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over a year ago
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So Is really hard to get the first verification , then ... when is there too many , Does it put you off when they have a load , does me ! So what is the right way to choose ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So Is really hard to get the first verification , then ... when is there too many , Does it put you off when they have a load , does me ! So what is the right way to choose ? "
Right way to choose what? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't believe there is a right or wrong way, it's personal preference. We attend a lot of socials and clubs so most of our veris are from there. Take time to read veris for an insight as to how others perceive them and get to a club for your first veris!
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"So Is really hard to get the first verification , then ... when is there too many , Does it put you off when they have a load , does me ! So what is the right way to choose ? "
yes it is when your a single male  |
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It depends on the kind of meets people have had. On my original profile I was very well verified but a huge amount of those were from social meets and social events.
After a while I only showed select ones just so people had a good idea of what to expect from meeting me.
Essentially though the verification system is designed to show that you are who you say you are. Gratuitously sexual ones are pointless |
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"It depends on the kind of meets people have had. On my original profile I was very well verified but a huge amount of those were from social meets and social events.
After a while I only showed select ones just so people had a good idea of what to expect from meeting me.
Essentially though the verification system is designed to show that you are who you say you are. Gratuitously sexual ones are pointless"
Yeah I agree, I rarely read a verification as they mean nothing without knowing that person, just acts as a reference. |
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If someone automatically thought badly of me due to my number of veri's, well, I wouldn't wanna meet that no d of person anyway, especially if they'd not taken the time to read them.
I think my veri's, combined with my profile give a pretty accurate representation of what spending time with me is like. |
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"If someone automatically thought badly of me due to my number of veri's, well, I wouldn't wanna meet that no d of person anyway, especially if they'd not taken the time to read them.
I think my veri's, combined with my profile give a pretty accurate representation of what spending time with me is like."
That’s very true. I think that if someone dismisses you for your verifications then that says more about them than it does you... unless they refer to ritual human sacrifice, then you’re on your own |
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You can't please everyone - some people want to see that you've been verified (i.e. you will probably turn up), some want to see details that reassure them that you're not a total munter, but some balk at a huge list of TripAdvisor type reviews of your cunnilingus skills or how much someone gushed at your first touch
I used to show all my veris, and then I decided to 'cherry pick' ones that seemed to show a similar message but maybe some variation. In particular I don't see much point in showing several veris from the same person over a period of time - unless I especially like some turn of phrase they've used! |
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"If someone automatically thought badly of me due to my number of veri's, well, I wouldn't wanna meet that no d of person anyway, especially if they'd not taken the time to read them.
I think my veri's, combined with my profile give a pretty accurate representation of what spending time with me is like.
That’s very true. I think that if someone dismisses you for your verifications then that says more about them than it does you... unless they refer to ritual human sacrifice, then you’re on your own "
That's the one I don't show |
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