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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Usually I just delete, but had two from single women this morning, so will probably overlook my usual stance. Do you think they’re rude, or are you not bothered ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get them every day. We don’t add them, many are fake, especially the improbably young and hot women  and we don’t add friends unless we’ve got to know them a little first! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not many things on this site irritate me but random friend invites do. I just find it rather cheeky as it's obvious all they want to do is perv on my friends only photos.
I only have people on my friends list who I have met or want to meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they're unsolicited I wait till they're offline then accept, view pics then unfriend "
This is what we do ,we have found that since putting it on the profile we havent had hardly any compared to just writting ...' please don't send random friends requests' .....who knew people can actually read on here lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And we have our first of the day  "
We have too ....cheeky buggers have hid all thier friend only pics ( they had some on before ) so I can't perve lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I ignore all unless I've chatted to the person. Yes I have friends only pics but my main reason to add as a friend is so I do think forget their fab name if we're chatting away from the site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually I just delete, but had two from single women this morning, so will probably overlook my usual stance. Do you think they’re rude, or are you not bothered ? "
We just block if we havent chatted before as it's stated on our profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps it’s the cynic in me but if I receive random friends requests from ladies without them messaging first I tend to assume that it’s a guy. In my experience that sort of behaviour is very ‘male’ as they’re just pic hunters.
Anyone doing that to me will get a nasty shock anyway as I only have face pics in my friends only folder... that’ll teach ‘em! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Perhaps it’s the cynic in me but if I receive random friends requests from ladies without them messaging first I tend to assume that it’s a guy. In my experience that sort of behaviour is very ‘male’ as they’re just pic hunters.
Anyone doing that to me will get a nasty shock anyway as I only have face pics in my friends only folder... that’ll teach ‘em! "
No, I can spot them a mile off. These are women with plenty of photos and plenty of verifications on display. Just unusual, cause women usually send a wink or a message first, rather than just send a friend request. |
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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago
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I've only had 2 recently. Just left them there so they can't send another invite.
It does clearly state on my profile my thoughts on friend request but it appears some women don't read profiles either lol. |
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Random friend requests are the same as cut & paste messages, a fishing exercise; they cast a line and see if they get a bite! I often chat on Fab in the gym between sets to pass the time so will reply to these “randoms”, most don’t reply but the ones who have always say it’s a numbers game, they send as many invites and messages as possible, wait for a response and then follow up. Deleting or calling them out makes no difference, it’s the price they are willing to pay to get a meet!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Perhaps it’s the cynic in me but if I receive random friends requests from ladies without them messaging first I tend to assume that it’s a guy. In my experience that sort of behaviour is very ‘male’ as they’re just pic hunters.
Anyone doing that to me will get a nasty shock anyway as I only have face pics in my friends only folder... that’ll teach ‘em!
No, I can spot them a mile off. These are women with plenty of photos and plenty of verifications on display. Just unusual, cause women usually send a wink or a message first, rather than just send a friend request. "
That’s my thought too, perhaps just take it as the compliment that it is... |
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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
"Usually I just delete, but had two from single women this morning, so will probably overlook my usual stance. Do you think they’re rude, or are you not bothered ? "
Oh come on, stop telling fibs it was two lads from Bolton.......accept anyway...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Usually I just delete, but had two from single women this morning, so will probably overlook my usual stance. Do you think they’re rude, or are you not bothered ? Oh come on, stop telling fibs it was two lads from Bolton.......accept anyway... "
Thanks for your friend request. |
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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago
Swindon |
"Usually I just delete, but had two from single women this morning, so will probably overlook my usual stance. Do you think they’re rude, or are you not bothered ? Oh come on, stop telling fibs it was two lads from Bolton.......accept anyway...
Thanks for your friend request."
You're welcome.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually I just delete, but had two from single women this morning, so will probably overlook my usual stance. Do you think they’re rude, or are you not bothered ? "
They're rude if their not site supporters and no veri's |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually I just delete, but had two from single women this morning, so will probably overlook my usual stance. Do you think they’re rude, or are you not bothered ? "
We ignore them. It’s usually because people want to see your private pics. |
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I've got hundreds of unsolicited requests just sitting there in my account. They don't really bother me as such though I do sometimes cynically wonder if my pics would get fabbed more if I accepted all of them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've got hundreds of unsolicited requests just sitting there in my account. They don't really bother me as such though I do sometimes cynically wonder if my pics would get fabbed more if I accepted all of them "
Ive just fabbed a few  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not bothered at all by them , we just wait till the sender has gone off line .. accept then look at their pics then delete as ‘ friends’ . a bit of roll reversal really lol |
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By *tonMessCouple
over a year ago
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We ignore them.
I will only add friends we have met and are keen to continue meeting. If I added everyone I chat with our Updates feed would be ridiculously long.
If people bothered reading our profile they would know we won't accept random requests, I fail to see what would attract them anyway, it that cup I tell you, it drives the men crazy with lust |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I ignore them, my friends list is mostly people I’ve met or my friends off a kik group and that’s it, there may be an odd one that I’ve chatted to and not met but that’s it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people are discreet and have all their pics as friends only. They send a friend request so you can have a look at their pics and if interested maybe you'll send a message.
Some people think it's a friend system like Facebook, and that people need to be 'friends' before they can reply to messages. Probably caused by the majority that don't bother replying.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people think it's a friend system like Facebook, and that people need to be 'friends' before they can reply to messages. Probably caused by the majority that don't bother replying.
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I knew that us rude ignorant people (probably mostly ladies) that never reply to messages would be to blame somewhere along the line |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I add them and have a quick look at friends only pics. Might chat with them, might not. Doesn't really bother me."
Same here. Obviously wait until they're offline before we have a peek though
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Usually I just delete, but had two from single women this morning, so will probably overlook my usual stance. Do you think they’re rude, or are you not bothered ? "
They are probably men haha
I do get annoyed when I don’t get a wink first however I get more annoyed when they don’t have any pics at all on there profile and I block them then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people think it's a friend system like Facebook, and that people need to be 'friends' before they can reply to messages. Probably caused by the majority that don't bother replying.
I knew that us rude ignorant people (probably mostly ladies) that never reply to messages would be to blame somewhere along the line "
You're to blame for most things.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Usually I just delete, but had two from single women this morning, so will probably overlook my usual stance. Do you think they’re rude, or are you not bothered ?
They are probably men haha
I do get annoyed when I don’t get a wink first however I get more annoyed when they don’t have any pics at all on there profile and I block them then "
No,they’re not men, can spot those accounts a mile off. |
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