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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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hi, im pretty new on here as a single and finding that so called friendly people seem reluctant to chat however polite i am. surely chatting has to be the start of a friendship. i know some people will be put off by my age but im in reasonable shape and am told im a nice guy. im looking for one nice mature couple for friendship and fun and would be keen to please both of them as much as possible |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Effort in = effort out and you look like you have put 5mins into your profile.
People are on here to fulfil life long fantasies they have had not scratch an itch 
SSS "
Fuck yeah !
#agree
#youknowwhoyouate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Effort in = effort out and you look like you have put 5mins into your profile.
People are on here to fulfil life long fantasies they have had not scratch an itch
SSS
Fuck yeah !
#agree
#youknowwhoyouate"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Effort in = effort out and you look like you have put 5mins into your profile.
People are on here to fulfil life long fantasies they have had not scratch an itch
SSS
Fuck yeah !
#agree
#youknowwhoyouate
Who did you eat??? "
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So called friendly people will be reluctant to chat unless they're definitely interested in eventually having sex with you. There are way more single men than couples and single women so it makes the pool of people willing to chat to any one person quite small.
If you chat to everyone who contacts you it can lead to difficult situations if you then have say you don't want to meet them. You can be accused of leading people on.
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"Effort in = effort out and you look like you have put 5mins into your profile.
People are on here to fulfil life long fantasies they have had not scratch an itch
SSS "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh mate, this is not an uncommon question on here, and something I learnt in my early days. Just because it’s a swingers site, people are not necessarily going to chat, in the same way that you wouldn’t chat to everyone in the pub.
My advice would be to send messages that show a bit of interest in a profile, don’t expect a reply and be grateful if you get one. Those can then be developed and eventually you’ll get some meets.
The idea and expectation that everyone on here is having Sex all over the place with everyone else is not the case. There is still a mutual attraction element, the right people for you are out there, it just takes patience and some effort.
Just my experience, hope it’s useful. |
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