoys me is when they can’t even say thanks.

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By *freemanagainMan over a year ago

crawley

Fast forward to today and not much has changed . Nice guys get nowhere , women don’t want a nice guy do they ? Where’s the fun in that ? Treat them mean , keep them keen and all that !

And as another poster said , there’s just as many we men who would be pissed off at a guy helping them out as women want to be more independent .

I have been dumped before for being the nice guy

How can I be to nice

And here I was thinking what happened and I need to be a nasty guy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fast forward to today and not much has changed . Nice guys get nowhere , women don’t want a nice guy do they ? Where’s the fun in that ? Treat them mean , keep them keen and all that !

And as another poster said , there’s just as many we men who would be pissed off at a guy helping them out as women want to be more independent .

I have been dumped before for being the nice guy

How can I be to nice

And here I was thinking what happened and I need to be a nasty guy"

Never change who you are, be true to yourself unless you think a change would make you a better person. Only do that for YOU. If someone doesn’t like the ‘nice’ you then they aren’t compatible.

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By *freemanagainMan over a year ago

crawley

Got to go ladies and gentlemen work is calling have a good day all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Got to go ladies and gentlemen work is calling have a good day all"

Have a good day x

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By *m3232Man over a year ago

maidenhead

Always a gentleman

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By *freemanagainMan over a year ago

crawley

"Got to go ladies and gentlemen work is calling have a good day all

Have a good day x"

Thank you

You have a good day to

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's just good manners and respect. Goes both ways and should come naturally without a second thought.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Not sure this is a man woman thing.

Both men and women alike don’t say thank you when you hold the door for them. Both fail to indicate at road islands...ad infinitum.

More of people who have bad manners and a poor attitude to others.

The few that are so rude like this will never stop me from holding doors open and saying thanks if someone does it for me.

Keep your standards high and rise above them.(mr)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

My man is the epitome of a perfect gentleman. Holds doors open for me and for others, including other men and children. Opens car doors for me to get in first etc. I think it’s lovely and it’s a practice that we personally don’t see much of these days. Maybe we’re going to all the wrong places!

I do think that the relentless media attention attached to such campaigns like ‘Me too’ amongst others, and rightly so, may have lead some men to become a tad sick of it all. This may well manifest itself in ugly ways that you describe. Either that or they’ve just had a shite up bringing and consequently have no manners or class!

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By *mj620Man over a year ago

swansea

We do still exist, but the majority are setting a bad precedent

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I choose not to be a gentleman but I am polite.I never open doors or stand on ceremony or any of that nonsense .That shit is for a different age.

You're missing out. If you do a good deed for a woman then she'll feel obligated to repay you sexually.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I choose not to be a gentleman but I am polite.I never open doors or stand on ceremony or any of that nonsense .That shit is for a different age.

You're missing out. If you do a good deed for a woman then she'll feel obligated to repay you sexually. "

What sort of person gives to receive.Youll burn in hell for that.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would definitely say so. In respect to all the ladies here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We do still exist, but the majority are setting a bad precedent "

I'd say it's a minority.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fuck that gentlemen blue pulled shit. I've never understood this while placing women on some higher social standing.

I'll be nice if you're nice to me, the second you're a cunt. I drop you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

At the end of the day, let's face it, admitting that you treat women like shit on a site like this is suicide.

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By *risky_MareWoman over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

My man is the epitome of a perfect gentleman. Holds doors open for me and for others, including other men and children. Opens car doors for me to get in first ..."

I like it when a meet does that and even hands me the seat belt - I think it's charming.

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By *umpsimusMan over a year ago

Camberley

Simple question deserves a simple answer

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Want to fuck your asshole op

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Want to fuck your asshole op "

Now that’s a gentleman! (Be gentle you gorgeous man)

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By *ire_bladeMan over a year ago

Manchester

According to my veris yep they do although I've no idea who he is

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By *oelDorianMan over a year ago

vanaheim

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

No you not expecting too much it’s just how the times are us respectful and well mannered men are a endangered species and we are dying out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Does helping a female member of staff at a Pep and Co get rid of a spider count as being a gentleman?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does helping a female member of staff at a Pep and Co get rid of a spider count as being a gentleman? "

I think that’s called being a super hero

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Does helping a female member of staff at a Pep and Co get rid of a spider count as being a gentleman?

I think that’s called being a super hero

Well I guess that makes me hero of the day lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thankfully there are still some out there, my fella is an absolute gentleman in every way and he'll always try and make sure I have everything I need and never disappoints, especially in the bedroom

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I think there's rudeness in both men and women these days,it's not gender specific.

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS over a year ago

Bristol

They do exist but most will expect you to act like a lady too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I also hold the door for whoever is behind me but 8 out 10 times no one says thank you anymore so i can understand why some people dont care anymore

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

On here I’ll go out on a limb and say absolutely not! They all say they are but then send pics of their cock, does that seem like something a gentleman would do? At least talk to me first if you really want to show it ask first if I want to see it!

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By *wingfellowMan over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

"On here I’ll go out on a limb and say absolutely not! They all say they are but then send pics of their cock, does that seem like something a gentleman would do? At least talk to me first if you really want to show it ask first if I want to see it!

Well if someone negatively stereotypes me I won’t go out of my way to help them, I wouldn’t bother investing time into a message for them either. Maybe treating each person as an individual would prompt the truly nice men to contact you. After all they’re the ones that’ll put the time in.

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By *al01Man over a year ago

solihull

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

Ive actually had abuse off women for holding doors open for them.!!

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By *hubaysi OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

A proper gentleman, in my opinion, no offence guys, would NOT have his man furniture on display in his pics. He would wait until the female requested them.....I await the feedback on this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A proper gentleman, in my opinion, no offence guys, would NOT have his man furniture on display in his pics. He would wait until the female requested them.....I await the feedback on this

no a gentleman should always show a lady his attributes in private but as this is a sex meet site he has to display them like a butcher displays his meat for the whole world to appreciate lol

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By *eesideMan over a year ago

margate sumwear by the sea

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

I'm a gentlemen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I do treat everyone as an individual I’ve just had none prove me wrong yet. I keep waiting in hope that a man comes along who’s actually taken the time to read my profile, has a nice profile for me to read, a polite message and some respectable pics but until that day comes I’ll have to stick with my opinion gained through my own experiences.

You say you’d not put effort in but how would you know what the woman’s opinions are, so shouldn’t every message be respectful and put effort in?

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By *ficouldMan over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

It's not for me to proclaim if I am or not a Gentleman, its others to decide as our thoughts on the subject can be different (I do like to think I am)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ORDERMANMan over a year ago

wrexham

Been referred to as a gentleman more than once

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By *wingfellowMan over a year ago

my own little sanctuary

You say you’d not put effort in but how would you know what the woman’s opinions are, so shouldn’t every message be respectful and put effort in? "

My point is there would be no message, your post here as well as your status indicates you are very quick to form a negative opinion.

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By *andare63Man over a year ago

oldham

I think manners and courtesy are a dying social skill . Sadly lost between generations and basic attitudinal skills that aren’t being passed on . It’s got nothing to do with gender as I will offer courtesy and manners to both sexes when the scenario requires it .

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By *litterbabeWoman over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I really believe they do, and I have met quite a few gentlemen. I like the ones who are a complete gentleman to me, but they can be thought of as a bit of a rascal to the rest of the world.

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By *hubaysi OP Woman over a year ago

Leeds

Something hilarious happened half an hour ago, I arrived home and got a box of cat food from my car for my Bengal, twas a hefty box. A youngster I would say of say 20 years of age rushed over and tried to take it from me. I just said ‘I can manage but thank you so much for offering help’, he beamed but at first I did think he was up to no good

Then I thought if he had been up to no good and discovered low calorie cat food to munch on ha ha ha ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You say you’d not put effort in but how would you know what the woman’s opinions are, so shouldn’t every message be respectful and put effort in?

My point is there would be no message, your post here as well as your status indicates you are very quick to form a negative opinion."

6 years on here is not forming a quick opinion!!! I wouldn’t want a message from you anyway so no love lost!! I have posted in here in a deliberate attempt to distract such people who think rude behaviour is acceptable.

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By *ancs MinxWoman over a year ago

Burnley

Yes, there are quite a few if one gets the time to know them, but takes more than a few messages to usually find them.

Find chatting on the phone over a period of time gives a better opinion.

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By *attoo manMan over a year ago

Rhyl

Yes they do. Have been told many times i am one. ill always give mt seat up and open doors for ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes we do

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By *entlecaressMan over a year ago

Wakefield/ Beverley

Most of the time help is offered cos your taking far too fuckin long to do it yourself

Then move up north we love helping others

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By *uke olovingmanMan over a year ago

Gravesend

Me .. my dear

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By *arry247Couple over a year ago

Wakefield

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

In regards to what he did, it was bad manners I hold the door for anyone

Two wrongs do not make a right.

We are afraid you have just shown you are no lady, but that does not excuse his bad manners.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You dont get real gentleman anymore because you dont get real ladies anymore, women killed the gentleman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Fast forward to today and not much has changed . Nice guys get nowhere , women don’t want a nice guy do they ? Where’s the fun in that ? Treat them mean , keep them keen and all that !

And as another poster said , there’s just as many we men who would be pissed off at a guy helping them out as women want to be more independent .

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yes the saying treat em mean to keep em keen may work for a very short term on very few women but doesn't keep them coming back does it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Something hilarious happened half an hour ago, I arrived home and got a box of cat food from my car for my Bengal, twas a hefty box. A youngster I would say of say 20 years of age rushed over and tried to take it from me. I just said ‘I can manage but thank you so much for offering help’, he beamed but at first I did think he was up to no good

Then I thought if he had been up to no good and discovered low calorie cat food to munch on ha ha ha ha ha

He most probably has a lusting for you.

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By *layfulfoxMan over a year ago

nowhere

"Just musing Fabbers.

This is in no way a thread to upset anyone, especially the men.

Are there no gentlemen because us ladies have kicked off about women’s rights/feminism etc? Do I as a woman expect too much from men?

My personal choice is that I like a man to be a gentleman i.e. courteous, respectful, well mannered.

Discuss.

Wouldn't dream of doing that, I'd hold the door open for other men too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm so mannerable if I see a family or group of people on the train I'm up offering the seat so they can sit together although I did notice a very forward guy actually ask in I thought a pushy way for a woman to move so his group could sit together to discuss business , she moved I probably wouldn't have in that instance

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By *W ChapMan over a year ago

Swindon

Yep, here. Manners maketh the man.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Want to fuck your asshole op

Now that’s a gentleman! (Be gentle you gorgeous man) "

Done !

Did you feel anything my love ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I hope so I hope that I am a gentleman

I try to be polite when message people never anything rude unless the conversation has grown to that stage

I would like to think I am a gentleman in how I act in the real world holding doors open for ladies and trying to treat ladies with respect (mother taught me well)

Anyone like to chat to a gent msg me happy to talk and converse not everything has to be naughty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love a nice dominant gentleman who will hold the door open for me and help me out the car but who can fuck me stupid to.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love a nice dominant gentleman who will hold the door open for me and help me out the car but who can fuck me stupid to. "

Cheers Donna

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