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Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
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A chemical (think thats the term) is released in the brain during ejaculation. A quick google search will tell you the name of it if you need it but that is why  |
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
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Because men do all the hard work when you are just laying there  |
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
A chemical (think thats the term) is released in the brain during ejaculation. A quick google search will tell you the name of it if you need it but that is why "
Correction Hormone not chemical |
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
Because men do all the hard work when you are just laying there "
Hormone + this |
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
A chemical (think thats the term) is released in the brain during ejaculation. A quick google search will tell you the name of it if you need it but that is why "
Oxytocin. It contracts smooth muscle and is called the hormone of love.
Hugely important in procreation. |
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
Because men do all the hard work when you are just laying there "
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
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Really? Why go to sleep instead of going back for seconds...and thirds??   |
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
Because men do all the hard work when you are just laying there
Hormone + this"
Women release hormone too or they don’t have the hormone of love? |
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
Because men do all the hard work when you are just laying there
Not in my world pal "
Yeah yeah |
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
Because men do all the hard work when you are just laying there
Not in my world pal
Yeah yeah "
I seem to do all the work with my strap on!! |
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
Because men do all the hard work when you are just laying there
Not in my world pal
Yeah yeah
I seem to do all the work with my strap on!!"
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
Because men do all the hard work when you are just laying there
Hormone + this
Women release hormone too or they don’t have the hormone of love?"
Not the sleeping one |
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
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a real, attentive to the woman's needs doesn't. he stays awake and completes the job at hand. then still wants more.... |
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It's actually the opposite for us! I'm the one who has usually had enough after I orgasm and he's usually ready to go again very soon, if not straight away, after!
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Evolutionary, innit?
There was probably a time when blokes would stay awake after they’d cum but it would just e listening to the woman wittering on about how she wanted to.
Soon, men evolved selective deafness but that didn’t work because they couldn’t hear the sabre toothed tiger coming so falling asleep was better. A sabre toothed tiger will only attack something that’s running, not something that looks already dead. |
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"Evolutionary, innit?
There was probably a time when blokes would stay awake after they’d cum but it would just e listening to the woman wittering on about how she wanted to.
Soon, men evolved selective deafness but that didn’t work because they couldn’t hear the sabre toothed tiger coming so falling asleep was better. A sabre toothed tiger will only attack something that’s running, not something that looks already dead. "
you don't look old enough to have been around before the last ice age to know about sabre-tooths |
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
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NO clue. But it’s fucking annoying |
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"I’ve found things totally different having a partner that really satisfies me.
And we both enjoy a little napette afterwards. I can’t even describe the feeling of relaxation after. "
how it should be |
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Would be interesting to find if there's been a study about how and why so many men crash as clearly not all do, lucky ladies!
My ex girlfriend used to collapse as soon as she came so there's clearly exceptions to the generalisation |
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I’ve started feeling sleepy after orgasms. Mine have been very intense lately. Sometimes I’d love to smoke just so I can do a Mad Man-esque light up after I orgasm. |
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"Would be interesting to find if there's been a study about how and why so many men crash as clearly not all do, lucky ladies!
My ex girlfriend used to collapse as soon as she came so there's clearly exceptions to the generalisation"
We need a survey! |
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"Not all men fall asleep immediately after an orgasm.
I said I was generalising."
Sorry, was referring to the it being a chemical trigger after an orgasm. I think that would mean every man would fall asleep. I think it might depend on how tired they were beforehand and their energy levels. |
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
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Firstly, oxytocin is a feel-good hormone shuts down the brain stress response, reduce stress hormones in the body, transmit and induce the healing relaxation response. Secondly, our sense is heightened during sex or the thought of sex which can be used as a great stress reliever or used as escapism.
A passionate intensive sex is demanding since you are using every sense in your body and neurotransmitter and at the same token stress relieving on both partners, the body needs to recuperate after exhausting such energy reason why the "old boxing saying". "Women make legs weak". It also means you are good, happens in the animal kingdom worst some die. |
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The best sex is that all night sex where you both nap and wake up, have more sex nap wake and have more until the early hours and you have that 3hour sleep wake up wondering what time it is... then have a good morning fuck all over again.
Repeat performer here, sleep is for amateurs |
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In the couples counselling course I did we were told it's so that the man would wake up next to the potential mother of his child, and be more likely to stay and provide for them. |
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"In the couples counselling course I did we were told it's so that the man would wake up next to the potential mother of his child, and be more likely to stay and provide for them. "
That's deep |
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"I’ve started feeling sleepy after orgasms. Mine have been very intense lately. Sometimes I’d love to smoke just so I can do a Mad Man-esque light up after I orgasm. "
This indicates that you are a man |
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By *eesideMan
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"I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again, Because men do all the hard work when you are just laying there "
I carnt realey say mutch as ive never been with anyone in the 1st place but I'm gessing thar is sum truth in the above comment. |
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By *eesideMan
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"In the couples counselling course I did we were told it's so that the man would wake up next to the potential mother of his child, and be more likely to stay and provide for them. "
Is that a science fact or theory ? |
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"I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again, Because men do all the hard work when you are just laying there "
Nonsense, its an excuse not to have to make the tea after. |
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"In the couples counselling course I did we were told it's so that the man would wake up next to the potential mother of his child, and be more likely to stay and provide for them.
Is that a science fact or theory ? "
A theory put forward by Desmond Morris, he also claims that women also feel sleepy after sex in order for the semen to remain inside her longer so giving it the best chance of success (a consequence of us being bipedal - standing up straight away means it just runs out).
He also theorises that women are genetically predispositioned to state that the baby 'looks just like his dad' in order to confirm paternity and cement the bond, even if the child looks nothing like him.
And that women paint their lips red to simulate the vulva, the colour displaying sexual readiness.
Whether you believe it or not it's certainly interesting stuff. |
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By *eesideMan
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"In the couples counselling course I did we were told it's so that the man would wake up next to the potential mother of his child, and be more likely to stay and provide for them.
Is that a science fact or theory ?
A theory put forward by Desmond Morris, he also claims that women also feel sleepy after sex in order for the semen to remain inside her longer so giving it the best chance of success (a consequence of us being bipedal - standing up straight away means it just runs out).
He also theorises that women are genetically predispositioned to state that the baby 'looks just like his dad' in order to confirm paternity and cement the bond, even if the child looks nothing like him.
And that women paint their lips red to simulate the vulva, the colour displaying sexual readiness.
Whether you believe it or not it's certainly interesting stuff."
Yes it is very interesting. |
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"In the couples counselling course I did we were told it's so that the man would wake up next to the potential mother of his child, and be more likely to stay and provide for them.
Is that a science fact or theory ? "
Well I did my course at the Tavistock Clinic in London, so I would like to think it is scientific, whether fact or theory! |
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"In the couples counselling course I did we were told it's so that the man would wake up next to the potential mother of his child, and be more likely to stay and provide for them.
Is that a science fact or theory ?
A theory put forward by Desmond Morris, he also claims that women also feel sleepy after sex in order for the semen to remain inside her longer so giving it the best chance of success (a consequence of us being bipedal - standing up straight away means it just runs out).
He also theorises that women are genetically predispositioned to state that the baby 'looks just like his dad' in order to confirm paternity and cement the bond, even if the child looks nothing like him.
And that women paint their lips red to simulate the vulva, the colour displaying sexual readiness.
Whether you believe it or not it's certainly interesting stuff.
Yes it is very interesting. "
Obviously we are talking about base instinct here, the preserve of the subconscious mind of which the majority are unaware.
It is also likely that the conscious mind is able to override some of these instincts. |
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"Would be interesting to find if there's been a study about how and why so many men crash as clearly not all do, lucky ladies!
My ex girlfriend used to collapse as soon as she came so there's clearly exceptions to the generalisation"
I read somewhere that there might be an evolutionary aspect, in as much as it allows the female to creep away before the male wakes up and could become aggressive. |
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"Would be interesting to find if there's been a study about how and why so many men crash as clearly not all do, lucky ladies!
My ex girlfriend used to collapse as soon as she came so there's clearly exceptions to the generalisation
I read somewhere that there might be an evolutionary aspect, in as much as it allows the female to creep away before the male wakes up and could become aggressive."
Now we lay there, staring at them snoozing, willing them to wake up. |
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The chemical we release during sex comes crashing down in a mans body after sex causing sleepyness, in a womans body it gradually declines causing no sudden sleepyness |
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"The chemical we release during sex comes crashing down in a mans body after sex causing sleepyness, in a womans body it gradually declines causing no sudden sleepyness"
Why don't all men fall asleep straight after sex then? |
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"The chemical we release during sex comes crashing down in a mans body after sex causing sleepyness, in a womans body it gradually declines causing no sudden sleepyness
Why don't all men fall asleep straight after sex then?"
The same reason as everything else... people are different. |
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"The chemical we release during sex comes crashing down in a mans body after sex causing sleepyness, in a womans body it gradually declines causing no sudden sleepyness
Why don't all men fall asleep straight after sex then?"
All men have at one point until you become very aware or not fulling letting go. One night stand maybe not but in a relationship more so than not. |
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"Interesting conversation with a friend last night about different kinds of orgasms.
Generalising here but women can keep going (and often want more) after clitoral, vaginal or anal orgasms. Men can continue after a prostate orgasm yet crash, bang sleepy time after an ejaculation?
What's that all about?
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It's the effects of hard physical labour for some for the office workers it's the computer screen effect  |
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