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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So my boobs are currently in hot pics.
The number of messages I have is ridiculous which makes me question the logic of some people.
It happens to newbies too, the massive influx of messages so why do it? Surely it makes sense to wait and mail when they are likely to be less inundated?
Do you apply logic when messaging? Do you do it at set times like when they are online or when they have less attention drawn so you're not competing with so many others? |
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"So my boobs are currently in hot pics.
The number of messages I have is ridiculous which makes me question the logic of some people.
It happens to newbies too, the massive influx of messages so why do it? Surely it makes sense to wait and mail when they are likely to be less inundated?
Do you apply logic when messaging? Do you do it at set times like when they are online or when they have less attention drawn so you're not competing with so many others? "
I apply "the logic of Sting".
This is based on lengthy and in depth research where I found that no matter how much effort I put into my messages, my profile and my pictures, as a single man of a certain age and a dad bod, it really made feck all difference.
These days I toss about on the forums and meet at clubs.
That's my logic right there.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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" Not a big fan of logic myself, great norks by the way. 
Forgot to add, did you like my cock pics, I’ve never sent 218 in one message before. "
I especially liked the one in the fedora |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I don't do "cold" messaging often only usually off the back of a forum post, or to people I already have a dialogue with - so when I message it tends to be "in the moment" rather tha applying logic as such - one particular friend is a regular visitor to page 1 of hot pics and I have learned not to message her when she's there as invariably my message will get lost in the jumble.
One feature I suggested in the recent survey was a separate message box/folder for "friends" messages  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't do "cold" messaging often only usually off the back of a forum post, or to people I already have a dialogue with - so when I message it tends to be "in the moment" rather tha applying logic as such - one particular friend is a regular visitor to page 1 of hot pics and I have learned not to message her when she's there as invariably my message will get lost in the jumble.
One feature I suggested in the recent survey was a separate message box/folder for "friends" messages "
that's such a good idea! I keep scrolling to see if I have mail from anyone I already talk to, I'm scared to bulk delete in case I miss one! |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I apply logic when using the filters for my inbox. 
I guess it's because you are there and fresh in their memory so it's a seize the day thing. I know that some men only message those in hot pics as well.
I just message when I want to interact with someone, I don't really think about it much more than that.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a lot of men (yes we are generalising and being sexist here) message when they are horny, so that's on a morning,noon then night, oh and any other time of day or night.
We will message when we are having time to browse together and send a well worded and thought out message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Logically speaking of course, your profile states you are looking for men in the most popular and prolific age range so other than applying filters every time you post a pic there isn't a lot to be done about it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Logically speaking of course, your profile states you are looking for men in the most popular and prolific age range so other than applying filters every time you post a pic there isn't a lot to be done about it "
Oh I wasn't complaining about it. It just amused me  |
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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago
A world all of his own |
The same applies if a woman has been on cam in a chat room, and not even doing anything untoward. Some of my friends have said that during and immediately afterwards their inbox will go nuts.
It pays to wait |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no logic. Women make their own decisions. In our experience if you message a newbie too early you end up getting overlooked due to volume or they go unlos. If you wait to see if they get active you may end up missing the boat.
Same with people on hotpics.
Catching them online varies again sometimes we think it’s in the lap of the gods. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is no logic. Women make their own decisions. In our experience if you message a newbie too early you end up getting overlooked due to volume or they go unlos. If you wait to see if they get active you may end up missing the boat.
Same with people on hotpics.
Catching them online varies again sometimes we think it’s in the lap of the gods. "
Stop being so logical Mr L. |
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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago
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"So my boobs are currently in hot pics.
The number of messages I have is ridiculous which makes me question the logic of some people.
It happens to newbies too, the massive influx of messages so why do it? Surely it makes sense to wait and mail when they are likely to be less inundated?
Do you apply logic when messaging? Do you do it at set times like when they are online or when they have less attention drawn so you're not competing with so many others? "
Please let me know when you are quiet so I can send you a faf message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I only message if its funny or to say hello to people i consider friends or iv messaged before really i dont often look at hotpics so wouldnt usually know if there on there |
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